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How do you guys make friends?

For a 20 year old that isn't in school and has a pretty isolated job, what do I do? Should I go back to college? I literally have ZERO real life friends. Have one online friend I talk to regularly and that is it.
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fembot here.

I know it sucks, what I did was just wait around till someone talked to me then I just plucked up the courage and kept talking. It gets easier dw anon.
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>>26644913
Are you a prostitute?

How much, love?
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>>26644913
b-bait
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>>26644890

www.meetup.com baka
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>>26644957
That looks normie as fuck though.
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>>26644965

You wanted to make friends, so I'd assume you make the sacrifices needed. Just search for something you are interested in and join a meet-up group like it. It's that easy. At the end of it, ask for facebook invites and keep in contact.
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>>26645041
>facebook

That might be the key to my no friends having. I don't have a facebook. Then again, I'm kind of scared to get one. I don't really want to find people associated with my past.
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>>26645104

Then make a facebook, fill it with fake friends and be done with it. You don't need a lot, just five or ten maybe. Then, from there, just build it up with real people and be done with it. I barely even post on mine beside occasionally commenting on people, talking to them on messenger and sometimes updating them about how my exercise routines are going or the occasional youtube video. I also have the whole thing set to private and only post information I don't give a fuck that anyone knows.
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>>26644890
Get a wagekuk job and associate with the bottom tier people

they like complaining as much as robots do, going out in public to meet people (to me) is social suicide unless you have an in with them. Like associated friends.
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>>26645847
>Get a wagekuk job and associate with the bottom tier people
>they like complaining as much as robots do

I already dealt with that, and it was fun for a little while then it got boring. Having 30+ year olds complain about shit while they do nothing with their lives is beyond annoying.
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>>26645883
You can use that to segway into getting drinks or developing a real relationship.
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>>26644913
pls check your female privilege
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How the fuck do you even find online

t. Guy with ZERO real life + online friends
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1. Get a non-autistic hobby.

2. Go somewhere in which people practice the hobby together.

or

1. Go take a class of some non-autistic thing you're interested in.

or

1. Volunteer.
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>>26646021
is drawing autistic?
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>>26646021
is noise music autistic?
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>>26646028
>>26646064
My own criteria is that if you would be ashamed to tell the world about it, it probably is.
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>>26646064
Merzbow is more autistic than Throbbing Gristle. Stick to 80/90s noise rock for extra normie points.

Power Electronics would seem too edgy for normies unless it's old and sounds funny.
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>>26646081
Thats a legit view mate, i like it.
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>constantly join various chats
>get some comfort just from seeing people talking
>can't bring myself to type anything
>they'll ignore me anyway
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You need to figure this out fast, OP. Once you get into your 30s, it becomes very tough to make friends since everyone is working and under much more pressure.

Take it from me.
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>>26644890
Femanon here. I usually go to /r9k/ and mention that I am a femanon. You're bound to get friends that way!
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>>26644890
Get drunk. I suck at chatting up people but if I'm somewhat drunk at a party, etc. I get somewhat sociable and stop caring about rejection. I just start talking to people and if it's going well I exchange phone numbers. The hard thing is calling them the next day.
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Adults don't make friends. They cling to the remnants of childhood friendships until they fall apart. If you have no frends now, you're on your own til you die.
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>>26644913
>is female
>just sit around and do nothing durr r ur friends

doesn't work being male, you cunt.
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>>26647824
I used to talk to somebody who bought into this and then she went off to a party college and made a bunch of friends.
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>>26648074
>she
there it is
we are men here, it doesnt work that way for us
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