Guys, why do people socialise? I'm autist as fuck so this shit helps me immensely with responding to people:
>Ego stroke - (Me, me, what I've done, what I'm doing, respect me)
>Waste time - (social commentary, stupid, funny, shocking)
>Have fun - (mindless, games, tease, sport)
>Be understood - (listen, worldview, empathise, family, emotions)
>Plan actions - (plans, schemes, ideate, goals, discussion)
>Be inspired - (laugh or cry, better days coming or the best is now, story, anecdotes)
I think I've covered it all? What other aspect do people socialise for, and how to respond to it.
>>26305373
>Reasons people socialize?
1.Exchange goods and services
That's it.
Some special categories of services include:
-"Friendship"*
- Sex&Long term relations
- Information exchange
because you see other people as these superior beings that you think are judging you and their judgments matter, instead of treating people like cockaroaches and saying whatever you want to them because you don't have to make a distinction on whether or not you have something of enough value to say.
They'll be talking endlessly about themselves and other boring shit such as political correctness and "hiking."
people are afraid to be alone and life is boring
>>26305373
>Guys, why do people socialise?
Because we're not cats, we're humans.
Humans who socialized were more likely to pass on their genes. It's instinctive.
It can all be condensed into ego stroke.
From what I have observed, normies use people as filler for their meaningless lives.
They use people around them as entertainment,
to dote on them, placate them in their 'muh feelings' times.
They want to be inspired so they can see hope in the world, that everyone knows, deep down is not just.
I kind of skipped around, not necessarily in your order. But, I think they are all for the normies ego.
>>26305373
There's also an innate desire for human interaction, so socialization sates that.
>>26305462
very very interesting...
I suppose "an exchange of goods and services" is a good backdrop to the purpose of socialising at all.
>>26305510
thats not good socialising
>>26305610
I'm thinking of turning Ego stroke into
>Affirm (assert themselves, want affirmation for themselves)
Where's sex included?
>>26305770
ego stroke
have fun
be understood
because they want to fit in and live inside the fantasy that they matter + they're relevant + cool. they want to be liked because being left out effects they're fickle egos and determines their view of themselves, being liked determines whether or not they perceive themselves as a loner/creep or a cool person, and so they so desperately fill their lives with meaningless and empty relationships/conversations so that they can maintain the fantasy and live in paradise.
they're asses look like candy that would melt in your mouth.
>>26305809
dont worry anon, after high school, you can find a lot more people who are into the other 5 things on the list, not just ego stroke. You personally can socialise extremely well, by exemplifying the other 5 traits listed.
be strong brother. it'll be better soon. reread the notes.
>>26305373
Hey kid, I think you've dropped something...
>>26305928
who wears fedoras faggot
>>26305928
no no, it's yours.
>>26305928
That doesn't mean what op said is untrue. It just means you can fling ad hominems at him in the form of le ebin memes, you fucking faggot. The fedora meme is old. Grow up.
i have ADHD, so i can't stand still for a long period of time and talk, i have to be doing an activity or my mind has to be busy on work or something.
i honestly don't know how people can do it. idle hands are the devil's playground and all that.
whenever i would be at parties, i would relentlessly walk around the party because i can't sit still and talk, i have to be doing something, woe is me i guess.
>>26305589
Which means, we are desired to be alone
>>26305975
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>>26306523
Found the redditor normalscums, eh, that was easy.
>>26306523
>Devaluing a response based on age of idea as apposed to relevancy of idea
