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I'm starting school tomorrow. I'm so nervous, how do
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I'm starting school tomorrow. I'm so nervous, how do I make friends?

What if I get lost?
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>>25476546
JUST B URSLEFFFFFFFF ANON
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSCzDykng4g

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>>25476546
I spent the entirety of every semester I was alive on drugs. You will get lost and not make friends doing that. It will be weird as fuck not being on drugs when the next semester starts for me.

>cant believe I haven't relapsed, this is the longest I've been able to stay sober since I was like 15
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>>25476546
>make friends
just talk to them. say hi hen you see them and bye when you leave
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>>25476546
who is this semon demon senpai???????
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>>25478507
Abort lad
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>>25478553
Huh? Google turned up nothing for "abort lad"
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>>25478507
It's just some MTF from some normie game. Notice the lack of breasts.
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>>25478639
>implying that doesn't turn me on more
plz give sauce or post more lewd photos
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OP what uni do you go to? I've been having trouble making friends too.
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>>25476546
dont worry anon you will just fine. we believe in you. :) if you dont you can always find a solution to of whatever problems facing you.
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>>25476546
What setting are you in? Knowing that would help us give you better advice.

Uni, or Highschool?
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>>25476546
>Overconfidence is better than reclusiveness.
>Don't start off talking about anything that isn't immediately relevant, to avoid accidentally talking about weird niche things.
>Introduce yourself day one, because introducing yourself later on is awkward.
>Remember names. It's okay to ask for names in the first few days, but after a week, it's awkward.
>Treat yourself like a celebrity. (That's just in general though.)
Off the top of my head.
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>>25476546
spend time at school and get involved in something
dont just go to class and go home
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>>25478880
>>Treat yourself like a celebrity
Not op, but what do you mean by this?
Sounds like your're saying to be super confident, which you already said.
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>>25479010
Eh, they kindof are the same thing. It's just the general advice I give and follow myself.
When meeting new people, it helps to imagine that you're some famous celebrity, or you will become one someday. It helps you make a strong presence, and maintain confidence. Plus, it feels good and fun once it becomes subconscious. You feel like a big-shot, and people start to treat you like one.
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>>25479133
I see... that's not bad, anon.

I'll have to try it, it sounds similar to another bit of advice I heard a while back: The other person is only as comfortable as you are. Granted, there are definitely exceptions to that,
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>>25479289
Others might disagree, but I do believe you have to love yourself or, at least not hate yourself to meet people. If you try to fake confidence when you hate yourself, people will spot the inconsistencies immediately, and think you're a literal robot.
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>>25478507
>>25478667
Ayakadolly

just img searched it
she's 15

lol
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>>25479402
>she's 15
no way
>tfw 15 cosplay gf to bang
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>>25479487
also 14 in that photo

jesus christ
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>>25479402
hope you have a proxy family
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>>25479376
I understand perfectly what you are saying.

I've had at least a couple encounters where it felt like someone felt like they were really trying to force their personality. It only made me feel uncomfortable.

I also think that people shouldn't try to force themselves on others. Which isn't related to what you were saying at all, but I think that it's good advice for people who are truly trying to find a meaningful friendship/relationship with others. If I feel like I don't really connect with someone in a lot of ways, then I'll keep things on a hello/goodbye basis, just being friendly.

>>25476546
OP, write this shit down.
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