>finally lose my virginity
>came in under a minute
>he didn't jerk off beforehand
Kek
>>26576758
>lose virgnity
>fucking an hour
>don't cum
>eventually have to give up
>fucking for second time
>going for 2 hours
>still don't cum
>eventually have to give up
>girl is sore for a week after
This is how you do it, OP.
>>26576758
> finally lose my virginity (to escort)
> lose erection 20 seconds into it because can't feel jack through condom
> she tries to jerk me off without it to make me cum
> can't even get hard again
> subsequent escort encounters have been the same shit
just kill me
>>26576795
Until she starts becoming self conscious about it. This was me too anon, give up touching your dick it's more fun when it doesn't last that long.
>>26576795
that's called deathgrip, and your dick is ruined
>>26576828
>Until she starts becoming self conscious about it.
This
I met one guy that lost his gf because he couldn't cum and she was hot and started thinking it was because of her
>>26576795
That fucking sucks dude, it sucks for you. I rather be OP than you. It could happen to me to though.
>>26576832
I know. I got around it eventually. Didn't fap for a couple of days and sorted my grip.
Also realised you've got to try to lose yourself in it. I was thinking too much. That's probably the most difficult part.
Thanks for the reality check, sempais, thought sex was going to be fun and magical, it's important to be reminded of the sad fact that it would probably just be another fuckups.
>>26576888
Trips, and it doesn't have to be a fuck up. If you start having sex and you pop off early, laugh at it. Learn to laugh at yourself mang, she'll probably laugh too but that doesn't mean she's not going to want to try it again
I'd rather be OP than these guys:
>>26576795
>>26576821
What's the fucking point if you can't cum? You feel like shit and tired and your partner feels like shit as well.
>>26576758
At least you came. When I lost my virginity. I couldn't stay fully hard and never came.
>>26576955
Feels pretty good while you're going, m8. Sometimes I felt like I didn't want to cum because I'd have to stop.
>>26577002
> Feels pretty good while you're going
Not really.
>>26576758
That is how first your first fuck is *supposed* to go. Were you seriously under the impression that you'd climb into the pilots seat for the first time and fly that bitch like the red fucking baron? It is a far better situation than half of these death-grip fuckers who can't cum at all
>>26576795
Stop jacking it
>>26576821
Stop jacking it
>>26576977
Stop jacking it
>>26577013
By "going" I mean thrusting away, changing positions. Playing with the dials and so on.
>>26577034
> Stop jacking it
Then what the fuck am I supposed to do on my free time? I only do it once a day and I need the endorphin rush so I don't kill myself because nothing else makes me happy.
>>26577056
> thrusting away, changing positions. Playing with the dials
it doesn't
>>26577034
Nah. You're supposed to take your time and figure it out. Not rush it and blow in a second like you're desperate to get it over with. Patience, man.
>>26577090
Is the finish the only bit you enjoy?
>>26577126
yes? the rest of the shit isn't stimulating enough and just tires me out
>>26577100
You are a fool if you think you're going to figure anything out your first time other than "Holy shit what is all this". Keep lying to yourself anon.
>>26577076
Well you can either jack it, and hang on to that thing literally for dear life. Or you can have sex with other people
but you can't do both.
>>26577034
I actually don't think it's that bad to jack it, at least not that often. For me, masturbating every now and then keeps my sex drive up.
There was this woman I met on okcupid, and we tried to have sex twice...But I couldn't keep an erection...I remember being into it at first, and my dick was really hard for like a minute, but I don't know what happened. I just lost it, along with the desire to even have sex. I remember subsequently eating her out and wanting to be somewhere else...
I hadn't masturbated in a long time prior to this. I think if you don't masturbate for like a week, it could help. But don't abstain for a month.
But then again I wasn't sleeping well at all around then and was a little depressed too, and nervous...That may have something to do with it...
Is it better to tell a girl you're a virgin or pretend like you know what you're doing?
>>26577150
Damn, anon. That's not good. I like to get fapping over and done with but actual sex feels different. There's more to it, more to do.
Unless... try without condoms. Condoms ruin the feeling.
>>26576758
Now get out normie shit
REEEEEEEEEEE
>>26576758
the first time i jerked off i came in like two strokes
>>26577209
> Unless... try without condoms. Condoms ruin the feeling.
still haven't found a hooker that will fuck me without a condom
I bet if I were a 7/10 Chad they would, but no matter how much money I offer they won't put out.
>>26577167
I took my time. Tried to figure it out. Explored and all that. I wasn't in a hurry to finish it.
She said she didn't believe I was a virgin. Whether that's true or not, I don't know. But I still didn't intend to waste that time and took care.
>>26577190
If its an escort you can tell her. If its a regular girl, absolutely not. It's bad at any (sexually active) age but if you're 20+ you might as well tell the girl that you're actually gay. Same effect.
>>26577255
Probably the condoms and the fact that it's a hooker, then. Might have a mental component to it.
Don't go barebacking any hookers, though. No matter what, don't do it.
