How old are you guys?
What's preventing you from losing your virginity?
I'm 18. Sorry if that offends anyone.
>anxiety problems
>no friends
>no confidence or self-esteem at all
>boring (all I do is watch anime, play vidya and shitpost
Why would a girl want anything to do with me?
Starting therapy soon. I don't think it will help.
>>26664293
19. cant get laid if i dont go out.
>>26664293
23.
I'm really fucking ugly. I realize I'm never going to lose it but it still kills me inside.
23
I'm a shut-in neet. I shut myself away years ago as a teen since I was convinced that the world hated me, and growing up friendless reinforced that belief.
>>26664726
This is me Rip
>>26664293
20
No friends
Manlet
Only hobbies are anime and Magic
Boring as fuck
>>26664453
>Starting therapy soon
Dont do it. Use that money for the gym or you will regret
>>26664726
a numbers game pal
>>26664293
>25
>I already lost it 6 years ago. Can't lose it again.
>>26664293
>How old are you guys?
21
>What's preventing you from losing your virginity?
No girl that I find attractive finds me attractive. I don't want sex, I want love but I'm fairly certain that relationships are a big waste of time, I don't want to attach myself to anyone and love is a myth.
I don't see how people could love something that isn't perfect and since perfection doesn't exist everyone is just settling for less than perfect and the further you are from perfect means you have to settle for whatever is further from perfect. I'd much rather just be alone.
25. If I don't lose it by the time I turn 26, I'm going to an escort. I really don't want to though.
What's worse is that I might as well be a normie at this point. I've dragged myself out of robotdom by making Chad friends, learning to be more sociable, dressing better, lifting, etc. For fuck's sake, I went out the last 2 nights to bars/clubs. Yet I didn't have fun, not at all. Nothing but Chads and douchebags, Staceys who act like cunts, people screaming "wooo" every time a hit song was being played, etc.
I don't know if it will ever get better for me. I'm so close, yet so far.
>>26664293
18.
I've actually had a few propositions for serious relationships, but severe trust issues have prevented me from talking to women.
Who else /emotionallydamaged/ here?
I'll be 33 this year.
Never been on a date or kissed a girl.
It was never worth the effort.
20
I failed to make any friends during the first 2 years of college, now I commute so the only girls I even see are in classes
>>26664453
>>26664726
Holy shit, i remember being this young. Hahaha, how the years go by, hahahaha
>>26664293
21
Really fucking busy with school. I also don't really care about romance at the moment.
>>26664951
Just keep doing things you hate and eventually you'll get laid.
These threads make me feel better after not having any sex in two years. Sorry f a m.
>>26664293
Just want to say don't lose hope guys, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 26.
22
I'm a shut in. Also I got fat after high school.
>>26665943
Yeah, it's kind of surreal
Like watching yourself in the past slowly fucking up
19
I'm a fucking autist when it comes to feelings and talking to cute girls. I really want to to talk to this qt girl but I'm too shy to start a conversation with her.
>>26666026
how it happen it happen?
Did she know you were a cherry?
How old was she?
Was she a virgin as well?
>>26666043
>in school
>exercise every day
>randoms would come up to me and ask for advice on lifting
>leave school
>become shut-in
>end up borderline morbidly obese
>have to put with constantly receiving advice of 'just lift brah'
>>26666066
1. I worked out, got a great body, went on Tinder, matched with a girl who is in law school.
2. Nope, and DO NOT TELL A GIRL YOU'RE A VIRGIN.
3. She's 23, she's still in law school, a good looking sorority type girl.
4. I didn't ask, but I fucking doubt it.
>>26666143
How did the sex happen?
Did you go on a date?
Then what?
Weren't you nervous?
How did you go about it?
Did everything just happen naturally or did you act on what you've seen in porn?
>>26666182
I took her out to a movie, then we ate dinner, then we got some beer and brought it back to my place to "hang out". We then drank and proceeded to make-out, and I led her to my bedroom and had sex. I actually had a hard time getting hard for a bit, but then she went down on my balls and sucked them good and then I popped up. I just did missionary and she was on top, I tried to have a nice rhythm, and it was fine. I actually didn't cum. But it was enjoyable overall.
This was our 3rd date, by the way.
>>26664790
women love magic tricks tho
>>26664293
22
Manlet, Complete hermit and obscure interest
I detect whores from a miles away and I'm generally hostile toward them.
>23
>Look like fucking Jerry Messing, also awkward and can't keep conversations going
>Live in a town of 8000 with one of the highest concentrations of seniors in the country
> 19 years old
> Still wet the bed, anxiety, hard time letting people get close to me, bifag slowly turning more gay
>>26664293
23 y/o.
I'm still fairly overweight. All around insecurity. Not ugly, just a really forgettable face. Religious beliefs interfere also. It's really just a mess t.b.h.
There's a girl in my classes that seems to like me, though. Who knows. Maybe it's gonna happen.
27
neet
dont drink or smoke pot
no car
live with parents
poor
hate going out
skinnyfat
100% unattractive to women
>>26664293
how is this important at all? ive lost my virginity like 10 years ago and after that i also had a few times sex, but instead of becoming less robot i became even more robot, having had sex with a few different girls just reinforced the feeling i dont fit and will never be normal and now i avoid girls more then ever before because i dread of having to relieve those awkward moments. im not gay but i also do not want to talk to a girl ever again in my live. if i will ever have lots of money i will just get a first class prostitute when im feeling horny and thats it, all this courtship flirting bullshit is way to stressful and traumatizing, the awkward after sex time, the awkward during sex spacing out time, what the hell, its so not worth it, you better be just jacking off to anime imho and maybe get a prostitute, those you can close/kick out after you got what you want. robots simply arent fit for this whole sex thing, sex doesnt change shit, if you believe a girl will save you from your inner makeup, forget it, it will just hurt a lot when one of you tries to hold on, save yourself the agony and accept who you are and make the best out of it. disregard women, make money is the best life advice i ever got from this board, and i am thankful for that, even if it was too late and im stuck now with not being a virgin anymore but behaving even worse virgin-like i ever did when i still was one, now that i truly know what horrible creatures women can be really, even those that look totally innocent and cute are no better or maybe even worse then those obnoxious loud bitches you encounter regulary in public.
>>26664293
>28
>dont try at dating because I guess Im not that desperate and I feel like a loser
>no social circle
>have a job but totally poor
>work out - by jogging. Im hopelessly addicted to distance running, but I guess women dont like that look these days.
>live at home with my parents
>>26667121
hey bro
>25
>I don't care enough about sex to pursue it
>>26667858
hi
i have to add more to this post, otherwise i will be banned again for circumventing the filter
>>26667679
sorry for the textwall, but i rarely write anything anymore. i'm 33, neet, dont smoke drink or do drugs, no car, live alone on welfare since i got out of school, never worked a day in my life, nearly no contact with family or other people, often i dont leave my place for weeks, poor, skinnyfat, never clean my place, i havent washed or shaved myself like in several months, my clothes are old and thorn, i basically look like a homeless hobo with beard, unkempt, i probably smell bad. i just wash my private parts after going to the toilet and i brush my teeth regulary and dont have a single cavity, though i maybe have, but i never go to the doctor so i wouldnt know. no health problems yet thankfully. im kinda attractive to women because i can be witty and make them laugh, thought i never laugh myself and have no idea what to do when others lough, i just smile wierdly and wait until they stop so i can continue the conversation, which they probably arent interested in at all. they probably just want to fuck a wierd guy once for shits and giggles, and i fell for it. but i live like that since over ten years and im aware that i am in no way someone wants as a boyfriend, but since i only talk to people online if at all, they have no idea until they meet me. but i have not agreed to meet someone from the internet since over 4 years probably, and dont plan to do ever again. ill just be the cool witty guy on the internet and the antisocial hobo in real life, its okay i think. sorry for posting even thought im not a virgin anymore.
>>26667903
Same.
Why would i waste countless hours and dollarydoos trying to get sex when i can just fap right now and get the same chemical reaction in about 10 minutes.
There is no logical reason for men to pursue sex in the year 2016.
>>26667920
thanks for writing in my friend. I wonder if I'm like an early sprouting version of you
>21
>neet
>don't smoke or drink or do drugs
>no car, can't drive
>staying with various family members
>never worked
>no contact with any human beings other than those I live with
I must wonder if as many losers as there are in this thread/board existed 100 years ago? I can't help but feel it's a symptom of modern conditions but I don't know much about the history of the loser.
>>26666026
You missed out on teenage love even early 20s love kys. Chad already fucked all remotely attractive girls in high school 10 times over. You get seconds cuckboy. Just cuz u "lost ur virginity" (at 26 for gods sake) doesn't mean you won you're still the loser sorry bud. That's how life goes.
Are any of your curious what sex actually feels like?
I should probably gtfo this board (if you want me off I'll leave), however if someone has some girl problems/wants to know about sex I'd be happy to offer my thoughts (suffer from social anxiety but managed to pull a decent number of girls)
>>26668016
Do you realise that sex feels more satisfying loser? Not to mention the knowledge that my sperm cells are actually on a woman rather than in your sock like you. Keep being a loser cuckold and jerk off to winners like me in the pornos you watch fantasising that you are us. Think I'm gunna go get my dick sucked bye loser.
>24
>embarrassed about my skinnyfat body with chest/bacne and a 5x4 dick
>consequently have never asked out a girl
>>26664453
Use the therapy money for an escort instead.
>>26668153
thanks for the reply. i think our numbers will grow if japan is any indication of what will happen in the west when we will continue to evolve into a pure consumerist society too. i have read several books on hikikomori, you should google that and watch a few videos maybe, its very commonplace in japan, and probably the answer to your question. best advice i can give you: always tell your family they should not worry, you are not going to kill yourself, they need to be patient, some people just need time.
>>26668278
Only a really old virgin would be bitter enough to make comments like this
>>26668220
you think fucking a virgin makes you win? i got bad news for you my friend, ive fucked two very attractive young virgins when i was 22 and 24 and im still robot as ever, while both of them have chad boyfriends now
>>26668359
TWO WHOLE GIRLS? AT 22 and 24 YEARS OLD. Wow dude nice your life must be complete. Just kidding you fucking loser. I've fucked two DOZEN virgins when I was in high school alone kid. 24 is basically dead, sorry you lost out on the most pleasurable thing in life, TEENAGE SEX. By the way, if they were older than 18 they are either massive ugsters or just lying to you.
>>26668259
>social anxiety
>still managed to pull a decent number of girls
>social anxiety
Nice meme illness friend
>>26668404
>most pleasurable thing in life, TEENAGE SEX
Nah, that's having sex while on MDMA. Once you go down that rabbit hole, there's no going back.
>>26668434
I was a khv until 18
>>26668404
one of the girls was not even legal (under 16) and i was 22 at that time, while the other girl was my age. im not sure what kind of anger issues you are fighting with, but you need to stop projecting overcompensating on an internet chinese cartoon board, you are wasting your time honestly, your not getting anything out of this. anyway im not sure youve even understood what i wrote, because my point was that if youre a loser youre a loser and sex is not going to change that, which is why im still a loser. comprendre? if you really think sex is the most pleasureable thing in your life then you have nothing to look forward to. also, boasting, especially online and ESPECIALLY on r9k about anything will just show everyone that youre a giant loser, while also being dishonest with yourself - a lose-lose situation, think about it. we dont gain anything, you dont either. stop wasting everybodies time, including yours
>>26668505
You mean like most men?
>>26668462
how do you even get a boner on MDMA?
20
Never tried in any way shape or form due to deep seated insecurities.
>>26668561
I guess it differs from where you live and who your friends are, I was one of the last of my friends to lose my v-card and most had already kissed a girl by the time they were 14
>>26668553
hahahahaha thanks for the analysis doc. yeah ok I'm just making it up, hope that makes you feel better loser. Atleast we can agree on one thing, you're a big fucking loser. KYS.
>>26668505
>I was a khv until 18
Ooooooh nooo
Fuck off norman and your "social anxiety"
18 and the word of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ.
Girl I want is already on her knees to God.
>>26668648
I know there are many other more serious illnesses but it did hold me back. I'd throw up a lot before going on a date/meeting a girl for the first time, it really sucked.
>>26664293
27.
Nothing, I lost my virginity 6 years ago with 21 years old. Latebloomer but atleast I made it.
>>26664293
23
I honestly dont know what's preventing me. I had a contact with girl (she was a bit into me) but either i didnt know that or she didnt made that obvious. Another things is that i dont like to be touched by girls - it feels like putting electric cord next to my skin, i have to shake it off. I've grown up in all-male environment and the only crush i had was on my second cousin. When i realized that she was a cousin i cut contact with everyone and became depressed and distrustful. From logical stance i understand the problem but i cant get over that emotional experience. Another time i was about to ask girl on v-day in primary school but mom said that maybe i shouldnt because she wasnt into me. Looking at the past i was neutral at love - i didnt have any success but i didnt have any speg memories, i was just blind to it.
>>26668712
No, I'm not saying social anxiety is a meme disease. I'm saying you saying you have it is a meme. Now kindly fuck off nigger.
>>26668735
I'm not going to bother arguing, I was clinically diagnosed with it. Anyway I'll leave, cya.
>>26664453
seconding >>26664829
therapists suck try getting fit first
>>26668732
get the hell out normal fag.
>>26668760
Sure thing buddy. Bet you have OCD and depression as well eh.
>>26668779
I was diagnosed with mild OCD but fortunately I don't have depression.
>>26664293
20 yrs
Obstinately waiting for the right girl, even when I'll never find her.
18
I'm mentally loser and that's it
>not boring as fuck
>somewhat clever,I have multiple interests(science,programming and other shit)
>can speak with a girl about interesting topic for her
>listen metal music(so I can speak with "metalhead girls",which I love very much)
>Hygiene is OK
>penis-size and sex-drive is OK
Despite I have some "advantages" and good sides,I'm fucking beta-looking guy and that is my problem,I can't just approach girl and say "hi" or buy drink in bar or invite her in cinema
Even if I had girlfriend me,I would always have fear she will cheat on other guy.
So I try to get use to it and focus on other things,I enjoy.
>>26668835
Where are you from?
Originality
>>26668955
East--Europe
autism
(literally)
25.
Had a few chances at high school but wanted to wait for the right girl. By the time I had come to my senses, it was already too late.
Social anxiety and depression intensified when I became 18 and I haven't tried talking to a woman since.
>>26664766
>>26666043
>>26666108
Serious question - how do NEETS of this magnitude feed themselves?
>>26669179
Do you even realize how easy it is to get food? Even homeless people get fat
>>26664293
I'm 32 years old. I was always afraid of other people especially women. Not to mention I never felt I'm worthy to being loved.
>>26664293
>being in jail
That mostly
>>26669179
with the neetbux from the government i could order a pizza and a bottle of coke everyday and since i dont eat much that would be enough for me to survive
>>26664951
>people screaming "wooo" every time a hit song was being played
I am not a virgin but i am extremely depressed i even have a gf but i feel like dying, we went to a club on saturday and i had an horrible time, pretty much you described it perfectly.
>>26669384
Assuming you are wiser than to do that and you actually cook for yourself healthy meals, because not eating healthy is retarded if you are a neet.
18
self-hating socially retarded manlet, moderate social anxiety
>>26664293
22
Shut in with no friend and obscure interest. Live in a shitty area. Generally antisocial due to constant alienation and disappointment in people.
My friendship level toward the average human is very low. Barely attached to this world beside basic need for food and shelter. I am between life and death at this point.
22 khv here
I have a chance at fucking an obese negress I met off my Uni's yik yak. She put up a post about wanting white dong and gave out her kik. I was memeing her at first, but it somehow escalated and she wants to meet in a few days
Should I go for it lads or save it for a qt who will never come?
>>26669832
not worth it, you will only be traumatized. im serious, bad deal.
>>26669911
I need my dick wet senpai
I was over w*men until this. I've fapped 5 times in the past day since I now have some sort of chance
At the same time though...
>>26664293
25
Lost mine at 16. With a 24 year old Belgian grad student who thought I was about 19.
Sucks to suck.
Honestly though I don't know how I did it. That was before I worked out, played sports and had any confidence.
I had sex one time because it was driving me insane and I didn't cum. Am I a virgin?
>>26669933
well then you have already decided. keep your eyes open pal.
>29
>live with parents in religious shithole small town in the middle of dogfuck nowhere
>ugly manlet
>make shit for money
>friendless
>socially retarded
>approaching full wizardry status, no experience whatsoever
I'm totally fucked, that's why.
>>26670071
I think I'd rather keep them closed and use my imagination...
