Anyone else here pay for escorts not just for sex, but because it's literally the only time you feel like someone gives a shit about you?
Women just don't like you for who you are. They only want you for what you have, not for you as a person. Whether it's the cliched stuff like money, power, status, etc. Or just what your worth is to society. They never really like you for you. You just get duped into thinking otherwise. They never really appreciate and enjoy you for what you are as a human... as an actual, god damn individual.
Even the girls I go to obviously don't like me. They just pretend to because you're paying them. But, literally, it's the closest I get to feeling like I'm a human being who's worth something. The only time I feel like someone honestly likes me; like someone honestly cares about me. Even if it's obviously fake, even if I spend several months saving up for just a few hour session. It's, again, the only time I feel like a living, breathing person who someone would want to be around. I actually have to pay exuberant amounts of money just to experience that with a girl.
That's basically what it's like in society today. Unless you have some tangible, physical object to represent what you're worth, like an Oscar or wealth, your person hood, personality, humanity, etc. are utterly meaningless to people. What you have is of more worth than who you are.
>>26678375
That is the difference between a hooker and an escort.
You sir, have it figured out.
And no I am not paying either a hooker or an escort for sex
>>26678375
Lucky you.
I would hire an escort if I could find one.
And if I wasn't such a pussy.
>>26678375
Bumpin for that tasty hooker green text ......
pls pls pls
I'll repost from the /adv/ thread.
Kinda.
The sex itself is nice, but it also feels really good to lay there cuddled up with her just talking about stuff.
I don't have to fake anything to try to impress her like I do when interacting with "normal" girls. I can just relax and enjoy her company without forcing myself to put up a facade.
Escorts are great.
i kind of want to hire an escort just for the company
i think it would make me feel even worse at the end though. like, i have to resort to paying someone money just to spend time with me.
>>26678375
I was really against whores until about 24. I got burned over and over again, especially bad the last time i fell hard for a younger girl that mocked me because she knew i was into her. I suffered a lot, lost the last few acquintances that were willing to spend an hour or two with me and sell me weed. Sometime later i had to travel by bus so i went through this underground thing, on the way to the station, i was kinda lost. I didn't knew there were whores there, so a girl just popped in front of me, looked kinda cute as far as i can remember. Asked me if i want a blowie or sex and smiled. I was on the phone with my sister and i was surprised by processed the offer fast, and lifted my finger to show her to wait a sec. She smiled futher. I don't exactly remember her face, but i remember her smile. I don't know what it was but i felt like she wanted the D genuinely. Of course she was just some junkie streetwalker and took me to an abandoned toilet nearby. I accepted the fact that im probably gonna get stabbed by a guy in the dark and robbed but i still did it, i couldn't stop the process i started. She started giving me a handie, then put on a condom somehow on my semi and started blowing me. It felt really fucking good but i refused to let her blow me without a condom, i was afraid of stds and after all she just wanted more money.
Then she told me to fuck her and cum while i was fucking her, at that point i was like fuck it i really want to feel just what it's like to stick my dick in a vagina. She bended over and pushed my dick inside of her but i didn't really feel anything.
At that point i actually started realizing what the fuck am i doing and that i had my dick inside i pussy i couldn't actually see because of the darkness. I got really scared and my dick started getting really flaccid, so she started blowing me again. This felt great again and when she tried to took a breath and get up i just told her "go, go"
>>26679018
>just talking about stuff
oh man, this would be so awkward
i can't even talk to normal people, let alone someone i've paid to yank my knob
>>26679116
It's a sad state of affairs where you're so unlikable that you to resort to using your resources just to appear slightly appealing.
I'd have a reaction image ready, but I'm on my phone.
>>26679478
she dived in again and started going to town because she wanted to finish me off fast and take the money
i started nutting really hard while she was blowing me, i even grunted from the power of the sensation
after all of this was over i was out of my mind, kind of scared and just out of it in general i felt so fucking weird and gross, not even human
i tried scrubbing myself as hard as i could with soap and water but i still felt awful and for more than a year i was convinced i had every std on the world
i did a standard pack of tests, HIV, syph, hepatitis, stuff like that, all came out negative but sometime ago a little are of my foreskin, where it meets the head is kind of different colored and sometimes gets reddish, doesn't hurt or anything though
i don't think i will ever visit a whore again
all i ever wanted was a girl i liked to like me back
>>26678375
If I had money I would fuck escorts weekly.
>>26679557
No, it's actually so different than you expect it to be.
You don't have to pretend, the girls make you feel so at ease, it's great.
Or if you don't want to talk you can just lay there cuddling her as she strokes your chin and chest.
You won't get any of that with a club slut.
Friendly reminder that there are people on this board who think it's ok to bareback hookers and that STIs are a meme.
how the heck do you find higher quality hookers and not just backpage hood-rats
i live in america, for reference
money isn't an issue
>>26678375
> Anyone else here pay for escorts not just for sex, but because it's literally the only time you feel like someone gives a shit about you?
Yes, and now I'm fucking addicted to it.
I don't even get to cum during intercourse, but just having a woman whisper sweet nothings to my ear is enough for me to want to keep living.
>>26679766
it's fake fuck off and die
>>26679888
It feels good.
Who cares if it's fake or not.
The idea of having to pay bothers me because it indicates that the other half of mankind doesn't share this same need. Because what's the point of them paying for male escorts then? That's clearly not what happens but why don't they like intimacy like I do?
So if I went down that route. It's admitting defeat in some way. I really don't want to convince myself that that's the reality I'm in.
>>26680120
I let go of the delusions of love and having an actual relationship at 19 and went to see an escort.
It honestly helped me a lot, I got over a lot of things, got back in touch with my friends, became more social, I don't really care about women outside of their bodies etc.
I'm a much better and happier person now.
Where do you find your escorts at, OP?
Backpage?
same goes for women, OP
>if she's not cute I want nothing to do with her
>if she doesn't have a nice body I want nothing to do with her
>if she has an STI I want nothing to do with her
>if she can't birth children I (probably) want nothing to do with her
Human beings are shallow because life doesn't care about your feelings, it cares about survival of the fittest/wealthiest/cutest/healthiest/etc
>>26678769
> if I could find one.
Wat
Where do you live that you can't find one? Antarctica?
>>26679759
Some of the backpage girls are ok, you just really have to look around and even drive to a neighboring city.
Other than that, look for (Asian) massage parlors. A good sign to look for is that they make the customers shower beforehand.
The girls are essentially human trafficked in to the country and have no choice but to work there but they generally don't let them fuck anymore after they turn 30 or so.
It'll start off with her just giving you a handjob and will end there if you don't show you're willing to pay more. For about 300-400 more you'll get to do whatever you want.
I dunno.
It just feels a little unethical. Plus I feel like a fucking loser having to pay for fake companionship.
>>26680369
>It'll start off with her just giving you a handjob and will end there if you don't show you're willing to pay more. For about 300-400 more you'll get to do whatever you want.
What a fucking rip-off.
Feel sorry for you amerifriends.
>>26680369
The fuck kind of AMPs have you been going to? 300-400?! It's 200 MAX for everything. 60 to the madam for the massage and 140 "tip" to the girl.
And yeah, they definitely do keep them fucking after 30. There are tons of them that are in their mid-40s and still working in AMPs.
>>26680440
What's unethical about it?
I caught herpes from an escort. She was the first and last girl I slept with and I used a condom. Still not sure how it happened
>>26680315
That's not really true though, for any type of women there will usually be a large number of men that like it. Be them shy, socially awkward, overweight, short, tall, anorexic, flat, curvy, there will be a large amount of guys who would love to take you out, as we are the ones who are taught to approach women.
Whereas women are usually brought up to think they are a princess who deserve a prince, they will usually be given propositions by a number of men, and they pick the best one, or pick none because they don't fit the quota the women has.
As for your list, assuming it isn't for chads who have been brought up to expect the best
>Not true
>Not true
>Well yeah, desu if she's not a virgin then she's given up her trump card.
>Definitely not true, plenty of non child bearing relationships, have 3 in my family who have resigned away from having children.
>>26680472
>The fuck kind of AMPs have you been going to?
Good ones where the girls pussy meat doesn't descend a foot after you fuck her.
Believe me, if you have the cash it's much better to pay for a better product- especially if you're only going 3-5 times a year
>>26680315
Perhaps this is true. But I've looked at so many okcupid profiles now and gotten rejected by so many that it seems rather skewed. There's of course girls I avoid.
It's true that ideally you want someone who fits your ideals. But the lower bound for women seems higher. What's expressed here is just intimacy. It's not even a long term commitment.
>>26680555
In the UK you get a top quality 1 hour GFE for 120-150 quid.
>>26680494
Paying for sex. I don't think sex should be a commodity to be bought and sold.
I do it on vacations and I'm not even a robot.
I date etc. at home but on vacations I'll just call one to my hotel room after eating and having had a long bath after a long day.
Nothing like getting your dick sucked without any hasle.
>>26680525
Any type of woman? ANY? /foreveralone/ femanons exist. I'm not saying girls don't have it easier in the "I choose if I'm a virgin or not" game, they certainly do, but the playing feild is a lot more level than some people would like to believe. For example, girls have to wear makeup constantly or else they're seen as sick or maybe even mistaken as a boy. when's the last time you saw 2+ non-robot females in a room with no makeup?
>>26680525
This is because men are either desperate they'll take what they can get (which I suppose could be pretty offensive for some women if you think someone wants you because they can't do better), or because Chads just wanna get their dick wet and don't really give a fuck about the ugly weird girl he's fucking because he needs to bust a nut.
Life sucks for everyone.
>>26680563
As a women, I'd say that it's a lot easier to commit to a partner *before* I get intimate with them, and that's likely where the difference in males and females is. Males are generally okay with NSA intimacy, basic human intimacy (which everyone deserves more or less) is something anyone wants, but it's an idea that makes more sense to males than females
>>26680638
Why not?
You pay for chefs to cook you meals.
You pay musicians to perform songs.
You pay film makers to entertain and inspire you.
You pay for everything you enjoy, so why the arbitrary boundary at sex?
>>26680555
That's way, way, way too much for any AMP unless you're going to Japan and paying to get into the top soapland in Tokyo.
>>26680865
>b-because Mommy said that only people who love each other should touch peepees
You have to pay for sex for someone to give a shit about you because you're a terrible, boring person that puts nothing into a relationship and expects everything back. You don't deserve a woman's love or attention.
My boyfriend is an honourable man with a great personality who gets all my love and devotion. I care about him immensely and go out of my way to show it. He has neither money nor power nor status, and I appreciate him as an individual.
My advice for getting a woman's real love would be to try making yourself into a man worth loving. Perhaps start by not going to see whores and jerking off like a normal person instead? One of the things that actually made me grow fond of my qt bf was that he mentioned that he's never used a hooker, which showed me he wasn't a gross sleazebag manwhore and actually someone I could respect.
If you have no money or power or status the least you could do is be a respectable man. Pig disgusting is what you are now, desu.
>>26680949
why even bother typing up this bait
>>26680897
Lmao, fucking this.
Feminism has ruined the current generation of males, it was a giant shit-test that our fathers failed and now we're paying the price.
If you want to see the state of the white race in the next 15 years, look at the black American community.
No regard for marriage/long term relationships, single motherhood and men seeing women as dumb bitches to fuck.
>>26680949
Oh sweetheart, bless you.
>>26680949
Everyone knows you're a man.
>>26680972
Nobody's talking about marriage or long term relationships or having kids you fucking dummy, we're talking about sex, that's it.
>>26680969
Because I want OP to realize that he will never get what he wants. No woman - not even the fattest ugliest sluttiest hamplanet - wants a man as pathetic as OP.
OP is even one step below the guys who visit whores JUST for sex, since he's doing it for affection and attention as well. He's basically one step above a guy that tries to befriend camgirls by showering them with money.
>>26681029
You can pretend I'm a man if it makes you feel better about being a pig.
>>26681014
Implying?
>>26681059
>>26681079
Fuck off roastie.
Modern women are incapable of feeling romantic love.
You're only good for your holes, at least with an escort I can be myself around her and she'll pretend to care about me.
>>26681059
what's wrong with seeing an escort for affection
I can't get it anywhere else, I've tried
>>26681147
Escorts are there to fuck you and get paid. That's it. If you're trying to get affection from an escort you're fucking stupid.
im planning on getting an escort if i hit 27 still a virgin just to get it over with.
but if im gonna pay i want her to be exactly a 10/10 in my book. and the escort market in souther europe doesnt seem to fit my taste.
Every escort i can find has large brests and ass.
i want a petit thin girl with small boobs, long brown hair, green eyes and a cute as fuck face.
cant accept anything else really. All the escorts i have seen so far have cunty stacy faces.
>>26680315
>same goes for women, OP
well, sucks for them that the male escort market is less developed, then
not really my problem doe
>>26681114
He is myself around me and I don't have to pretend to care about him because I genuinely do.
You have to pay people to pretend because you're a disgusting person. What kind of woman wants to sit on a dick that's been up a hooker's orifice? What kind of woman wants to actually LOVE a man who has to pay literal W H O R E S to coddle him?
Is this a bait thread? I'm honestly thinking you lost the plot m8
>>26681205
Aren't male escorts more appealing to gay men
>>26681171
they're there to do what I pay them to do
>>26681171
Confirmed for never seeing a good escort.
GFE is where it's at.
>>26678375
>exuberant
>>26681227
If you want affection, get a pet. If you need to talk to someone about your troubles, talk to your friends.
>>26681216
why am I a disgusting person
what makes me disgusting
(I have not been to an escort)
>>26681216
>anime girl image
>I-I'm a woman, I swear!
Kek, fuck off neckbeard.
There's nothing wrong with seeing escorts.
>>26681248
>talk to your friends
>>26681227
>>26681231
>tfw your hookers go home and laugh with their friends and family about your sad pathetic life stories and how some pathetic schmuck is paying them for a cuddle and some sweet nothings
>>26681284
that's fine by me though
>>26681269
>women don't watch anime
>>26678375
Where you from OP? There are lots of desperate chicks out there that would literally bounce on your dick for your citizenship.
Eastern european here.
>>26681216
>pay literal W H O R E S to coddle him?
Modern women only want rough sex from Tinder, only escorts will give you cuddles and affection nowadays.
>>26681284
But I spend time in their homes. She also talks a lot about her life etc.
It feels nice to have a relaxed, natural chat after sex without having to put on a facade.
Why do you hate me so much?
>>26681218
>Aren't male escorts more appealing to gay men
That's what I mean by "less developed".
OP wants to feel like someone gives a shit about him, in part that's the human condition. Talks about what escorts do for him, first reply says "that is the difference between a hooker and an escort" - this is a need escorting is designed to fill. But by and large it's designed to fill that need for men, including gay men; there's no apparent successful way to monetize this need re:women. Maybe that's because women do legitimately get more attention and aren't as often in a position to need to buy affection, but that's quitter talk for people who don't want old hag dollars
>>26681361
Get a dog, call up your mom, be the kind of man that deserves more than a tinder slut.
Or don't, I don't care.
>>26678375
I would rather be alone than pay for someone to pretend to want to be with me.
>>26681384
>Or don't, I don't care.
Why are you even in an escort thread then?
Fuck off.
>>26681317
Women pretend to like anime so they can get attention from Chads and slut it up at cons.
>>26681389
Yeah but some are really really good at pretending, so much that you almost forget
>>26681451
there are no chads at cons
>>26681451
Chads don't like anime.
>>26681451
>Chads
>liking anime
are you for real
>>26681516
>>26681520
>>26681526
Fuck off back to tumblr roasties.
Women only pretend to like anime and even then they have shit taste in it.
>>26680949
>unable to form relationships with people for various reasons
>seek out ways of receiving affection that are consensual and don't hurt anybody
>still get shamed for it
please just leave me alone
>>26681585
>women going to cons to meet guys
cons are a fucking terrible place to meet guys you fucktard, they're full of smelly autistic neckbeards
oh, and
>chads
>liking anime
>>26681585
lots of girls genuinely like anime
>>26681616
Con sluts get railed by Chads at cons all the fucking time.
Fuck off roastie.
>>26681637
Back to tumblr, weebwhore.
>>26681654
why are you freaking out man, none of us are fembots and none of us are from tumblr, quit sperging the fuck out
>>26681678
>whiteknighting fem"bots"
Fuck off cuck.
>>26681451
>>26681585
I don't really share my preferences in animu with anyone. I like a lot of moe and I guess i like magical girl stuff but that's about it. My boyfriend thinks my tastes are plebby and rightfully so. If I was trying to attract men with my tastes, I'd attract... a bunch of lolicons, which I despise.
I've never been to a con but my bf wanted to go to one later this year... I'm hesitant and don't like the idea of cosplaying. I certainly won't be meeting any "guys" or planning to if we do go.
I'm not sure if this was intended to be bait, I'm trying to make sense in my head based on how retarded it is.
>>26681706
Nobody cares you fat whore.
Get off my board.
>>26681585
>tfw (fat, not too ugly in the face but I'm a bit bias against her now) 27 year old woman who's married tricked me into an affair by charming me with common interest
She got my username for Skype (group project). Deduced my myanimelist.net account after probing and then proceeded to read up on the animes so we could have discussions. She even went into the hentai manga and Anime i have there.
Ended up seeing that she was married and disclosed it to the guy.
Apparently open relationship. Should have told me though, I'm not doing that.
So keep your identities isolated if you don't wanna be manipulated.
>>26679629
So that means if I pretend that every girl is an escort, I can get gf?
>>26678375
I just watched a porno with a girl wearing that top but in blue.
>>26681706
no matter what anyone says he's gonna keep sperging out like a retard
>>26681384
>calling up my mom and having a dog makes me eligible for a gf
i have a full time job that pays well AND hobbies aside from anime and hours on 4chan
sign me the fuck up wheres my gf NOW
>>26681716
Absolutely not, you cuck.
>>26680555
I've been going to AMPs in SF, LA and NYC for about 10 years. The going rate is $120 for the tip, 40-60 to the house.
Where the fuck are you going?
>>26680949
>hey bae i never fucked hookers, I swears
>I love you babe, let me suck your cock to show appreciation
Quite some high standards you have there madam.
>>26681927
Actually I read it in an anonymous post that he made on /r9k/ on this subject, he didn't actually know I was reading along at the time.
>>26681968
That still doesn't say much either desu
>>26681996
I'm not certain in most things but I'm like 200% certain that my qt bf has never fucked a hooker. If I'm wrong then I deserve it, I guess.
>>26681654
You don't go to anime cons to meet Chads. You go to bars and nightclubs to meet them.
>>26682020
Doesn't say much about the standards I mean.
19 y/o virgin here. I wanna get an escort so bad but I live in burgerland and really don't wanna get busted. How stupid that you can't sell sex. Fuck america
>>26682061
They are high standards. Something like 60% of men over 30 have used escort services before.
Why don't women understand that they're literally all hookers, some of them are just smarter about their compensation?
>>26682109
Probably where you live. I live in a shit eastern europe country and no decent guy fucks hookers because he doesnt need to.
>>26682113
This tbqh. Actual prostitutes are the scabs of whoring.
>>26682157
Oh, well yeah that explains it. My parents are from around there and if my dad ever fucked a hooker my mom would probably divorce him faster than if he just cheated on her. its for foreigners and losers.
In America though the numbers are really high.
>>26679018
>>26678375
What do you people do for money?
Escorts are bullshit expensive, especially since I cant even cum from sex, I even fucking hate paying for dates, match.com and artists.
>>26680865
Because sex is primitive.
>>26682157
>I live in a shit eastern europe country and no decent guy fucks hookers because he doesnt need to.
Kek, you'd be surprised.
The first posts where pretty good, explaining why they do it and how, and how it feels, but now you guys just destroyed the thread with your "omg roastie" "i'm girl btw" bullshit. i fucking hate all of you, but i like OP and some other guys who tried to turn this thread into something meaningful and not just a bunch of memes
>>26678375
Completely the opposite to be honest, I occasionally go to a prostitute if I have some extra cash lying around. I hate when they ask you personal shit and keep talking about their life or try to kiss me on the lips.
You've had 400 dicks cum in there today, what makes me think I want to kiss your dirty herpes ridden cum gargling ash-tray of a mouth
>>26682403
Oh and eating isn't?
Do you refuse to pay for meals on principle because "eating is primitive"?
>>26681051
talking about one is talking about the other. have you not realized that lasting relationships have been in free fall since the sexual revolution?
would an escort actually get angry with you if you just tried to talk to her instead of having sex if you were still going to pay her?
>remembered the guy doing that in Catcher in the Rye, but the girl got mad at him
>>26682524
Escorts are nice girls.
>>26682657
Yeah because people haven't been sitting in shitty relationships they hate out of fear anymore. What a tragedy.
What the fuck do you think people are doing? Do you think they're going, "I love this person so much, but muh sexul revlshuns so I must break up"
>>26682661
Depends on the escort, obviously. It's like asking if a cab driver would be mad if you wanted to drive all the way around down and then back to where they picked you up without getting out.
>>26678375
they dont give a shit about you, theyre in customer service. you can go eat at a restaurant and the server will care just as much about you and will also pretend to care about you for money
I considered it but I think I'm past the worst of my desire. I realise now there's no point in wasting money when I can just jack off, when the pain of loneliness hits me I enjoy it, it's mine.
it's not the idea of paying for sex that i'm against, it's that i'm so undesirable that i have to pay for it that bothers me.
here i am, someone who actually likes women and wants to be around them yet none of them want me. that fact is never going to change and it will always be a thing about me, may as well live with it than give myself something fake which will ultimately lead to more misery.
>>26678375
Cheaper than a shrink.
I just cry into her bosom and she holds me.
Cuddle and she tells me about her childhood and I tell her about mine.
She doesn't even make me pay most times, and I buy her daughter xmas presents and groceries.
Literally my only friend.
>>26685342
where the hell do you find an escort like this
>>26685378
Go for the older ones that aren't drug addicts.
They're really nice and don't judge.
The young ones are hyper Stacy's that will make you feel less than and only worse after cumming.
>>26685511
hyper stacy... wtf does that even mean?
