does anyone else find it hard being a guy? i'm too sensitive.. i wish i could be cute and loving with people like girls are allowed to be, but im a guy so i have to pretend to be cold and distant. i would seem gay if i was allowed to just b myself and lots of guys would be uncomfortable when i want to hug and be too close, or when i dress weird
maybe i need to just let it go and b myself, i dunno. real life is hard
read goddard's view of shakespeare's view of masculinity/femininity in the first 30~ pages of The Meaning of Shakespeare
be yourself or i'll kill you
>>25526075
ok i will, can i find this online?
>>25526075
cant find it anywhere online. can u summarize for me?
>>25526049
Put on the trap socks and take my love. ALL of it. (Be yerself natch.)
>>25526049
Same. I'm actually against homosexuality as an act but personalty wise I'm very camp, sporting events are just unappealing to me which is practically a death sentence where I live.
>>25526797
>personalty
personality*
Yes, I'm that guy who doesn't notice spelling mistakes until its too late.
>>25526797
same. i prefer creative things. i feel really emotional all the time, but i have to pretend im not.. it could be the reason im depressed that i always feel i have to moderate, fake, pretend and generally "hold back" on how i really am
>>25526933
What country do you live in anon and what is the local culture like?
UK here and its football, lad culture, "having a laugh" and getting drunk 24/7. Some of it can be ok in moderation but too much leads to stagnation, the local social clubs are full of middle aged men who've partied non-stop for their entire lives and its not how I want to end up.
>>25527085
uk as well. i fucking hate the "hard lad cunt" culture here, and i despise those kinds of people
i dont mind getting drunk a lot, but i want to be living life as well.. not just wasting away
>>25526905
>worrying about your spelling on 4chan
>correcting your spelling on 4chan
>>25527085
>>25527154
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzP1XC51kro
Is this what hard culture in the UK means? Would these be the same kind of people fighting after a big football game.
>>25527481
kek. yeah uk idolizes the "common lad" who basically gets drunk on beer, is obnoxious with his lad friends, plays football, gets into fights, has no feelings, smashes some random slag every week... is basically a cunt desu
id probably be better off in an asian or other european country where sensitivity in guys is more encouraged but i guess u jus gotta deal with it and not give a fuck
