Why do women recover so easily from breakups, if they have to recover at all?
>>26620416
Because women have a line of 50 men in their phones waiting to bang them.
Men have literally no one.
>>26620416
You already know the answer.
Making this comment original myah.
>>26620426
This.
Every girlfriend I've ever had and every girl I've ever known, even the fat and ugly ones, all had at least one replacement guy for their boyfriend.
Think about it. Girls are being propositioned constantly by guys, even if they don't want to get with the guy right then and there, she'll keep him in her orbiter data bank for future use.
Most guys don't exactly have that luxury.
Because women are mean whores who are incapable of feeling love.
Men on the other hand are noble, delicate creatures who have to post and get consolation on lithuanian carpet-weaving forums to get through the day.
>>26620416
Because women are sociopaths
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i71ucapje7I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lY8rzo4Ik4M
>>26620531
Both of those videos are soul crushing...particularly the second one. That guy is a literal Chad and he didn't get have the matches or replies as the girl.
I'm a 6/10 on a good day. What the actual fuck am I supposed to do?
>>26620592
Blame all the thirsty guys.
Because they do not feel love like men do.
They just feel like they need to possess an attractive male. Thats what they call love. Getting the hottest guy to fall in love with them.
They don't care about personality or any of this as long as the male boosts their social status and other women see this.
Women are shallow as fuck and should be treaded as fucktoys.
I have some girl who's 'in love'(can't get a better guy) with me but instead of falling into the trap and buying her things and taking her out i just use her as a human fleshlight.
I've dated tons of girls and i can tell you modern women are horrible. Don't let biology trick you into thinking you want to be with them forever
>>26620612
This.
At best, men are nothing more than an accessory, a status symbol to women.
>>26620612
>>26620498
real as fuck posts right here
Actually women can get hung up over their exes too and will evem ignore all their suitors until they get over him. Sometimes they go fucking chads to get their mind off the ex but don't want anything serious, other times they shut everyone out of their lives for awhile.
Funny how this board thinks they know everything about female behavior when most of you never had a gf or even a female friend.
>>26620612
>modern women are horrible
As if, women were always horrible.
These traits, you described, are as eternal as the human species.
>>26622726
Oh there you are. I was waiting for you to get here reddit. How's it goin?
>>26620416
Womens emotions are very fleeting and inconsistent. When she says she loves you she may really mean it at that moment but there's zero garantuee that she will feel the same the next morning.
For men it takes more time to get emotional but the emotional states last longer.
Fuck if I know why.
>>26620416
>Why do women recover so easily from breakups, if they have to recover at all?
Because women can get a man so quick, like a snap of a finger and she instantly forgets about her worries because she has a new person and new body to explore. Men have to try very hard to get another woman.
>>26622825
Never been on reddit in my life, see another example. Your assumptions about everything are what's holding you back in life and keeping you from being more than pathetic worms r9k.
>>26622726
>Sometimes they go fucking chads to get their mind off the ex
desu desu desu original comment desu desu desu
![chalabi-datalab-dumper[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/ayjOmmB.png "chalabi-datalab-dumper[1].png")
>>26620416
Women are more likely to be the one ending a relationship.
At the point when somebody dumps you (s)he has most likely already gotten over you.
>>26620416
Because women don't have to go through breakups alone. They can simply ask a guy to come over to "comfort" her, and there, she's over her ex.
>>26622876
>insulting anyone about women
>on r9k
jesus, newfag, you might as well kys.
>>26620416
>Why do women recover so easily from breakups, if they have to recover at all?
Yeah this shit fucking sucks
>tfw I want my ex to suffer and betortured by her conscience every day but she probably forgot I even exist by now
>>26623248
>she probably forgot I even exist by now
Ha, you wish. She shit talks about you to her current boyfriend now.
>>26623389
At least it's unlikely for him to stick around for long given that she has several personality disorders competing for a place on the top;_;
>>26620426
This is the answer.
That's just how it works. It's biology I guess: males compete for the affections of females.
Also, I read a psychological study that said since women have large social networks and communicate their feelings more, they have a greater emotional support system to help them recover from breakups, whereas men are just expected to keep the hurt inside and go on with their lives to appear "strong", when we all know that shit fucking hurts so god damn much for so long when you can't even talk about it with anyone.
>>26623248
I completely know this fucking feel.
God damn whore started talking to some dude 2 months after we broke up. Thankfully, she literally cut my name on her tight, and left a bumpy-scar, so now every fucking time some faggot tries to fuck her, he's gonna see that deformed name written on her leg. Disgusting pieces of slimy shit.
>>26620416
>broke up with ex of 5 years a while ago, around 2013 september
>gets another bf by january
>have been alone ever since
i-i'll get another gf eventually, r-right guys?
>>26623808
My last gf broke up with me in 2010.
Guess who's on a 6 year single streak.
>>26623864
we'll get through this
>>26623864
>>26623808
I wouldn't even have the problem getting another one, women approach me on their own for some reason, but my ex killed everything that's inside me and I can't bring myself to care anymore and make anything of it
/destroyedbyagirl/ I guess
Women cannot love someone, if you lose your status, they will see you as garbage and easily ignore you.
>>26622726
Found the woman.
(original the comment, do not steal)
Because even your average girl lives like Chad. Notice how Chad doesn't usually care either? It's because both of them have backups in mass numbers.
>>26620416
woman break down all the fucking time, which from my experience anyway, makes them typically more resilient.
I don't know if you've ever seen a man break down before but it's never usually shortlived and really persistent.
>>26622726
>Actually women can get hung up over their exes too and will evem ignore all their suitors until they get over him.
If their ex is Chad, yes. If it's an average guy lolno
>>26623949
I'm actually the same.
After two and a half years, my last gf broke up with me on my birthday, then admitted to having feelings for some random dude she met at a party.
The girl before her was a complete and total headcase. Bipolar and physically abusive, and lied about every fucking thing.
I don't really have it in me to connect with women emotionally anymore.
once again there is no such thing as a fembot. daily reminder this girl has a normal bf.
Biologically it makes sense. Women had to adapt to finding new partners quickly in the past.
>Invaders take over
>Fuck better fuck my new king or else I'm gonna die
>Cave husband dies or some shit
>Fuck better find a new man or else I'm gonna die
>etc
>etc
Not white-knighting, but biology can be a bitch some times. Modern women (and men in different ways) are basically operating on an old OS in a new world. A lot of our biology is still running off the assumption were cave people who need to not die, despite living in a world where dying is actually quite difficult .
>>26623086
Not that easy. My ex fucked like three guys after I broke up with her and each time she ended up crying and told me how much she regrets it and wants me till she stopped having sex for like half a year before she found a new bf. I realized how stupid she is since she couldn't realize after the first time that her strategy wouldn't work but it still felt great knowing she couldn't get over me. According to a friend of mine she even asked about me while she was with her new bf. Women are unloyal as fuck qnd their emotional issues make them beta.
>>26624025
>I don't really have it in me to connect with women emotionally anymore.
I actually have a theory about women destroying proto-Chads turning them into true Chads.
Either way he breaks under the mental assault and becomes a robot/cyborg/cuck or he learns to disregard women for anything other than sex, in turn becoming more attractive to women for his emotional inaccessibility which makes women go after him to try to be the one that manages to crack him. Cue to Chad fucking and discarding her and women complaining about men only wanting sex.
Maybe it's really this way, women create their own monsters bei mentally destroying nice caring proto-Chads, and Chad is not the genetically gifted funny guy everyone thinks but deeply scarred inside.
>>26624082
Kek she looks like an actual potato.
It's kinda fucked that even retard girls have a higher sexual worth than the average male.
>>26624164
Mongos cannot procreate through in most cases.
I don't know I know this girl who broke up with his bf 18 months ago and still hasn't recovered.
>>26624281
>girl who broke up with his bf
hmmmmmm
>>26620612
Biology isn't what's telling men to stay with women, it's society.
Chad here, ho's literally ain't loyal. I have a girl, who has a bf she is on-off with at least three times a week and sends me shit like this
>>26624281
every day regardless of they are on or off.
>>26624305
Or his bf broke up with her, most likely.
>>26624083
>dying is quite difficult
I agree, I'm having trouble killing myself after seeing all the normalfags in this thread
>>26624322
It's half and half. Your body does not want to be alone, and it also wants to have kids so the two can get blurred together.
>>26620426
If...those 50 men have that girl with the chance to bang...then, don't they have someone to bang?
>>26623949
My nigga. It's only been only 6 months in my case, 6 months of wanting to kill myself every fucking single day. How can a person hurt you that much? Am I fucking sick or what?
>>26624550
Nah. You're literally coming down from a drug addiction.
Coming down from a vicious chemical attachment to another person.
>>26620416
took me three years to recover. dont think i'll ever be myself again because it still hurts. you couldnt be more wrong, op.
>>26623864
26 years single streak here. quit whinning.
>>26625871
>implying girls have emotions
Fuck off.
>>26625871
Why did you dump him?
>>26626234
found out he cheated on me, repeatedly lied, made faulty promises etc. but i guess you live and you learn. now i revel in solitude.
>>26620416
Because women know they can find somebody else with literally zero effort. If she's the one who ended it, chances are she had already found her next cock on the carousel before she left you.
>>26626324
Did he actually cheat, or cheat in your mind, like in your dreams at night, or like you considering him looking at other girls walking by cheating?
>>26626367
cheated as in made out with an actual person couple of times.
>>26626402
Just making sure
There was a guy on here who said his ex once woke him up in the middle of the night and made him apologize because she had a dream where he cheated on her
>>26624082
Guess that he was....chromozoned.
>>26626483
im guessing she's the hysterical type. well he scored alright.
>>26624480
Guys in relationships don't really chase other poon.
Guessing you're a roastie
>>26626487
Top post. 10/10 would kek again.
More r9kcuck spamming
SAGE
Kill yourselves faggot betacuck redditards
>>26624082
> muh chromodomes
>>26620416
I've never noticed how crazy that little girl's traps are before.
>>26626487
god, my sides
>>26620612
/thread
If /r9k/ has taught me one thing, it is that women cannot love as men do.
They cannot be lonely, they cannot empathise with us. They are not qualified to care for us, they have not shown themselves worthy to be cared for by us.
A long time ago, I met the father of a girl I had a crush on. He was a much older man, and this girl's mother was his fourth wife. He look one look at me, saw how I looked at his daughter, and said "Remember this: the only true love is between a man and another man.". I knew instantly what he meant, and I never forgot it.
I gave up on that girl three months later, and never heard from her again. I forgot her, because her father told me of how she would forget me. Whenever I wonder how women can forget us so easily, I remember that man.
The only true love.
I've had one break up in my life and the reason I wasn't heartbroken was that I knew I was making the best decision I could.
My ex got mad about something inconsequential and kicked over a chair like a child. It wasn't the first time he'd had a disproportionate reaction to something, but it was the most severe. I broke up with him because he couldn't control himself and am absolutely confident that I made the best decision.
>>26629070
>something inconsequential
What inconsequential thing was that? You sucking off Chad which didn't count because you didn't actually love Chad?
I don't like women at all, I don't want to date any. But can some anons with knowledge tell me, is maternal love as flaky and shallow?
I ask because I grew up with no mom and when I go to bed at night, I have to pretend I'm being held by a loving mother.
Can women, as mothers, love as purely as a man can love a woman romantically? Or do you think the love is still shallow and about status for most/many women?
>>26629188
I don't even remember, just that it had been a totally normal day until that point. It could have been me asking him about the phone he had broken from smashing it into something, I remember he had an affidavit to sign and mail and he was being slow about it.
It was nothing to do with me and I never cheated on him nor have I had a relationship with anyone else.
In my first post I should have added that after I broke up with him I learned he had been stealing money from me and he threatened suicide. I came close to calling the cops but ended up texting his mother about his mental health instead since he was gonna go live with her again.
>>26629323
I don't know how to describe motherly love. My mom was more controlling and obsessive. Overbearing as fuck and it weakened me.
She wasn't very affectionate, think I hugged her maybe twice in my life. But, I guess I could she cared about me by how controlling she was. I'm pretty sure the mom experience varies from person to person.
>>26629789
Huh, interesting. Thank you for the input anon.
>>26629789
>My mom was more controlling and obsessive.
Pretty much.
>>26623864
Oh hey, you too?
I've pretty much given up at this point and accepted that relationship 6 years ago as a fluke.
>>26628990
I think he wanted sum of that dick anon.
>>26630020
Nah, we had a good chat or two about women. He hated all the things about his daughter that I hated.
>>26629874
Yeah, the only reason I got her was because she was young and we were co-workers. Once she lost the thrill of being with me, she pretty much jumped ship.
>>26624480
>implying
This is a oneway relationship, she uses them as band-aids when she has a spot that needs to be applied to.
I've only had one relationship, and it ended 5 years ago. havent been on a date/kissed anyone or anything else since then. I still think about him p much every day.
Hate to pull out a tumblr line, but its stupid to generalise all women like that. I think normie men get over relationships extremely easily. Youre comparing normie girls to r9k guys. If you compared socially awkward/retarded shy girls to normie guys it would be the guys who get over it quickly
>>26630943
I'm sorry, femanon. What happened between you two?
>>26631052
I basically became his carer and supported him while he was on/meant to be quitting various drugs. It made me really depressed and anxious and he just wanted to drag me down with him really, would spike my drinks and fuck me when i didnt want sex (helping someone while they are throwing up all day and them crying on you all day doesnt really make you want to sleep with someone). It made me almost an alcoholic. Then he broke up with me. Its like a weird mix of not being over him because both i still love him a bit but also because i have massive trust issues and other stuff because of it
>>26631216
>Then he broke up with me. Its like a weird mix of not being over him because both i still love him a bit but also because i have massive trust issues and other stuff because of it
I feel the kind of similar right now. Situation was different ofc, but the ex gf was also mentally ill. This shit wrecks you.
>>26631248
It really does. I feel like if i could blame him completely for how i was treated it would let me move on easier, but the mental illness/addiction element complicates that.
Before i got into the relationship with him i was already insecure etc. So now when i look back i think stuff like 'well even though he did that, maybe he was still the only one who will put up with you'. I also constantly feel the need to give things to or cook for etc for people in my life, because i dont feel like im worth being with unless there is some benefit for the other person. Even if someone asked me out (it has happened a few times) i get terrified and say no. I think the only way for me to get past this is to work through it with someone else, but at the same time i dont think its fair to make someone else deal with my issues so its a bit of a catch 22 haha.
What happened with your gf? If you want to say ofc
>>26620416
Because beta orbiters. I don't even hate women for it. Betas are literally 90% of the reason women are shitty.
> thirsty betas drive up female sexual market value
> thirsty betas reward females for attention whoring
> thirsty beta orbiters constantly grind away at female loyalty
>>26631387
>It really does. I feel like if i could blame him completely for how i was treated it would let me move on easier, but the mental illness/addiction element complicates that.
Yeah same, on one hand I loathe her and think she's pathetic but on the other hand I know she's mentally ill so I can't even properly hate her.
>What happened with your gf? If you want to say ofc
Wellwe met over the internet(no gay long distance shit) and really hit off and decided to meet up in person. At first everything went allright. She told me about having a past of eating disorders and was in a hospital for it. I was starting to get more attached to her but she was holding back and was only getting increasingly erratic later on. I've had to deal with depression and other things myself in the past but I'm aware of it now and able to manage it and started seeing the signs in her too. For some reason that made me feel more attached to her, because it was another thing we had in common I guess. Problem was that I'm aware of my own troubles and didn't bother her with it, whereas she was unable to accept that she had a problem.
She was getting all paranoid about me cheating, had seemingly random outbursts of anger, panic attacks, got drunk a couple times because of that, and pretty much used me as punching ball for her outbursts. Since I was now seeing she had mental problems I tried to stay calm and understanding which actually turned her off, she actually told me that I was spineless once for not shouting at her and telling her off like a little kid when she had her outbursts. I told her she's an adult and she's my girlfriend and not my fucking little sister and it went downhill from there. She then broke up out of the blue with me and tried keeping me around with false promises and proceeded to get a new bf(which she didn't tell me about at which point I broke all contact).
>>26631674
>on the other hand I know she's mentally ill so I can't even properly hate her
Yeah thats pretty much it. Although i think hating is also a hindrance to getting over someone, so maybe thats for the best.
Ah thats awful, i can definitely see how that would be hard to get over. I hope you dont feel like any of it is your fault though, it took me a while to get to that point.
>She was getting all paranoid about me cheating
that sort of thing is part of the reason i wont get into a relationship now, because knowing that i am paranoid (not about him cheating though) i think its not fair to make someone else deal with me. Like if i was with someone now i would just feel like it was a matter of time before they tried to fuck me against my will because itll take me a long time to trust someone to that point, and it wouldnt be fair of me to treat someone like that.
Sometimes i worry that if he asked i would go back to him because i dont think im worth much else. Its good that you broke ties, i think thats for the best.
You sound like youre probably quite a nice person so it sucks that you had that bad experience, i hope you manage to overcome it one day
>>26631961
>Yeah thats pretty much it. Although i think hating is also a hindrance to getting over someone, so maybe thats for the best.
Well I think being able to truly hate her would be an improvement, it's at least something tangible, I think that would make it easier. Now when I think of her I don't really know what to do.
>that sort of thing is part of the reason i wont get into a relationship now, because knowing that i am paranoid (not about him cheating though) i think its not fair to make someone else deal with me.
I can empathize with that, that shit leaves scars and makes you paranoid. Guess I'm oversensitive to the red flags now, and I'm struggling with having a very negative oppinion on women now. Logically I know it's just one bad apple, but instinctively I'm not able to trust any women now.
>Sometimes i worry that if he asked i would go back to him because i dont think im worth much else.
Thought about those scenarios too, but she's too much of a coward to try approach again when there's a chance of being rejected. The whole thing with her is so incredibly sad because without her problems she's a very interesting person with cool interests and highly intelligent, but in retrospective it feels like she was acting barely more aware than an animal, she was dominated by her anxiety. She felt lonely so she approached me. Things got more serious, she got scared, dumped me, felt lonely again and got her next bf, while trying to keep me around because, dunno really. If I can believe what she said I was her first bf and it feels kinda bad to think that I 'cracked' her and now she's jumping from dick to dick whenever feeling lonely and dumping and hurting the guys when things get more serious because panic.
It's literally as she's instinct driven, devoid of higher thought and that truly horrible.
>You sound like youre probably quite a nice person so it sucks that you had that bad experience, i hope you manage to overcome it one day
Thanks, same to you.
these bitches ain't loyal.
>>26620416
I don't know if that's really the case, I have seen it both ways. Peoples attraction is a strange beast. I know it's been 4 years almost, and I still live my ex. She was very attractive on the mental, personality, and physical levels. It's really rare to see someone who has even one of those aspects going for them, nonetheless three to a strong degree. There is not going to be any getting over her, she was basically a 10 by my standards with an excellent personality to boot. Wont be happening. Someone could not make up for the ever present looks disparity through personality, maybe if their personality was perfect and they were an 8. That would be what reaching equinimity would look like, quite unlikely.
>>26620592
kill yourself obviously.
rdtfb
>>26620755
Who is this guy? I wanna see more.
>>26633222
Dylan Moran.
That bit was just a joke...mostly.
>>26633222
trips truth
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>>26624082
Is he about to be assassinated?
>Czech 4head.
>>26624146
This is absolutely what happens. Men and women both create these monsters. It's just our nature, meanwhile no one really wins (except a few).
Something I've found is that women don't have humility. They base their esteem entirely on other people, not any self awareness or introspection. Just what response they get from other people. As a result, if they get complimented or admired, it goes straight to their head, regardless of the actual intent of complimenter.
Social media has given women the access to endless compliments and validation, so you've got these average girls who think they're genuinely somehow a 10/10 that deserves the absolute best.
On the other hand, women create guys who stop giving a fuck about anything but sex.
Pic related
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>>26624083
This is probably the most accurate explanation
>>26620426
This. Blame your beta friends.
Because this OP, they have 400 other betas to choose from.
>>26633796
lol so true
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>>26622726
But fuck women that do that. Go fuck dude's to forget about it. That shit happened to me, right after we broke up. I've never been suicidal but I came pretty close. Any women who uses this excuse is an ungrateful bitch and deserves to be alone.
>>26634635
>I've never been suicidal but I came pretty close.
>over a women
You're just a low-test bitch.
>>26620416
Cause its incredibly easy for them to find someone else.
Women are psychotic monsters for the most part. Put them into a position where they can hurt you and they will. Took me 15 years to get over being thrown away by wife #1. Now in a relationship where I really don't give a fuck and wife never gives me problems. Plus screwing another guy's wife whenever I want - thought I had to play it straight with the first and where did that get me? Fuck women use them and stay emotionally detached and life is good.
