How do we make up for avoiding social situations during our teenage years?
Is it ever possible to become socially savvy and a good talker after years of being reclusive?
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>>25897840
>Is it ever possible to become socially savvy and a good talker after years of being reclusive?
Sure, but it takes some serious Revolver Ocelot level brainwashing to destroy the self awareness you built up and go through a paradigm shift that intense.
>>25897840
I think so
My case is pretty weird, sometimes I was able to talk with people and sometimes not
Yeah. It takes determination to break old thought patterns though.
>>25897840
It is not possible unless you are rich and can afford to party all the time and lure normies to your parties.
In high school people were socializing 10+ hours a day, an adult on the other hand can barely afford 4 hours or so at a bar or elsewhere on friday and saturday night.
3 years of high school = 10000 hours
10000/4/ 52 weeks in a year = 48 years
>>25897896
>but it takes some serious Revolver Ocelot level brainwashing to destroy the self awareness you built up and go through a paradigm shift that intense.
lmao no
get a job that deals with people all day, like customer service
you will adapt to talking to people on the fly
>>25897951
Fuck, I wasted the best years of my life
>>25897951
This >>25897953
Get a people job, you'll get used to talking in a few weeks
>>25897953
lol no friend. I work in retail and deal with customers every day. When working in retail, you are choosing from a set of pre programmed dialogs. And even when it does get "deeper", the conversation is empty as fuck and they leave a few minutes later.
It won't make you savy, just a real robot for 9 hours of that day.
If you really want to become charismatic and outdoing, like a real fun person with a lot of energy and very happy vibe, look into drugs that destroy the ego. Then rebuild yourself. You can't unchange the damage of your youth.
>tfw alcohol eliminates any kind of awkwardness
Being drunk makes me a better person
>>25898500
Pity we can't be drunk 24/7
Society and interactions with it are fucked up, but if you try n' strive, you'll adapt to being comfortable with talking and communicating. Still haven't achieved it yet but I'm sure it's possible.
