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I've recently started dating a girl who is really sexually submissive. And not in the 50 shades of contracts sense, more like no-safewords please destroy my body sense.
I've only had really vanilla experiences when it comes to assymetric fun, spanking and hair pulling aren't anything new for me, but this is like a completely new level of play for me.
Any of you filthy perverts can point me to good books, materials on the more serious levels of being dominant?
Also, experiences, stories, general discussion is welcome.
>>25467512
>asking /r9k/ for sex advice
Now you fucked up.
120 days of sodom OP. Let the pimp of 1700 teach you.
>>25467512
BDSM is a forced meme. You don't actually like it, but society encourages it, so here you are. Pathetic.
> no-safewords
Yeah OP you KINDA want to stay away.
>>25467512
Get the hell out normalfag scum.
You normans really need to take this shit to
>>>/b/ or
>>>/adv/ or
>>>/soc/.
Or how about something even more normal friendly like
>reddit ?
>>25467512
read Justine by Marquis de Sad
Murder her, that will get the juices flowing.
That sure sounds nice. That level of sub extremity is my fetish.
I've never dated a girl or had a gf though OP, so I can't help you there.
Read Anne Rice's early books. The Sleeping Beauty series and Exit to Eden.
Don't do it. Get out as soon as possible.
That is abuse and she is obviously extremely mentally ill. This level of mental illness leads me to assume she would have no problem somehow getting you in trouble/video taping your experiences and it somehow just ending up badly.
Encourage her to seek therapy, and get out while you can.
>>25467786
that seems interesting, thanks
>>25467749
that was kinda my first reaction, but I'm far too intrigued by her and the situation itself to bail out
>>25467512
That's called being a painslut.
Insist on a safeword, even if she literally wants teeth-filed-out-with-a-metal-file level pain.
>>25467512
You have the opportunity to love her and inspire her to have some respect for herself.
Because what you wrote is not normal. This level of disregard of oneself must be learned, maybe she was sexually abused in childhood, or someone was showing her hardcore pornography and she became convinced that this is what is being done to women.
If anything, then look for example at Harry Harlow's monkey experiments.
The conclusion is that mammals have the need for comfort, and prefer comfort to discomfort. I mean comfort in the sense of gentle touch. Even she would totally prefer if you two had sex as expression of love and mutual connection. But somehow her taste is acquired and if you are not willing to go as far as to help her discover what the hell is wrong with her, well you know what I am meaning.
Just as you might be desensitized by hardcore internet pornography, thinking that spanking and hair pulling is normal. You might even be addicted. Even if you didn't have internet porn addiction, how would you react that a girl would leave you the moment she finds out about your addiction, instead of being supportive in your recovery.
To each their own.
disregard the normies in this thread, OP.
being kinky is totally fine, so long as y'all are safe about it and take the necessary precautions.
she's not "mentally ill". sexuality and sexual fetishes are independent of the health of the psyche. the most normal, successful people in the world, CEOs and shit, still like having women shit on their chest or whatever.
so be safe, be careful, and have fun.
>>25468424
>having a gf
>having sex
>having quite a lot of sex experience
>pushing the "liberated sexuality" thing
You and OP don't deserve to call others normies.
>>25468424
>CEOs
>normal
Wow, the most self-indulgent people in the world are also sexual degenerates? Tell me more.
Hello OP,
my girl intro'd me to this kinda lifestyle and it's been strange, but fun all at once. been with her for 3 and half years now. i started as vanilla but once you engage in this stuff for long enough, it really does warp your sexual urges.
Now it's too the point where i torture her ass or tie her up before she gets anything, maybe a bit of head idk.
just... be ready to develop a fetish once you get off to the situation enough times.....
>>25467688
i fucking loved that book, take note of the sadism but don't kill her op
>>25467512
>in the 50 shades of contracts sense
50 Shades seriously misrepresents BDSM, it's a fantasy.
>no safewords
Don't do anything, seriously.
>>25467512
>no safewords
Forget her anniversary and she can destroy your life with 'rape' allegations that are, legally speaking, valid. She's tied to the bedpost, gagged, like any other night -- but tonight she'd rather go no-penetration and bam say hello to Bubba, your new roommate for the next five years.
>>25467512
OP, at some point it is important for you too that she has a safeword. Because you'll do increasingly degrading things and need to trust her that she'll stop you if things go to far so you don't feel guilty of what you did to her.
Everyone reaches that point of guilt at some point because men are taught to be nice.
>>25467512
Just fucking destroy her and reward her with orgasms after then, get creative
How do I get involved with this lifestyle? I joined fetlife and I'm in good shape, do I just wait to meet a girl who is down for this shit?
>>25468263
that's what I've been considering, will do it
I get the desire for being fully controlled and on someone else's mercy, but that's safety 101.
>>25468329
Humans are complicated.
And have different definitions of normal.
>>25468575
I'm pretty dominant naturally and have been curious about that kind of play, so I don't think I would mind going in deeper. Strange but fun is exactly how I would describe it so far.
Any stories, tips, what would you do differently in the beginning?
>>25469020
these days, especially since the popularity of 50 Shades of Gay, more and more women are becoming open to kink. in fact, very few women I've met are totally vanilla.
>>25467750
Thank you anon, OP is a norman and should go away plz.because I'm triggered
Would you happen to have any proof, good sir?
>>25467512
Treating sex as a "play" is so fucking retarded. Why do people need contracts and labels to have sex? Are you seriously going to read books on how to act more dominant? Can't you just find someone who's into the same things you're into and enjoy them together instead of pretending to be porn actors?
>>25467512
Try breath play, with her.
I used to tie a bag around my ex's head, when I had her tied up, and I'd make her beg and say increasingly lewd things before I'd take the bag off.
>PLEASE FUCK MY WHORE PUSSY WITH YOUR COCK
>PLEASE, I CAN'T BREATHE, PLEASE!
Pretty dank. Made her completely submit, every single time. She'd do anything to breathe again.
>>25469316
Treating travelling as a "play" is so fucking retarded. Why do people need guides and backpacks to visit other places? Are you seriously going to read books on how to act when visiting other cultures? Can't you just stay in the city you were born and enjoy it instead of pretending to be an Indiana Jones?
>>25469445
Sex is forced. Travel is a natural act of momentum. You're quite fucking retarded senpai.
>>25469222
Sorry, you will have to take my word for that.
There was actually some good advice in the thread. Still I would love to hear stories of guys who went through that. How you progressed, did you do any fuckups, how did you deal with alternating between full care and pain?
>>25469616
>Sex is forced
>>25469792
Did you grow up eating ass, or did you see it in a porno and feel a funny twinge in your shaft at the sight of two handsome professionals doing something novel? It's the latter, you fucking idiot.
>>25467512
tickle her for me please
i'm am begging you
>>25469900
It's rude to request before tipping m8
So you are saying that exploring sexuality and searching for more intense experiences is unnatural?
And you are saying that on a site that's 90% dedicated to porn?
>On r9k
>"Can you perverts help me with sex?"
Kekkiest of tops
>>25470080
that was an answer to
>>25469869
of course.
>>25469900
Next time I see her. She is very sensitive :^)
>>25469222
*tips an original fedora*
>>25470080
>the Greeks loved blowjobs and penetrative intercourse
Proving what about today's forced sexual memes? Go lick around an asshole, that'll probably feel great.
>>25467512
Try stabbing her with a dull knife.
>be me years ago
>get girl's AIM from 4chan
>she's a 15 year old hong kong schoolgirl
>get to talking about kinks, she's very submissive
>talk to her about my fetishes(pet play and bestiality) and she's interested
>never done an online dom/sub thing, decide to give it a try
>she turns out to be basically the perfect sub, extremely obedient, does all the weird shit i tell her to do with no hesitation
>and pretty soon she's obsessed with dog cock
>ifitseemstogoodtobetrue.jpg
>the only thing is she's very hesitant to send pictures because of her super strict azn parents
>sends me a shitty low res timestamp pic, looks like it could be shopped, this was before i knew about reverse image searching
>get frustrated at her lack of proof that she's real
>one day she just disappears
>conclude she was fake and move on
>few years later
>"she" messages me out of the blue
>tells me that she stopped talking because her dad was getting suspicious that something was going on
>and she moved to NYC to go to school and currently works as a stripper, and also lost her virginity to 3 guys at once
>ok this is retarded, how long is this person going to lead me on
>stop talking to her
>about a year later get curious and message her again(she's still on the same AIM screenname)
>takes a pic i request of her, and records herself saying something on vocaroo
>holy crackers she's real
>she has since found a older married dom who provides an apartment for her, and has his dogs fuck her on the weekends, and literally whores her out(and is smart about it, regular STD tests etc.)
>confesses that she's a complete nympho and also prefers dog sex to humans
>wants me to visit, and when she finishes school wants to live with me(and a few dogs) as my pet permanently
>on NYE she got gangbanged by 53 guys
jesus christ what
I generally don't post pictures of people I know on 4chan but just picture a 4'10" asian girl that looks perpetually 12 years old
pic related I'm crashing this thread
>>25470807
I don't believe you at all
lieblox
>>25470902
I wouldn't believe me either
>>25467705
> i don't like something
> everyone else must be pretending to like it
>>25470807
post her pic you faggot
>>25471131
>I love pain! xD
No, you're another boring pseudo-intellectual who wants to feel edgy and cool and hip about having a nice hard cum.
>>25467705
Kind of agree, but not for everyone. The few times Ive gone to dungeons and had the chance to do things like whip/spank people I realized I got nothing out of it, and it was all for show. And orgies/gangbangs are gross desu sempai. Even with all my women hate channeled I didnt find any of it fun, just disgusting.
The costumes and power play aspect is much more interesting in a aesthetic sense than the actual sexual acts.
>>25467688
take the sppon :3
>>25467512
fuck off normalscum i hope she'll cheat on you.
>>25468607
The movie is also awesome!
>>25471491
Then I will find another one :^)
>>25471369
I would rather get off from pain-play than telling people what they can enjoy. On an image board.
>Totally not pseudo-intellectual
