>didn't have sex for the better part of a decade
>got something going on with a girl for 3 weeks now
>yesterday it should have finally happened
>fapped 2 hours before she came over just to make sure
We stormed into the bedroom horny as fuck.
I ate her out and then she wanted to blow me. I was like "Whatever, I can fap 2 times in a row. I'll just get hard again!"
So I blew my load in her mouth and INSTANTLY got limp. It was like someone used a shrinkray on my dick.
I continued to finger her but couldn't get hard again.
She was really sweet about it and said it's no big deal, but I know I failed like no man should ever fail.
She's coming over again tonight and I think I might die of shame if this happens again.
tl;dr:
Give me tips to stay hard and not blow my load.
>>26668987
First step : Get the fuck out normie
>>26668987
get out norman
GET THE HELL OUT!
>>26669026
>>26669089
Get the hell out, autistics faggots and possibly roasties
>>26668987
Sorry to hear this anon, the time i lost my virginity i had fapped about 3 hours before, and it took quite some time to get hard, managed to get it up int he end, but she clearly knew i was nervous as fuck
>>26668987
funny thing how everyone has completely different problems.
for example i cant cum during sex or blowjob at all
I used to practice playing the guitar mentally to keep from cumming. Works pretty gud.
Also have heard a method of imagining disembodied kevin spaceys head floating around looking at you. That might also work.
>>26669262
You just need to relax. I can never cum if I'm at all anxious so basically the first time or two I'm ever with a grill unless I'm drunk.
>>26668987
How'd you go a decade? I'm coming up on like 6 years or so just from being incredibly anti social and poor. I feel like I could get back in the game if I got a better job and started getting out more but kinda don't care.
>>26669279
>disembodied kevin spaceys head floating around looking at you
...What?
>>26669294
nah man, I am fucked for life. I have had two girlfriends for a year or so, but never made it. I cant even fap during intercourse unless i jerk myself, or She does a really fking handjob.
not even a case of deathgrip, I rarely masturbate
>>26669321
It's gavin mcinnes' method
>>26669333
have you tried fucking dudes?
lel fag
>>26669362
just imagine me finally getting a girl of my dreams (She really is a wife material) after 21 years of having noone. then discovering this. I will never have a normal sex for myself. It will always be weird for both of us. On the other hand, I got a huge dick, so at least she is having a good time.
fuck all this anyway, I wish I had OP's problem Instead.