ITT times you could have had sex, but chickend out or did something else stupid. I have 4 horrendous ones. I'll start off the ones that is not so bad and go on till the worst one.
>Be 18 year ol virgin
>Meet this indian qt chick
>Date for a while, notice she's pretty crazy
>I'm insecure and sensetive as fuck the time so i constantly keep her at the distance, mostly because i have no idea how to be with woman and because she's a nut
>One late night she text me, clearly drunk
>"hey can i come over? i'm with a friend ;)"
>tell her i'm bussy ( i was planning to "break up" with her anyway)
>starts messaging me over facebook, again, and again, and again, like 9-10 unread messages
>Ignore them
>Check them next day
>Lots of drunken rants and stuff like
>"Plsss we just wanna play" "you wont regret it..trust me " "my friend thinks u r cute!!"
>Basically slept through the chance of a threesome
>Break up with her over facebook a couple of days later
it gets worse...
>>25527545
>About a year later
>A little more confidence, but still a typical niceguy.jpg
>work night shitf at a small convince store
>Girl i used to have a crush on in HS comes in one night, drunk af
>Start talking, pretty used to drunk people
>she goes "you know...i always found you so cute"
>replay "haha thanks, i used to have a little crush on you on high school you know"
>Her: "Oh? Well nows your chance"
>I shrug it off with an awkward laugh
>Talk for a bit more
>She asks me when my shif ends
>Tell her in a couple of hours , and ask her why
>She asks me if i want to come home with her after work
>Tell her i would love too but she's too drunk (she was clearly like blackout drunk, in my defense)
>Tell her it wouldn't be right of me to take advantage of her
>She goes "But...i want you to take advantage of me"
>Reject her a few more times
>her: "well tonight sucks"
>and then she stumbles out the door
worst one:
>Couple of years later
>In my early 20s
>Had some experience with woman by now, pretty normal guy
>Moved in to the city
>An old colleague from a place i used to work is visiting
>She want to crash at my place for a night
>Meer her, she brough a friend who decided to joint last minute
>Evening goes by, drink som beers, smoke some weed
>we all get a bit tipsy and high
>Time for bed
>Start preparing my couch to sleep on
>Planning on giving the bed to the girls
>"Don't be silly anon, it's large enough for all of us"
>"o-okay"
>Get in bed, i'm in the middle
>My colleague pass out pretty fast
>Her friend suddenly gets frisky as fuck
>Puts one of her thighs over my legs
>"Do you feel how warm i'am? oh my god i'm sooo warm"
>The weed is really messing with my head by now (i'm not a regular smoker)
>just replay "yes. you're warm" like the biggest autist
>She leans in again
>"you know we could wake up "name" and...or we could just let her sleep" smirk.jpg (or something like that can't remember her exact words)
>weed is totally fucking with me, making me paranoid and insecure as all hell
>I just go "it's to hot in her i think i should sleep on the couch"
>do just that
I've had a few experiences like that. Little Caesars is always there when I need it, though.
>>25527545
Hey man at least you dated with some girls. I'm so fucked I downright pushed back every girl who found me attractive because I can't handle intimacy of any kind
Next time you get the opportunity, just fucking go through with it, even if it isn't the best situation. Once you fuck a girl, it often becomes alot easier to talk with them and be around them. I was pretty awkward with girls and didn't get laid until I was 20. Looking back, I missed out on some good opportunities with girls because I was always too afraid or awkward, which led to self-defeat.
