why haven't you found yourself a forever alone bitch from tumblr?
the females are all over there.
>>25623009
Because they're in love with fantasy Chads just like we're in love with fantasy Stacies.
>>25623009
Care to share some urls?
>>25623009
fucking link me asap
>>25623026
If there's one thing I love this board for, it's the complete and absolute no-nonsense brutal honesty. Y'all fucking hikikomori failures but you honest about it.
>>25623009
Because they are fucking morons. And fat.
>>25623038
>>25623053
idk the circles on tumblr are so small they'd find out who leaked
>>25623099
What's your tumblr then?
I guess it might be a good start if anything.
>>25623143
You're gonna find all my shit and make fun of me.
reason #1 Because women can't be truely foreveralone blah blah blah....
reason #2 girls who overuse tumblr usually tend to have the same sense of humor as "t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!!", are yaoi fangirls and like tumblr-tier shows/animes like FAS-sherlock and Kill la Kill
reason #3 tumblr overusing girls are usually full of red flags
reason #4 I'm an overweight neckbeard who can barely order at a McDonalds
Its mostly reason #4
>>25623190
well then there you go
though there are plenty of other alternative answers, one answer to OP is that their entire communities are hidden
>>25623237
http://antimateriamatelija.tumblr.com/
fine, then.
Male loneliness = Being basically impossible to ever find a gf/wide because of being under the threshold of which girls find attractive. (girls get hit on all the time and constantly have men at their disposal. All of them.)
Female "loneliness": Getting fucker by Chad at the party then realizing you're his 23rd fuck in the month and he doesn't want to commit to you.
>>25623026
>Fantasy Stacies
Shut the fuck up to retarded newfag. All women are "Stacies", its not a fucking Chad equivalent. And most real robots have extremely low standards, but ugly women have high standards.
>>25623303
So basically, a guy is single because he can't get a good girl.
A girl is single because she can't FIND a good guy.
It's the difference of not being able to afford a car, and not being able to win the lottery.
>>25623303
>Female "loneliness": Getting fucker by Chad at the party then realizing you're his 23rd fuck in the month and he doesn't want to commit to you.
you know this from experience?
>>25623341
HAHAHAHA
He thinks that single girls just can't find the right guy.
>>25623009
>Snufkin Kylo
But why?
>>25623303
As a gay, let me tell you man
dating men is the worst
there's random dick left and right, everywhere. you sign in on grindr, as long as you're young and not obese, you can get random dick pics 5 in an hour, but you wanna be loved?
kissed?
held?
curl up with someone under a blanket watching ghibli films and drinking tea?
lmao good luck
men are the worst
>>25623405
because tumblr.
>>25623341
If a girl is single, all she has to do is slightly lower her standards.
>>25623368
It's what women think loneliness is.
>>25623427
It's not "men", its just homos that are like that.
>>25623491
Actually due to being an LGBT alphabet soup I've tried dating men both as a straight girl and as a homosexual man.
It's literally the exact same shit.
Identical.
Isn't tumblr some kind of instagram ?
>>25623537
Maybe you shouldn't use degenerate fucking hookup culture apps to find "love" then you fucking retard. That shit is promiscuous in its very nature, no genuine conservative man would lower himself to that level of subhumanity.
I understand that there's a limited amount of homos and you need to do that, but you should NEVER find a straight man from a fucking dating app.
>>25623649
>a straight man from a fucking dating app.
dude there are straight bars everywhere. I could just put on a skirt and go to a bar and have ugly guys get gross at me.
For homosexual behaviour, I need an app for that.
>>25623693
And like I said, people who go to bars looking for sex are degenerates. It's hookup culture, anyone who partakes in that is a filthy fucking lost cause.
>>25623746
okay Mr. Omniscient-sex-god, now tell me where to find a man worth making coffee for.
>>25623811
You don't, you're a homo. Homos don't get love, you get sex.
And stay away from straight men.
>>25624090
you spent 10 minutes crafting the perfect response and I get THAT?
Tumblr girls are massive whores who sleep with random men for validation.
>>25624213
Random men, excluding you right?
>>25624274
No fucking shit anon
Why do you think I'm here
>>25624274
You fucking retard, 20% of men get 80%of sex. The same men are the ones doing the fucking.
>>25623427
That's because grinrd is the gay tinder and nobody uses tinder for a gf or a bf, it's just for quick sex or people who wants to cheat.
Why don't you get into some activity gays enjoy, like costure or dancing? I have a gay friend who found his bf while sewing clothes in some kind of club.
>>25624301
implying that you wouldn't fuck for validation if you could you chubby little queer
>>25624301
>>25624338
Don't let this fact ruffle your jimmies.
I've accepted my condition of permavirgin a few years back and it was the best decision.
Regards,
30 years old virgin.
>>25623303
I get hit on like once every two years, and it's always guys who are "under the threshold". You know what the problem with those guys is? Substance abuse, domestic violence, sexism, ex-convict, debilitating mental illness, domineering entitled attitude, low intelligence, poor social skills, abrasive personality, no decent job, education, life skills or other prospects for a healthy happy life. All of these problems are statistically more common among men than women.
There are a whole lot of average, ordinary girls without massive defects that make them impossible to live with, who don't have male counterparts. They have to either be with a guy who makes their life worse, or be alone.
>>25624339
The only gays I know breed hairless dogs and are married to each other.
>>25624423
Yeah sure fucking thing. I bet you think they're all just "nice guys" and that you deserve better so you make him a beta orbiter in favor of Chad.
Drink some fucking bleach.
>>25624423
Sure they do. Those girls exist.
And they're very, very scary.
Most robots here I (as a guy) would fugg though, they aren't even toxic for the most part.
>>25624423
Oh come on, this is a tad blatant, isn't it?
>>25623009
I don't get how people find friends on tumblr. How do you find people near you with that site?
>been on 4chan for about 5 years
>made a tumblr about 3 years ago
>post about my favorite niche jrpg
>there are other fans of said jrpg
>they're almost all female, a good 5:1 female/male ratio
>become friends with said females
>become friends with their friends
>know all these lonely internet girls
>surprisingly not ALL hambeasts
>met up with 4 of them now, will likely make it 5 before classes start again
It's a time investment, but a worthy one, so long as you're into something relatively popular, it's impossible not to find girls with similar interests.
>>25624491
You bet how much? Because you can send it to my paypal.
Yeah, I can sometimes tell that a guy who is hitting on me is being fake and disingenuous and manipulative. I don't stick around such people, they ruin my day. I DO deserve better than someone like that. I DO deserve better than someone who makes my life worse. Being alone is better than that, and I'm sure even you won't dispute that I fully deserve to be alone if I wish to.
>>25624597
try searching the tag for your home town, county, state, etc.
>>25624642
But no-one here is. So why are you bringing that up?
>>25624527
Well, you're a guy. You wouldn't know what it's like to deal with sexist or misogynist guys as a woman, much less be in a relationship with them.
>>25624535
Blatant in the sense that I said exactly what I meant, yes.
>>25624682
You did? That's what "nice guys" means, and you brought them up?
>>25624642
It was ironic you dumb fucking swine. Women reject men all the time on grounds of being too "boring" or being a "nice guy" (I.e. not being a fucking aggressive Chad) and you wonder why all the guys that you end up with are druggies or some shit like that.
At the end of the day, Chad fucked you at that one party when you were 17, and now you feel like that's what you deserve.
Get a fucking grip on reality you stupid whore.
>>25623009
Oh wow just who I want to be with the people who I hate most on this planet. SJWS are scum of the Earth.
>>25624722
> You wouldn't know what...
Then I am not allowed to have an opinion on the subject. Therefore you lose by virtue of starting a meaningless debate.
There are women out there who are so abusive you'd be shocked.
>>25623278
suomihomo
>>25624761
This, more or less.
Boring guys are actually safe. "nice guys" are actually safe for the most part too, even if they're whiny pussies.
>>25624423
>>25624722
We don't want your kind around here.
>a blatant unironic tumblr thread
>tumblrinas revealing themselves
>tumblrinas acting offended and calling people mysogonists
>tumblrinas continue to steal our frog memes
We have passed the threshold. /r9k/ is kill.
>>25624761
You just keep coming up with more shit that has no relation to reality. If you're so interested in the details of my life and personal history, why don't you ASK me what they are? Because we can play the guessing game an awfully long time before you get it even remotely right.
Yes, I do reject guys if I find them boring. I've never ended up with a druggie, I'm complaining that the quality of available men is substandard as too many of them have massive flaws, such as being a druggie.
>>25624816
terve terve tervaperse
>>25624892
I love it, desu. It's fun as hell.
>>25623208
This
This >>25623208
And definitely this >>25623208
>>25623208
>>25624906
Doesn't matter. The point is, you could get a guy if you wanted to.
Most guys here can't get any kind of girl, besides prostitutes.
>>25624910
kiva blogi. saako tuolla oikeasti naista?
>>25624784
I'm aware that women are abusive. My own mother was. It's just more common that men are abusive than women, and if we assume (big if) that all the shitheads and druggies end up with each other, that leaves a bunch of decent girls unable to be paired with a decent guy.
>Then I am not allowed to have an opinion on the subject. Therefore you lose by virtue of starting a meaningless debate.
I lose by stating a fact about a common experience shared by many women, and that means I've "lost" because your experience doesn't trump ours? You've learned awfully weird rules for having a conversation.
>>25624887
Tough. I've been here longer than you.
>>25623009
Then set me right up faggot, Tumbler is full of fat landwhale muh soggy knees so I could at least get some entertainment out of it.
>>25625007
emt oon homo. niit ei oo. muijia on.
>>25625049
Do you have to see prostitutes to get any sex at all? Because that's where a lot of guys here are.
And no, they're not abusive or dangerous in any way.
>>25623009
I don't want to date fat people. Fat people are disgusting especially personality-wise. Plus if I was given the option to permanently wipe out a group of people from humanity permanently I would not hesitate for one second to pick sjw like tumblr users are.
>>25624966
>most guys here
>implying 2016 /r9k/ isn't full of tumblr tards and normalniggers
Anyway, here's some OC
I made a fake facebook account with some images I stole from some random myspace girl a couple years ago. With only a few friends and barely any activity I've received friend requests and messages from random guys just completely out of the blue.
Most of these guys aren't desirable but... men will go out of their way to give everything to women they don't even know and I've never had any female attention ever
I use tumblr but not for tumblrina stuff. The women there either have boyfriends or obsess over a guy in a band.
>>25623062
but you're all fat too lmao
>>25625071
never lucky :D. mut juu, miten tuota tumbria ajetaan? postaat vaan jotain kuvia sinne?
>>25624642
why do you deserve that?
>>25624906
"If you run into one asshole all day, they're the asshole. If everyone you run into is an asshole, you're the asshole."
>>25624906
The problem isn't men, the problem is you and other women. You have impossibly high standards and a fantasy of some supermodel making 100k+ a year pursuing you and wanting to settle down. The majority of men are "boring" to you since they don't want to do disgusting things like go to parties or clubs and other decadent shit. There are much more alone men in their 20s than women, and that's because women get the perfect man pumped into their head and refuse to accept any other, while men in their 20s are desperately trying to keep up with this by working their ass off, going to the gym, constantly trying to "improve" themselves when it will never work.
And lo and behold, the man that didn't "bore" you was that drug dealer that fucked you, then later you realize you were used like a piece of meat and go BOO HOO ALL MEN ARE SHIT while simultaneously rejecting decent men on grounds of being "boring."
Go fuck yourself.
>>25623009
Fat people disgust me. I would rather die a virgin. Plus I don't want some used up slut past her expiration date. I bet half of them don't even bathe. Absolutely disgusting.
>>25624966
No, that is not a point. It's as if we're both starving to death, and you tell me I don't have a problem because I have horse shit and can eat that. You're making the whole conversation absurd from my perspective.
It's disingenous of you. It makes me think you want me to be miserable, and you can't even pretend you don't for long enough to argue from a position that recognizes my interests as valid. So essentially, you want me to be miserable, and that's all you have to say.
>you: women have it so easy, they never have to be alone, they can always get man, many men can't get women
>me: but being with a bad man is worse than being alone, and often bad men are all that's available so women end up exactly where you are
>you: but we'd love it if you were even more miserable than you are when you're alone
>you: women have it so easy, they never have to be alone
>forever alone
>female
pick one.
>>25625175
toimii melkee kuin nettilehti. Seuraat ihmisten blogeja melkein ku toisen lehden "tilaajana", ja saat etusivulles kaiken niiden julkaiseman, ja jos joku postaa jotain hienoa, on "reblog"-nappi, jolla se menee SUN blogiin, ja ihmiset jotka seuraa sun blogia nakee sen sielta.
eli voi postata omaa matskua, jakaa kivaa muiden blogeista, jne. oman maun mukaan. kaikkee loytyy suomipaskasta ihmisoikeusrinkirunkkuun ja star wars homopornoon.
>>25625348
So you agree that men want sex and have little to no standards and women want relationships and have a baseline standard?
>>25625370
literally an impossibility
>why haven't you found yourself a forever alone bitch from tumblr?
Females can't be forever alone. Tumblr is full of obese people which are gross. I bet the average user there weighs three times as much as me.
>>25625412
What's that, Finnish? Estonian?
>>25624641
i am humbled anon
>>25625412
mitenkas tuo lurkkauspuoli? en perusta postaamisesta niinkaan.
>>25625234
I'm not saying everyone I run into are assholes. I get along with people in general pretty well. It's just the single guys I could have a shot with I generally don't think much of, and I even get along with some of them fine. Some people who can't keep a job because of their drug habit, or with mental illness that makes them unpredicatable are kind, polite and absolutely sweet, compassionate people. I'm still not going to date them.
>>25625184
Everyone "deserves", ie. has an indisputable right to decide whether they want to be alone or not. If I want to be left alone, I deserve not to be forced to marry/whatever.
>>25625300
>You have impossibly high standards
>And lo and behold, the man that didn't "bore" you was that drug dealer that fucked you
Did you read my post at all? Can you read?
>>25625415
Where did I say that? What men want varies. I know many men who want relationships, and who don't want casual sex. What women want varies. I know many women who enjoy casual dating far too much to settle down with anyone. I myself have given up dating, and casually fuck men and don't really have standards there apart from respectfulness.
The horse shit is analogous to a relationship with a man who makes my life worse, not to casual sex if that's what you thought.
>>25625517
Finnish, original cont. desu
>>25625600
100% mahollista. Ei mitaan pakkoa postata mitaan.
>>25625642
Yes, exactly. We understand that this is your situation as a woman. But what is complained of here is that most guys cannot get either casual sex nor relationships.
This is why they are bitter.
>>25625685
Pitaapa testata. Eihan tassa muuta ole kuin aikaa.(:DD)
>>25623009
Ive never been to Tumblr. How do I find one there?
>>25623009
I don't know how to get into it. It's just a bunch of people's blogs. What am I supposed to do?
>>25625721
I understand that they're bitter and I feel very sorry for most of them. I can't imagine how awful it would be to have whatever horrible character traits that make them so unfuckable.
What I don't get is, how is their situation helped in any way by denying women's experiences and minimizing their problems? Why do they do that? Out of simple pettiness, being mean because they're mad at women? Why not just call us whores like you usually do and be done with it?
tut?
original comment
>>25625743
tags. search tags for shit either you're interested or girls like in general. You're bound to find blogs, and you can snoop them and see if they're girls.
>>25625799
well, you got a blog, and followers and people whose blogs you follow. Your front page consists of all the posts made on all the blogs you follow, and if someone follows you, all the content on YOUR blog is on THEIR tumblr front page.
So if you, say, only follow three blogs, one of which posts kittens, another one posts the same image of Steve Buscemi every day, and a third one posts pictures of black chicks topless, your dash is going to consist 100% of kitties, titties and Steve Buscemi.
But most blogs are more varied, so you can really fine-tune what YOU like to see and share. And post your own content, if you like.
>>25625823
Because they only feel pain when they see you or are around you.
Sympathizing with someone who is a constant source of pain isn't really something you should expect.
>>25625911
So I just look for girls with little or no followers who like weird shit and then make a move?
>>25625986
I'm not asking for sympathy, I'm asking to be treated like a human being. You know, not being told how I'm wrong about how I experience what happens to me. Or not really even a human being. They wouldn't tell a dog it's not hurting when it's hurting.
They could just say nothing and that would be fine.
>>25626019
You look for the tags for weird shit, see where someone reblogged their weird shit, and so on.
desu it's a better method for finding weird shit than finding girls. Look for the oddly specific weird shit that YOU are really really into.
>>25624641
W-whiplash?
>>25626081
Certainly, but then you shouldn't start talking to them.
>>25626330
I started talking to them after they were already doing it, to point out it's bullshit.
this buttflustered stacy complaining about nothing should shut the fuck up
>>25625172
sure. suuure.
My classmate crush probably exclusively uses tumblr, but she isn't weird. Has an awkward and zany sense of humor, which includes memes, so I'm down to dating her.
>>25626460
They'll do it casually of course, because they're in pain. Doesn't mean you should talk back, that's only putting fuel on the fire. And, incidentally, adding to both their misery and your own.
What they need is for someone to love them, perhaps they first need to love themselves or whatever. It doesn't really matter.
Because it's better to be HHKV than be with one of them. They make other women look sane and attractive.
>>25626601
Letting them shit on me makes me feel a lot worse than speaking out. I see no reason why being in pain should exempt them from basic decency.
>What they need is for someone to love them, perhaps they first need to love themselves or whatever. It doesn't really matter.
That's exactly the thing though. What they need to do is to stop being such horrible people, whose instinct upon feeling pain is to inflict it on someone else.
>>25626678
Actually, basic decency doesn't apply here. That's the point of this place.
And you can't really tell them to be something they're not. All you can do is to not try to fight them down because that's like mud-wrestling a pig.
>>25626678
>makes me feel a lot worse
nobody gives a single fuck about how you feel about anything
it is not the responsibility of random strangers on the internet to make you feel better
it is nobody else's fault that you can't find a man, that's a massive fuck up on your part and blaming all men everywhere is a load of shit
>>25626735
Basic decency applies everywhere. It's not some facade we're forced to hold up so other people won't punish us for being assholes. Basic decency is a character trait, and they need to be reminded to learn it.
>>25626794
They cannot be reminded to learn it in their current state. This is simply impossible. And certainly not by you.
>>25624641
What the fuck are you supposed to post on tumblr?
You reblog shit from other pages and shit?
>>25625823
My question as someone reading this fucking dumb-ass discussion is simply, why are you here?
Do you know where you are?
This place is like misogyny central, the anti-tumblr, the place that enshrines Elliot Rodger, a killer who had a raging vendetta against all women.
Maybe /r9k/ isn't for you
>>25626782
What are you talking about?
I haven't blamed anyone for not having found a man, I'm simply saying that there aren't enough good ones to go around. That problem is just going to fall on some other woman if I happen to get lucky. It will inevitably happen to a lot of women, and it's not their fault. There's nothing anyone could possibly do about it.
I said I spoke out to make myself feel better. That's hardly the same as asking others to make me feel better.
>>25626794
>Basic decency is a character trait, and they need to be reminded to learn it.
>. I can't imagine how awful it would be to have whatever horrible character traits that make them so unfuckable
are you really somebody qualified to dictate about basic decency?
>>25626813
Again, I said it because it's true and called for and because setting things straight makes me feel better. I'm aware they're not going to take heed. That's their problem, not mine.
Even though I have met another girl who finds me attractive and is totally into me and is beautiful and cool... It makes me sad that cat doesn't want to fuck me. She's so beautiful, but I guess that means that she doesn't think enough of me to want to fuck. This is the first girl I've asked out in a while and while I tried not to care, I built up too much hope. I hope I'm handsome and one day I can make love to a girl that's so gorgeous in the way cat is.
>mfw she turned around and walked into her room and obese her tight leggings and tall skinny body from the back
Guuuhhhnnnngggg
>>25626994
But then you are willfully making things worse just to make yourself feel better.
That's not very nice.
>>25626948
Dictate? No. I really haven't been dictating, though. I've been appealing to basic decency, not trying to define it.
>>25627025
Taking abuse from other people because that leads to less conflict overall is a standard of niceness people can't and shouldn't be held to. You're talking about feeling good as if it was something frivolous. Self respect and dignity are not frivolous. I have a right to them. If asserting that right is not nice, then I don't want to be nice.
>>25627127
>Taking abuse from other people
which you brought upon yourself
>>25627127
In the end it all goes back to the old "me good, you bad" bullshit.
Kill me, i'm a bad person, kill meeeee
>>25627127
Fine. I'll leave you guys to your misery then.
(But I suspect I'd find you hot as hell IRL, not even thirsty ATM senpai.)
>>25623009
Don't fall for the Tumblr girl meme. I dated one in high school and after two years she started identifying as dragon-kin and ran off with a female-to-male tranny.
>>25625642
>I myself have given up dating, and casually fuck men and don't really have standards there apart from respectfulness.
And you wonder why men don't treat you like a human being.
Also
>women's tastes
>varying
Kek they all want the same shit in the end, they want the fun that women project onto the 'bad boy' archetype and the stability provided by older men.
You all want the same shit and pretend to have unique tastes in order to keep men on their hamster wheels running
>>25627289
God, I wish I were joking..
>>25623208
Tumblr girls would have these reasons to support your response to OP
>reason #1 guys who overuse /r9k/ usually tend to have the same sense of humor, like "reeee, kill all roasties. beta uprising when?", are futunari and trap lovers and like robot-tier animes like welcome to the NHK
>reason #2 /r9k/ overusing guys are usually full of red flags
>reason #3 I'm an overweight feminist who can barely order at a McDonalds
>>25627307
Oh god I am the American Dream /
But now I smell like vaseline /
And I'm a miserable sonofabitch /
Am I a boy or a lady, I don't know which?
>>25627179
I brought blanket abuse directed toward all women in my situation on myself by... being born a woman? Ending up in this situation? Trust me, I tried very hard to avoid this. I don't think I can be blamed. I'd even prefer to be a guy.
>>25627195
I'm glad you're coming around, but you don't have to die. Admitting you were wrong, repenting and becoming a nice person would be preferable.
>>25627201
Bye.
>>25627292
>And you wonder why men don't treat you like a human being.
But you would have done the same anyway. You did it before you knew.
>they want the fun that women project onto the 'bad boy' archetype and the stability provided by older men.
I find older men super gross, like literally pukeworthy, and I've never fucked a man who could be described as even remotely 'bad'.
>You all want the same shit and pretend to have unique tastes in order to keep men on their hamster wheels running
From my perspective it looks remarkably like I'm just saying what I actually like, but okay. Perhaps I really do like the opposite, and there are elaborate rationalizations going on I'm not aware of. They convince me though, and I'll keep fucking the guys I think I want to fuck and avoiding the guys I think I wouldn't fuck with a borrowed dick.
>>25627532
>Admitting you were wrong, repenting and becoming a nice person would be preferable.
Nah kill me, plus a "nice person", a "better person" are platitudes meant to keep me running around in circles
>>25624423
Out of curiosity, whereabouts do you live which is supposedly infested with druggies and mental problems?
Sounds exactly like me where my town has basically no soul, but instead lower-class degeneracy, drugs and the occasional thuggery. I'm quite probably the odd one out as I've never consumed a milligram of alcohol or smoked a gram of any substance whatsoever.
>>25627624
No they're not. If you showed any signs of wanting to improve I'd be as helpful as I knew how. "Nice" here means polite and not prone to petty mean acts.
>>25627703
>I'd be as helpful as I knew how
which is not at all, I'm guessing
>>25627653
Oh the drug addicts are not all that common, especially not among the people I meet. There's just more men among them than women so on balance, that's a problem.
I live in a pretty nice place actually, North Europe, with not that many problems. I see plenty of guys every day who are too good for me. Bad social skills (I don't mean shyness or awkwardness, I mean the kind that makes you unable to have an at least somewhat happy relationship), sexism and mean personality are probably the three problems that limit the pool of generally acceptable guys the most. For me personally intelligence is another factor, I acknowledge my standards there are pretty high.
>>25627841
Well, imparting wisdom and coaching personal growth are not exact sciences. I can be and often am very helpful if I have the relevant skills.
>>25628191
Yeah, my standards are pretty high too. Social media faggotry and partygoers all over the place. I feel like I'm too good for a lot of people in this town - I was pretty academic in school, never gave two fucks about sport. Came from a travelling background with a good family and I've got a good grip on social issues, politics and things that affect the world stage entirely. History is interesting too.
Meanwhile, everyone in "Great" Britain is enjoying the greatest of pop culture where everyone hates the decent, middle-class people who never hurt anyone and have virtually no morals whatsoever. I want the aristocracy back.
>>25628191
I'm in Scandinavia, be my gurf.
