I can understand pic related type women having high standards and only wanting to date celebs, sportsmen, rich entreprenuers, royalty, heirs to fortunes
But why the fuck would a woman her in looks have the same standards. Can one of the out of shape fat women who post on here help me understand the thinking here?
A tall handsome wealthy popular guy brings his money, status , looks and connections to the table and what he gets is an out of shape chubby or even fat women who might have a kid and works at a call centre?
Whats the thinking here? Can't be serious.
>>25640681
I knew this one rather bland looking chick who was rude as fuck but always dated better looking guys. I once got to talk to one of her exes and apparently she gave the best head ever. Men are simple like that, it seems.
>>25640681
I'm a 200+ pound 5'7 woman in her 20's who doesn't into standards because I have no chance. The most romantic thing a guy ever told me was "not even snot would fuck you" in front of my whole class and I've never been hit or or hit on someone so your "all ugly/fat women" approach is wrong. I just don't like generalizations, mon.
>>25640829
incoming 50 replies of "I'll fuck you"
and that's the problem
>>25640829
You have no standards because you don't put yourself out. Create an Okcupid profile or similar like that. I guarantee you, there'll be at least 10 guys (maybe out of 1000, but who cares?) who'd fuck you and at least a few who'd date you.
>>25640681
>Why don't uglier women settle?
Same reason robots don't settle.
>>25640893
Thing is they wouldn't - they just say it because they know a guy like you would get butthurt over it.
I don't really understand people with high standards like the ones you listed because it seems unlikely and unreasonable, but I do understand the idea of not settling.
For context, I'm a 5/10 at best. Being female, I don't experience the kind of thirst that males do. Because I'm not in it for the sex, it's not worth my time and energy to be in a relationship that isn't fantastic. So I don't settle.
>>25640829
Have you ever rejected a guy, yes or no?
If you say yes you clearly have standards if no you are lying.
>>25640829
unless your vagina is permanently sealed shut via a magic curse, someone WILL fuck you
>>25640681
Robots should know "how to english", maybe we should send you back for reconfiguration.
>>25640902
I've thought long about it and I decided a while ago that I wouldn't put myself out there until I stopped being a cow , so I lost 50+ lbs so far but I got another 80 to go until I'll be skinny and then I'll start learning to put some make-up on. I simply cannot go on a date when I'm a planet.
>>25640918
Must be nice to have options.
Cunt.
>>25640939
Can smell the dry come from the other side of the planet. Fuck outta here.
>>25640909
you honestly think robots wouldn't settle if given the chance?
you are quite the fool, you need only see how they bombard every post that gives even the slightest hint at being female to know that they'd take what they could get.
>>25640919
I rejected two guys because I was my fattest back then and they wanted to meet so I cut off contact. Funny thing is one of them dated a chick much fatter than me and after they broke up he told me how he hated how fat she was. So i sort of dodged a bullet there. I never rejected any guy because of standards, only because I wasn't good looking enough for them and it would've been a waste of time.
>>25640990
Are you calling me stupid.
>>25640935
But anon , companionship and love don't equal sex.
>>25640829
It doesn't matter if you're fat
robot's don't lie when they say females can't be robots
>>25641032
Any romanianbots out there?
>>25640681
because women have always been hedonistic, not matter how beautiful they are.
and most women are average, this is where you find the most slags, or rather, the best women who embrace their nature, because the average woman is bombarded by average men and chads as soon as puberty, because these men think that she is affordable. of course, a girl being a girl, she never refuses to spread her legs before chads, but is always more reluctant before average men, especially if she fears that chads treat her of slags.
reminder that any girl despise ugly and/or poor men, in general, any man from which she does not expect to have pleasure.
also, women look at other women: it means that Women Objectify Themselves. women compete between themselves, in the sense that if a woman sees another hooker with a man, she knows that this man has been accepted as viable by this woman. if a man can please a woman, he can please another one.
the point is that even average women think that they deserve to have all the pleasures of being beautiful and they lust naturally towards men who are willing to satisfy them AND from which they expect satisfaction.
Every single woman on this website could find a man that would date them.
They just don't want the type of man that it is.
And that's called having standards.
>>25641009
yes, if you believe robots wouldn't settle then you're a retard.
HAHA HAHAH AHHAHAH AHA
>>25641108
women won't date men of in their own league?
this is news to me.
>>25640942
>and then I'll start learning to put some make-up on
you can learn this and lose weight at the same time m8
>>25641192
Must be joking.
>>25641220
What if I told you I was joking?
>>25640829
Fuck off roastie. You're full of shit. If i was you i could find a guy to take me on a date in less than 1 hour
Relationships with men are a waste of time in general.
I am somewhere in 5-6/10 range, which sucks since I lose to any qt girl no matter what.
What does it matter that I can find a man that will be okay with dating me? I'd rather be alone than with somebody who settles for me- since settling goes both ways, and I am sure as hell nobody's ideal.
We could be years after marriage with good family-life and children and for what? A second 10/10 girl would make a move, 90% of men who settled would leave their wives in heartbeat.
It's just not worth it in my opinion.
>>25641198
Not really , I don't want to look like those hamplanets that try hard to sort a small issue when the bigger issue is more important. I look really fucking bad even with make-up cause my face is so round with all this fat on it.
no point being in a relationship unless it's the kind of relationship I want
>>25641278
I know that feel, girl.
>>25641302
Lose my chips? We're not playing poker.
>>25641324
Tell me what has 2 legs and runs around without a brain in its head.
>>25641278
this is why monogamous marriage is important, it forces the chads and staceys to stay loyal to one person so that uglier people don't have to compete with them any more.
>>25641278
so relationships with women wouldn't be a waste of time?
this is a really pessimistic post, shit, everything on r9k is absurdly pessimistic, like doesn't even make sense.
>>25640681
Why wouldn't you go MWTOG instead? Why put yourself up for disappointment and self destruction by chasing women at all?
>>25641348
>it forces
nothing forces anybody
>>25641348
you know people cheated for thousands of years?
In my opnion, for married women the worst thing is that when they should feel most secure in marriage (stability of 10+ marriage, being 30-40years old) is when they are more likely to be cheated on.
Men will often leave them to be with younger (and unmarried so your argument about keeping stacies in marriage doesn't work there) women.
>>25641366
majority probably would. Although I would argue that women value different traits than men and those traits don't decrease with time (looks)
>>25641444
>In my opnion, for married women the worst thing is that when they should feel most secure in marriage (stability of 10+ marriage, being 30-40years old) is when they are more likely to be cheated on.
careful, your under-aged shows too much. but I am sure that a 20 yo like you know a lot about women.
>>25640681
It's not about having the same standards. It's about the fact that you cant force yourself to love or be attracted to someone.
If people could just fall in love with anyone without making themselves miserable them they would. But unlike men, women don't see an extreme value in sex (something they can get anywhere of any value and something that sullies them) as any indicator for a stable relationship.
Remember. Sex only feels good for a moment. After that the disgust sets in.
You honestly wouldn't want to be with an ugly woman. You say you would be robots would be miserable too.
What's worse is that if a good looking guy hasn't got any in a while or has blue balls he will fuck a fatty for one night.
Ugly girls would rather wait for that one night every 6 months than be in a steady relationship with someone closer to themselves in looks.
>>25641444
you have to understand how the male sex drive works and how biology works.
sight is basically the number one sense, what we're using to find women, we're not smelling around for them and we're not listening for them.
if sex wasn't driving us, we wouldn't be compelled to talk to you. you have to take the fork but use it as a spoon as well.
yes, we want to have sex with you, but that isn't the important part, that's just the will that gets us through the door.
without sex drive, i can't see men talking to women at all, lol and vice versa.
>>25640681
Even ugly women suffer from princess complex.
>>25641497
thats just how life works, majority of women who had been cheated on (and I know quite a few) had it happen to them when they partners got bored with them or had a chance with younger girl.
>>25641582
what it has to do with what I've said?
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>>25641052
>All these tall, ripped guys with huge dicks asking if they're good enough for her
This is exactly why the dating market is fucked up.
Don't blame the women, blame all the stupid motherfuckers who date way down because they think it will be easier.
>>25641732
wow...I felt for the poor guy in first pic.
>>25641713
>Implying that isn't how women get their relationships
>>25641732
EVEN DOWNS SYNDROME WOMEN GET TO BE CHOOSY
its a biologial need for women to want the alpha. We are not alpha's so we take what we get with knowedge that we are beta's and that if an alpha comes along we are fucked. dick is a limitless resource for women, whereas pussy is a rare and treasured find for most of the beta fucks here.
You don't wish for a hundred dollars, you wish for a billion kind of thing.
we want the best, hold out for the best. because we are greedy, we want it all or nothing and society tells us that THAT is how we should live.
>>25641707
you said something about men's interest being tied to visuals, i explained why they're tied to visuals. we also used our eyes to hunt.
it has everything to do with your pessimistic, "omg guys only want to fuggg me" attitude, every woman has it.
i think they just checked out of biology, they're literally frustrated at nature.
>>25641334
a woman?
blix
>>25641852
yeah but if we are going to go with men's biological nature there is really no reason to go into realtionships with them. Men aren't naturally monogamistic and they will always have drive for younger and better looking women.
Why even bother?
>>25640990
>they bombard every post that gives even the slightest hint at being female
Yeah, with "REEEE GET OFF MY FUCKING BOARD YOU STUPID ROASTIE".
>>25640681
Lets keep it that way, the more sluts that get to 30 years old and can't fuck Chad anymore the happier I am
so I want to test you : would you ?
>>25641932
it was just one explanation, it's not "what we're going with".
you're too apt to jump to conclusion and too narrow minded to spite it.
if you want to give up on men, give up, nothing is stopping you, plenty have given up on women here, you're not unique for it.
women do the same shit but in reverse, it's called hypergamy. you trying to point the finger or something?? lol thats a joke.
>>25642140
I don't really care about women but I don't doubt hypergamy is a real thing.
I don't see biological reasoning as "one explanation", since for for me it is pretty much "the explanation" or at least a base for all other theories.
>>25642088
fix the gap tooth and sure
>>25642088
Yes.
Though i would have to wonder why she wont fix what looks like her one flaw
she'd move from a 4 to a 6
>>25642088
heeeellllll yes, she's probably outta my league
they'll settle when the biological clock starts ticking
>>25641278
Relationships with women are a waste of time in general.
I am somewhere in 5-6/10 range, which sucks since I lose to any remotely chad-looking guy no matter what.
What does it matter that I can find a woman that will be okay with dating me? I'd rather be alone than with somebody who settles for me- since settling goes both ways, and I am sure as hell nobody's ideal.
We could be years after marriage with good family-life and children and for what? A second 10/10 chad would make a move, 90% of women who settled would leave their husband in heartbeat.
It's just not worth it in my opinion.
>get messages from guys that are inside my standards
>really like them
>too autistic to maintain conversation
What do?
>>25642088
I feel pretty bad about it, but no
I'm not going to sacrifice what little standards I have, if I do things will only get worse
>>25641582
>ithout sex drive, i can't see men talking to women at all
>I'm retarded and I believe that if someone is standing next to you at a similar event you would just ignore them and be completely asocial.
It's highly inappropriate to talk to someone only for sex reasons in non-hookup settings.
If you're in a college class and you won't talk to the females in the class for any reason, that's willfully barring yourself from knowledge and if she were to be very knowledgable on the subject but you didn't know without asking just setting yourself up for failure.
Nobody forces you to be friends with anyone. But not socializing with an entire gender? You've got to be retarded.
>>25641444
The only way to overcome cheating is to take away its power. Become a degenerate. It is your only chance.
>>25641977
and another handful asking for contact info, don't act as if there aren't hordes of thirsty betas on this board.
>>25640681
Because what's the point in settling for a shit-tier fatass NEET if he's going to cuck you all the same? Fat people are insufferable and difficult to be around. They show no discipline and eat nonstop and desu it's revolting.
>>25646034
your new boyfriend will cuck you all the same. link to some of your old cam videos that you did with your ex, you filthy skank.
>>25641444
>women value different traits than men and those traits don't decrease with time (looks)
Women value money unlike men which can dissolve just as easily.
>>25641721
https://wwwfacebookcom/roller.rox
ayy
dumb whore
the only thing I ask for is that he not be fat.
>>25641732
You should never let yourself get in the friendzone to begin with, if she's not interested, and you are, don't waste time on her.
>>25640829
>200+ pound
There's your problem. Also, GET THE FUCK OFF MY BOARD WOMEN CAN'T BE ROBOTS
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>25645989
The ratio is something like 1:100.
>>25650061
why do you want to push this notion so hard?
it would have been more believable if you said the ratio was something like 1:10.
>>25641053
Bucharest here
Why?
>>25650468
But it's fucking true you idiot. Those who aren't spewing roastie memes are spewing LONDON memes. They aren't serious.
>>25641032
>But anon , companionship and love don't equal sex.
we're not talking about sex you stupid roastie.
Someone will fuck you.
