How do I kickstart this conversation? I'm sick of doing all the legwork when talking to girls on tinder. I mean she sent the first message for christs sake.
Just text her "Wanna fuck?"
No matter what she says you saved yourself time.
>>26553979
you are expected to sound interesting, she doesn't give a shit about you, her tinder is full. she has options, you on the other hand, not so much
So you are the one that has to attract her interest.good luck
>>26553979
>still in high school
Hi Adam Johnson
>>26553979
>Wanna grab a coffee?
>>26553979
Send dick
>>26553979
>I've never seen....amazing
your sentence is too long
next time say "cute eyes" or "your eyes are amazing" and thats it
>>26554077
do this OP, you'll save yourself a lot of time, and if you're good looking enough she might even say yes!
>>26554229
Ok, but what does he say now? I'm not him but I'm interested too.
>>26554253
Then you ask if they want to meet up for coffee or something. If they say no then no amount of talking over Tinder would have gotten them to say yes.
>>26554290
>If they say no then no amount of talking over Tinder would have gotten them to say yes.
Yea, I guess that's true. And then what? What do normal people talk about at a coffee? Movies? Exes? I'm a fucking KHHV.
>>26554316
>What do normal people talk about at a coffee? Movies? Exes? I'm a fucking KHHV.
It's actually a huge problem
I'm a 25 year old INTJ, been tindering for years but I always run out of shit to talk about on dates, women are just inherently boring
>>26554316
>>26554354
one good trick is to pick a location where you can have a stream of new stuff to look at and generate conversation. the zoo / aquarium, farmer's market, carnival, museum, that kind of thing. Not just a coffee place where all you have to look at is each other, unless! You are so perfectly compatible and into each other that you're able to just talk away anywhere. But that's very rare.
>>26554354
That's why you just invite Tinder women to sex or say you want to take her out/ hang out and tell her you want to fuck afterwards.
Tinder women are less than dirt, Dumb as shit and vapid cunts. Then again, The same is true for the men. Everything is so plastic and conveniant.
At least most of the women on like PoF have a bit of interests and interest in things other than getting Dick in their stomach .
>>26554504
I havent had a tinder match in 6 days of nothing but right swiping.
i got 18 matches in 2 days then nothing...
In a major city too, so no way i ran outta bitches...
>>26554534
didnt mean to quote
>>26554504
BLOX
reply 'oh ok'
wait for her attempt to initiate a conversation
if she doesn't for like a couple of hours, reply with something like 'sry been busy, u up for anything?'
but i think she will reply
Chad here. This every time: >>26554077
>>26554534
I get about 100 matches a month, not sure how good that is but I guess I'm good looking
Not like it matters since I'm too socially retarded to talk to any of them
>>26554581
Kek, she will just stop replying to a boring response like that and go talk to a more interesting Chad
>>26553979
>senior
what's that?
>>26554499
These are good tips, thanks, anon.
Actually I went to a concert type of thing once with my former middle school friends (it was a reunion of some sort), and there was this chick who seemed very interested in my, she told me a lot about his family and parents and all that, and then she said all of a sudden "talk about yourself". I literally couldn't spout a word for 5 seconds, and even after that all I could say I'm not much of an interesting person. And it turned her off instantly. She didn't even gave me her number after the concert. I'm the most boring person ever. What could've I said? I like to watch porn?
>>26554618
old person above 60 years old
>>26554354
see i'm the opposite. fine on dates, but in 4 fucking years i've only been able to initiate 2
>>26554653
>being extroverted
Fuck off normie
Ok, here's a tip.
Never say something like 'Oh you are the most...' or '[this feature] of you is so...' because, even if it appears as romantic to you, it's corny and everybody will think you're telling her what you think she wants to hear, including herself. It's an immediate turn down.
Be honest, when you try to compliment her, only do so after she points out some characteristic of yours. Say things like 'You look fine too' or 'idk I think you're looking good'. If you do want to exaggerate your compliment, make sure you sound euphoric and honest. Something along the lines of 'i know this sounds fucking stupid, but honestly, you look ridiculously good! :O'. Oh yeah, never be too specific.
As some other anon pointed out, don't phrase your replies too long. Bring it to the point. Good luck.
>>26553979
"you ever take it up the ass?"
>>26554607
No, she probably won't because she was the one who started the conversation. It shows that she had some interest in OP in the first place. Furthermore, she doesn't know whether OP has alternatives or not.
>>26554077
>>26554252
Save a lot of time doing what exactly? Getting to know someone? You can't rush that you autist.
>>26554732
You are putting too much faith in female logic. She started the conversation because she was bored at one particular moment in time and it was easy for her (literally all she said is hey)
Women have the attention span of a goldfish and need to be spoonfed conversation
>>26554733
>getting to know someone on tinder
She's a woman, she is boring and her only purpose is to fuck, that's all you need to know
>>26554784
and that's the problem. you never get laid because you bore women to death by trying to appear as interesting as possible to them
>>26553979
>girl in high school
>wanting to fucking her from tinder
Not a smart idea senpai
Why the fuck do women never text first?
>>26554851
Get a load of this guy
>you never get laid
I've fucked 28 girls total, I wouldn't be posting in this thread if I didn't know what I was talking about
Stop being a white knight and accept that women are mentally inferior
>>26554805
Maybe the fault is not the women, but the fucking retarded men who give in to this shit instead of telling her to fuck off?
After all, why would a woman try this sort of crap if she didn't think it would work?
It does work because men are fucking idiots and have lowered their own market value over the years.
Sorry I had to go somewhere.
>>26554901
I can't disagree with you there, women are shit because men enable their behaviours
>>26554884
Because they will literally match with whoever they right swipe.
>>26554901
this
if i were a woman, i'd do the same
but because i am a man, and my fellow men are this retarded, i cannot do this, good job faggots i'm talking about you gym-going try hards
>>26554733
Saving a lot of time getting rejected or getting to the sex, If he gets rejected, what was the point of spending all of that time getting to know her? If he gets sex, he can get to know her after they fuck.
>>26554930
yes anon
this is your chance
>>26554930
that's a good start OP
>>26554930
You're doing fine OP. Keep going with this.
>>26554930
>literally and unironically using a variation of 'netflix and chill?'
top kek
>>26554930
wow, balls of steel tbqh faem
>>26554951
Who said he wanted to have sex with her? You're doing an awful lot of >implying you creepy rapist.
literally walking autists through talking to girls online
holy shit
the awkward train wreck dates that follow really should be recorded and made into montages
>>26554733
>>26555007
Leave this thread you retarded roastie/beta cuck
>>26554930
Be sure to take nudes and share them pls, friend.
>>26555007
Why would you talk to a girl on Tinder if you didn't want to have sex with her?
>>26555014
I am an autist, but I also get 15 matches a day and at least some of those girls just want to fuck, I'm sure of it. We won't be doing much talking anyway.
GUYS seriously you are being really mean to me and her.
I'm on tinder to find friends, not degenerate hookups.
>>26555035
To date for 3-4 months and build up a mutual trust and respect that will hopefully one day lead to love.
>>26553979
You don't "talk" to girls on tinder. Rookie mistake. You set up a time to meet up and the implication is that you're going to have sex.
>>26554733
Nobody is on tinder trying to "get to know someone" you fucking fag. Tinder is a sex program for degenerates to schedule meet ups.
If you get a match you immediately try to fuck that person. That's what they expect.
>>26555051
Fuck off to reddit we know you aren't op
>>26555060
>Tinder is a sex program for degenerates to schedule meet ups.
No it's not, it's a dating app. My friend met his long-term (2.5 years) partner on tinder
>>26555058
Fuck dude you are SO naive
>>26555058
Okay, but why would you do that with someone that you don't want to have sex with?
>>26555076
This. Most people on tinder have a "Not interested in casual sex" warning on their profile to ward of the types of creeps that are posting ITT.
Just because you haven't grown out of your 14 year old borderline rapist hormonal phase, doesn't mean everyone else hasn't.
>>26555104
Who cares about sex? Sure you might do it, you might not. You might not be interested in it but do it because your partner wants to. Who gives a flying fuck?
It's the same question as "What if you don't want to go to disney land with them?" Who cares? It's up to you and your partner. You might go, you might not. You'd be more likely to go if you both loved each other though. Right? So the possibility increases.
>>26555114
>Most people on tinder have a "Not interested in casual sex" warning on their profile to ward of the types of creeps that are posting ITT.
You actually believe them? They're trying to ward off unattractives and betas. It's been shown multiple times that Chad can get these girls to send them nudes for saying the exact same thing an average or ugly guys says to them.
>>26555076
>>26555114
AHAHAH
>they fell for the 'tinder isnt for casual sex' meme
>they don't realise those provisos are to discourage 'creepy' robots from bothering
>as soon as chad hits them up theyre dropping panties
I use tinder to meet potential relationship candidates. Lel making it sound like a job I'm advertising...
But seriously, if a girl is only interested in a casual thing I immediately disregard.
It's just a convenient way to meet single girls.
>>26555162
/r9k/ is a mental illness t.b.h.
pls visit a therapist anon, it's not too late
>>26555171
>>26555162
I'm male and I have a similar warning on my profile.
>>26555220
yeah and how is that relevant to tinder being a hookup app for roasties to fuck chads?
TFW your matches will talk to u until u ask to hang out somewhere.
>>26554930
good on you OP. I've seen so many fucktards on here blow it with the most autistic shit but you did good m8
>>26554930
You did good until the obvious "nexflix and chill" paraphrase
It's practically a part of degenerate mainstream culture.
>>26555389
The objective is to get laid. What would you have said instead?
Had tinder for about a month and only got 5 matches. I didn't talk to any of them first because I'm always too nervous to.
One girl messaged me first but she was really boring. She kept giving one word responses after a while, and I got sick of trying to get her to talk.
I'm thinking of just deleting the app. It's not like I could do anything even if I did connect with a women. I don't have transportation, a place of my own, or the kind of money to go on many dates.
>>26555076
>>26555114
It's a hook-up app, you imbeciles. If you want a relationship, go to Okcupid. Tinder is designed to go straight to the point. Stop shaming sexuality , you prude
Op here, she still hasn't replied. I think I scared her off.
>>26555960
Fuck that OP, you tried.
>>26555960
Let her choose the movie or something. Tell her you don't have to go anywhere that she doesn't want to.
>>26555960
if she doesn't respond, just never respond to her ever again
its that simple
>>26554712
Don't listen to this guy.
Best way to compliment a woman is not on her looks but something she is passionate or insecure about.
If i didnt have a gf i would just act like a chad on tinder.
Whats there to lose you dont even know these sluts.
>>26555572
>>26555572
>>26555572
"ay bby wnt sum fuk"
>>26554930
OP is becoming alpha
>>26554930
You did ok OP but try shorter replies, you gotta make it seem. Like you are doing her a favor by replying to her, also never start with a compliment, id even be a bit rude to them.
>>26555114
>This. Most people on tinder have a "Not interested in casual sex" warning on their profile to ward of the types of creeps that are posting ITT.
Can't tell if I'm being rused or this person is just extremely fucking naive. This is r9k so I'll believe the former.
>>26556306
Holy fuck man just because you are ugly and would be considered a creep for doing this it doesnt mean that there arent men who can pull it off.
A Chad will get laid much more often than your romantic ass just by messaging sluts hey wanna fuck 2nite?
>>26556249
Don't be rude but definitely act like you're doing them a favor
>>26556341
Being a bit rude definetly works m8,
>>26556335
Oh I fully agree with you. I misread you or quoted the wrong person. My bad friend.
>>26554629
this is why im a pathetic virgin on here im not ugly and gross anime acne retard im just a boring fag with no personality n i got nothing to say to girls. fuck this imma shoot myself brb nah actually im gonna jerk my fat cock to some lesbian porn with chubby chicks in it. thanks for reading my blog post you dumb niggers
>>26554629
I'm in the same boots as you. I bet you googled it atleast twice this already. "Get passionate in some hobby and you can talk about it forever". Btw you cant be the most boring person ever, because i am zozz.
>>26554354
It's all about finding a common ground and sticking to it. If all els fail, just ask leading questions and adapt who you are after her answers and you will get bonus points for being a great listener
