Who here /oldvirgin/?
I just turned 26 and I'll never so much as kiss a girl. It's really breaking my heart, to know the most basic of human experiences is beyond my reach.
>>26566319
have you considered buying a whore/prostitute/escort/ ?
>>26566319
you lack assertiveness
You'll probably get a good kiss from someone I think, but if you wait much longer your chances to fuck will be over. Before they even began.
>>26566319
Stay true, my brother. If you let it go, you will regret it.
>>26566333
Yeah, but I live with my parents, and in America, land of the free, it's legal to fuck someone on a camera and put it on the internet, but not pay them to have sex with you privately.
>>26566336
Yeah, I've never asked a girl out or pursued anyone. There's no one to go after anymore anyway. I'm unattractive, poor, and a manchild.
>>26566373
Why would I get a kiss from someone but not be able to have sex?
>>26566386
Why would I? I have no ridiculous notions of my first time being special or breathtaking; I just want to feel like a normal adult for once in my life.
>>26566438
You don't want to throw that away on some whore. She wouldn't deserve it.
You will remember it. It is supposed to be special. Don't buy into roastie propaganda. Their first time was shit because they threw it away while drunk at some teenager party.
You are better than that.
>>26566319
I'll be 27kv in a few months.
I'd say it gets easier, built I'd lying.
I have been rejected by literally everyone I've asked out, including the fugly ones, and I've just accepted that I'm an anathema. It has actually made general conversation easier with women because I don't have to worry about whether or not I should give it a shot. Now, I play a game where I try to see how long it takes for them to mention their boyfriend because they /always/ do.
>>26566498
Anon, the only way it could be special like that would be ifI deflowered a feminine, chaste girlyboy who has been untouched due to shyness and various phobias
>>26566438
I don't know. Maybe you're in a hospital setting or a nursing home. Everyone gets to kiss somebody in their life time, and most people have sex at some point. Don't worry about it, yet.
>>26566583
It's certainly more likely than getting a similar girl.
I'm only 24 but right behind you, OP
I'm already creating new spells for my grimoire.
>>26566333
>kissing an escort
nigga..
>>26566662
>Everyone gets to kiss somebody in their life time
There is a level of despair you are clearly unaware of. You probably lost it when you were 16.
>>26566662
>Don't worry about it
That's precisely what got him and many others, including myself, into the situation we're in today. He should worry more, but not be desperate.
>>26566822
Why bother worrying when it is abundantly clear no one is interested?
threads like these always boost my confidence so much. they remind me that I am not a loser, and I still have a ton of time left till I lose my youth.
What have you done to improve yourself OP?
Like what have you actively went out of home and done?
>>26566852
To get him off his ass and make someone interested. You can't just sit around all day, feeling sorry for yourself and then expect girls to just randomly appear and be interested in you. You have to bring something to the table if you want people to be interested.
Trust me, I get the feeling and I know it ain't easy to turn the ship around. But at least in trying I've started to feel better about myself and even if that is all I'll ever achieve it's worth it.
>>26566921
I've tried for years, man. I, too, am 26kv. There was a time when I cared, when I tried, when I'd shower and go out on a Friday night somewhere, and believed I might actually find someone. A person can only be laughed or scoffed at or told they'd never have a chance so many times before it becomes obvious that no one wants you.
Some people are just meant to be alone forever.
>>26566921
OP here.
It's not that girls find me repulsive or anything. I have a number of female friends from when I worked, and I don't have that much trouble talking to them, though I'm a bit shy at first.
It's that being a virgin at my age means a girl WILL be repulsed by me eventually, or assume I'm irreversibly damaged. There's not much I can do to erase that shame or reality.
Honestly, I'd be afraid of losing it to a hooker of any kind because of the possibility of STDs. It's also not really safe to kiss one.
I turned 21 this year and I didn't get to interact with girls until I got to uni as I went to all boys school. I don't have any issues with talking to girls too
OP where do you meet girls and also do you just straight out tell them you are a virgin?
>>26567472
>where do you meet girls?
I don't. I've finished university and I'm unemployed. Even when I was employed, I didn't meet any potential partners.
>straight out tell them you are a virgin?
Of course not. Most girls seem to assume I've had sex before.
> 17 years old (21 now)
> openly talk about mai waifu with my circle of friends
> some of these friends include girls
> one of the girls gets jelly of mai waifu and starts crushing on me
> I lost my virginity to her and we dated for 2.5 years
She destroyed me as a person in the end but do you think she was cray to pursue me when I was head over heels with a fictional character?
When I was 17 I saw a cute girl at a bus stop.
I waited till she was getting on, and then I ran up to her, kissed her on the mouth for a couple secs and ran across the parking lot to my car and left.
I forgot to hold her hand, but whatever.
It was worth it.
She didn't even say anything she was like what the fuck and I was half way gone before the bus closed the doors.
25 KV
Gotten into shape, moved out to my own place, even have my own income. Still no luck. Maybe if I started bar crawling I could get some slag but that would just make me even more unhappy.
>>26567336
I don't know why you think they would be repulsed; even if you tell them, which you're not obligated to, I think they would be more curious/confused rather than straight up repulsed by you.
>>26566662
>Everyone gets to kiss somebody in their life time
source of this claim?
did your grandma tell you that when you were six?
>>26567336
That's why you tell then after you fucked them.
Just do what the porn man does and you're good idiot, it's not hard to rub a clit and suck tits you fag.
Past 20 you just have to pump and dump anything or else it gets to you.
It won't even mean anything to you at this point. So no need to get all emotional about being a virgin. You don't even have to tell them.
How do I meet azn womyn?
Not americanised bastard asian girls.
Good ol submissive, meek, loyal azn qts
Do I need a lot of money first?
>>26567542
>I think they would be more curious/confused rather than straight up repulsed by you.
Not that poster m8 but come on 21-23 is the upper limit for "maybe he's a normal guy with extenuating circumstances"
25+ the default assumption for a "normal" person is that you're either a raging Christfag or you're hiding some serious issues
>>26567553
You just gotta bee urself cuz there's someone for everyone but you're not entitled to it
>>26567661
I would agree that 25 is the max age for being a virgin and after that people will start making assumptions
>>26567752
>>26567553
G-grandma....would you be my first?
31. Kissed 2 girls briefly at 24 and 28.
The loneliness is what's been getting to me lately. Of course I want to have sex, but cuddling with someone is what I really want to do.
Wake up alone, go to sleep alone.
>>26566875
you still here thou
>>26566319
30 here, and I'll never know how it feels to hold a girl's hand
>>26567861
Have you ever woken up for some reason and and wished that someone was next to you in bed?
so, I'll probably be dying alone.
writing code is nice, though.
>>26567861
Have you considered buying a sexdoll mostly for cuddling and spooning?
I'd buy one if I wasn't poorfag
>>26567861
Here is where I am conflicted, and I'll try to put the feeling into words that make sense.
The thought that someone would be attracted to me enough to want to cuddle, and spend that time together is repulsive. How someone could ever want to willing spend their time with me like that is unfathomable. It is as if I can't trust anyone who chooses me to make good life choices because I will only bring them heartache.
Yet at the same time, I can almost imagine just lying there forever with someone I'll never meet. I can almost feel their warmth and their chest rising and falling as they sleep. I'm not sure if I want it, or if I only think that I want it. What I am sure of is that I will never have it.
>>26566725
I french kiss hookers all the time with extra tongue play
>wanting anything to do with women
>>26568275
How old are you?
The pain will eventually creep up on you senpai.
>>26567972
I feel it more when I'm trying to go to sleep. Having someone next to me would make the long days more worthwhile.
>>26568124
Not really. I think I'd have a hard time cuddling with an inanimate object.
>>26568163
Yeah, I get the same way. I know I'm not a great catch, but I'd at least like to see what it feels like to have someone next to me. Who knows? Maybe we'll defy all our expectations and we won't be lonely anymore one day.
>>26566319
I'll be joining you in a month.
>>26568286
26. Haven't spoken to a female in close to 2 years and I've never been happier.
>19
>Only sex I've ever had was almost 9 years ago
>Was non-consensual
I'd rather be a virgin honestly.
>>26567530
Yea.. took few years off from emulating social interaction protocol to obtain female (yes, am longtime robot [cyborg?] who doesn't feel either, but every now and then I feel compelled to try). so, whatthehell, got into it with a female recently, 100% regretting it and am breaking it off just as quickly as it began. Wish I hadn't even tried in the first place.
anyway -- seriously, don't feel bad if kv or things aren't working now. it seriously isn't nearly as amazing as you think.
24 kv reporting here. Everyone finds me hideous so no chance at ever losing it. I gave up on life.
About to turn 29 without ever having a girlfriend or some one to hook up with. Meanwhile my best friends three way relationship is falling apart so and all I can say is that I'm jelly of him.
>>26568519
Are you sure that really why though? 99.9% of people are not so hideous that no one would fine them attractive.
>>26568633
Yes, I'm sure. I know it's easy to believe that when the ugly threads are filled with average looking attention whores, but some of us got fucked over hard.
>>26566319
Have you considered killing yourself? I'm almost 28, never had anything with a girl and don't know how it feels to be loved, and unlike you my wordl isn't crumbling because of that. You're just emotionally weak and shoufl just end yourself
>>26568706
Sure I've considered killing myself.
That's for different reasons, though, that are only compounded by the lack of physical or emotional intimacy with other human beings.
>>26568301
>Yeah, I get the same way. I know I'm not a great catch, but I'd at least like to see what it feels like to have someone next to me. Who knows? Maybe we'll defy all our expectations and we won't be lonely anymore one day.
I wish I could feel the same way or have that sliver of hope about myself, but I am too far gone. I wish I had more to say that wasn't borderline edgelord poetry, so instead I'll spare your eyes.
Same age as you. I'm afraid to have sex even if I had the opporunity.
