I dont like other people touching me and get uncomfortable with emotional intimacy so the idea of having sex irl just gives me anxiety

yes
people disgust me

Isn't celibacy voluntary by definition?

>>26619728
>>26619711
Yup, people are super gross, especially up close with all our hairs and smells and shit.

>>26619735
It seems to me that most of r9k is incel.

>>26619754
Is incel real though, or just a concept made up by r9k?

>>26619816
Idk, I think there's people who want to have sex but can't.

>>26619816
>>26619833
Incel is very real

I've wanted sex for the past 7 years and haven't been able to get anything at all.
I'm involuntarily celibate.

if you'd consider my fear of showing my small penis to girls then yes

>>26619697

I'm asexual, the notion of sex is disgusting to me and I have zero sex drive. I've never even fapped.

>>26619904

have you actually tried or are you just too anxious to hit on women? or do you want to lose it in a relationship and dont want to lose it to any random druggy slut? why not just hire an escort?

>>26619923

do you get nocturnal emissions?

>>26619972
I've tried over the years, but get rejected each time. I won't have sex outside of a relationship, or use an escort.
Not like I can get past the dating stage anyway lol
Guess I'm fucked

>>26619985

Sometimes, I sleep through them though.

sex is so boring without any emotional attachment

>>26619816
Incel is real but technically there aren't any 100% incels because these people make the decision not to rape or buy a prostitute.

I tried throughout my teen years to get sex and have relationships but got rejected by every single girl. I've tried a variety of different methods and personalities and asked out a variety of girls, even a mentally handicapped girl.

Now though I've pretty much given up. I've never even talked to a girl one-on-one for any extended period of time so I can't comprehend myself actually having sex. I've never really desired sex or relationships to any great degree compared to most guys. I'm not really attracted to most females now, in fact, I find physical intimacy quite disgusting. If magically somehow a female offered a relationship and sex now I'd refuse. The way I see it is that I've gotten this far, I may as well just go on forever like this.

>>26619904
>>26620673
I've always kind of wondered about you guys. I mean all of your ancestors had sex, so you should be able to. Right?

>>26619923
I agree with you about sex, although I think humans in general are gross. Even my own body looks disgusting to me. I'm not asexual though, I do masturbate pretty frequently.

being voluntarily celibate early in life caused me to be incel later in life.
when i was a teenager i was convinced i wasn't having sex until i was married.
then i started getting older and older and years gone by, not married yet, until finally i decide it's okay to have sex outside of wedlock..

now all that's left is a pure disaster, just a straight up fucked up disaster.
confusion.
i was hooking up with this girl who i could've easily had sex with, only licked her vagina. but over time of being around her, i realized i hated her.
i don't want to give pleasure to someone i hate and i have too much integrity to steal pleasure for myself from someone i don't even like.