IVE NEVER EVEN HUGGED A GIRL.
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO HOLD ME DEAR GOD IM SO LONELY.
WHY DO I HAVE TO SUFFER WHY DOESNT ANYONE FIND ME A GOOD ENOUGH PERSON TO EVEN INVEST THE TINIEST BIT OF TIME INTO.
I JUST WANT TO EXPEREINCE WHAT EVERYONE ELSE TAKES FOR GRANTED.
MY PARENTS ARE DEAD I HAVE NO SIBLINGS AND BARELY A SINGLE FRIEND.
IS LIFE EVEN WORTH IT ANYMORE, WHY THE FUCK SHOULDNT I JUST KILL MYSELF?
FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK
I'm just gonna get high and play Baldurs Gate
>>25484963
ill be your friend if you want. we could be pen pals
just get an escort and hug her
>tfw I got hugged because there's always that one bitch that needs to hug everyone
>He thinks it's tough to get laid
Go to a fucking orgy man. Even if you're deformed you can get laid there
Yeah the chicks might be gross but whatever
>tfw never handshaked a girl
>>25484963
>the first time a girl snuggled up to you
>your first kiss
>The first time you had sex
If people could pay for the transfer of feelings and someone offered me millions for them I wouldn't sell them.
They are priceless and give you a boost when you are feeling down
you are the definition of a poor man
>>25485087
>know the second two but now the first
Feels just as hollow desu
>>25485062
>tfw guys don't shake hands with girls here
Never got a good excuse to touch a girl's hand
>>25486663
>>tfw guys don't shake hands with girls here
Where?
>>25486703
Cyprus. I mean yeah, you can shake a girl's hand, nobody would get offended, but it's uncommon and most people don't do it.
>>25484963
That's ok bro!
JUST
BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
URSELF
25yo kissless virgin here. you stop caring about girls entirely eventually. you stop thinking about wanting to have sex and you stop wanting affection. it gets better. at least for me it did. a lot of people here my age become mentally ill instead lmao
>>25486820
Yeah i can actually agree on that. Whenever you see someone that still genuinely cares about sex and affection they are usually still young
stop being fat and smelly then
>>25484963
>WHY DOESNT ANYONE FIND ME
>I'm just gonna get high and play Baldurs Gate
This is your problem you lazy bitch. You expect things getting handed to you on a silverplate by the universe, instead of putting some effort into it and working for it.
So what your parents are dead? Guess what, the universe does not fucking care and you are not a special snowflage with a special condition. You are just lazy and entitled, thats all.
So what your parents are dead? Does this somehow prevent you from talking to people/girls? Does this prevent you from going to the gym or picking up some sports? How does this prevent you from improving your personality?
Those are all fucking bullshit excuses to justify your misery. You are putting yourself into the victim role, so that you can wallow in self-pitty.
Take some fucking responsibility for your life. Accept that you are not a special snowflake, and that YOU and only you are at fault for your condition. You are not the fucking victim here, you just pretend to be a victim so you can put the blame on other people, on the universe, even on your dead parents. Basically everyone is at fault except for you poor baby.
Take some fucking responsibility for your life
>>25485062
tfw I saw that live.
>>25487031
Shit nigga. Laying it down.
>>25487050
Someone had to bitchslap him with the truth
>>25485023
Prostitution is legal here but the problem is I'm always living with people.
I also don't have a car.
Do you think an escort would drive to my house and pretend to be my girlfriend then cuddle me on the couch?
That's all I really want because the thought of kissing her makes me a bit sick.
Will I get discounts?
I'd want to do this every week if possible and then maybe go outside saying I'm meeting her to keep up appearances.
>>25487100
>Prostitution is legal here but the problem is I'm always living with people.
>I also don't have a car.
Then take a bus/train/cab and go to a fucking brothel. Shit, even while trying to book a whore you are making up problems although there are none
>>25487031
>Just talk to people and kick a ball around, it will work, trust even though I haven't done it ever
>>25484963
where are you from anon? US? UK?
>>25487031
It that actually worked, why would you even be here?
>>25487031
>this whole post
Wrek these sad sacks of shit.
>>25486734
Same in Russia.
>>25484963
>I'm just gonna get high and play Baldurs Gate
Good call bud. I find RPGs a good distraction. Working up the motivation to start a fully modded (255) Skyrim game. It's pretty immersive.
>>25487031
Okay, but are your parents dead that you have the rights and authority to place yourself in OP's situation? If you seriously believe so, you're mentally deranged.
>>25484963
You obviously have bad habits.
You must change how you live.
Start simple and build new habits:
-Talk a 20 minute walk every day just to get some time and some exercise.
-Start reading good books, the classics and read at least 30 minutes every day
-Put down the weed, it just saps focus
-Take half the weed money and put it in savings, the rest spend on classes; anything - cooking, creative writing, whatever. Just get get in the habit of learning
-Join group activities, like book clubs at libraries, to spend more time with strangers. this will get you used to it, give you examples (other people), and build up your confidence
-When you interact with women think of them as a 'project'; you want to learn what all sorts of women are like for no reason other than to learn. This removes the pressure AND you will learn about women
-Once you are feeling more confident and have learned to speak comfortably with women invite a girl you know for coffee. If she has a boyfriend invite him, too. This is because you want to learn about/get used to talking to women and if you add a friend, all the better
+This will all build your confidence, build your skills, and get you in the habit of talking comfortably with others. Once this is done,
-Ask a girl who is single out for coffee and just talk.
-Immediately ask a different girl out, the same way
-Before you know it you will know what you *really* like in women and how to recognize it
....
This will take a long time, a year or more, but you are trying to cram what Chads learn between 12 and 16 into as short a period as possible.
In the end you will still be you, but a skilled, relaxed, confident you
>>25487031
fucking this.
i used to be the same way till i realized the same thing. until i stopped being the megazord of faggots. do the same op.
>>25487031
>wallow in self-pitty
I would like to believe that normies are aware that this phrase has become a laughing stock, but I honestly doubt it.
>>25484963
I remember the first time I "hugged" a girl
It was Junior year in high school. I was sent to one of the schools/hospital like places where there would be therapy. I was suicidal at the time
I met a few cool people there and I met this girl. She was nice and would try to make conversations with me. I was shy and never really gave an effort to put my part into the conversation. Eventually she finished her time there and was about to go back to regular school.
Before leaving she gave me a hug and said goodbye with a smile. I didn't hug her back and never expected someone like her to hug me...
She was pretty cute, nice body, blonde.
>>25488033
If he can get high and play baldurs gate while complaining on /r9k/, he can also talk to girls.
No, thank God my parents are well and alive. I dont know what it is like to lose parents, and I dont want to know it anytime soon. Ofcourse its emotionally traumatizing.
But this is not an excuse. This is part of life, and having dead parents does not prevent him from making his legs move in the direction of people/girls, open his mouth and use his tongue to vocalize his intentions.
But as I said, if he can play vidya and smoke weed, he also can self improve. Just by reading the way he types, you can sense the modus operandi of him. And he clearly is putting himself in the victim role, so that he can justify being a mess and doesnt have to take responsibility for his misery, rather than actually self improving
>>25487031
No offense, but you know that won't do anything, thats why your here. It is good to not be a victim but going out and talking to people really isn't going to help the guy if he has no friends first.
>>25485033
Same for me
But does it really count?
>>25487944
>It that actually worked
"Working" is a wrong term because its not a technique or a tool or some magic pill to be "working".
It's the basic mindset and attitude towards life and the self. By having this mindset, you stop wasting away and start doing the things that you already know you need to do. And then you will reap the rewards.
>why would you even be here?
Why not? This board provides from time to time some interesting and entertaining threads.
>>25484963
Thank god ill never know that feel.
>>25488669
I get what you're saying, but you guys keep repeating this same old shit thinking it's a fucking revelation. It's common sense that being active, responsible and caring is optimal. But what then? What happens when you try to talk to people and they don't feel like opening up to you? How come even lazy stoners can have friends and lovers while we can't? Because they have always had friends, they have always talked to people while we haven't. For some it just isn't in their nature. Maybe I'm wrong but "lol you just gotta try man, you aren't special, stop whining etc." doesn't help in the least.
>>25488642
>going out and talking to people really isn't going to help the guy if he has no friends first.
Thats why he needs to find ways to socialize. No one said its going to be easy. Its a fucking hustle, a grind, its going through countless rejections and pains. Thats what it is. Its also putting a lot of work and effort to better himself.
Becoming healthy and fit will not only improve his physique, but also his mental health, happyness and confidence. Getting your life sorted out and finding some passion will make him more fulfilled and happy and he will radiate positivity, which will draw in people and situations. By going after his passions in life and maybe having some other hobbies that he could also go after, he would inevitably meet people that have similiar interests. That was basically the build up for default mode of a successful person.
Now the actual hustle starts. He aquired the ressources that he needs and opened the doors in his life that will allow him to build a social circle.
Given how he probably is an aspie, it will be traumatic at first. He will get rejected left and right, left feeling like utter shit, will be going through a lot of emotional stress, heartache, pain, rejection etc etc. The trick is, not to give up and embrace the pain, since this is what makes you grow, instead of going back to r9k and shitposting how all women are whores. Only through pain and failure, you learn and grow. Not only will this mature him emotionally, by gathering reference experiences he will become better and better at this until at some point he will be really good with girls and people.
This is a potential path he could go down.
What does he do instead?
>wahhh someone bring me gf while I play baldurs gate and smoke weed pls
>Here are 100 excuses as to why I can't stop doing that, I am such a victim after all, its not my fault!!
>Poor me! Its the universe! Its my parents! Im a special snowflake [insert 100 excuses], feel sorry for me pls
>>25488901
>but you guys keep repeating this same old shit thinking it's a fucking revelation
It keeps being repeated because people keep ignoring it, yet complain about their lifes without being willing to accept that they have to work and hustle to improve their stuation.
>Because they have always had friends, they have always talked to people while we haven't. For some it just isn't in their nature.
Yeah, so you got dealt a shitty card in life (as have I been btw, so I know what I'm talking about). Now let me tell you an unpleasent truth: The universe does not give a fuck. It literally does not give a fuck how bad you have it, it doesnt care about you at all, there are exactly zero fucks given. No one gives a fuck. Life is unfair and you have been dealt a shitty unfair card where you are at great disatvantage.
Which leaves you with two options:
A - Accept it. Accept that its unfair and that you need to hustle EXTRA hard and crawl through the fucking shit by going through a lot of work and pain, and then work towards your goals.
B - Give up and keep sitting in your own shit. But then you lose all rights to complain like OP. You also can't make up excuses as to why you can't pursue your goals to justify you keeping in option B. If you are going to give up, just call it exactly that, admit to yourself that you are too weak and/or to afraid for A, but dont complain and make up bullshit excuses to justify your lack of motivation
>>25484963
>I'm just gonna get high and play Baldurs Gate
Good taste my friend. I too still role a character in BG after all these years. BG2 is GOTYAY for me.
>>25489100
Yes, that's what I've realized. Most normal people do not even have to try to have loved ones, at least not the ones they've always had. But myself and many I've spoken to do all the self-improvement shit, go to bars and clubs but do not make much progress because we're still socially stunted.
And you're right, it doesn't matter, it's unfair but nothing else can be done about it but to keep trying. I'm just so god damned frustrated is all, why couldn't I just have been normal? I don't even know, in fact I may give up just because I'm sick of trying. To hell with it.
>>25489386
Yes, but you have one great advantage over normal people who don't have to hustle, which should motivate you to go on.
By going through all this pain and bullshit, you grow stronger, smarter, better. You develop skills and gain tons of experience. You also become tough as fuck. Meanwhile, the normies who always had it kinda "okay", will most likely stay in their mediocracy of "Get a job, get a gf, get a promotion, marry, make kids and buy a house, lose both in divorce, slave away for your loan until you retire and die".
Basically, you are at down low right now. If you hustle and manage to get over all of this shit, you will actually be able to make it to the very top. Why do you think most important leaders and persons in history were kinda fucked in the head? They were all either autists, raging alcoholics, came from fucked up backgrounds etc etc.
Those people are at the top, because by going through all the shit, they became anti-fragile, while normies remain fragile. When shit hits the fan, normies start running around in panic like headless chicken because they cant take the stress. The fucked guys meanwhile are used to going through shit, its pretty much their entire life, and so they are able to deal with it.
/v/ here, baldur's gate is SHIT
