Invited to huge party in campus, I know one dude and there is going to be around 15-20 people I don't know for pre drinks should I go? I think I can survive if I get really drunk
You should dose up on a lot of hallucinogens
Then find a qt to wander off into the woods and stare up at the stars with while talking about life and the universe and stuff
>>26255255
>huge party
>15-20 people
Just go and get piss drunk.
>>26255300
>that I don't know
>for pre drinks
I usually go to any party where it's not necessary to dance.
>>26255300
>>26255406
The group for pre drinks is 15-20, party is going to be hundreds, and it involves dancing which I am shit at
>>26255496
Yeah, I'm shit at dancing too which is why I probably wouldn't go. I don't know any moves and can't 'let go' so I must look really awkward doing that shit.
I wrote a TL;DR paragraph here but was boring as fuck.
Short version: Girl asks me to dance. I am hesitant, she drinks a few with me and then just grabs my hand. I can see her mood change immediately after, a few minutes later she disappears. Was such a shame, I enjoyed talking to her.
>>26255255
Do it. Try and socialize. Pre drinks with a smaller group is the best way to socialize.
>>26255255
I went to one almost exactly like that, except I had no idea it was going to get larger. I fucking hated every minute of it.
>>26255255
Get in there fast and dirty with the introductions
choose a core group to leech off of, make your face known there, then branch out to other groups, making introductions the whole way.
Your face+name needs to be known to the core group before the party kicks off in earnest or you will drown in the sea of normie
if you can bring a girl with you, do that ("hey party at $address come thru")
>>26255255
you need to go even if you don't want to
i can already tell (without knowing you) that it's going to be a very, very important night for you, wether it's good or bad
don't miss a chance to grow as a person, and know that not taking rist is worse than failing risk.
don't fuck yourself up, be a man for once, it'll only get worse otherwise
>>26256274 (me)
>>26256288
i'm weirded out how our posts have the same structure/length
>>26256190
its pretty easy to dance. Just do the "step right-left" move this guy does at 1:00. literally fool-proof.
>>26256330
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6mqcVirhwM gorgot link
>>26256288
You sound like a cult leader lmao
>>26256322
robots programmed the same way
OP i trust you to do the right thing 4 urself bro
>>26256372
is that good?
thanks. i just can't stress how much it would suck if OP lets his autism hinder him again (im assuming it already has before) as it has done with me
OP forget the gay party unless you think you'll genuinely enjoy it or you can foresee making connections that will make life more enjoyable in the future
>>26255255
Don't get really drunk you'll just make an asshole out of yourself and feel like shit tomorrow, just drink moderately throughout the entire night and after an hour or so you will feel comfortable but not belligerent.
What I usually do it go to the assigned non-dancing area of the party with quieter music and just chill there and talk to people. Don't hover around your friend too much or you will bug him probably, but its fine to stick with him for a while at the beginning just to meet some people.
>>26256377
Except my post was all practical nitty gritty advice for OP to use while battling in the trenches
the second guy just lectured about being a man
>>26255255
only go if you dont mind being wojack in the corner the whole time
>>26256533
didn't mean to imply anything about your advice being good
>>26256542
realize that if this happens and you're uncomfortable you can just fucking leave
>>26256570
>just leave
hey everyone where did anon go? he didnt even say bye to everyone, what a weirdo!
OP here, thanks for all the support guys, as expected from fellow bots who might have gone through similar situations, as you say this is an opportunity to grow as a person and make some connections and I might go and try, because if I don't I will regret it until I fall asleep again.
If you can offer some more advice on what to do when I get there? I usually go like:
>Hi I am anon
But I forget nice to meet you since I don't do this often, and what else should I say after that?
Also when it comes to girls, do I also shake their hands or do I hug them? What if they sit down and hugging is really awkward if this is the option?
Also I have a nice shirt I got on last blackfriday, should I keep it outside my pants or inside?
See pic related for great party advice.
More great tips from a true master
>>26256787
I usually go for the "Hi" "Who the heck are you?" opening. Sounds autistic but breaks the ice pretty well.
Don't hug them if you don't know them, don't think that you MUST shake their hand.
Depends on the shirt and your pants.
So go to the pre game with the dude you know and talk to people while you're there
Now you have a crew to go to the party with, plus around 1 when everyone is piss wasted but hasn't passed out nobody is going to care what anyone is saying cause everyone is having a good time
>>26255255
Seriously though, it's a good starting point have a few beers before to relax, meet up keep drinking talk with people start making connections and it will grow with time. Just relax don't except anything crazy and in reality no one's paying that much attention to everything you do. And most important of all, just be yourself buddy
>>26255255
Alcohol is the social retards best friend. Just make sure you don't throw up or black out and you'll be fine. I went from robot to normie over about a year by learning to socialise when drunk.
>>26256355
Holy fuck
>A real funky move!
Fuck, this is social suicide for a robot
