Why are we not normies? Was it our parents fault? Did we do this to ourselves? What information did we miss out on?
Why can't we have nice things like the chads?
>>26587632
The fuck is going on in that picture is that porn or amateur i cant even tell
>>26587852
That's Bridgette the Midget in the middle sucking the dick so its professional.
>>26587632
we were (relative to other kids these day days ) sheltered by upper middle class conservative parents who raised us for a world that no longer exists. we were raid to be "nice guys" to have morals, to treat others with respect. we were raised that "normie" behavior would never fly in the real world once they get out of high school, and that the business world would never tolerate this behavior.
we were raised that discipline happens and that consequences ail happen to bad and stupid people
our parents were so out of touch with reality, or even in complete denial that the world was changing , and we got the rug pull rout from under our feet
>>26587632
If the problem started from before you were 12, then its 100% your parents' fault.
Autism is genetics, right?
sheltered by parents with discipline
always honest "honor your family" bullshit
normies dont do any of that shit
their parents were beta and could not control their kids, or their parents just didn't give a fuck
Unless you are literally diagnosed with severe autism, then yes being here is your parents fault.
What exactly that means is different for everyone, but ultimately it's on your parents to instill you with the confidence to go into the world and succeed.
>>26588156
Source? I have been weird since I was 9 but managed to not be a total outcast until now. Im 23 and just dropped out of university becoming a hikkimori who plays an 11 year old video game 10 hours a day.
GENETICALLYoriginal
>>26588293
why do gay people have higher IQ?
Nah, single mom here. Weirdly I can be very confident and get along with people. I just don't want to.
>>26588280
>Source?
Young children are not developed enough to think or act for themselves. Until you grow older you have to do everything your parents say and have no say in the matter. Who you are is entirely shaped by your parents until you mature enough to think for yourself.
As for you, whatever your parents were doing was keeping you in check and they gave up on you when you dropped out. It happens all the time.I should know because I'm the same.
>What information did we miss out on?
If you were brought up by a single parent, you never got to see how a relationship works from the inside. You never had anything to model off of, so you don't understand male-female relations on a fundamental level.
If you were brought up by a single mother, you had no real father figure to model off of. So you don't understand how to play your role in society. You don't interact with females the same way, or see them the same way. You probably can't even flirt, because that requires a specific mindset nurtured from adolescence.
If you experience either of these, or both, then you will have trouble with girls in high school and college. This is the period when it's still okay to be unexperienced, because everyone is on the same level. But the above factors make it an ordeal for some. As years go by, you float further away from normalcy. The butterfly effect of your childhood continues on through the rest of your life.
In short, we missed critical developmental phases, and now we are fucked because no one wants to deal with a person who is 10-15 years behind them. We are the left behind.
>>26588643
I Agree with everything you just said
My parents had split custody so I was constantly back and forth between them.
Now here I am a young adult with no friends, apathy towards everything in life, and have severe trouble showing affection towards anyone.
I went through my early teens hanging out with older kids, I guess trying to make up for my lack of parental influence. I feel myself withdraw so much if god forbid someone gives me a compliment.
>>26588643
How should I put this my mom never took any time to try to teach any of her children anything. To hug as long as her children were alive that was enough, even if I asked her today to teach me something she's meant to be incapable of doing it.
If she took some time out to teach me how to be confident that would be easier, if she took some time to teach me social interactions that would be easier.
But even though I had two sisters they did not interact with me what's the weather and for the most part I only had me in my own thoughts to work with.
Without my hundreds of good VHS tapes and occasionally some horrible basic TV programming I really wouldn't of had any social interaction even with my own family.
Yet I was an extremely happy person, & I am an extremely happy person.
People hated me because of that.
I gotta say for about a decade of my school career all the way up to midway through 11th grade was pure torture, yet I never let it get to me, cuz I'm just a happy person.
Within half of a school year by actively forcing myself to sit down and talk to random strangers even though that I had a social anxiety that was unreasonable I still somehow broke through.
Honestly because I never gave up and I decided to develop myself in my own social skills it's been a year and I just recently turned 18 and things have Ben going great.
I was smart enough to turn things around, I was in a shitty school environment but once I got out of that I developed vastly as an individual.
>>26589082
To *her
My correction
>>26589082
>I am an extremely happy person.
> cuz I'm just a happy person.
I think this is the genetic part. Other robots in your situation would have been made to feel worthless and overwhelmed by the hopelessness of it all. You had a brain that kept feeding you seratonin anyway, and that helped you push through. But some of us have depression, which does the opposite.
Not to say you didn't earn it, but you had nature on your side. Imagine if you didn't.
Most of it HAS to be my parents' fault. They did almost everything wrong that could have possibly been done wrong.
>only child
>send off to private christian school
>touches me sexually at a young age
>when I got older they laughed at me a lot
>spent my high school experience dodging them as much as possible
>go off to college and get treated like a kid
>scared shitless of my mother, has anger issues and talks to herself
just to name some things.
and they won't admit anything is wrong with them.
It isn't worth it bringing up the molestation. I've already tried, I was told that it was probably something that didn't happen and I have a dream that is some kind of false memory.
This all explains why I never had any success with women. I have no idea how to communicate with them. I don't have any mental disability and am not ugly, but I will forever be stunted from any kind of emotional growth. I'm essentially an awkward preteen in an adult's body.
>>26589070
>I feel myself withdraw so much if god forbid someone gives me a compliment.
Yeah, what is up with this? I hate compliments, I guess because they always feel like pity to me. Either that or a concession of fake politeness. And then I have to figure out a way to respond to it that isn't awkward or offensive.
Is this what self-hate feels like?
I think I'm just mental and had irresponsible parents to boot.
I've tried the normie lifestyle and only broke down from it.
These are just the cards we were dealt.
>>26589296
You make a valid point, but i have always felt that being happy is a choice and not a condition.
You must let yourself be happy
Depression only comes when you let yourself become depresses, like when you dont punch someone in the face, you can punch someone in the face if you let yourself do it.
I've always had a higher iq so its not like l actully related to any of the idiots in school.
You need to allow yourself to be happy, let go, and be happy!
>>26589309
You need some counseling from the molestation
Like closeure
>Dad was pretty beta when it came to mom and had zero useful dating advice
>Mom and dad hated each other, developed this idea that I'll be miserable forever if my partner isn't completely perfect for me
>Too beta to hook up with any friends or ask out girls I liked
>Caught oneitis in college
>>26590035
I wish it were so simple, brobot.
1) raised by a single mom
2) heavy neglect in my teenage developing years
3) absolute cunt teachers and mom destroyed my self esteem through emotional abuse
4) now schizoid social recluse
At least I'm pulling my shit together now though.
>gonna move out on my own in a couple months
>gonna live completely alone
>finally escaping my mom and asshole brother after so many years
Feels good man. I actually have something to look forward to.
>>26588021
That sounds like an A+ upbringing. What the fuck are you whining about? Morality is it's own reward and if you find a legitimately nice gril and marry her and you're nice to each other you'll live a happy life while ass hole businessmen drink away their sorrows and question why their wives and children hate them.
The world needs more nice people and honestly if you just congregate to be around other nice people than it's gr8 shit.
>>26590035
>You make a valid point, but i have always felt that being happy is a choice and not a condition.
Easy to say when you've been happy all your life and have never known true misery.
If happiness was a choice why on earth would anybody choose to be unhappy?
>>26591103
Jesus christ, kill yourself.
>nothing ever good enough for mom
>social anxiety now
At least my dad is cool as fuck
>>26588412
thej don't
>>26591230
>have life handed to you on a silver platter
>taught discipline, morality and ethics at a young age
>have nothing to do but whine and complain
Do some introspection. Don't buy into the liberal memes of the day. Conservative upbringings are literally the best you can get.
It's not my parents fault. My dad is a Chad and he's always tried and tried to encourage me to get into things like sports and from a young age taught me about women and how to get them. My dad always took me on trips to go fishing.
The thing is, I'm autistic and it never clicked with me. I always whined and complained, I never wanted to do any of those things. No matter what my dad said, I couldn't talk to girls.
My parents tried their best for me. I was just born to fail.
The only thing stopping you, is caring about what others think. If you have something to say, just fucking say it. Also, stop falling in love with every girl. Stop looking at just their face, consider many factors one of them being if she's an absolute fucking dumbass.
>>26588156
They did. I've had anxiety since I was in kindergarten. So have my brothers. My mother was a feminist and thought marrying a beta-male, being the breadwinner, and teaching us there was no difference between the sexes was a good idea for her children. Neither me or any of my siblings are going to reproduce because my brothers are all weak beta-males and my sister is a nasty butch lesbian.
Feminism is a fucking cancer on society. All the other families my mother is friends with (my father has no friends) have the strong female/weak male combo and all their kids are either gay/lesbian, drug addicts, "political activists" (with no plans of having kids ever), or all of the above.
>>26591370
>. My mother was a feminist
A lot of people here are failures based on their own decisions, but you were fucked from the start.
If you were raised by a single mom then it's her fault.
>>26587632
I wouldn't say it's my parents fault, but keeping me inside the house until I was 16 because they were afraid I would get kidnapped may have done it.
I never leave now
>>26591453
amen to that my brother from another [whore] mother
>>26591264
but the world is no longer conservative, I'm not blaming the concept behind it, but we have reached a critical mass where conservative kids are ALIENATED by their peers, and getting cucked because they are autistic "nice guys"
also, autism is not a disorder, it is what happens when boys are sheltered form the real world
You're a failed normalfag, it is ALL your fault.
A robot is born a robot.
I think a big part of it for me was not hanging around with other kids when I was growing up. I grew up in a shitty area and hated doing all of the nasty stuff that they'd do so I played vidya and didn't start hanging around with other people until I was 13.
It hasn't turned me into a full on sperg though. At worst I just come off as a little strange and quiet, but people seem to warm up to me once they get to know me
>>26589082
>and things have Ben going great
Who the fuck is Ben?
>>26591753
Real autists are feminist SJW m8. Conservatism is patrician in this day and age. Liberals are a dime a dozen.
>>26591978
like I said, sheltered upper middle class Conservative kids comprise of a portion of r9k and pols younger demographics.
being conservative, as in right wing, and conservative, as in non degenerate, is a double face palm in modern societys opinion, including millennial girls
all the "conservative" daddys girls are fake bitchy whores, and even a lot of younger conservative religious guys are full of bullshit, it just all hypocrisy
all and all degenerate get away with things conservative kids never could, and they then get rewarded for it
>>26587632
It was my parents' fault for having me so late: Mom 42, dad 51, probably why I have Aspergers and am highly introverted INTP. And also how they gave me a severely sheltered childhood where I lived in a city apartment and never went anywhere except if I was with my parents, and occasionally going to childhood friends, houses for a playdate. When I hit my teens and realized other kids actually had groups of friends and gfs that they see outside of school without any parental supervision, I tried to become a normie but whenever I tried I failed to fit in, even when I managed to hang out with people outside of school it felt like I was the pity friend, weird guy who tagged along with people who are close friends, or the guy they have to accept because hes part of the youth activity group.
Mya have gotten off topic, but assuming I was born at the same time to the same parents, what they could have done differently is:
>invested in a house instead of being cheap Jews and staying in their rent controlled apartment until they die
>meet other parents and help arrange play dates for me, but at the same time encourage me to go out and play with friends by myself
>talk to me about girls, dating and sex early on, so I wouldn't have to feel guilt/shame from age 8-12 because I had sexual thoughts, but was afraid to reveal them or even talk to girls
>have me formally assessed to diagnose my autism during childhood, so I could get extra support to develop people skills and hide my power level
>taught me to stand up for myself and be assertive, not tell the teacher and cry to my mommy when kids are being mean to me
>taught me its okay to break rules sometimes, and not fear authority figures and be a good little quiet kid follow their every word
>networked better so I can use the sweet nepotism to get a professional job instead of being a retail wagecuck
>Why are we not normies?
You failed to reach milestones at pivotal moments; however the window to success is open longer to millennials, but even then you still fucked up.
Was it our parents fault?
> Yes. They were harsh about shit that wasn't important and extremely coddling over things that mattered, e.g getting yelled at for breaking a glass but not being told to stick it out with your education/hobby/career or move out to gain independence
>Did we do this to ourselves?
Partially, there was supposed to be a moment where we stopped being know it alls or whiny bitches through a series of humbling moments from 18-23. What we are are lonely 15 year olds despite being 20+.
>What information did we miss out on?
> resolving conflict
> saying no
> eliminating black or white thinking
> bill paying
> critical thinking
> tolerance
Why can't we have nice things like the chads?
> unwillingness to be honest or wrong
> quit early
> obsessed with appearances, but at the expense of NOT doing things from fear of looking stupid, unlike Chad who will do stupid things because they are cool
I think that's about right, family.
>>26588021
I was raised this way too and it never won me any points. Maybe if I stayed in Hong Kong I could have found a nice girl. I sent think the mentality I was raised with exists in the West.
>>26587632
It's literally your parents.
If your mother had a healthy body and was relaxed (not going through single baby mama drama or being a cunt) and ate healthy food during your pregnancy. You legitimately could have been born a better person even with shitty genetics between your parents.
Not to mention parents who don't pay for their kids to get dental work and see doctors for health problems in adolescence (dermatologists, get tested for allergies, etc)
Raise your hand if your mom cucked your entire life.
> talking about hypothetical situations with mummy
> literally get mad because I'm interested in moving out at 24
> I'm fucking 24
> tells me I'm abandoning her as soon as my luck changes around and that she can't believe I want to leave her alone
> tell her I won't be guilt tripped just because I want to do what everyone my age wants to do
> says that if I'm feeling guilty then maybe I'm doing something wrong by wanting to leave
> inadvertently become form codependency because she has always needed someone at her side, even though I just want to shitpost alone in peace
> JUST KUCK MY SHIT UP SENPAI
