>having a gf is not worth the trouble
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Relationshit veterans only
As a failed normie who's had a few serious gfs before, no, they're definitely not worth the trouble. All of my breakups were bad and almost every girl eventually shows themselves to be an evil bitch.
If you want to get laid, just get an escort or fleshlight. Much cheaper and much less trouble. Women are an awful investment.
>>25475475
They're not worth the trouble. I know that op.
>>25475546
I disagree. It's impossible to generalize all women as being worth the trouble or not. It's possible to never have a bad breakup if you go into a relationship with a willingness to communicate what you want, expect, and need and the other person is of the same mindset.
>>25475475
it's worth it if you have a high sex drive since the enjoyment of fucking balances out the unpleasantness of having a cumdumpster yapping at you.
tfw so ronery
I haven't even been near a woman in years
>>25475475
Girlfriends are always worth the trouble if they're good girlfriends. My last girlfriend was really really great. Like, perfect.
But you know what is never worth it? The inevitable feeling of self hate after she breaks up with you.
>>25475475
true.
The only good thing i got out of a relationship were a bit of motivation to do well in life, too bad it all went away after some time. Also sex/comfy time but these 2 things definetely don't recompensate for all the shit i had to put up with tbhh family.
also this >>25475546
Women will not stick by your side. They will not help you. They want to be helped themselves. The second you show signs of weakness things will go down hill. They expect you to take on all of their problems and edify their sense of self and add value to their lives but the second you make it apparent that you need the same from them they will find some other fuck to feed them with the attention they claim to need and leave you as a burned-out husk of the man you used to be. The man you were when you were alone, disciplined, self-reliant, independent, etc. Watch the thing you love most in the world transform into somebody you feel as though you never knew in the first place as she rises on the pedestal from which she made you build and abandons you as if she never cared. The girl that you loved is dead and gone and all that's left are your memories of her and a living ghost with the same name and face who's existence will haunt you until the day you die.
Normies flood this board because they feel too. If you don't agree than you're no better than the roastie whores you claim to hate so much. Robots don't know the first thing about women and the true pain they can cause. Your ignorance is a blessed curse and I wish everyday that I could somehow recapture it. Maybe then it would've been put into the hands of somebody who would have nurtured it; maybe a nice twink.
>>25475475
I'll date you, post some contact info
>>25475864
actually, there's someone one step below relationship-less robots, and that's the "only had long distance relationships" person
god it's the worst, it's like you have all the problems of a relationship, but you didn't even get laid!!
>>25475947
I almost got into this once
so glad I didn't go through with it
I didn't because it seemed like only suffering would happen
>>25475864
This man right here understands.
Guys, never, ever fall in love with a woman. They will never love you back in the same way and you will always be left hurt and ashamed. If you feel yourself catching feelings, do whatever you can to get rid of them.
>>25475475
OP some are bad and so e are good, sadly I have really only been with the bad and they are living hell.
>>25475864
good job on that post, you have my respect
>Normies flood this board because they feel too.
IMO a robot doesn't have to be an eye-contactless virgin, if you're a wreck then you are a robot
>>25475979
But it doesn't even count
If no penis in vagoo and no IRL meetings its all bs
Every day I wake up and rub my boner on my mattress thinking of the girl I lost my virginity to.
I didn't love her, and don't want to be in a relationship with her now. I just wish I had done more sex with her.
She was willing to do anal, but we never got around to it. This morning I fantasized about dominating her and spitting in her mouth.
I also enjoy a bit of drama. Perhaps having a gf is worth it for me, but it doesn't matter anyway.
Shit guys I'm pretty scared of the kind of people you used to date and stuff
In the last two or three relationships I had my gfs really got attachted to me, I think it was the purest love because we were underaged and the last one was almost a year ago.
None of them loved me for my wallet or some shit like that, I don't know how they got to love me so much but I couldn't love them back the same way
The last gf I had was the best thing I experiencied and I was a total retard for finishing our relationship because I was pretty confused about what I wanted and that kind of shit
I can agree there's a lot of shitty people but I never got a parasite, maybe because of my age, what I can agree is that after a relationship you get to know their worst face and they become fucking bitches, even the sweetest woman becomes one because after all, they're all bitches
>>25475947
I've been in a few real life relationships, and one LDR. LDRs are true sufffering. I live in Canada she lived in America.
It was great at the time. I hated not being able to touch her, but at the very least having a companion to stay up late and talk to was really nice.
She was the best girlfriend I had had by faaaaaaaar, even if it was an LDR.
Then she broke up with me and cut all contact. There is absolutely no way for me to get in touch with her now, and if I managed to she wouldn't reply anyways. The fact that I will never, ever talk to her or see her again is gnawing at me and feels awful. She could be doing anything right now. At home as usual, fucking some other guy, dead. I've got absolutely no way to ever find out.
It wasn't worth the few months of bliss.
Here is a greentext list of why having a gf is not worth it:
>her love is artificial and will always be unless you are literally, LITERALLY the greatest possible mate on earth
>she will keep you from her friends
>she will constantly nag you, this is testing your mettle as a man
>she will hold you to ridiculous double standards ie: she can get fat, you must stay fit, she can have male friends, you must not associate with other women, etc
>in this day in age, she likely will not be able to cook or clean, and if you ask her to, she will likely call you abusive or controlling
>she will tell you not to get/stay fit, but when you let go like she said you could, she is repulsed by you and may leave
>she will keep you from your family
>she will keep you from your pets
>she will constantly be in the back on your mind (read: you lose your own identity and freedom)
christ there's so much more, but that alone should be enough
sources: 2 3-year LTRs, like 15 or so little relationshits that I broke off after a couple of months
>>25475601
Roastie please go.
original roastie shooing comment
>>25476006
You'll find yourself in agony remembering all the I-love-you-more's and realizing the whole time that you were right. All your most precious memories and possesions will turn into totems of grief and despair. You will feel as if you're entire world has been sucked into a black hole and left you in some kind of sick alternate reality. You'll have dreams about it too from time to time. About her. Vividly so. The pain alone was almost enough to drive me to suicide. I don't blame anyone who has ever committed suicide or tried. If anything I have respect for them. Why? Because they made a decision to escape the pain by any means necessary. They were only doing what they thought was best for them regardless of what others may have wanted. The choice to live or die is the purest choice that we have to make and while many choose never to even ponder the options, those individuals did, and made a choice. Same can be said for those who chose to live when presented with the realization of depression/suicide. We all go through shit. Some worse than others. But I whole-heartedly believe that it's the scars that make us who we are. It's the cracks in our glass that make us shine the most brilliant. I'm really just thinking out loud now more than anything but I really do respect everyone on this board. I know why you're here. And you deserve to know that you are not alone. You are never alone.
>>25476674
Fucking this mother fucking this the only way I learnt how to deal and live with the pain is literally rawdoggin and cumming in as many vaginas and fucking the pain away as much and as fast as possible
>>25476674
>being this big of a cuck to where you live for a woman
that's why she doesn't love you more because you dont live your life for you
