>be 21
>never had been sexually interested in any man or woman
>never even a crush
jfc, seriously people, I've been laughing at all those special little snowflakes on tumblr who are calling themselves "demisexual" or "asexual", and I've been telling myself that this state is just a phase and one day I will find someone who I'll find at least vaguely attractive in a sexual way, but right now I am getting really worried that this day will never come. Is it time for therapy or something like that?
Also, is it possible to diagnose autism in an adult?
>pic unrelated
probably a hormone problem, go to a doctor.
>>25497550
ever thought you just enjoy being by yourself?
you dont necessarily have a mental illness is just you've gone for so long without a bitch in your life, you just gotta ask yourself is it worth it?
You've gone this far, why not go further?
I'm kinda in the same boat as you and I remind myself how happy I am not dealing with female bullshit. Fuck man I enjoy jacking off so fucking much.
I got 99 problems and a bitch ain't one of em
>>25497550
>Calls herself asexual
>Gets drunk and makes out with girls
Autism is not asexuality, anon. Contrary to popular shitpost doctrine, autist is not some catch-all term for "thing person doesn't like".
>>25497550
Asexuality is a mental disorder and hormonal disorder that makes a person incapable of being sexually attracted to anything, meaning you could show them a huge penis or a wet vagina and they would probably thinks its really disgusting and not sexy at all. Furthermore since asexuals cannot feel sexual attraction they cannot comprehend the significance of sexual relationships and wouldnt give a flying fuck about anything to do with sex.
>be just like you
>turning 24 this year
JUST
embrace it. sexual attraction hinders people from achieving great things. i got on antidepressants and stopped being attracted to guys and now I recognize that there is nothing special about other people that makes me want their approval or validation
>>25497769
who the fuck says asexuality is a mental disorder?
fuck that noise.
>>25497647
yeah, I have already set up an appointment with an endocrynologist, my thyroid hormone levels have been all over the place during last few years, though it's going to be in a while
>>25497676
I'd love to just let it go, but I can't stop thinking that this is a tip of an iceberg of bigger problems I might have and not realise
>>25497731
himself, desu desu senpai
I usually just shout random things at people when I'm drunk
>>25497742
I know that, although I'm still interested if diagnosis of autism is possible over the age of 18
The worst part is that last year I pulled back from a relationship that was getting pretty serious because I was afraid to disappoint my girlfriend with my lack of sexual drive. We're still friends somehow, though there's a lot of awkwardness between us. Never told her the real reason for the break up either, don't know if because of shame or something else. Just couldn't bear to.
>>25498169
Doubtful. Autism is genetic. Symptoms generally show up around ~18 months old.
>>25498169
>bigger i might have and not realise
that's almost... everyone one earth
stop thinking so much about it.
>>25497550
desu same here senpai
used to feel like I was missing out on something. learned to take it as a blessing though
>never had any crushes
>only 'went out' with a girl once, who confessed to me
>never did anything
>she'd try to touch me and i would recoil away for reasons i can't explain
>never had sex, the thought of it is enough to make me hyperventilate
>still like porn though, mostly hentai
Can I get the autismbux?
>>25497550
do you still jack off?
>>25497769
>Asexuality is a mental disorder
I don't think it's a "mental disorder" if it's not causing problems.
>>25498671
I can and I used to do it pretty often (nowadays not so much), and it is usually without any porn or other external stimuli
