Camming for extra cash - yes or no?
Women of /r9k/, have you ever considered becoming a camgirl? I'm not poor, but I work in a creative field which means I have to work a boring sales job to support myself and pay rent, and lately I've thought about camming for extra cash. Not to get rich, just for personal projects or just not having to eat canned soup every other day.
I'm somewhat of an exhibitionist, feel confident about my body and find the idea of people watching me or taking pleasure in looking at me kind of hot. I have the time. My main concern is being recognised by someone I know, although I live in a small country and it would be unlikely.
I've read an equal amount of articles saying go for it and don't do it, so I'm asking you all - have you ever considered it or done it?
Would you?
Why wouldn't you?
Women who camwhore are fucking disgusting. That being said any women who browse /r9k/ are fucked up enough to do this shit so probably most of them.
>>26598942
There's Danish girl on here who said she worked as an escort for 10 years
honestly gettting a part time job is quicker, steadier, and more reliable cash input. You cant compare yourself to those girls who makes crazy amounts of money doing it. its like making your own youtube channel, not everyone makes the big bucks and most fail to make anything. So yeah, sitting in front of your computer for hours on end hoping that several desperate guys toss a couple bucks your way is worth less than getting a part time job.
also, as a camgirl you have to worry about someone recording the whole thing and it ending up on porn sites til the end of time.
>>26598960
I honestly hope she gets killed in an incredibly painful way
is there a market for a cam twink or a twink rentboy?
sounds like a pretty good way of making extra cash
>>26598913
If you want the big bucks then you'll have to keep up a proper online profile. You'll have to regularly keep in touch with your customers, advertise your shows and all that. You'll need to be interesting to keep them hooked.
Also, you'd have to show your face. Then you will get recognised and someone will link you to your family.
But if you're set on it then I'm willing to help you practice, m8.
>>26599005
There is, actually. Check out chaturbate's male section. There's a long haired twinky Polish boy who usually has like 500 viewers in his room. He probably makes good money off it because I see him on quite often
>>26598960
>tfw swede
>laws are so sexist that selling sex is legal but buying isn't
Sure, it's expressed in neutral language but you know who's getting hurt here.
Is Denmark the same? We're usually quite similar.
>>26598969
>worry about recording
That's just presumed family. I record every minute I watch. Cut out the bad stuff (girl getting bored, just talking shit) and leave those nice moments.
>>26598913
I would but I'm fat.
I'm not a particularly attractive or personable dude but I made $250 in 4 hours jerking off on cam. Having a big dick is easy mode. I made 300 in an hour fucking a girl on cam once. Someone almost bought me a ticket to Jamaica to fuck his wife.
I have literally only ever had one gf/sexual partner. Women won't make eye contact with me IRL.
>implying most of the few females who visit /r9k/ aren't fat whales and/or ugly as sin
>>26599157
A lot of the girls on those sites aren't skinny at all. I wouldn't let that keep you if that's the only thing.
>>26599261
I've seen a few qts under the /r9k/ tag on omegle. You gotta remember that even fatties and uggos make money stripping on cam. They just have to be dirtier and they need to talk more with the viewers in chat
>>26599219
See, that's what I've seen. I don't need to earn a living off it, just some extra cash. So no fan base or commitment or other such bullshit, just wanking for money on camera. Were you never worried it would come back to you?
my dick is too big
I wouldn't wanna scare your mom
>>26599219
How big is your dick? I think I might do this if mine is around the same size.I have no shame.
>>26599342
7" long but I am a 5'8 hungry skeleton. If you lay back slightly hunched your dick goes above your bellybutton and everyone thinks it's giant.
>>26599327
It was a few week commitment and I've deleted everything about it.
There's a secret about cam sites. They record everything and upload it to distributors. I have found my stuff on some sketchy download sites but I'm not that popular and I'm very generic looking so my stuff has never popped up elsewhere.
I've never considered it.
First off, I'm repulsive,
Secondly my father, my brother, and basically everyone I know uses the internet.
Spend an hour on a porn site, and try to keep up with the individual women displayed on there.
Now think about literally every man you know seeing that many pornographic pictures of women every day.
If you post nudes, even personally to a person, it is most likely that you WILL be discovered and it WILL go out to the people you want it to the least.
>>26599732
I'm sure your daddy and bro would blow huge loads to your nudes
>>26599796
This.
They'll hate themselves but they'll do it. And you'll know when they start avoiding eye contact and not talking to you for a few weeks.
>>26599796
The word "daddy" gives me the heebie jeebies.
It even did when I was a kid, I generally looked down upon other kids who called their dads "daddy"
Why not just be a twitch slut? Beta orbiters will pay you to play video games all day
>>26599858
That's the way to do it. You don't have to show any skin at all. Don't need to do anything lewd. You don't even need to be attractive.
Just play videogames and talk to the guys.
Also, don't have to be good at the games.
Wearing low-cut tops will increase revenue significantly. Wearing yoga pants and finding excuses to bend over on cam will increase it even further.
>>26598913
If you "have the time" then get another real job you fuckin whore.
>>26598913
My exgf was a non-nude camgirl. The most she would do was a wet t-shirt. The rest of her time was spent entertaining the guys with conversation, jokes, games, stuff like that. She was pretty successful, too. We went on a trip for a few months and she paid for about 60% of it with spare camming money.
I am pretty flexible so I can suck my own dick, but I'm not a tranny, do you think I could make money from camming?
I could suck myself off while doing the side splits on chairs.
>>26601270
Why'd you break up with her? Did she start selling dates to the highest donation?
>>26599612
Do you have to enter your real name when you sign up to the site? How do you get the money?
Do you have to pay taxes on it? The last thing I want is a letter from the government coming to my house and my parents asking what chaturbate is
>>26601351
Nah, she broke up with me. I work a regular full time job and she's basically at home all day so I couldn't give her the attention she needed.
>>26601579
Pretty weak reason.
Did she stop camming after you got together? That might explain it. Missing all that camgirl attention.
If not then how much attention did she need holy shit.
if you have a job and career it is not worth it.
Imagine a prospective employer has seen it.
They don't hire you. You can't get work.
They hire you because of it. Probably even worse as they'd expect to fuck you.
You will lose all respect ever.
>>26601662
Well it's a bit more involved than that, obviously. I was super stressed from work and I didn't have time to hang out with her sometimes for more than a week at a time. She got angry at me for not hanging out and that would give me even less motivation to hang out because I didn't want to be yelled at after a long day at shitty work, so it snowballed. She kept camming and still does occasionally, although not as often as she's going to college now.
>>26601382
>real name
Most likely more than that. Where there is legal money involved, there has to be documentation.
>taxes
Yes, unless you meet certain circumstances.
>my parents
They probably upload themselves having sex already. I'm sure they would be proud.
>>26598969
how do you do that? i always heard those sites somehow guard against that and ban users who do.. is that just false info?
>>26599157
look up egyptbeauty on mfc. she's a fucking troll but somehow i see her in the top 100 fairly often. you dn't really have to be hot, just make the guys feel welcome and desired.
>>26601909
The thing with camming is being the hottest girl doesn't mean you'll be the most popular. Personality goes a long way, which is the whole point of cam sites. If guys wanted some tits without personalities, they could find them anywhere for free. On cam sites they feel like they get to know the person and that makes the tits that much more hot. If the person has a great personality, the effect is that much greater. So someone who's a 9/10 but is awful to talk to is going to be less popular than someone who is a 7/10 and is a great time to be around.
>>26601778
>She got angry at me for not hanging out and that would give me even less motivation to hang out because I didn't want to be yelled at after a long day at shitty work,
That cycle just completely destroys relationships.
There's no breaking it, either. Neither side wants to listen to reason. If snowball starts rolling, it's not going to stop. It will wreck the relationship.
It's not even something you can really see coming. It's pure bad luck.
>>26601970
no doubt, honestly camgirls made me appreciate "ugly" women way more. i rarely go for the most attractive women anymore. they always seem to be dull and think they should get money just for being attractive. the ones with slightly busted faces are generally nicer, more interesting and have better personalities.
>>26598913
>Would you?
No
>Why wouldn't you?
Being a whore does not appeal to me.
I did it a couple times but somehow managed to avoid showing my vagina or anything but tits. Most of the guys that go on those sites just want to be your friend. They try to buy your friendship. I made five grand (I only spent like a total of 15 hours on the site) and deleted my profile and never looked back. It's too dangerous.
>>26599157
porn isnt about beauty
for any definition of "fat" there is a market, perhaps a small, gross market, but still a market that can be worked
>>26602127
Would you do it for free?
>>26602079
Know what helps break that cycle? Some lsd or mdma. That helps either side to look at it honestly and kinda rewire things from a new perspective.
>>26601862
> i always heard those sites somehow guard against that and ban users who do.. is that just false info?
crunchyroll and funimation claim the same shit, but that doesn't stop people from ripping their video.
>>26602201
so how do i record the videos? how does a browser detect someone using screen capture anyways?? seems like it would be a shitty security hole of some sort to let a browser have access to what programs a computer is running
>>26601862
How is a website going to detect an external screen-capture program? If I run something like Nvidia Shadowplay (ghetto example but I digress) how the hell are they going to know that I'm recording the camshow? It's not like my feed has a stamp in the corner with my username, and even if it did I could just black it out with a few minutes of editing.
>>26602261
this. pretty much the only way to get caught and banned is to be a complete and total idiot on the matter.
>>26602079
And it's one of those things where the more I tried to argue that I still wanted to be with her and this was all just a rough patch, the more she thought it meant I was trying to manipulate her or trick her to stay with me. Once someone has an idea in their head that you're lying to them about how you feel, it's damn near impossible to prove otherwise. Everything you do gets interpreted as evidence supporting their delusion.
>>26602443
I'm in a similar mess.My gf feels like I'm harassing her by trying to talk to her all the time and I feel like she's ignoring me and avoiding me.
There's no way I can convince her of my side because she simply won't listen. And it's just not working for me to 'give me space' because in the last three and a half fucking weeks, I've only seen two text messages from her. Just going to have to end it over the phone, at this rate.
>>26602261
The botnet.
>>26602596
If I could do it over again, I wouldn't try to fight them or argue my side, just ask them why to explain their side and listen. I found that arguing almost always puts people in a subconscious attack mode and it triggers that part of your brain that sees people as outsiders and enemies because they're fighting you.
>>26598913
This is high quality bait. I'm impressed anon.
>>26602727
But, as you said, you were stressed as fuck. Could you really have sat and listened to an explanation about how you were the problem?
>>26599219
>Someone almost bought me a ticket to Jamaica to fuck his wife.
what the fuck
>>26602889
I probably could have made myself do things differently if I knew that the whole relationship was on the line.
>>26601579
>Literally getting attention from hundreds of guys all day
>Not enough attention
Sounds like she did you a favor
>>26603060
Attention from dudes on cam sites is mostly unsatisfying because they say the dumbest shit to these girls, thinking they don't see what they're doing, thinking they're tricking these girls into liking them with their boring ass divorced 52 year old single dad personality. They're not funny, have no good stories to tell, have no interesting perspectives on life, and think that complimenting a girls eyes for the 500th time that hour makes her think that he's deep or something. It's really low quality attention from people you'd never want to talk to otherwise. I can understand why that kind of attention isn't a good substitute.
>>26603384
Sounds like you are really trying to justify dating a cam whore
>>26603911
What do I need to justify? I'm explaining that the attention they get from the guys on the site is usually shit, thus the reason why it's natural to still feel unattended to.
>>26604381
This post is a reasonable answer
>>26603384
This post is projecting onto every guy how much of a loser they are and how much better you are. It just seemed kind of bitter
>>26604787
I have that opinion because I interacted with those guys all the time. They almost all had the same backstory, same meaningless compliments they'd give every 5 minutes, same boring shit to say over and over and over. I'd sit in the room and read what they were saying and 95% of it was that. There were always some original, funny guys that would show up, but they were way, way, way outnumbered by the others.
If you don't believe me, go sit on MFC and read the comments and see for yourself.
>>26605152
Were there many girls?
Did most people know you were there?
