Anyone else feels like they are eventually going to settle for some ex-slut who isn't really attracted to you but needs stability before hitting 30? And since you are so desperate for affection you are going to let yourself be tricked into a loveless sexless marriage you're going to hate?
>>26585609
Nope, I'm too far gone, my capacity for illusion simply vanished.
>>26585737
What a bunch of awful, awful human beings.
>>26585788
Women my friend, women.
Fuck no. I've set boundaries for myself that I will never cross. I have had the fortune of watching poor saps around me succumb to the pitfalls of settling for subpar companionship. I'll be single for the rest of my life if that's what it must come down to. It's a more preferable version of hell than lowering one's standards and being bonded to a detestable succubus.
I'm either going to be a hermit or an hero. I'd never settle down with a whore.
>>26585609
I've fallen for a slut who is attracted to me and I don't even know if she wants to settle. I'm not sure if I just want her for a fling.
>but needs stability
>implying NEET's achieve stability for themselves let alone enough to help support another person
Stability is a pipe dream for most people here.
I said this a couple of days ago. Once you guys hit 25+ desperation mode is going to set in. You're going to have the very real possibility of being alone your entire life, or you could lower your standards. These lower standards include ex-sluts, used goods and even single mothers. At 30+ your mouth will literally water over a decent looking single mother.
What you want out of life and what you're actually going to get are two very different things.
>>26585609
Maybe, but I will at least demand sex.
>>26585609
I fear it sure but right now I'm just going to keep trying to raise large masses and I'll see if a cutie falls into my lap before I can bench 300.
The trick is to stay productive and not be immobilized by uncertainty.
>needs stability before hitting 30
Lol. If life goes according to plan, I'll hopefully be finishing a PhD (in the humanities, pls no bully) by the time I'm 30 and trying to find an academic position that pays more than poverty wages. I won't be able to support myself, let alone another human being.
>>26585609
Don't do it. Relationships MUST involve intimacy (unless you are a qt old couple both in your 70s).
Woman want sex. If she is not sucking your dick she is sucking someone else's dick. If she doesn't see you as an alpha male, the only thing she could be attracted to, then she is using you.
>>26586951
No sensible man has any interest in being a woman's last resort... the guy that a woman settles for because the other, hotter guys wouldn't pay her bills.
And real robots already gave up on life a long time ago, so it wouldn't be an option for them, even if it was a desirable thing (it isn't).
I'm not that desperate, I'd rather kill myself.
>>26586951
31 here, I've never had this problem. I've simply always used pornography.
>>26585788
>>26585926
Of course you're right, but in the interest of intellectual honesty, the same can be said to r9k's dedicated userbase.
No i need genuine love to be honest with you
>>26585609
You do whatever you want to do, OP. I'm not going to do that, though.
>>26585609
>you are going to let yourself be tricked into a loveless sexless [relationship] you're going to hate?
No, i wasn't tricked into it. I chose it. I knew I was gonna be unhappy, but that doesn't matter because I would be unhappy anyway. I chose to at least bring suffering to my partner - by having her date me, a literal autist. It's so hilarious when she pretends she loves me and finds me attractive. I've actually told her if she cheats on me, I will >>literally<< kill her, and she doesn't care or maybe she thinks it was a joke. But anyway. I try to take advantage from the relationship too. Like having someone to talk to is nice. I'm not desperate for affection, just for social contacts.
All that except we'll date for about 4 years until I get pressured into marriage and then I "freak out" and she leaves me.
Then I move on to the next girl and do the same. All until she pressures marriage and then I start turning "crazy".
>>26585737
Now what I find hard to understand is how men can still get married to these whores. Honestly women are shit now, why would anyone want to commit to that?
>>26586951
>desperation
Dude I'm 22 and feel desperate as hell every day, knowing it only gets worse makes me want to an hero beforehand
Anyways, the only thing I know for sure is that I'm far too redpilled to fall into the loveless marriage trap, living for several years in a family where there's no love between wife and husband will teach you a thing or two about marriage.
>>26585737
The OP of that reddit thread thing is completely right. I'm too lazy to read the responses, I already know from personal experience that she is 100% right. However, if you have a good wife, she may get the urge to cheat, but she won't do it. The women who DO cheat normally project their own behavior onto their husband. I've seen it: "oh he's probably cheating on me too, so it's ok", when he's actually faithful
>>26586951
32 here. Dumb & desperate is for 40 year olds.
I'd be a wife beater if she wouldn't love me.
>>26586951
>roasties actually believe this
Do you realize were past the point of no return, we literally see women as nothing but a virus. We aren't reddit cucks now fuck off
You will get tricked, used and abused as long as you have no confidence and no self-esteem.
If you work on yourself and become a model man, you can easily get a qt virgin girlfriend who will be loyal to you. It takes work, but its worth it.
You owe it to yourself to fight for this goal. Why aren't you starting to build up your confidence right now?
>>26585609
>marriage
Fuck no, not ever.
This is r9k's destiny
>>26585609
Good fucking movie. Really put David Lynch on the radar of normies who can't get into his surrealism.
>>26587305
This.
Age works entirely differently for men and women.
Women stop being able to have kids altogether after a certain age. Men never do.
