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How often do girls masturbate to gernuine orgasm in real life?
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How often do girls masturbate to gernuine orgasm in real life? Most men do it at least once a week if not more, since they were 12 years old, is it the same for girls too?
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once every two weeks, except for when its first discovered and then its pretty much every night for a month.
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>>25620026
I can hear my sis at least 3 times a week
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Women do it when they want to. They don't have a natural horniness build up, that requires release, like guys do.
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I'm on winter break so it's been about twice a day.
When school's on I usually masturbate, cum, and then go to sleep.
I was definitely addicted to it in highschool, most weekend and summers I spent roughly 30% of my time jacking off- I would continue despite bruising and even bleeding.

But I have a mental disorder of some sort and should be considered atypical.
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>>25620187
you are thinking of how often you hear her shit. big difference.
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>>25620026
>Most men do it at least once a week if not more

Fucking plebs. I jerk off at least 3 times a day, usually about 5 or 6.
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>>25620026
Girls don't such a long the post-coitus shut down like guys usually do, so that should give you some idea.
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>>25620267
*long post-coitus
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>>25620234
I have yet to see her carry shit/piss covered bed sheets to the washer.
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>>25620026
I masturbate all the time but I only orgasmed once. Kissless virgin btw
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I do it most nights if not once every 2 days

>masturbate to genuine orgasm

Who faps without the aim of orgasm?
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>>25620368

From what one girl told me, some girls can't do it to completion, but it feels good for the duration so they do it anyway.

Though, "can't" probably just means "didn't figure out how."
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>>25620352
>I masturbate all the time but I only orgasmed once.
how does that work? every guy who masturbates cums in the end. what the hell is wrong with girls if they don't achieve orgasm in the end.
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>>25620479

Probably because they're trying to masturbate internally rather than clitorally.
Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone, but because of porn not many people are aware of this fact.

I've never experienced an orgasm through sex personally, but I don't mind. Can't miss what you never had ey'.
Still... the state of sex education is pretty bad.
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>>25620200
This pretty much, also true for traps
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>>25620622
Most guys just jerk off to cum, which leads to orgasm and semen discharge from the urethra.

Why do girls have a separate clitoral and vaginal orgasm? Why is it complicated?
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>>25620494
yeah i wanna know this aswell, so how do girls know when to stop if there's no orgasm at the end? Don't they get kinda blue-balled
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It's sporadic for me. Sometimes I'll do it almost every day for a week, and sometimes I'll go a few weeks without orgasming. A lot of the time, it just depends on where my menstrual cycle is at. I get really horny a few days before my period, so I'm always touching myself at around that time.
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>>25620670

Well men have different type of orgasms too, penile orgasms and prostate orgasms. Some people can have orgasms from nipple stimulation alone or by just thinking about something sexy.

>>25620691

They're not supposed to just stop, but girls who don't under their bodies get tired and just give up after a while if nothing happens.
Also idk of you know but the vagina kind of goes numb if you stimulate it for too long. This is why the notion of sex sessions that go on for hours is a meme.
Anything past 20, sometimes even 10 minutes is way too long for me.
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>>25620479
>"didn't figure out how."
How can they not work it out? That doesn't make sense. It's their own body, they can touch it and feel directly what is going on. How can they not figure it out?
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>tfw your gf starts fingering herself next to you

I'M TRYING TO SLEEP, WOMAN!
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Horniness is mostly dependent on my ovulation cycle.
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>>25620788

Because we shield our children from any semblance of sexual education in the West for fear of "corrupting" them and all mainstream porn almost exclusively focuses on male pleasure and doesn't actually teach women anything about how our bodies work.

Bet you didn't know that the overwhelming majority of women hate anal sex right? But porn teaches you that we all crave and desire it. Truth is it's very painful and uncomfortable.
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>>25620779
>Anything past 20, sometimes even 10 minutes is way too long for me.
can't girls get addicted to orgasms? the actual orgasm is the reason why an enormous quantity of guys masturbate every day, for the actual cumming, for that sense of relief and ennui. It wouldn't be the same without it. It just seems absurd a plurality of females masturbate but never cum because they get tired in ten minutes.
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Honestly I do that like 3-4 times a week. its pretty much every other day. it used to be everyday til I was about 20. Why the hell else would i masturbate if not to cum? cumming feels great. Nothing like waking up on a saturday morning and fingering myself til I'm drooling and out of breath.
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>>25620874
>Truth is it's very painful and uncomfortable.
Then don't do it. Have a brain.
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>>25620874
while the porn industry is male centric, there are more than enough videos and companies that cater quite conspicuously towards the female demographic, that revolves around tenderness and is rooted in reality. the X-Art videos come to mind.

besides, a lot of guys masturbate from hearsay amongst friends, it's really quite intuitive, since you're just stimulating sexual intercourse with your hand until you cum. Don't know why it's so hard for girls to understand their own body.
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>>25620887
I've been addicted to it before. I would think about pleasuring myself seriously every single time I was alone and would masturbate at least twice a day. Probably doesn't sound like a lot, but it was a lot for me.
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>>25620887
I've never been tired while masturbating. I've rubbed myself for like an hour straight before
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>>25620874
Why do you need to be told? You can feel your own body, surely. You can feel what bits feel good. Again, how is it hard to figure out?
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>>25620887
>but never cum because they get tired in ten minutes.
You're underestimating just how lazy people can be.
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What do girls think about when they masturbate?
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>>25620951

Because the penis is wildly different to the vagina in terms of its anatomical setup.
The penis is effectively a giant nerve sausage that you can rub to increasing pleasure. The vagina is more like a Rubix Cube of nerves that you have to stimulate in a delicate and precise order in order to unlock orgasm.

See this diagram of a vagina? Each one of those folds and ridges contains billions more nerves than the penis and it's extremely sensitive. When I masturbate, I can't just go HAM and start rubbing the whole thing, it's not like that, you have to start off on a precise spot and work your way from there.

Can't count the amount of times I've been on the precipice of orgasm only to shift to the wrong spot, get overstimulated, lose the build up and have to start all over again.

>>25621022

Do you actually believe that the vagina is a carbon copy of the penis in terms of sensation and how it handle it?

This is how porn has ruined you my friends.
The problem is that you guys SHOULD know this. Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. Why is that?
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>>25620929

No woman does masturbate anally. The overwhelming majority only engage in anal sex becauae their partners ask for it.

Stop bingeing on porn.
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>>25621170
A feminine penis is a better than stock vagina
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>>25621170
>Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. Why is that?
a lot men actually want their partner from cunnilingus, but get turned off how hard it is for their partner to orgasm. Just like you said:
>The vagina is more like a Rubix Cube of nerves that you have to stimulate in a delicate and precise order in order to unlock orgasm.
>Can't count the amount of times I've been on the precipice of orgasm only to shift to the wrong spot, get overstimulated, lose the build up and have to start all over again.

Unless you lead us on and tell us what to do, we can get quite intimidated. It's much for easier for a girl to get a guy to cum from a blowojob.
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>>25620874
so what you're trying to say is roasties are retarded?
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>>25621294
>a lot men actually want their partner to cum from cunnilingus
fixed
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>>25621170
>Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis,
Oh wow. But they aren't. Most are terrible at blowjobs but think every guy likes what they do, instantly. Very few girls can give handjobs. And, again, not many can ride well enough to get a guy off by themselves.
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>>25621170
>Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men.
not if they're first timers and haven't watched a good deal of porn. they're almost invariably way too slow.
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>>25621197
>Stop bingeing on porn.
Irrelevant. If you don't like it, don't do it. If it causes actual pain, definitely don't do it.
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>>25621294

>unless you lead us on and tell us what to do, we can get quite intimidated

Oh I get that 100%. That's why with my fiance I never request oral because I understand how stressful and disssappointing it is when he can't get me to orgasm.

Still feels good though.
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>>25620853

> women get horny when ovulating

are my chinese porn cartoon stories real?
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>>25621391

lol anal sex is always painful for most women, we don't have a prostate like you. And I don't do it. The only ones that do are the ones being pressured or paid.
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>>25621408
>That's why with my fiance I never request oral because I understand how stressful and disssappointing it is when he can't get me to orgasm.
exactly. unless the girl is catatonic, it's much easier for a guy to cum from oral. very little can go wrong.
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>>25621170
>Every sexually active woman I know is pretty much an expert on the penis, but the reverse rarely holds true for men. Why is that?

Because most sexually active women think it's men's job to know everything about sex, and they can just lie there and take it without having to do anything?

It's called being entitled.
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>>25621294
It's indeed frustrating. I like going down on my gf, and she will writhe and shake uncontrollably. However, she did tell me that of all the times I've done it to her, she's only orgasmed once. Of course I asked her what I should do so she comes more often, but she didn't want to talk about it. Why are girls so difficult about it...
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>>25621516
Because the answer is "have a bigger dick".
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>>25621516

same reason why hookers ask "why aren't you cumming?" when they go down on my dick and I can't ejaculate

they're either shit at it, the stimulus isn't enough or they haven't been doing it long enough
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>>25621516
yeah, I don't understand it either. If they write and shake, it's quite obvious from a male point of view that they're cumming. It's very easy to tell if a man orgasms, if actually fucking cums or not.
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>>25620250
How many hours do you waste that way?
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>>25621567
While he's giver her oral ?

>read much shit head
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>>25621516

Dude its not like we can help it, c'mon don't be mean about it.

Just FYI we're not like you with the blue-balled thing. We can enjoy sex and oral with orgasm and be satisfied just by the pleasure alone. I've been with my fiance 9 years, never experienced an orgasm through sex, but I am always satisfied after.

>>25621567

Do you mean longer or wider?
A lot of men are confused about this and assume longer = better when it's actually wider that's better as it stimulates the walls of the vagina.
The vagina actually loses nerves the further up you go, most are concentrated near the open, and then after that it's the cervix and you don't want to be going ANYWHERE near that with your dick. It's the female equivalent to be being kicked in the balls.
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>>25621653
Not him, but it takes no more than 10 minutes for me to cum.
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>>25621688

Without* orgasm and be satisfied.
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>>25621688
>The vagina actually loses nerves the further up you go, most are concentrated near the open,
so what's the average woman's preferred penis size? it's all in the girth I presume?
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>>25621724
4 inches long 5 inches across obviously.
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>>25621686
As in get his face away from her and fuck her. With a larger penis.
Come on, man. Think.
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>>25620026
The girl I'm dating now is horny all the time and "fingered herself maybe twice in her life" because she doesn't know how to get herself off.

Sucks 2 be a woman because it seems like, from my research, that they need a lot more emotional/story-based stimuli to get off, rather than just visual. Guys can get off just looking at some tits, and that's great for us. But women can't get off unless they get very involved in a romantic fantasy and they feel all these gay emotions. That's the only way to make them cum. That probably leads to a lot of their slutty behavior, as they frustratingly search for someone, something, that can make them orgasm because many of them can't on their own. That leads them to ride every dick in town from Jamal to Kurt.
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>>25621688
>We can enjoy sex and oral with orgasm and be satisfied just by the pleasure alone.
from a male perspective, that's just odd. our idea of dissatisfaction is if we can't orgasm, which means something has gone really wrong.
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>>25621688
Definitely meant thicker.
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>>25620026
>Once a week

What the fuck man. I'm not saying go full NEET 4 times a day, but surely most men do it at least once every 2-3 days. I usually do it everyday, skipping a few.
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>>25621776
How does the romanticism translate towards sex? What exactly are they expecting from the actual act if stimulation alone can't get them off with a 100% certainty? That you kiss them passionately, tell her how beautiful she is and how she is satisfying him?
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>>25620222
>jacking off

Excuse me, only males can jack off. Ladies jill off.
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>>25621688
>and then after that it's the cervix and you don't want to be going ANYWHERE near that with your dick. It's the female equivalent to be being kicked in the balls.

Then why is big black cock such a prevalent meme. Are you saying that all of those women are getting hurt while taking a 7 inch dick?
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>>25621783
It's weird right? My gf seems perfectly happy not getting off, and just really enjoys the whole experience. It's not as though she doesn't know what she is missing either. I've given her earth shattering, emotional, shuddering orgasms before. Personally, if I didn't get off (which is pretty much impossible) I'd feel like absolute garbage. In fact, I feel pretty bad when she doesn't get off, as though its much more fun and satisfying when she does, but she doesn't seem bothered.
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>>25621933
>My gf seems perfectly happy not getting off, and just really enjoys the whole experience

Haha, you actually believe that shit?

She's probably fucking someone else.
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any femanons wanna explain why a lot of girls deny that they masturbate
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>>25620670
Female orgasm isn't necessary for reproduction, male orgasm is. Therefore, natural selection favored those who had the genes to cum easily and rapidly as males. Females orgasming more easily could lead them to want more sex, and therefore have more children, and that would be favored by natural selection, but based on the fact it is still hard today, we can easily imagine that during most of humanity times, the males have probably been the dominating ones in the intercourses, raping females to spread their genes if they had to.
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>>25620874
That is the biggest meme answer I ever saw. It answered literally nothing and created problems out of nothing.
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>>25621841
Yes basically. The way I get her off is with a lot of foreplay. I start by making her lay on my bed and take her clothes off and then I just rub her down and give her a massage for a few minutes. I touch her sensitive spots and slap her ass a little bit and the anticipation of what's coming gets her excited, horny, wet. After a while I get on top of her and kiss, lick, and bite her neck, don't worry the biting doesn't hurt. And then I pull her hair a little bit and whisper some cute stuff in her ear, bite her ear lobe a little, and then put my cock in. She also likes it when I mouth her tits, but sometimes that's hard to work in. Never do 1 thing for too long, just build her up and build her up doing different things, but cycling through them. All the physical stimulation in sensitive areas like her sides, her tits, her neck, her ears, the whispering, builds her anticipation so that by the time I get to her vagina, she is REALLY ready to go and wants to cum really bad.

I'll drop my guesstimate that about 9 out of 10 women prefer it "a little rough", but nothing like what you've seen in porn. They want YOU to demand the position, they want YOU to throw her around a little bit, slap the ass, tell her what to do, let her know you are in charge, pull the hair, bite her neck, but also be sweet and whisper in her ear and tell her you think she is beautiful and she has nice tits. In my (pretty experienced) opinion, women are most likely to cum when they don't feel like it's their responsibility to make it happen. Yeah, you have to take charge and tell her *I* will make you cum. It's *ME* who will make it happen. YOU just sit back and watch it happen. That's when women cum, when there's no pressure. Usually she'll cum on my dick after all of that foreplay and whispering and biting and stuff.

The hard cases are solved by putting two fingers in, (palm up w/ her belly up), and lick the clit. NEVER had a girl not cum after doing some foreplay leading into that.
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>>25622000
>male orgasm is necessary for reproduction
doesn't precum tend to contain some sperm
and you can jizz without needing to climax
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>>25621933
>My gf seems perfectly happy not getting off
o i am laffin
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>>25621982
Haha. I'm sure she is bro, I'm sure she is. Just like in one of your favourite cuckold scenes.

She absolutely loves having sex with me, and initiates it all the time. I am 1000% sure that she isn't. It's not like "Oh honey don't worry that I didn't come again just like every other time, it's fine". If she misses out once or twice she just isn't fussed and cuddles contentedly afterwards.
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>>25621115
being choked and raped by tall alpha males and turned into the whores they want to be

what else
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>>25622121
If you can't get her off m8, it's just a question of time when she's riding Jamal or Chad's dick, just letting you know.
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>>25622094
precum does contain sperm, but the actual chance of a girl actually getting impregnated due to cum is quite small, if any at all. the role of precum is lubrication, so it's easier for the male to orgasm and slide in further, and allow safe passage for his semen on a lubricated surface and not across the sahara desert.
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>>25622144
Haha. I can get her off though m80. Thanks for the concern though.
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>>25620795
>gf
fuck original tbqh
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>>25622176
>getting impregnated due to cum is quite small
meant precum.
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>>25622196
You're delusional if you think that your gf is "fine" with not getting off.
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>>25622271
Oh look, it's another virgin trying tell people who have sex what they are doing wrong.
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>>25620691
Blue-walled*
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>>25622352
Oh look it's another normalfag coming to /r9k/ to gloat about his perfect existence.

Kill yourself nigger.
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>>25622271
>Female in thread mentions not requiring orgasm to be satisfied
>Male presents corroborating anecdotal evidence of said phenomenon
>UR DELUSIONAL

Good luck with your ED, stressing out so much that any moment in time you aren't making a woman climax she is making plans to leave. Jesus the pressure must make your dick wilt even being near a woman
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>>25620026
Rarely ever. Maybe shortest gap was 1.5 months
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>>25622386
Here, have a free hint. If you stopped being so angry and desperate and hating everything, you might actually get sex. But you will remain a bitter virgin for as long as you choose to be nothing but an angry bitter jerk.
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>>25621724

I have no idea, you'd have to look up a survey, but if you're asking my personal preference... I've only been with two men, the first was about 5" in length but very thick and I really enjoyed the sex. Physically his penis felt wonderful and it had that really nice banana angle to it as well.

My current, my fiance, we got together before I'd even seen his penis but it's a monstrous 8.5", and I mean monstrous because frequently during sex if he's not careful and goes too deep he whams straight into my cervix and I begin internally screaming and biting back tears whilst trying to act like the moan is one of pleasure and not immense pain because I know he gets upset by how his size injures me.

If I were to divorce myself from my emotions I would say that it would be better that he was shorter, like 6.5", with a bit more girth maybe, but I'm so in love with him that I wouldn't change him for the world. When you're in love with a person even their seeming flaws seem seem perfect and the sex is always incredible.

Long penises are very aesthetic looking but goddamn they're really just not functional.
Trying to give him a blowjob is plain comical as we're getting to hurry stuffing it into my mouth before he gets hard because once he's erect I can only really get a quarter way down :l

It bothers me how porn has tricked men into only these comically long dicks are desirable for sex when actually they can cause a lot of pain.
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>>25621348
>And, again, not many can ride well enough to get a guy off by themselves.

This so hard. I've only ever recieved one good blowjob in my entire life, and I've had like 6 sexual partners. And not a single one of them knows how to fucking ride, jesus christ.

It always results in me moving them in a way that I like, and in turn feels good for them. Most just awkwardly bounce.
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>>25622460
Shut the fuck up you normalfag cunt.

Nobody asked you for your normie-tier shit advice you nigger.

Fuck off back to your Twitter hugbox.
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I masturbate to orgasm every day. At least once, sometimes twice. On really bad days, up to three times. I'm pretty sex-starved and I think I might have a minor addiction.
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>>25621170
vaginas aren't fucking complicated, don't kid yourself

it actually tells you when you're doing a good job because it gets more wet. its that fucking simple.

penises are way more complicated to get off
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>>25621776
>they need a lot more emotional/story-based stimuli to get off
>That leads them to ride every dick in town from Jamal to Kurt.
How does that make sense?
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>>25622517
You are on the right board. Here, you have a plethora of choices from autistic fat smelly neckbeard NEETs, who will be more than eager to please you.
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>>25621865

They're getting paid to take it for starters, but it's a well known fact that drugs and alcohol are rife in the porn industry to help get performers, mostly female, through scenes like that. Internal njuries rates are pretty high also.

http://www.vice.com/en_ca/read/a-rosebud-by-any-other-name-would-smell-like-shit

Stop buying into jew run media. I'm a woman and I'm telling you right now long penises are not functional penises. Go look at a cutaway diagram of a vagina.

Most porn is a fantasy anyway, it's not supposed to reflect reality.
This is what a lot of adolescent boys mix up and it's extremely damaging to their sexual development.
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>>25621933
>seems perfectly happy
That's the thing, isn't it.

Why can't people be honest with each other.

Also, check'd.
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>>25622517
>sex-starved
well, you're on the right site, where the most male-centric audience are desperate for anything sex-related
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>>25622593
I've actually dated lots of dudes from r9k, but it's been hard to meet anyone new here since /soc/
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I'm a man, and I've literally never masturbated in my life, and even though I know it's rare I don't think I'm the only one.
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>>25622094
>precum
I have never produced this and it took me a long time to believe it was real.
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>>25621933

Yeah, I'm like your gf and my fiance really just does not understand how I can be fine after sex without orgasm.
I have to keep reassuring him that I'm fine, "no peanut I don't need finishing off, really it's okay, but thanks for the offer" haha

It must seem quite unusual to you guys right?
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>>25621776
so you're saying shes retarded

good to know
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>>25622652
what the fuck. I don't believe this. How?
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>>25622574

>it actually tells you when you're doing a good job because it gets more wet. its that fucking simple

Oh boy, I can tell you've never actually had sex...
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>>25622675
>woman
>retarded
VERY redundant bro
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>>25622652
>>25622742
This. How the fuck do you date people from 4chan?

>>25622757
I've had 6 sexual partners, thanks. Fingering a girl is easy as fuck. But how many have given good handjobs? Zero. One was good at head but thats it.
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>>25622657
I was like that. I guess I have a pretty low sex drive. I never masturbated and didn't feel it was necessary. I still watched porn though.

Then suddenly one day it changed. I was feeling horny and fapped. Then I did it again, and again, and... you get the picture. Joined the ranks of the normies. I had some kind of sexual awakening. I was also a virgin, and soon after I started fapping, I also lost my virginity.

I was 28 when it happened.
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>>25622742
>how
Back in '09-'10 meetup threads were all the rage on /r9k/. I lived in a major city, so there were plenty of robots in the area who wanted to meet up.
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>>25622796
have the meetups died down now on /r9k/? why havne't you had any success on /soc/?

as for the meetup, weren't you afraid that guy you were meeting up could have harmed you, or was only interested in sexual stuff? or were you in it for the sex too?
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i haven't touched myself for sexual reasons in months. i've never had an orgasm.
i got put on antidepressants about 10 months which made my already low sex drive even lower.

i'm not asexual though, i just have never been able to get off.
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>>25622790
Good to hear someone else was like this, and I can probably see this happening to me too
19 btw
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>>25622783

The fact you believe that "fingering" girls is how you get them off is making me even more sceptical...
You're supposed to focus on the clitoris. What is a lone finger inside the vaginal canal supposed to do? Tickle her?

>I can tell I'm doing a good job if she's wet

We can get wet just from walking around. The wetness is typically a lubricant released throughout the day in order to keep the vagina moist and clean. You sound bad at sex.
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>>25622790
>soon after I started fapping, I also lost my virginity
I can already see the nofap redditards commiting suicide after reading this.
Also, get the fuck off my board, you disgusting normie fucking faggot.
REEEEEEEEE
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>>25622835
Meetup threads are just largely not tolerate since /soc/ came up. I don't want to meet anybody from /soc/. Have you ever actually been there? It's full of normies and degenerates just looking to hookup.

In the meetup threads, everyone would post their AIM and I'd usually talk to the dude for a while before actually meeting up. I guess there's always a chance that the guy was lying and looking to rape/murder me, but that never happened to be the case.

I think there's always the fear that the person you're seeing is just using you for sex, when starting any new relationship. It's not like I met up with these dudes and slept with them right away. We developed a relationship over time, like any normal relationship. The only unorthodox element was how we met.
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>>25622936
Don't forget that the general userbase of 4chan has changed a lot.
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>>25622936
what were you looking for a guy on /r9k/? just similar interests? i suppose you can say that /r9k/ is an unorthodox place to meet up and date with a guy.
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>>25622911
Oh yeah? Where are you at? If you're not a hambeast I'll show how 'bad' I am at sex.

Do it, pussy. You won't.
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>>25622875
I was a late bloomer. A very, very late bloomer. Maybe it will happen to you one day as well.

>>25622915
I didn't have sex simply because I had almost no sex drive. Sure I did want a gf, but that was more for the company than anything else. After my sexual awakening, I realized I want pussy. So I went out and got some. It's actually surprisingly easy when you want it.
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>>25622936
Why did the relationships all inevitably fail?
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>>25622972
This too

>>25622996
I'm pretty introverted and sad and I don't like going out really. It's hard to find those qualities in people in the wild. That and we'd share the same sense of humor.
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>>25623008

lol no I'm not fat, but you can fly to the UK if you desire to have a ego broken.
My fiance and I were looking for a sub to break in. I hope you're pretty.
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>>25620026
>genuine orgasm
There is no such thing as the female orgasm. They're are biologically incapable of achieving "orgasm".
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>>25623096
so you just talked to some random guy on AIM, just discussed humor or whatever, and just hooked up and that was that? What did you guys do during the date?
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>>25623073
They all ended for different reasons, none of which were related to us meeting on 4chan. People get jobs in different states, you get to know a person better and find out that you want drastically different things in life, one person grows and the other doesn't, etc. Just normal breakups.
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>>25623102
>my fiance and i
>eurocucks into bdsm

whew, what a surprise
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>>25623138
Get coffee and walk around, go see a movie, go to a museum. Normal date stuff, man. I always felt like it was low-pressure for both parties because, hey, it's just some random fuck-up from 4chan.

I do agree that the userbase has changed a lot. I don't think I'd want to meetup with most people on /r9k/ now.
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>>25623197
did you eventually feel you were pressured to have sex with any of the dates you had? was there any underlying tension there from the dude, or was there any time that you actually wanted to do it with? was there a time you flat out rejected any advances from him, since you didn't feel like it or didn't find him attractive?
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>>25623162
Sounds like normie nonsense, to me.
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>>25623138
>>25623197
Glossed over the hookup stuff. No, I didn't hookup with most of the guys I met. It was seriously just normal dating. There were a few people I met up with and just didn't click with and never spoke to again. People I did like, we'd hang out a few times, start liking each other, and become bf/gf.
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>>25623175

So, you gonna book that ticket and come show us a "good time" or wot m8.
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>>25623288
I don't have sex with inbreds, sorry.

london?
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>>25623239
I never felt pressure to sleep with anybody. I've never actually slept with anybody without wanting to, so it's kind of weird that you're asking.

And no, nobody ever tried to rape/force me. Everyone was always very respectful and waited for the right moment/consent to initiate anything.

>>25623248
I'm not sure what you were expecting.
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>>25623274
Actual dates where you weren't 100% guaranteed to fuck after?

Oh, what a simpler time it was back then.
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>>25623331
>Actual dates where you weren't 100% guaranteed to fuck after

Is this actually a thing?
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>>25620026
I guess it about averages out to once a week for me. I'll go a couple weeks without anything, then get insatiable horny for a day and do it 5-6 times. Then go another couple weeks.
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>>25623322
What turned you off with guys you never slept with?
How was the sex with the ones you eventually did initiate with?
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am 21 yr old woman that masturbates almost every day n have a very active sex life...idk i think it depends on the girl and their sex drives
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>>25623417
One guy didn't brush his teeth.
One guy tried to kill himself soon after and then moved away, so I just never got the chance.

It was pretty meh, but we were young so everyone sucked at sex.
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>>25623321

Haha, that's what I thought bitch. Men like you always fold. >>25623322
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I masturbate every other day right now; It was less often when my guy & I were physical.
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>>25623459
>but we were young so everyone sucked at sex.
was there a time when it was good?
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>>25623509
>seriously expecting someone from /r9k/ to fly overseas to prove a point

Are you retarded?
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do date threads even still happen on /r9k/ anymore?
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>>25624466
I wish.

I'd date a qt fembot
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