So uh my girlfriend confessed to me that she was raped at 13 years old. She never reported the person. She kept me up all night and I didn't get much sleep and I had a really shitty day at work because I was tired and ugh.
So I'm going to dump her but I don't want this to get ugly. I just don't want to deal with damaged goods nor could I envision her as the mother of my son. Well at least NOW I can't.
How do I break it off with this broken female without causing a shitstorm? She seems like the type of girl to cause some serious shit over this.
>>25502421
>So uh my girlfriend confessed to me that she was raped at 13 years old
Uh.. it's not rape if you enjoy it. Buddy.
Is this bait? My gf got raped, I would never leave her because of that. She didn't choose to be raped, otherwise it wouldn't be, yknow, rape.
Your girlfriend clearly trusts you if she's telling you this information.
>>25502501
Pathetic cuck, literally being with some used up old hag.
Literally shitting where you eat and sticking dick in crazy.
>>25502501
I'm pretty good at feigning interest and seeming like a sweetheart but it's all a front because I find it effective at tricking women into liking me but I guess I'm just a rotten bastard at heart.
>>25502421
When a woman doesn't report a rape it's because she enjoyed it and hoped that it happens again.
She was basically telling you that she has a rape fetish.
Rape her and then leave her.
>>25502501
This guy's a massive cuck, don't listen to him.
>>25502541
girls are not objects y'know
>>25502421
Deal with it for a couple months then mae a bullshit excuse to break up.
>>25502501
fuck ths cuck
>>25502421
I was going to say that you'll regret this, but you sound like a narcissistic psychopath so you probably won't.
>>25502421
Fuck her a few more times then leave, remember. Right now you are shitting where you eat. A female who was raped is mentally unstable and those are the ones you see spreading their legs for the attention and validation on 4chan.
More than likely the 'rape' was getting drunk at a party and fucking chad on the football team only to regret because he wasn't captain of the football team.
>>25502611
Most likely this, except it was probably the entire football team. She probably made some bullshit story about how the vodka was spiked.
>>25502421
>So uh my girlfriend confessed to me that she was raped at 13 years old
>So I'm going to dump her
>>25502421
If you want to avoid a shitstorm, just be a douche for a few months and let her hang out with her friends alone a lot, eventually she will drift and find a new guy, then you can leave.
>>25502421
Devilish! I like it
>>25502421
real gf or practice girlfriend?
Just broke up with my gf today. She raped a girl when she was young. Just do it anon. These girls will shout "emotional destruction" quickly.
>>25502501
I knew two girls in high school that admitted they were raped to me, both were drunk at a party, so I am just going out on a limb and saying most of them weren't actually raped.
VERY FUCKING RELATED OP. LISTEN TO MY TALE
>be 21 year old Junior in college
>had a few gf's before and some one night stands with average lookin girls, nothing special
>start dating this pretty hot latina girl
>really faithful, loyal, helpful, supportive
>she's a perfect girlfriend (but im waiting for other shoe to drop)
>one day she tells me she was raped on campus 2 years ago??
>lets it slip her step father raped her before
Wat
>find it hard to wanna have sex with her
>cant think of her the same
>eventually tho I realize she is worth it and get over my feelings of discomfort
>next time i fuck her she begs me to slap her
>begs me to choke her and hit her face
>I feel weird doing that shit in real life, even tho I love seeing it in porn
>When i choke her her eyes roll back into her head and she comes all over me
Ended up dumping her a few weeks later (starting fucking her friend instead). I used to be upset my gf was raped and whatever. Except I realize that either:
1. She was drunk or kind of asking for it or at least curious
2. Even if she didn't like the rapes she has now fetishized rough sex
Fuck that. I dumped her. NO WAY could she be the mother of my kids or meet my fucking family with that kind of history. You know how everyone thinks of shit during sex to help them come or whatnot? I'm pretty sure she was thinking about getting raped by her stepfather at least some of the times we fucked
It's too uncomfortable to ask her questions about it and I decided I would rather not know. Because there are 1251251285125 women out in the world, dont feel bad about it just dump this one
>>25502655
I don't think a practice gf warrants a thread desu senpai
>>25502421
I hope you guys are all kidding around here.
Because if not, you seriously need a mental health checkup.
>>25502772
Chicks that got raped when they were young are usually a fucking mess, he is avoiding a bullet down the line.
>>25502791
Weaklings.
>>25502772
Raped at a young age means extreme mental issues.
Leave that chick for the male feminist redditors to clean up.
This thread made me giggle.
>>25502772
>OP wants to protect himself.
Yeah, he sounds like a real nutcase. Almost as bad as a woman raped at an early age, amirite?
>>25502674
My friend told me she was raped at gun point so idk
>>25502501
>it's not her fault
genetic dispositions aren't peoples fault either but I wouldn't have a long term relationship with someone who cant mother children or has a disability or something
>>25502421
Show her this posting. She'll heave a huge sigh of relief that she escaped a relationship with an empathy-free sociopathic misogynist scumbag and you'll be free to collect fedoras and swing your katanas around all you like when she's gone.
>>25502900
lmao who makes these posts? I'm not sure if we're being trolled at this point
>>25502548
This is how every male should behave. You aren't immoral or a bad person tho. It really is that most females aren't that interesting or unique so there's no reason to get attached to any single one
Fuck her a few more times if you want, maybe ask for a 3some, but dump her soon lad
>>25502929
We just have different values senpai.
I'm Swedish, and I have the same values as that "feminist redditor guys" apparently have. I've been taught never to do something like that. It'd be like a conservative muslim walking around stark naked on a beach or something.
>>25502929
Some whores from a female version of /r9k/ came here to raid us, because some dumb faggot linked us to one of their threads
>>25502980
>I'm Swedish
stopped reading right there, nice meme'd
>>25502421
just leave her. who cares what you tell her, you won't be seeing her again. your lives being connected ends there.
I'd avoid bringing up the rape though or she might get it in her head to make a false report to the police. those are a bitch to work through even if you eventually "win". if you're scared of the prospect try recording the conversation and hope she threathens with it. modern cell phones easily have good enough mics to record a conversation if you keep it in your front pocket or a nearby table or something
>>25502501
>t. cuckold
Have you ever heard of telegony? The rapist's DNA is currently swimming around your gf's ovaries. Any child you produce will have at least half of his DNA be the DNA of the rapist.
>>25502929
one white knight or fattie desperate for (you)s
>>25502996
>Whores attention whoring on /r9k/.
So it's Monday?
>>25502980
You would know about muslims, Sven.
>>25502980
>swedish
>hey guise, please take over my country and rape our women
You are an embarrassment to white people.
>>25502980
this is why nobody likes you t. finn
you live in a fantasy land. luckily you've managed to fuck up your welfare state so it's over soon
>>25502980
>A Swede tries to talk tough in /r9k/.
>Gets passed around like a little bitch.
Pretty pathetic, tbqh family.
>>25502421
>She never reported the person.
We have two options here:
1. It wasn't rape.
2. It was rape, but she has severe daddy issues and got off on it.
Either way, she's bad news. There is no logical reason to not report a rape.
>>25502980
>I'm Swedish,
Are you shitposting from your cuckshed again?
>>25502980
>I'm Swedish
Ready for the final tomorrow?
oh yeah YOU'RE NOT IN IT :DD
>>25503111
Doesn't really matter senpai. The emotional trauma doesn't go away with a report. She's damaged goods for life.
>>25502501
pretty much this
Not an SJW but Rape is more common than you guys might think. One of my best friends was (or at least says she was) raped as a child. But I don't care, she is perfectly normal.
Literally no reason to a dump a girl over.
>>25503218
there's a difference between potential friend material to hang out with and potential wife material to start a family with
>>25502980
Ebic troll, ausman
>t. Swede
Haha good one
>>25503218
I will be friends with and even bang someone who got raped but they will be too fucked up for long term relationships. It really isn't that common, large portions are just chicks justifying their stupid drunk behavior, then a few actually got raped but they still have the issues, so you just move on.
>>25503218
>Rape is more common than you guys might think.
2/10 I replied.
>>25503247
yeah but my point is that just because a woman was raped doesn't mean that they are damaged goods.
If you honestly believe that a girl who was raped is "damaged goods" you are autistic
>>25503218
You do realize that woman are basically oscar awards worthy actors when it comes to who they really are, right?
A woman never lets her friends know whom she really is, unless they're both on the same level of immorality. She told you she was raped in hopes that you would have told her that you had been raped as well, she wanted to know if you found it to be ok for her to have had enjoyed the rape.
What other reason would she have for telling you? I'm assuming you're a girl,because if you were a guy that would mean that she was trying to hint to you that she has a rape fetish.
>>25503332
"Raped."
>Amazingly, this is not original on /r9k/.
>>25502980
>I'm Swedish
>is a cuck
POTTERY
>>25503369
>lets make a sweeping generalization about an entire gender
this is what femnazis do
>>25503380
why would OP's hf lie to him about being raped
>>25503427
>why would OP's hf lie to him about being raped
Why doesn't she try proving it? Oh, wait... she can't. Because it didn't happen.
>>25502791
My last gf was raped when she was younger. Under 10 years old. Disgusts me to think about it. Anyway, she wasn't crazy at all, held a good job and was a nice person despite her awful childhood.
There are exceptions to the rule you know.
>>25503332
if you honestly believe they aren't you seem to have created some happy thought bubble around you where actions don't have consequences and stories always have happy endings.
emotional trauma is very real and affects everyday life and if you're not already married there is absolutely no reason to commit to someone hindered with something as drastic as a history of rape
>>25503369
>What other reason would she have for telling you?
Emotional manipulation.
>>25503491
why risk it when there are 3 billion other women out there?
>>25503320
Really is. Well maybe not rape, but molestation. I've had 5 serious girlfriends and 3 of them were molested when they were young, 1 of them full on raped. One by the step dad, other by her mom's bf, and the one that was raped by some random neighbor in her apt complex. Fucking weirdos out there
>>25503561
that's the kind of people you hang out with and attract in your cuckshed sven. not an average estimate of the population
>>25503529
If you really love the person you'll attempt to make it work no matter what odds. But if she's just another girl then yeah, you're right. But "just another girl" doesn't confide to you that she was raped
>>25503561
>Well maybe not rape, but molestation.
Nice back tracking. Now I'm taking a point off your score.
1/10 last reply.
>>25503459
You literally cannot prove that
>>25503500
Im not saying rape victims don't undergo emotional trauma I'm saying it affects some people more than others, and if your gf was raped you should be emotionally supportive and help here with PTSD
Also just because she hasn't been raped doesn't mean she doesn't have PTSD from it
>>25503613
I'm a different anon than the one you replied to
>>25503605
>But "just another girl" doesn't confide to you that she was raped
meh I could easily see an EMOTIONALLY DAMAGED woman trying to use it as a power/pity move six months into a relationship
>>25503621
>Also just because she hasn't been raped doesn't mean she doesn't have PTSD from it
sweden everyone
>>25503633
>backtracking for a different anon
>>25502421
That's hot.
>>25502501
tbfmf lot's of raped chicks have messed up personalities so you'd have to play therapist too
>>25502980
You mean breaking up with a girl by choice and trying not to make a drama out of it? I know op sounds like a fag but it's still his choice.
I had a girlfriend in high school (when I was 16, she was 15) and she told me her uncle use to touch her when she was a kid. I don't think she told anyone else and after she told me she didnt want to talk about it, so I never brought it up again. I wish I did more to console her. That was 10 years ago now, I hope shes doing well.
>>25502980
SWEDEN
YES
the post
>>25503763
she picks up black guys from the night club multiple times a week
>>25503660
1 I live in New York
2 If a woman believes that she has been raped and suffers emotional trauma from the event that she created in her mind,she can have trauma from it. Some people actually believe that they were raped when they weren't, and suffer emotional trauma from the event that didn't happen.
t psych major
>>25503691
Perhaps you guys are right.
After some thinking, perhaps I'm just trying to justify my own inner fucked-up desire for a broken person. No-one can be forced to carry another's burden.
If I had a dollar for every time I heard a girl got raped as a kid, I'd have quite a bit of change.
Women LOVE the attention. And nothing gives more sympathy and attention than a story of them getting raped as kids. It's almost always bullshit.
>>25503605
I've been told by strangers that they were raped, raped victims have that burning on the front of their mind forever they can't just get over it. Fuck man someone early ITT said they had a friend tell him she was raped, are you retarded or willfully ignorant?
>>25503491
You should probably look into the word "usually" and figure out what that actually means so you don't have to make stupid "actually, not everyone is x" posts like a fucking retard.
>>25503813
psych majors everyone
maybe you could import your very own shed then
>>25502673
>She raped a girl when she was young.
Uh.. how exactly did this happen?
>>25503813
>I live in New York
The place flooded with single women whores who never settle? Gee wayyyyy better than sweden bro.
>Some people actually believe that they were raped when they weren't, and suffer emotional trauma from the event that didn't happen.
It's called being a histrionic attention seeking cunt.
>>25502980
>I'm Swedish, and I have the same values as that "feminist redditor guys" apparently have.
Just reinforcing the stereotype that all swedes are cucks. I'm starting to believe it's true.
>>25503907
>t. Vagina Monologues
Shit. Women celebrate this shit.
>>25503821
Look nigger you shouldn't throw people away like trash but rape victims have a ton of emotional baggage. You have to weigh how much you want to be with her against how deep her problems are and how realistically you can help/solve them, it may be better to call shit off it may be fine to stick around.
>>25503905
Believe it or not, but some women do have PTSD from events that they created in their minds
I've seen it before
>>25503932
>The place flooded with single women whores who never settle? Gee wayyyyy better than sweden bro.
nah m8 the girls here are sweet, qt, and effay
>Try hards: The thread
Good luck settling down with a good woman.
When you're alone and bitter in 30 years, remember this post. You people have a lot of growing up to do.
>>25504005
>but some women do have PTSD from events that they created in their minds
That's not PTSD. That's straight up delusion.
>>25504039
Explain that to the good men getting fucked over by Divorce Inc. :^)
>>25504005
oh I know. I've read some articles on entirely fabricated false memories etc. I'm saying you're a fucking cuck if you play into it or think such cases deserve to be treated with respect
>>25502421
Have sex with her and after she falls asleep tape a breakup note to her forehead.
>>25504005
>muh pseudoscience
>muh attention whoring certified by "doctors"
>>25504039
>settle down with a mentally deranged rape victim who will cuck and divorce you
OR
>make money and fuck escorts and play vidya for your whole life
Tough choice, indeed
>>25504005
>nah m8 the girls here are sweet, qt, and effay
Nigger I live here too, they're whores, lonely whores, high maintenance whores, and drunk whores.
NYC is whoreopolis of america.
>>25504039
>not choosing to carry someone else's serious emotional baggage is being edgy
>not wanting to start a family with a girl with history of sex abuse is try hard
first year college student: the post
>>25504057
>>25504058
>>25504072
But what I am saying is that it literally is PTSD caused by delusion, and should be treated as PTSD because regardless of the root cause, it's still PTSD
>>25504005
>Believe it or not, but some women do have PTSD from events that they created in their m
Because
They're
Histrionic
Whores
You
Retard
Can you not identify an attentionwhore?
>>25504134
Treat the delusion and the "PTSD" disappears. So, no, it's not actually PTSD. It's just the quality of their delusional headcannon. You're just legitimizing it.
>>25503813
How does it feel knowing that your major is shit? Hell, you're so fucking retarded you think PTSD and delusions are the same thing.
>>25504115
Btw this is what that map looks like when you take out the old hags. Dating is truly fucked for men no matter where you are.
>>25504134
but that doesn't answer the question: why not get out of the relationship when you find out about it. whatever it's called and however you want to diagnose it. they're not blood relatives (i hope) so why tell yourself you're stuck in a situation that you're not responsible for and had no role in causing?
>>25504134
>root cause is delusion
>treat the symptom instead
Fucking classic.
>>25504214
This. The story clearly states she has issues with it. Worse, >>25504134 this guy is LITERALLY admitting it could be a very serious problem yet at the same time demands non-Swedes in this thread get cucked.
Forget it.
Before she dates she should get therapy and not drag down people with her.
>>25504005
No they don't. It's not PTSD because it's not an actual traumatic event. If we say that PTSD is the same as being delusional then it's like saying "Get over it" to somebody who's truly traumatized.
>>25504207
The old hags got there from a lifetime of whoring and "i'm a stronk female! i don't need no kids or marriage".
>>25504230
Hey that's how they treat trannies!
>>25504134
It's not PTSD though. You're basically saying that people who actually suffer from PTSD aren't really traumatized.
>>25504214
fugg i forgot this is what the thread was about
>>25504192
I'm not saying that they are they same thing, I'm saying that PTSD can be caused by delusions.
>>25504180
Or treat the PTSD which is easier, and the PTSD disappears.
>>25504230
in some cases it is better to treat the root cause In some cases it's better to treat the symptoms.
it's hard to convince a christfag that god isn't real right?
it's hard to convince a genderfluidfag that they are just making it up right?
It's hard to convince a robot that not all women are cheating whores right?
>>25502980
>Sweden
>yes
Have some /int/ memes m80.
>>25504338
>this whole post
>Or treat the PTSD which is easier
Prove, it show me the study.
>it's hard to convince a christfag that god isn't real right?
>it's hard to convince a genderfluidfag that they are just making it up right?
>It's hard to convince a robot that not all women are cheating whores right?
>all this deflection
>>25504263
Or they're single moms that nobody wants.
>>25504444
because delusion isn't a diagnosable medicable, mental illness, PTSD is
in some cases it isn't possible to treat the delusion
>>25504444
Quad 4's AHHHH
>>25504338
>Or treat the PTSD which is easier, and the PTSD disappears.
So you're going to literally ignore the actual problem and claim a victory? Is this Islam-approved science looks like, Swede?
>>25504516
see
>>25504497
also again from New York
>>25502980
Bait, good, but bait.
>>25502421
Kill'er then urselfffff
>>25504497
>>25504544
So you're literally presenting a hypothesis that's impossible, to create a solution to support your horseshit, when PTSD can't even happen this way since delusion isn't even a medical diagnosis?
Do you think I'm simply going to stop using my brain because you said so? Jesus, you dumbasses. Try lying to people who can't think or, you know, are gullible.
>>25504404
Good shit son, but some do get over it pic related
>>25504485
Potential consequence of the whoring.
>>25504497
So why make shit up you nigger? You can't know it's easier since you can't compare it to real diagnosable shit, fuck delusional cunts may even affect the success rate in treatment of ptsd since they're just retards who will get over their imaginary problems (if they comprise a significant number of em).
Go peddle your bullshit somewhere else retard.
t. mildly amused shitposter
>>25504617
>>25504610
not creating an impossible hypothesis
some women are capable of enough mental gymnastics to convince themselves that they were raped. After they do this they suffer trauma from their imaginary rape.
This is not hard to understand
>>25504686
Then delusion is real.
This is also not hard to understand.
So you're literally talking out of both sides of your mouth on all sides of the subject.
And you wonder why no one is taking you seriously?
>>25504686
>they suffer I NEED MOAR ATTENTION disorder
ftfy, play acting isn't real trauma and your bullshit anecdotes aren't expertise.
What's the difference between crying like a bitch because you want attention and crying like a bitch because your life is fucked? Only the liar knows.
>>25504686
This is the biggest bullshit I've ever read.
Vid related, acute orbiter deficiency disorder please send dicks and condolences asap.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsSNh23SwPw
I think most girls are raped
>>25504751
Im not saying delusion isn't real
you cannot reliably treat, medicate, and diagnose delusion, and in most cases we don't even bother trying to figure out if the victim was actually raped or is just making it up, because in both cases they experience the same trauma. Making it nearly impossible to tell which is which
PTSD on the other hand, can be reliably treated, diagnosed, and medicated
if we know that the "victim" wasn't actually raped we will try to convince them that they weren't actually raped but sometimes they just won't believe us so we are forced to treat them as an actual rape victim.
how can you people be so dense
how do u make the words green?
>>25504941
>they just won't believe us so we are forced to treat them as an actual rape victim
This is exactly the reason your medical profession is complete shit, and you're taking society with you.
SHOW SOME FUCKING PROFESSIONAL BACKBONE YOU GARBAGE PIECE OF SHIT.
>>25505000
since you clearly know more about my field than I do, how should these people be treated
>>25504941
>if we know that the "victim" wasn't actually raped we will try to convince them that they weren't actually raped but sometimes they just won't believe us so we are forced to treat them as an actual rape victim.
>how can you people be so dense
I thought it was easier to treat delusion why do you even go through the first step? This sounds like a bunch of a placebo bullshit, she came for attention, ignored claims she was lying, got the attention she craved, and bounced. It's about as easy as treating a hypochondriac, hypochondriacs don't suffer from real diseases and attentionwhores don't have real trauma faggot. Stop saying she has real trauma because the only way to get her to leave is to play into her retarded bullshit, no one's falling for it.
>>25505068
>How should you treat imaginary problems?
Gee, that's a tough one.
>>25505078
*treat delusion as ptsd
>>25505078
>because the only way to get her to leave is to play into her retarded bullshit, no one's falling for it.
sorta what I'm saying m8, we still have to treat them as actual victims because of mental gymnastics. regardless of weather they believe they were actually raped or not (I think that they actually believed that they were raped)
but most of the time we can't tell if they were actually raped or not so we just bypass trying to figure it out.
Also i've been saying this whole thread that delusion is harder to treat
I seriously hope this isn't real. Please tell me you're not that much of a cunt, OP. Please don't exist IRL.
>>25505240
see
>>25505000
>SHOW SOME FUCKING PROFESSIONAL BACKBONE YOU GARBAGE PIECE OF SHIT.
You're an enabler, plain and simple.
>>25505294
see
>>25505068
original post
>>25505371
see
>>25505107
also see
>>25505000
>SHOW SOME FUCKING PROFESSIONAL BACKBONE YOU GARBAGE PIECE OF SHIT.
Already answered you, originally.
>>25505398
see
>>25505068
I stil se no alternative
>>25505240
>we still have to treat them as actual victims because of mental gymnastics
Okay how does that lead to this:
>>25504686
>some women are capable of enough mental gymnastics to convince themselves that they were raped. After they do this they suffer trauma from their imaginary rape.
There's no way to know what they're really thinking and that they're not just substituting their desperate urge for attention into a fit of crying and weakness. They're not really traumatized they just want attention and care, you may want to pretend they are to shuffle them out but they're just acting out to get an emotional reward they're not reeling from a traumatic event just feeling the lifelong effects of being histrionic or w/e mental issue or need drives them to lie for attention.
I may understand that it's just easier to play along and get them out the door, but don't piss on me and tell me it's raining by saying that their histrionics have left them truly traumatized.
>>25505437
>If I keep rotating back to my answer they'll give up.
Nah. The answer is obvious. You're NOT SUPPOSED TO TREAT ANYTHING ELSE YOU ARE CAUSING HARM.
But what do I know about the Hippocratic Oath? Or you, for that matter, since it sounds like you don't have to take it.
>And you probably don't, being a "pretend doctor."
>>25505448
>There's no way to know what they're really thinking and that they're not just substituting their desperate urge for attention into a fit of crying and weakness. They're not really traumatized they just want attention and care, you may want to pretend they are to shuffle them out but they're just acting out to get an emotional reward they're not reeling from a traumatic event just feeling the lifelong effects of being histrionic or w/e mental issue or need drives them to lie for attention.
while this is true for some cases, you can't make that generalization for all cases, so yes, it is easier to shuffle them together to get them out the door, the longer they are in the door the more money we get.
>>25505470
just a student I'm not a real doctor m80 :^)
>>25505524
>the longer they are in the door the more money we get
fugg I wasn't clear
We don't want people to get out ASAP because we get money by treating them
>>25505524
>just a student I'm not a real doctor m80 :^)
Well, that explains why you're so fucking stupid.
>>25505524
>while this is true for some cases, you can't make that generalization for all cases
In all cases I could never bring myself to call an imaginary event traumatizing, any exhibited signs of trauma whether sincere (something only the person could know for sure) or not is born from a lie they crafted or their inability to distinguish reality from fantasy.
A different kind of crazy I wouldn't dignify by associating people who had their mental state violated by external events.
Gee I sure haven't seen this thread before. Oh wait yes I have.
>144 replies
Fuck this shit board
>So uh my girlfriend
Why did I come here again
She definitely wasn't raped. It's a perfect tell if a girl was raped or not, is she telling the police or is she telling a news outlet or guy she's fucking in exchange for free shit? Either way she is damaged and used goods so downgrade her to slampig status and look for gf material elsewhere. Don't dump her, just secretly make the relationship open but only for you. Having a harem helps with the abundance mentality you need to attract a mate that is worthy of living.
In a way this is a good thing. You now have free reign to treat her like shit. I don't know if you're a sadist, but if you aren't you should try it. What is she going to do about it? Tell her betabux bf 10 years from now about the Chad who put it in her butt? She's already broken, you can do anything you want and it wont matter.
There is so much bullshit from the obvious virgins here.
I been in sexual relationships with girls who have been raped and it's never the same case.
Some of the girls I've been with have told me they were raped mainly becuase they had anxiety about sex and wanted to let me know becuase they trust and feel safe with me.
Some girls have a super high sex drive despite sexual rape and abuse. Becuase that is the way some people handle that kind of trauma even if you debate that it's bad or good.
In the end every girl that I've fucked did so not becuase I was a Chad, alpha but becuase they felt safe wit and in their child like minds a daddy figure, even the ones that liked rough rape play and bdsm.
>>25506093
>if you don't like eating Chad's cum straight from her busted roast ur a obvious a VIRGIN~~~
Im not sure if I deserve a girl who ISNT damaged goods.
>show girls photos of me cutting myself just to upset them
>steal money whenever i can from girls im with
>emotionally blackmail girls into relationships
>cripple their self esteem for fun
>get hard when girls cry
>require constant attention and validation from these girls otherwise i accuse them of everything under the sun
>occasionally end perfectly good relationships for no reason other than deeply hurting them
And I guarantee all of you, being the type of person who spends time on 4chan, is at least that unpleasant.
>>25506093
>Some girls have a super high sex drive despite sexual rape and abuse.
>despite
I got bad news for you son, a lot of molested/raped girls ho it up BECAUSE they were molested.
>In the end every girl that I've fucked did so not becuase I was a Chad
Shit you made up, no one's saying you have to be a chad to fuck rape victims but that rape victims have baggage.
>girlfriend
Nigga ree do I really have to say it
Ahh man just in time for 2016! The year of the practice girlfriend my friend! The solution is easy! Your girlfriend just brought herself down from actual girlfriend tier to practice girlfriend tier. Keep her for now until you find girl you can see a future with. Of course if this is really fucking you up just dump her ass. I completely understand not wanting to deal with it granted it isn't her fault it happened but it's not your job to have to deal with it either unless you wanted to. You're not a bad person for not wanting to though. Good luck
Advice threads aren't allowed on /r9k/. Go to /adv/ instead. Try to read the rules next time.
>>25506375
>using a tripcode when it's not necessary
tsk tsk
>>25502772
Yea I thought it might be bait not sure anymore man
>>25502421
wow. you're a shitty ass person, OP.
fucking kill yourself, you cuck loser.
>>25503332
I mean you are on r9k these people don't know how to be human anymore.
Why are guys so absolutely awful and narcissistic? You think you're so much better just because you had a better life and don't have any issues? You think you deserve someone perfect?
>>25507052
Oh shit a death threat i actually like
>>25502844
>>25502791
Except this anon was carrying on a completely normal, successful relationship with her up until then. The kind of crazy you are describing is apparent far before any confessions about what happened come up. Ya'll niggers don't know shit about girls OR psychology, do you?
>>25507176
This. OP is an absolute faggot. She was doing her best to be okay (succeeding) and only told him cause she started to trust him.
>>25507127
Rape is a pretty huge character flaw. Considering being raped just barely below is fucking ridiculous. It's one of the biggest redflags there are. It is more than reasonable to cut ties with such a bitch.
>>25507176
>>25507245
Cuck-a-fuck-a-doodle-dooooooo!!
>>25507822
Similarly it's totally reasonable for girls to ignore you because you were bullied once in elementary school. It's a pretty clear indicator of being a beta faggot with some sort of gross fetish like feet.
>tfw you're a rapist and you read this thread
Never did a 13 year old but still, I'm laughing in spirit.
>>25502421
You do not deserve her, OP
OPs GF if you are reading this, I'm yours babe.
>>25507867
I didn't go to elementary school, and even I did I wouldn't boohoo about such shit.
Do you think being a bad person is a virtue? I hide and or deny any and all character flaws to my dying breath. I am perfect in every way if what I say is to be believed. You are asking to be cucked if you do anything else.
>>25507882
>i'm a cuck i'm a cuck
lmao good to know
>>25507882
I think you mean she does not deserve op. She probably doesn't deserve you either, but you have no self esteem so you'd slurp up the sloppy seventieths like a good boyim.
>>25507929
>>25507856
Gr8 B8 M8 8/8
Called us cucks, now we have nothing to do with all these rustled jimmies!
>>25507945
You could channel your rump rage into changing your beta ways. Baby steps at first. Don't eat your bull's cum straight from the girls pussy, dontdon't give all your money to a 'findom' and don't datedate women with elaborate rape fantasies.
>>25502501
I'm not saying you're wrong but I've talked to quite a few girls over the Internet (and irl) over quite some time, most girls who claim to have gotten raped often have some sort of attention complex and are mostly entitled cunts. Don't know if rape fucks shit up in their head or whatever but that's my experience.
