Why are all of them chads and staceys? do good things only happen to good looking people?
>>25484009
>do good things only happen to good looking people?
yes it's called the halo effect
>>25484009
They can't lie and say us uggos are going to find love on there.
>>25484025
Then why do i always see tinder threads on r9k? and people posting about how they are getting 30 matches a day?
>>25484009
Yes, good things only happen to good looking people
>>25484009
>do good things only happen to good looking people?
Yep.
>>25484013
That just reminded me, like 15 or maybe slightly more years ago there was an episode of this show called 'Tomorrow's World' where they showed you a court case with the guy and his circumstances and you had to vote on whether you thought he was guilty or not. The trick was that it was exactly the same, except in the North the viewers got a Chad of a man, and us in the South got a balding tubby beta.
Naturally, the North voted not guilty and we voted guilty.
Good looking men and all women*
Does this seem right to you guys...
1.4 billion swipes, and only 26 million matches per day.
Who the fucks getting the matches?
>>25484029
BECAUSE THIS BOARD IS POLLUTED WITH NORMIE FUCKING SHITS WHO THINK IT'S /b/-LITE
>>25484029
Because this is now the 4chan dating board, where have you been the last year? It has the most normalfags after /soc/.
>>25484009
Because the marketing department of Tinder isn't gonna use uglies in their highly visible testimonial section
>>25484086
Still, when you google people who met, made relationships out of it etc.. it's fucking chad himself. You don't exactly see any uglies.
>>25484086
Should've used an ugly guy with a pretty girl for succesful marketing but I guess they couldn't find even a single outlier because tinder is 100% about your looks and girls have ridiculous standards.
Unless you're over 8/10, don't even bother.
>>25484064
>Implying it isn't
/r9k/ has no topic, but unlike /b/ Global Rule #3 is in effect.
Funny, I went to tinder website before to see if tinder have windows compatable.
>>25484101
They are marketing to girls too
>>25484115
Desperate guys will always be more interested in anything concerning dating. Could've had a little of both anyway, throw in a landwhale with Chad there.
>>25484101
They want the signups to be 50% female and that's not going to happen if the pictures are Stacey and Quasi. If anything, Chad and an Ugly girl would be the smartest way to go.
>>25484101
>Unless you're over 8/10, don't even bother.
I learned this the hard fucking way, i had tinder for 5 weeks. Only 6 matches. 1 bot, 3 fat girls, 2 decent looking girls. They never sent me a message first, or responded to mine. I get like one match every 1 - 1.5 weeks. Which i think they swipe right on me by accident. You literally have to be 8-9/10 for girls to even think about messaging you first.
Also something funny to add. A while ago i was searching up Tinder and wanted to know what sort of people get swiped the most.. Well all the most popular profiles and most swiped profiles are of LITERAL male fucking models. What the fuck is wrong with women?
>first two couples
>9/10 & 8/10 Chads with 6/10 roasties
jesus fucking christ how attractive do you need to be to get a 7+
reeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>25484139
Hah, here in Australia you see 5/10 girls and fat blobs with 6ft3 guys with ripped bodies. I wish i was lying.
As an average male I'm fucked.
>>25484029
shills
gotta rope-a-dope for da dare tinder plus
>>25484132
Prepare to get more depressed.
I have a friend who is a total Chad, tall, fit, chiseled face, perfect hair, good eyes etc etc. Not even an asshole, just an amazing guy all over. Well he wanted to conduct and experiment over tinder to see how many women he could fuck a month and he managed to fuck 23 women in one month from tinder. This wasn't even the max he could since he only went for girls he found attractive and eventually got sick of it. Had he really only cared about the number there is no saying how many he could've fucked.
Meanwhile I have another buddy. Not really ugly, your normal 6/10 guy, he takes care of his apperance, lift and is in general just a decent dude. He got 6 matches in total that month and managed to get one girl to respond to his messages but she soon stopped responding.
>>25484173
>Meanwhile I have another buddy. Not really ugly, your normal 6/10 guy, he takes care of his apperance, lift and is in general just a decent dude
That is literally me, mate. Except i do LOADS of running and love working on my core (Russian twists, planks, etc..) So i sort of feel a little better now seeing it's completely out of my control.
It just grinds my gears when i see people on here preaching and starting arguments saying how looks don't matter, and personality always comes first etc..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2pvJuLgBqk
That guy is like a 8/10 and still has trouble.
>>25484013
wat
this isn't an example of the halo effect
were you just looking for any excuse to bust out a new phrase you learnt?
>>25484101
>Unless you're over 8/10, don't even bother.
ding ding ding
Good things happen to people who try, fail, don't give a shit and try again.
>>25484009
>"He used Tinder to propose to me!"
pffffffffftttt
>>25484509
>normie platitude #20238473
Kill yourself.
>>25484573
I'm not a normie at all. I'm just saying that's how it is. The things that happen to normies in relationships would absolutely crush me so I don't even want to try, but to succeed you need to keep going.
>>25484536
it's like going to a shady used car lot and paying above even the brand new market value for a car.
>>25484488
>ugly girls have it better than hot men
Yes dating is surely the same for both sexes just go out there and smile :)
>>25484009
>do good things only happen to good looking people?
Yes you fucking moron, Jesus Christ how long before you finally get it!?
>>25484064
>Just another dolt spouting the normie meme with no other contribution thinking a board originally created to promote OC was made for people like them.
>>25484616
>thinking a board originally created to promote OC was made for people like them.
It was brought back for people like us you stupid normie fuck kill yourself.
>>25484103
It has no topic but it has a culture. That culture is being poisoned by normies.
>>25484634
>normie
Nice meme. Say it a few more times. It's not old yet, and it shows how much you care about OC and aren't just an edgy child who started browsing in 2012.
>>25484611
Men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears
>>25484313
of course it is
are you retarded?
>>25484639
Cultures evolve over time.
I just don't understand it, why do women think they are entitled to a 8/10 man if they look 5/10? These /10 women would rather swipe right on a 8/10 male then a 5-6/10 male even if the chances of meeting the above average guy being a 1 in a billion.
>>25484688
Biology. And they actually do have the chance of meeting several 8/10 men and getting their every hole viciously railed because of biology again.
>>25484688
It's not just about numbers. It's the way you present yourself. No one wants to date some awkward and depressed looking guy with bad hair whose pic is taken with a webcam.
>>25484688
Simple, because they can get it.
>>25484598
Good things happen to people who have superior genetics and a good environment during developmental years
>>25484688
Because Chad has pumped and dumped them and now they can't enjoy less.
This is why guys want a virgin gf.
>>25484718
>>25484741
But why is it all about sex? fair enough they can get them holes filled. But what happens after that? probably heartache especially if they get into a relationship and she catches him filling up another women.
Then we will see the same used up whore crying and complaining about where all the good guys have gone. While being oblivious to the fact she only targets men who look like males.
>>25484763
>While being oblivious to the fact she only targets men who look like males.
I mean men who look like *Models
>>25484736
I had my picture taken in a social environment by a girl working in photography. Still barely any matches and most of them ignored me. 5 months of tinder and 0 dates.
I'm a 5/10 guy.
>>25484747
And also to disabled people and ugly people who try. Stop making excuses and complaining.
>>25484688
Hypergamy isn't a meme anymore
(Study proving 80/20 meme/rule) (It's actually 80/16)
http://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a22977-girls-on-tinder-do-smash-a-lot
>>25484789
Post pic and black your eyes out. I don't believe you. You must be uglier than you think.
>>25484796
Define trying
I've tried a lot in life but all I've gotten (a good job and degree) is because of my IQ.
>>25484808
So you have gotten good things with work. Do you just mean romantic things and relationships?
>>25484808
Then you haven't been trying hard enough :^)
>>25484763
>But what happens after that?
They get fucked by another Chad and then another Chad and then another Chad until they get some loser to pay for her and Chad's baby.
>>25484808
Just bee urself bro and you'll get a gf.. girls only care about personality. Trust me im a fembot ;)
"just try harder" will become the new "just be yourself"
>>25484063
In a single day only 1% of tinder gets a match.
Nice odds there.
>>25484908
Who is that 1%?
>>25484009
No, it's grabbing the opportunities you get.
It's your choice which opportunities to take.
>>25484826
Ye. I don't care for this money without a gf.
>>25484921
Chad Thundercock and Stacy Loosecunt
>>25484931
>more normie platitudes
holy fucking shit, I can't tell if this is a troll or a genuinely ignorant bluepilled normie who stumbled upon this board and this thread
>tfw you haven't just tried in the past 6 years
>tfw you occasionally consider trying again because why not
>tfw these kinds of threads help you avoid wasting time and money on just trying
These kinds of threads are becoming less effective since the past few months, though.
There's way too much cherry-picking and ad absurdum, not to mention all the blind hatred and echoing. Already having seen that a grand majority of it is far from true in real life when it comes to social situations post highschool and disregarding the occasional jock that got stuck in his glory years, I can't help but slowly consider maybe just trying the romance stuff for myself.
As an average looking person but with decent social skills (except zero romantic-based social skills, unable to even pick up signs without many false positives), I probably wouldn't have a chance.
Please help convince me I shouldn't even bother trying, fellow robots, that it's not worth the effort and all that.
Give me your best (or worst).
>>25484908
>>25484921
No that's wrong. 1% of the swipes lead to a match. Chad swipes 10 girls and get 10 matches and some average guy swipes 100 girls and get 0 matches.
I read somewhere that ugly guys average 1 match a month, average guys around 5 and attractive guys hundreds.
>>25484957
I just did simple matchs
26 million matches divided by 1.4 billion swipes = 1.8%
Meaning that only 2% of the swipes you do in a day gets a match.
>>25484978
Well that's assuming it's the same for everybody which it isn't. First of all those swipes are both left and right, girls swipe left on 90% of guys and guys swipe right on 90% of girls in general. Chad get 99.9% of the right swipes of girls.
>>25484848
>b urself u get many gfs :^)
spot the norm
>>25484665
> Halo effect is a cognitive bias in which an observer's overall impression of a person, company, brand, or product influences the observer's feelings and thoughts about that entity's character or properties. It was named by psychologist Edward Thorndike in reference to a person being perceived as having a halo.
> "Also known as the physical attractiveness stereotype and the "what is beautiful is good" principle, the halo effect, at the most specific level, refers to the habitual tendency of people to rate attractive individuals more favorably for their personality traits or characteristics than those who are less attractive. Halo effect is also used in a more general sense to describe the global impact of likeable personality, or some specific desirable trait, in creating biased judgments of the target person on any dimension. Thus, feelings generally overcome cognitions when we appraise others."
no, it's not.
its assigning positive characteristics/traits to an individual because they're attractive.
this isn't that .. ergo .. not halo effect.
nigga just google shit like really it takes 10 seconds baka desu.
>>25484931
Although true, it's worth noting that plenty of people end up miserable and without any success while they tried to grab opportunities they saw.
But, those are not the people you hear about, nor see posted on /r9k/ unless they also happen to be people who are unattractive looking or otherwise fit an agenda. Understandable, as those are the kind of people conveniently completely disregarded by any media (including social) when they talk about how "just" trying will make for success.
Plenty of companies die out or won't even remotely take off per 1 company that does manage to turn a profit, plenty of companies that file bankrupcy per 1 company that managed to turn an increased profit per year. Plenty of people who end up risking it all and losing for every 1 person risking it all and winning.
Not risking anything at all will be a nigh guarantee you won't win anything though. The problem with some/most robots that go around to complain are ones who fall in that last "low/no risk low/no reward" category, expecting to win without any risk.Disclaimer: amount of risk needed per reward may vary per person, environment, and connections/network (rich family for instance).
I feel more sorry for those who did decide to try and be bold, be in the "high risk high reward" category and lost repeatedly and continuously. Those are the ones who actually tried and keep trying, and keep losing.
Even more so for those who were dealt crappy hands in life yet decided to try and ended up failing all the time.
My sister met her bf on Tinder. They are both turbonormies. They go to the tanning place together and he gets his beard professionally trimmed by a laser.
>>25484639
a culture is not your friend
>>25485027
lol you really don't understand that when people assign positive traits to you and treat you better you get ahead in life
seriously lol what a stupid nigger
This is the only tinder conversation I've ever had. She unmatched me a day or two later.
>>25484956
So much for hoping to find new reasons not to consider pursuing anything romantic.
>>25485027
Wow, you didn't even read what you pasted. Are people this dumb on /r9k/ nowadays?
From your own quote:
>Halo effect is a cognitive bias in which an observer's overall impression of a person, company, brand, or product influences the observer's feelings and thoughts about that entity's character or properties.
OF A PERSON, COMPANY (TINDER), BRAND (TINDER) OR PRODUCT (TINDER) INFLUENCES THE OBSERVER'S blah blah
So >>25484013 is completely right
>be me make female account just for fun
>literally every guy i swiped was a match
>regularly getting superlikes
>shit tons of good looking/buff chads and also beta losers
No wonder we average guys hardly get matches. A girl will be literally talking to 10 guys at a time while you're groveling for her attention. Trust me senpai this shit sucks. Even a 6/10 basic bitch will have her pick of the lot. Makes me sick, ill stick to IRL you literally have much better odds.
>>25485112
>>25485196
I've had 6 matches in 3 days, 5 didnt even respond i had a short convo with another till she didnt respond.
Am i chad?
>>25484063
30 million female swipes a day=26 million matches and over 1.3 billion male swipes with no response every single day.
>>25484152
lol that feel when you're not into chubby gals, buddy. i could see why some anglo aussie men opt to date asian women; since their more petite, skinnier, and smaller. im black i wouldnt want to date a fat gal; if they are tall, slender, skinny, petite, it'd be cool ethnicity wouldn't matter from this point on. period.
yeah, its a little fucking rigged here in Australia but sometimes you gotta work with what you have. besides its a chadnation.
>>25485832
>it'd be cool if race didn't matter
Sure, but first you gotta tell your nigger friends to stop abducting, raping, kidnapping, assaulting and robbing white women at 20x the normal rate.
Any girl with half decent sense will avoid nogs, it's just logical.
>>25485832
>tfw you're black
>tfw i'm a slav
>tfw were both fucked.
>>25484009
Perpetuating hypergamy. Disgusting
Those guys are way out of their league. With the possible exception of the guy in the bottom right
If you looked like Chad, then why the fuck would you ever date? Seriously.
>>25485654
Tinder is mostly for well above average looking men (or slightly less than that but who know how to make photos of themselves that trigger some interest) and any woman of any look.
Rather than "competing" with at most all men in a bar, at a social gathering, or other social event (more often than not you'll see plenty of men either already taken, interested in other women, or actually not actively looking for women at such places) whom may vary in looks from below to above average, you're competing with every single male and their dog in a 50+km radius.
Rather than being able to use your social skills, body language, wit, sense of humour, even simply showing a personality, you're not given such a chance unless you look very handsome as Tinder actively promotes filtering on looks.
Us average looking men simply don't have anything to search for on Tinder, unless you manage to have someone accidentally swipe you or one that's just trying to get as many matches as possible, and your text-based social skills are superb and with it manage to have a woman give you the benefit of the doubt.
I'm not claiming anywhere in the "dating" scene you have a high chance as average looking man, but of all places Tinder is pretty much the worst to go for. Even random online dating sites would be less horrible for your odds, and even those odds are already pathetic.
>tfw about average looking
>managed to get a few phone numbers by "being myself"
>ended up making out with a female acquaintance at a party some time ago
I wasn't really interested in dating back then, luckily it turned out to be just for the sake of making out with me and not much more.
>supposedly have women show hints and signs and ask about me if I'm to believe my friends
I don't initiate much, especially as those signs are vague and could easily be false positives.
>tfw I probably would get zero matches in months of daily swiping to the limit
>let alone any woman to respond if I were to get matches
>>25485978
>tfw about average looking
>>managed to get a few phone numbers by "being myself"
Stopped reading.
Why the fuck are you guys moaning about tinder?
"waaah, its all about looks, personality doesnt matter, its all unfair".
OF COURSE THIS IS TRUE, if you are using a fucking DATING APP as your case study. A dating app full of the most shallow normies who make their decisions on a picture. Tinder is a niche hookup app for attractive people that everyone has hopped onto because they want a slice of the pie.
This is like hanging out with fish and going "waaaah its all about how well you can breathe underwater, air breathing doesnt matter, its all unfair". TINDER IS NOT FOR YOU, MOVE ON.
>>25486000
I wish I was handsome looking. All I have going for me is my personality. I'm not even sure I could actively get new phone numbers to be honest, and I'm still a bit at a loss how exactly the making out occurred. No way I could recreate a situation like that.And I'm a bloody manlet, too.
I met my girl on tinder
>>25486107
> tinder is not for you, move on
> girls are not for you, move on
> life is not for you, move on
The funny thing is that these normie relationships you desire will be over within 6 months to a year.
>>25486723
>moved on from Tinder
>moved on from women for now
>enjoying the fuck out of life as much as I can
Close enough.
And when it's time to move on from life, there's always plan B.
>>25484657
Don't you mean this the other way round? When has a woman ever considered a variable that wasn't aesthetic?
>>25486748
The funny fact is that a normie will find another partner for next 6 months in a week or less, unlike you.
>>25484303
WOMEN
CAN NOT
BE
ROBOTS
FUCKING REE
