How do i become more attracted to my girlfriend and stop drooling over hotter girls?
Im in a 2 year relationship, shes pretty much perfect for me, was a virgin when we met, loves me, low maintenance, does anything i want whenever i want, anal, bjs, makes me food etc.
The problem is shes not remarkably attractive. Shes not chubby or ugly or anything, just plain. She has small boobs, decent butt but nothing special, doesnt have a gorgeous face with big eyes etc.
I often wish she looked something like pic related and get frustrated with her even though she cant do anything about it, and she gets sad and asks what she did wrong and i dont know what to say.
Try telling her, as tactfully as possible, that you'd like her to work on her appearance more, and offer to pay for whatever mani/pedi/tanning/salon shit that she wants. Or just tell her that you have a fetish for plastic women and that you while she's perfect for you, you can't help but notice how she doesn't look like barbie. At the very least talk to her about it and ask her to respect your decision to tell her, you've been dating two years and you took her virginity, how taboo can this sort of thing be?
I think /adv/ is where you belong, partner. Now on your way.
>>26652424
first off: get the fuck outta this board. second: are you retarded? just settle down you stupid faggot, if you are not a Chad you don't get to choose, just keep eating her ass and that's it.
why can't you do anything about it? start working out and have your gf join you or have her do yoga.
being more attracted to her might take some different shit when you have sex with her, like porn or dirty talk or reducing how often you have sex. if she's just not hot at all to you then you have just been in a friends with benefits relationship and you're an idiot for using her without making that clear.
being less obsessed with healthy, fit sluts just takes a preoccupation with your career, family/friends, or a hobby. it's perfectly fine to drool when you see a hot bitch just don't lose your head. grow out of that taking that shit so seriously. go out a few times and really get to know a really hot chick, she won't be anything special or often she'll be a complete turnoff if you ended up with someone with a different lifestyle.
>>26652424
fucking b8 negroid
>>26652507
I already got her to start doing squats and shit but the improvement was minimal.
I dont like fake tans so much, and i dont like plastic women.
>how taboo can this sort of thing be?
Saying "hey you're not pretty enough and your boobs are too small for me" would make her cry.
>>26652424
Think of the other reasons why she's your gf. You yourself said she's perfect for you. Consider the possible future you have with her, and also the fact that the bitch in your pic isn't gonna stay hot for that long.
Seriously, dude, don't be distracted by random whores. The love you share with your gf is more precious and important than that.
>>26652690
All this is the reason i wouldnt even consider leaving her.
I know she loves me and would never cheat, and the odds of me finding a hotter chick who is as good a girlfriend as her are low.
Neither of my ex girlfriends would even take it up the ass or cook for me.
>>26652424
She's too good for you..... Maybe you need to look in the mirror and I'll bet she is saying the same thing....Pimple face...skinny.....little dick....doesnt bathe daily..... but she's with you and you should feel lucky any woman would want you and when this one tires of you and moves on you'll be back here crying how she left you ...fuck you
>>26652913
Only correct thing you said is that im skinny.
>>26652965
she's sucking off 6'3 muscular chad right now
>>26652424
post her nudes, her body cant be that bad
>>26653032
I didnt say her body is bad, its just unremarkable.
There is nothing wrong with her, shes just plain. Like if i posted her nudes you wouldnt say holy shit shes hot, you would say meh shes decent.
Her ass is pretty nice but thats literally her best feature.
Here comes the excuses...... what is she too ugly and it breaks your camera....I agree with the above....she's gargling some chad cock
>>26653110
I bet she makes you wear a princess plus
OP are you familiar with the case of miss nikknakz and his girlfriend?
>>26653273
No plz share
More like this.... OP ????? so where are the pictures????
stop masturbating. this is real advice
>>26653006
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>>26653321
Can you just leave the thread bro? Go samefag in a dedicated cuck thread or something.
>>26653371
Why? Is everything ok?
>>26652683
>hey you're not pretty enough and your boobs are too small for me
do not ever say this to her
>>26653331
I rarely masturbate since we have sex almost every day, and when shes on her period she gives me blowjobs.
>>26653419
>rarely
but that means you do. stop.
for good.
>>26653110
most girls are plain without makeup and cute clothing
>>26653430
Dude i cant even remember the last time i did it...
>>26653452
don't have to lie to me breh.
>>26652424
Change yourself
Original content is original
>>26652424
Here it is. I know that feeling, I was in the same situation and then I broke up with my girl, we decided together tough.
Now? If you aren't a chad like me a maybe socially awkward you'll just be alone.
It's almost impossible to get a perfect girl, now you want a beauty, then you want a clever beauty and maybe rich? Try to think about the love she have for you. Maybe even her find some flaw into you but she stays, as you. Consider that, your luck
>>26653525
no shit you arent going to get a 10/10 hot girl if you arent a chad are you fucking delusional?
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>>26653515
I fully realize that i wont find a better girlfriend, which is why i am willing to change myself, but how?
>I often wish she looked something like pic related
HAHAHAHAHA
wew lad
>>26653595
The problem is only in your head.
Maybe you can't change that, as other says try to think of what do you like of her. Maybe one day you'll broke up or maybe not, if you'll stay that will be because you started to care more about other thing. That's hard but you can do it, even now that you are asking, little by little you can improve
>>26652424
OP don't be a fool. Don't make the same mistake I did.
I've known this one girl for two years now who is probably the best possible match for me in a long time. Problem is she wasn't 'good looking enough' for me and I had all this pressure on me not to settle.
Only very recently have I realized what I was missing out on. And I'm starting to think it's too late, it's not hopeless but I feel really bad thinking about her waiting for me or some shit and me not doing it because of her looks (this happened once in HS; a plain looking girl was really into me but I was too into looks to take up her offer. It was stupid)
You can be like every other guy who relies on the beauty of his woman to stay with her or you can date someone who isn't a stunner and be super happy with her. I know so many dudes who think a woman is only as good as she looks on the outside and it's really kind of sad.
Just my two cents tho
>>26653916
10/10 answer. OP the beauty is appelling but try to resist
>>26652424
Have you tried infidelity
>>26654118
No, cheating would break her heart.
>>26653916
I am in a similar situation but I'm not interested in the girl personality wise. Should I still go for her?
>>26654118
Her or him
>>26654272
no if you dont like her looks or personality dont
>>26654272
How is that a similar situation if you aren't interested in her personality?
If that's the case then you just aren't compatible. Though on that note sometimes I didn't think me and this girl were always that compatible. Part of it can mean letting go of 'perfect compability' or rather, not having to have somebody who isn't only smoking hot, but likes all the same things you do. But my issue is that I've always had this nagging feeling that I'm letting a really good one slip away and that given my current lifestyle and physical attractiveness, it's unlikely that I'll meet another like her. I don't even think she's "The One" (nobody is), but she's definitely worth it.
>>26652424
but OP, the girl in pic related has a snake face and her tits look pretty fake. why not just ask her to get a tit job and do her makeup a bit differently? even if she dumps you, we know you don't want her you just feel bad for being shallow.
>>26654502
Im not really into fake tits.
>>26654662
No but your totally into being fake
Anon you're fucked in the head like most chads are.
You will always think the grass is greener no matter who you are with because of human nature.
Fight those urges cause it sounds like you have a good gf.
Otherwise you are literally just as bad as chad/stacy
You sound like an ungrateful piece of shit. You're lucky you hooked a girl that good. Why don't you fuck off this board you whiny fag
>>26652424
>practice gf
>practice gf
>practice gf
>practice gf
>practice gf
original pizza
>>26654662
post a face pic of her so we can at least see what you're dealing with. please.
>>26654883
I would never do that to her. Suffice to say that shes not beautiful but not ugly, just plain.
I use to find her pretty cute but over time i realized shes quite plain.
If you saw a pic of her youd probably think "meh, shes ok"
>>26655020
Not sure if troll or idiot, since most guys here are chomping at the bit to receive any sort of female attention that is non-platonic. Or did you forget where you were?
>>26655020
You would never post a picture for fear people would agree with you but you would call her plain with small tits to her face? I see you being alone ALOT in your older years
>>26655020
see. just break up with her. you only seem to be with her because:
pity
knowing you cant do better
you dont deserve her she deserves someone who appreciates her so just leave her you deserve to be alone.
Just dump her and find a hotter GF?
If there's no proper physical attraction it'll never work, you will eventually cheat and she'll bite your dick off, just get it over with.
>>26655215
>you would call her plain with small tits to her face
Wtf i would never do this
>>26655270
this
>>26655301
this, in the long run it wont work out if you arent attracted to her
I would fuck any girl who has a nice fit body, even if the face is bad
Just put her in a gym
>>26652424
>often wish she looked something like pic related
heres your problem, you look at other women. this board is always screaming about how women are whores who trade up at the slightest chance, and here you are window shopping and losing the taste for what you have. greed eats at you, no matter how much you have. learn to control your greed instead of giving into it, and in time you will come to appreciate what you have instead of agonizing over what you dont. this is goes for most things.
>>26655887
This is true....Your living proof in fact
OP is probably average looking himself as well.
>>26652683
Don't like tans or plastic women? Your op pic is tanned and has fake tits. You don't even know what you want.
>>26656022
This is true i am average looking, but sometimes i see guys who look worse than me with hotter girls than mine.
>>26656060
Ok ok i didnt spend time looking for the right pic, i just wanted to post a generic hot blonde with big tits.
OP, what's her name?
>>26655964
>Your living proof in fact
what
>>26656067
they are successful, youre a robot. fuck off and break up with her if you arent happy she deserves someone whos committed at the very least.
>>26656255
Even ugly woman can get some one to breed them......your living proof
>>26656279
Every man would love to fuck a butterface, stop pretending you are special
>Muh high standards
>>26652424
>my gf isn't the top10% of Women
>my gf isn't like porn
>my gf isn't like tv
>my gf is not like mai waifu
>my gf goes above and beyond and loves me
>my gf has the qualities of an actual lifelong partner who isn't ugly and can satisfy my needs
>she isn't good enough
>I'm not really in love with her, no other girl will date me or do whatever I want
You don't deserve her. Kill yourself. You shouldn't he using people who aren't top tier got chicks because you can't find somebody else to Fuck.
I hope she cheats on you with Chad. She deserves good dicking.
If this isnt your GF then quit bitchen?
>>26656372
Da fuck is that?
>>26656342
Thats why he wont show a picture, he know someone on the board will find her and show her what a real dick taste like...all his bitchen and I bet he sports a dickfro like its a mini Link from The Mod Squad
>>26656067
Because they aren't shallow fucks like you. The girl your with isn't even ugly and treats you well and you can't find her attractive. Not even as a woman.
You realize that hot girls pick up on that shit and will think you're a scumbag. Nothing is more attractive to other women than Watching a man not only be in a relationship but give her so much love she's radiating beauty when she smiles.
Nothing is more beautiful than a loved girl and a guy who shows his attraction for the one he loves.
Even if you wanted to get a hotter gf you can't because you don't know how to treat a woman. You just know how to spot a postergirl.
>>26656405
a facemash between katy perry and john meyer, which took all of 15 seconds to find via google
>>26656405
That's my neighbor, from behind she looks like Katie Perry dont you think. I mean she's not perfect but at least she isnt plain with small tits
Fact is she wouldn't put anywhere near as much effort into you if she was more attractive.
