I'm a neckbeard autist who's been dating a qt for almost a year now. We were hanging out and browsing 4chan and she thought I should make a post to give some advice to the /r(9k)/obots here.
I'm objectively a 5/10 at best but looks don't seem to matter much as long as you're charismatic, caring, and fun to be around. Literally nothing else seems to matter.
We met on OKC, she messaged first since I only "Like" profiles to avoid wasting time on no-reply messages. I was actually surprised how many girls actually message you first if you just put up a few decent looking selfies and are honest. My profile was literally just me listing the stuff I'm into and saying I wasn't really into sports/bars/etc. She's more a normie that's into fashion/haute couture type stuff but that didn't really stop her from liking me.
You guys should just try being honest about who you are. If getting rejected makes you feel like shit then just let them message you first. Online dating really is great at matching people with very niche interests/personalities.
>>26612679
Damn i wish i had a jaw like that
That is the most retarded thing I ever heard.
>>26612748
How so? Its all true. Girls like it when you're not a poser and just own your personality with pride.
This would all be very helpful if there was a way for me to become charismatic. I'm boring most of the time and when I'm energetic it comes off across as artificial or childlike, not a manly charm or energy if that makes sense.
I feel I am attractive enough to date my crush right now if I had a better personality.
>>26612858
That guy looks like Russell Wilson but slightly less chubby in the face and with more hair
>>26612965
Dude don't buy into the alpha/beta PUA bullshit. Being fun >>> everything else. You don't need "manly charm" or any bullshit.
You must have an abysmally shitty existence if the best accomplishment in your life is your gf and you feel the need to come online and try to "school" others about it.
I feel like I'm somewhat falling for shitty bait.
>>26613009
Okay well thanks then anon. I just need to work on being more fun.
>>26613041
buttmad virgin desu
>>26613041
OP here. I was laughing to that meme for like a solid minute. Ty senpai. I hate indians too(although technically I am one).
>>26612858
Curry burner. She probably has some serious mental problems.
>>26613095
Ehh in my opinion India is a shitty country but westernized Indians are no different than any other civilized folk.
>>26613095
Self hating minorities are the worst. Have some fucking pride you worthless cuck.
>looks don't seem to matter
>if you just put up a few decent looking selfies
>>26613153
Yeah man just do what girls do. Take a decent, well-angled selfie that emphasizes your better traits. My GF says this pic made her fall for me. It's a pretty decent skype screenshot someone took for me but like I said I'm objectively a 4-5/10.
>>26612679
That is a dude in a wig, if I am not mistaken.
>>26613223
you look good for a poo in the loo
>>26613239
doesn't really look like a man at all actually
>>26613223
Of all the fucking qts out there, she falls for this? What is wrong with women
>>26613223
She is not very attractive, but she is way above your league. Nice job dude.
>>26613262
He's a curry nigger so she's probably dating him because he's "exotic"
>>26613262
Just accept it man. Everyone jerks off to perfect angled/cropped filtered pictures that people put up. Half the girls 4chan worships look average/okay in real life.
It's like that one south park episode where having a really good selfie makes people think you're hotter IRL even when they know you're not. The digital age has fucked up the rules of attraction a bit.
this thread smells of a dirty cunt whore who deserves to die eat shit and die so that we can cleanse this board of your kind get the fuck of the board
>>26613262
I have other pics where I look decent tho. My only problem is I look 100x better from a side angle since my nose is a bit wide(getting rhinoplasty ASAP).
This bullshit photo thing is not for me
I really want a girl to fall for me when I'm at my worst moment, because it's honest, I don't want her to have a good photo of me and then when she meets me she runs away
>>26613505
Literally never happens unless you completely photoshop your face. People will like you at your worst when you at least show that you have a "best" that is worthwhile.
When you see a girl post that one perfect selfie out of 100 to instagram do you think they look that good all the time?
>>26613428
>>26613223
That's not going to fix your shit coloured skin or your general curry nigger looks
You will always look like shit, you are literally the colour of shit
The only non-ethnic girls that will date you are the mentally ill or ugly ones
>>26613555
That hurts my feelings anon :C
A lot of girls seem to like my non-white skintone
Most people aren't racist these days
>>26612858
>>26613223
>>26613428
You're a fucking ugly curry nigger and deserve to fucking die
That manly whore is probably only with you out of sympathy at most she can do much better than your piece of shit life
>>26613618
It has nothing to do with racism, it's more to do with what people find attractive. Indian men are not attractive, nor are Asian men.
People tend to be attracted to their own race, studies have shown this. That's why mixed race couples are still rare compared to same race couples, and they always will be rare.
>>26613428
good jawline, nice cheekbones
7/10 based on appearance, but you seem super nice and optimistic which is always great to see
Hope you and ur qt gf have some good times, bro
>>26613789
>7/10
hahahaha
he's a fucking indian, maybe 4/10 at the most
>>26613663
>>26613695
>>26613555
OP, fuck her real good the next time it happens. Cuck all these robots hard, we're all gonna make it brah
>>26613428
your only problem is you still keep coming back to this pity party of a board. Leave while you can, you're making it as we speak.
>>26613847
>t. angry currynigger
>>26613428
You're really handsome you dipshit. Don't call yourself a "5/10 at best" and give others hope. That's really fucking annoying.
>>26612679
So you are her practice bf?
>>26613996
Just look at this thread and you'll see I average out to like a 5/10. I think people are generally split on my face and either see me as attractive or as completely fugly.
>>26614071
yeah, but you're asking a board that is overwhelmingly racist and bitter about women and relationships. It's not exactly a good population sample to be working out averages from. Just do you familia
>>26614134
What's a good way to get accurate ratings then? /soc/ or maybe even reddit?
>Being caring
i try to do that. I'm an empathetic guy. I try to help people where ever i can, and i don't try to hide my emotions.
>Being fun to be around
I don't know how to do that. I mean, i can try to introduce someone to my hobbies, but then i feel like i'm being pushy.
>Being charismatic
I don't know how to do that. If i was charismatic, i'd try to be a manipulator like pic related.
>>26614071
Are you reading what they're saying, though? They're calling you ugly because they're racists. It says nothing about how you actually look for racists to insult you.
>>26614366
/fit/ and /fa/, because they are boards dedicated to appearances
The OP is a liar. I tried OKC a couple years ago. I'm easily a 5/10. 0 replies, no females initiating conversations.
Decided I'll try something else!
Each and every girl stopped replying after they found out I was a NEET.
JOBS AND WEALTH are the only things that matter, don't listen to the OP. Girls that are okay with manchilds are few and far between, not worth the hurt from all the rejection before finding them.
>>26614538
>I'm easily a 5/10
post pics
>>26614538
I've messaged more than 300 girls in OKC. From the ugliest to the sexiest. Not a single reply.
>>26613428
You're way better than a 5/10 dude
>>26614583
>>26614538
I'm being totally honest. I'm of the opinion that messaging girls doesn't really work that well since they get 5000 messages a day anyways. I think just having a decent profile and flattering pics is the best strategy.
I never claimed you could be a total NEET and get people to pursue a romantic relationship with you. With that said if you're NEET but self-sufficient then it shouldn't be a problem. Nobody wants a burden and no girl wants to take care of you financially. These days most guys don't want to take care of girls financially either. My GF and I always split the bill at restaurants and take turns buying the pizza and other small stuff.
Jobs and wealth matter to the point where you're able to afford a simple but enjoyable lifestyle. I'm still in college, live at home and my parent pay for my expenses atm. I don't spend much except for gas(parents' spare car) and food.
Girls aren't all gold diggers and I actively avoided pursuing a few girls that seemed to expect me to pay for them on the first date(they didn't say it but I could sense the hesitation, though I may have just been retarded).
>>26615044
> if you're NEET but self-sufficient then it shouldn't be a problem
> Jobs and wealth matter
> Girls aren't all gold diggers
for fucks sake do you even hear yourself?
your own sentences contradict themselves
>>26612858
I wonder what her dad thinks about her daughter being a disgrace and a curry burner.
I'd rather be lonely and eat pizza, poo in loo.
>>26614538
>The OP is a liar. I tried OKC a couple years ago. I'm easily a 5/10. 0 replies, no females initiating conversations.
Yep, here is an interesting link showing MOST women believe MOST men are below average. So you were a 1/10 to them. OP's a liar.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/
>>26615691
Where and when did this pooinloo meme start? I completely missed it being away from 4chan for a few months.
>>26615748
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixJgY2VSct0
India has designated shitting streets.
>>26615779
Also this here; >>26613135
man this girl must REALLY hate her father to skip right to dating an indian she met on a seedy dating site.
>>26615044
>Most girls won't pay for you, most of them expect you to pay for them.
>Women get 5000 messages anyways so robots shouldn't bother.
>Not all are gold diggers (to start off, but give them time. Once the love fades you'll wish you had a pre-nup with special clauses.)
These things are true.
>>26615854
OKC isn't really "seedy" though. It's the one that most hipsters use these days. PlentyOfFish is probably the one that sicks out as very "seedy".
Also why do you say that? Do you think OP's GF is out of his league or is it just your blatant autistic racism?
>>26615933
Not OP, but if she's willing to date a curry then she will date practically anything. Probably legally blind or mentally handicapped. Or just hates her father.
>>26615971
>blatant autistic racism
oh okay
>>26615746
Although that was in 2009... We're all screwed if that still stands (most likely does).
>>26616085
Just because it's 09 doesn't mean women suddenly changed. Online dating YOU need looks.
Looks get you the initial contact / match.
9418 Bayberry CtLa Vista, NE 68128-3220 see you soon OP :)
>>26616213
Ohhhhhhhh shhhiiiitttt commmmmeeeennnnttt is originalssss
>>26616099
Yeah I know in 7 years its likely nothing has changed. Good to know though, appearance above all else when it comes to online dating.
>>26616213
Kek. Must of left his EXIF data in tact.
>>26615887
No. That's not what I said.
>>26615746
That blog you linked literally says that while girls have skewed ratings their messaging patterns fall into more of a bell curve. This means they message pretty fairly even if their ratings are skewed. Just use a flattering angles and lighting. Pic related.
>>26616213
Nice try but not even close.
:D
>>26616298
99% sure 4chan wipes that stuff.
>>26616213
>>26616298
>>26616348
>thinks 4chan keeps exif data of uploads
>being this new
If 4chan kept identifying info on images the board would have been shut down by the FBI years ago. Can you imagine the autists stalking people IRL after getting overly attached from seeing a picture?
>>26612858
>dyed blonde hair
she should just get a "Iam mudshark" tattooed on her forehead, it would be more subtle
>>26612679
>Online dating really is great at matching people with very niche interests/personalities.
What was the niche you two had in common? Cause it's sounding like they're both pretty different.
>>26612858
I'd say you're about matched in the looks department. What's with all these salty replies? Do Brits really hate Indians or something?
>>26613223
>>26613428
>a curry nigger is objectively better looking than me and has a gf
>mfw
>You guys should just try being honest about who you are
Right, b yourself lol
>Posting yourself and trying to be positive on /r9k/
Happy for you though, GF is cute and you're attractive, good job m8
>>26613223
>I'm objectively a 4-5/10
>le charisma is all that matters!
>my profile was shit and her messaged first
hmmmm
>>26614366
>>26614414
And yes, Ask /fit/
Jelly fucking 13 year olds will make fun of you here
>>26617221
Take a picture in good lighting and clench your facial muscles a bit so your jawline looks more attractive. There's literally entire books on how to look good in pictures. It's about knowing what to do and using the right angles/lenses/etc. more than actually looking good.
>>26617398
What like this
ORIGINAL BRO
>>26617414
Chew mastic, and get rid of your acne
Cut your bodyfat % down too, and squint a little. As the other guy said, there are loads of tips out there to look good on camera. Male models use a lot of the tricks
>>26617414
Yes but that's still semi-shit lighting. You need to have the shadows highlight the separation between your neck and your jaw.
You're also still making a shitty facial expression.
There are a shitload of things you could do to improve how you look in pictures like most instagram hotties do. Here's a link to get you started down the aesthetics rabbit hole.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qe3oJnFtA_k
>>26617479
>>26617488
Thanks m8s, I will take your advice to heart.
>>26617523
You're welcome bro. You'll make it if you follow through and make some tiny adjustments to improve. You definitely have a good face that could look loads better with just some minor behavioral changes(how you hold yourself).
>>26617488
>You need to have the shadows highlight the separation between your neck and your jaw.
For a good example of this just look at >>26616348
Granted my jawline is like my best trait it's very accentuated/exaggerated in that pic. I use it as my avatar and get complemented a fair bit but I don't look like that IRL, nobody looks as good IRL as in good pictures of themselves.
>>26615748
>meme
POO
IN
LOO
>>26612679
Except that's shit. I'm a fairly decent looking guy and if I wanted to talk to people I could. I just find being a NEET is superior then getting in a relationship. Can't have both because no girl wants a guy who sleeps on the couch.
>>26617808
Why be NEET forever? It has to end at some point right?
