>Anyone else just can't relate with girls? I can communicate fine with other dudes. But as soon as I think about trying to talk to a girl I'm attracted too or not. My mind goes blank and I don't know what to say. I'm also a virgin and moderately socially awkward.
>>26626206
maybe you just haven't met girls with the same interests
But who are you quoting?
the trick is just to keep asking them questions, and actively listen
you have to force yourself to take an interest in what they are saying. crack a joke or two where appropriate. it just takes practice, but the most important thing is to LISTEN and ASK QUESTIONS
>>26626206
Don't worry you're not missing out on anything, they are as soulless as they seem.
>>26626243
this desu lad
girls are just like sensitive dudes, some of them are just easier to talk to than others
>>26626292
i just talk weird stuff about myself but I'm hot so bitches don't care
I had this happen the past few times I spoke to girls. I can articulate myself and keep my cool somewhat. But they can be dull to speak to. I got this one girl's number and I could not have cared less about what she had to say. I can't imagine dating her or any girl. I can not relate to any of them. Their hobbies, their passions, their desires are all so lacking.
Nah man I'm sure you're the only one on here with that problem.
>>26626243
Nope most girls that live near me either want a Chad or Tyrone not some awkward dude who has no experience.
I've never had a female friend.
I'd like to, but they're very intimidating. I guess they see a guy like me and think I'm gonna obsess over them or cling to them when honestly I just want a friend.
>>26626292
I appreciate the advice man.
>>26626374
I do that but it's the total opposite referencing porn sites and even showing people around me pornagraphic content showing them what's on my phone. I also voluntarily twitch in public and make random moaning sounds. Not because there's something wrong with me but it's that I'm known as that weird class clown guy in my class.
>>26626514
Are we talking about talking to girls or getting a girlfriend
Not the same dude
>>26627119
What's the point o talking to girls in the first place if there's no chance of some fuck? The driving force between male/female interaction is for the propagation of the human race.
>>26626206
It happens the contrary to me. I regard any guy as potentially hostile but girls are only for me uninterested/interested and I rapidly start flirting with the later.
If conversation engages it is nice. Half of the time soon stalls, though.
it's just because you're ugly tbqh, this means the girls will do absolutely no work themselves in the conversation and just try to be polite/give one word responses until they can get the fuck out of there and stop having to look at your subhuman face
>>26626798
eric?
original
>>26628112
same
i hate 90% of dudes but only like 75% of ladies so they're easier to talk to
>>26626798
just remember they're laughing at you
not with you
if you've ever laughed at pic related just know that's what they feel about you
>>26626292
I try that but it just feels like I'm interviewing them. I can barely talk for more than a few minutes before I either get self-conscious, fuck up, avoid eye contact (it's draining for me), or just panic that she can see I'm pathetic. As you can guess I've never had a girlfriend or kissed, or even just a female friend.
It's worth with girls but I struggle to talk to men too.
It's nature.
You evolved to get your brain at the same level of intelligence as them (basically retarded) before interacting with them, its just adjustment.
>>26626292
NO, do this a bit, but I've had a girl say to me 'I like you because every other guy asks meso many questions and I feel like I've been arrested.'
The thing I do is ask a few questions and comment and stuff but also make statements and launch into a relevant story / anecdote. Or just start talking about something unrelated.
>>26626206
Uni and work (mostly work) has forced this problem out of me and I can do it now. Although I think I can only talk to girls because I have never attempted to get with one so I don't feel like I have to watch what I say or am thinking and I don't care what she thinks of me because it's not like it matters on any level.
>>26626206
Not that I can't relate to them but I find most of them to be shallow and self absorbed. Also I hate most things women are interested in. I think may actually be a misogynist.
we are autism
>are we just speaking in greentext now?
>>26629232
>yes, yes we are.
>this comment wasn't original with the first line
>>26626206
Don't be yourself and gain experience that way.
