>be american
>late bloomer
>my fucked up acne ridden face is finally crystal clear with minor scarring and i'm in good shape
>getting more female attention in my mid 20s than ever
>still can't shake in the back of my head that most of these girls have been through the cock carousel
>i'm pretty much a normie through and through when i'm outside but i still can't get over the fact that most of these chicks hitting on me are just opportunists who had their filling of chad's cock
How do you cope with these feels? Is getting a religious woman who legit believes in no sex before marrying the only way?
>>25462328
Yeh. Or just stop thinking about love and relationships and just fuck around around have fun. It's not like those girls deserve any better.
>>25462328
I had really bad acne and was a general sperg up until I had a Major Breakdown and then I blossomed into a beautiful goose but. Idk. It's hard to feel Attractive when you have no self esteem. I wish I was confident enough in myself to believe that the girls talking to me actually wanted me to talk to them.
>>25462385
>It's hard to feel Attractive when you have no self esteem.
This. I had acne from age 10 to 19, like bad daily acne even though I tried everything except accutane. The result was crippling self esteem issues that left me too emotionally numb to reciprocate anyone's advances for the following 6 years or so.
>>25462425
Acne is really traumatizing desu. I don't know how to get over it. I mean, really that's the least of my stupid issues but I just wish I could feel good about myself. Everyone tells me I'm handsome and stuff but I just think they're lying to me to make me feel better.
OP is literally me
>started puberty at 18
>parents never cared/took me to a doctor because super religious and it would inherently keep you a virgin
>bad acne that finally cleared up after accutane
just fuck my shit up family
Holy shit op, thought I was the only one
>look like an actual child for years
>Puberty hits like a delayed freight train at 17
>Grow from manlet to lanklet in 2 years
>Acne explodes violently during this time
>Now has receeded
>Anywhere acne was I now grow facial hair
>Jaw went from circle to defined square
>Women now treat me leagues differently. It went from mission impossible low standards to jus be itself
>Brain cannot understand what happened, miss every and all signs of attraction until afterwards when someone tells me they were into me
I just can't suspend disbelief. They don't even walk away when I tell them I like toku anymore
>you missed out on teen sex
feels bad man
>>25462328
What is it with retarded robots and thinking that having had sex before makes a woman "impure" or some shit? You'll masturbate with cheeto dusted fingers to 6 year old anime girls sucking on tentacles the shoot tar into their mouths while you marinade in your own sweat and farts for 10 days straight, but the woman you're interested in isn't "Le pure virgin desu~" so SHES the inferior one.
>inb4 I'm not a neckbeard virgin faggot
This is r9k.
>late bloomer
>come out looking worse at the end of it
Was 5ft until 16 . Hit puberty and now I'm 6ft tall at 18
>>25462654
Masturbating is fine. Making bad decisions and riding the cock carousel is bad though.
Fuck off roastie and or white knight faggot.
>>25462654
>this mad roastie posting
embarrassing.
>>25462654
#staymad hahahahaha
If you want a religious woman, you have to be religious yourself or else you will become resentful.
>>25462698
>implying I'm mad
I'm just calling you faggots out for your stupidity, it's not my fault you cock suckers can't fathom someone being likable enough to get laid more than once in their lives. Life is not an anime, you will NEVER find your kawaii tsundere dream girl who stayed a virgin into her 20's to stay pure and save herself, and even if you did, your immaturity and judgemental attitude wouldn't make her fall in love with you while pretending not to. Life isn't set up specifically to make you comfortable, and telling people they're bad for having sex won't make them stop doing it. Deal with it.
>>25462820
I wouldn't mind going to church once a week in exchange of a pure waifu with good moral values.
>>25462880
Males like chaste women, not venereally diseased roasties with blown out holes.
Deal with it.
>>25462902
It is more than just going to church. There's tithing (10% of your income). There's abstaining from things like alcohol and marijuana. There's being the priest of your home and having daily devotionals. There's keeping the sabbath holy and not going to Disneyland or the mall on it. There's treating your wife with love and respect and gentleness and kindness. There's a lot of stuff.
>>25462880
Hahahaha this roastie is fucking ass devastated, and it isn't even from Chad's cock as usual. All you can do it's tantrum and get mad. Then either attempt to belittle or spew ad-hominem to try and make your contentless argument seem anyway valid. I literally have all that, I just didn't have to date some painted, used up roastie whore like you
>>25462954
>I am a male
>I don't romanticize chastity bc I'm not a functionally retarded mouth breather
>>25463016
>i am a male who doesn't care if his gf sleeps around or what she does
You mean "I am a cuck"
>>25462880
>>25463016
roses are red
violets are blue
anon is a cuck faggot
Spread the word brothers.
>>25462880
While I agree with your general point, it is quite obvious you are an enraged landwhale roastie. No one will ever be able to stop males from having preferences (in this case, few previous sexual partners) just like women all want tall chads and believe they're all entitled to one, even if they're 300 lbs+ like you.
you get over it by knowing sex is just a biological thing everyone does if they are able to, as natural as eating and shitting and that you were left out as a genetically inferior male
if you had the opportunity you would have been doing all of the nasty things along with them and be just as "used up"
>>25463095
Yes it's true. As long as people exist, hypocrites will continue to exist. Thanks for pointing that out.
>>25462328
I feel the same way as you bro. Only accepted one offer though, since I was a virgin at the time...Now it's fun rejecting them & looking away in disgust as they try to make eyes with you.
I'd rather watch porn for the rest of my life than have sex with roasties..Been there, done that, now i'm done
I still can't tell if the "they must be a virgin" thing is just ragebait meme shit
Even as a guy, hearing this makes me angry. It just screams entitled; you should be stoned for being so fucking sub-attention-whore-Stacy stupid and vapid.
You are worse than your own made up monsters.
>>25462966
>tithing
Christians don't have to tithe, nor do they have to abstain from alcohol (it's drunkenness that's frowned on). Marijuana can be argued to be sorcery, which is considered a form of witchcraft.
>>25463169
They were left out because they're genetically inferior. They're left out because they're fearful and coddled. When mommy does everything for you, and google handles the rest, having to figure out how to make other people want to fuck you without any shortcuts can seem like a pretty tall mountain to climb.
>>25463169
>you were left out as a genetically inferior male
>tfw no one to blame but myself which my millennial mind doesnt like
>>25463239
>i'm a guy btw ;)
Yeah sure you are Stacey.
>>25462966
>There's tithing (10% of your income)
Don't give a fuck. I save a lot of money, only like 20% of my income goes to actual spending anyway. What's the 10% going to anyway? Church donation? Never heard of that.
>There's abstaining from things like alcohol and marijuana.
I don't mind because I am not a degenerate pothead baby from the 90s.
>There's being the priest of your home and having daily devotionals.
The fuck? I've lived with Christians and Catholics, all they did was pray before eating and sometimes sleeping, some not even.
>There's treating your wife with love and respect and gentleness and kindness.
This I was planning on anyway. Why would you get married and not do this?
>>25463169
>sex is a biological thing
This argument of "IT'S NATURAL" really doesn't hold up with anyone who strives to be anything more than a primal fucking animal.
It's natural for us to rape and murder and fling shit at each other but those are generally thing seen as deplorable by civilized humans. But when it comes to being a hedonistic, self destructive retard, oh that's just fine and dandy because it's "natural"
>>25463406
You are sick and disgusting for masturbating.
As a MAN you should serve women. You should lay down your life, and meet their needs. Do not EVER think of sex with them. That is rape, you are an ape.
This is the level of logic you are bringing to the table.
>>25463543
What the fuck are you babbling about? What liberal garbage invested hole did you crawl out of besides your mother's snatch?
>>25463406
Sounds like you're imposing your personal morals onto other people. If you don't want to date girls who have a modern view on sex that's just fine, but I get the feeling that given the opportunity you wouldn't pass up on sex with someone you aren't married to. I bet you even masturbate and partake in pornography.
>>25463543
Not that anon but none of what you wrote here makes sense. You're using appeal to nature, and everything in your post is the opposite of nature. Nature is makes just taking females when they feel like it.
Anon called you out on your hypocrisy for your selective appeal to nature bullshit.
>>25463740
>Sounds like you're imposing your personal morals onto other people.
Yeah, no shit. I have standards for people I spend my time with just like anyone else in the world. Don't you dare sit there and say my standards are unreasonable when you likely have a long list of shit you wouldn't tolerate in a relationship, unless you're really just that "accepting" of people, in which case you're a fucking retard.
>but I get the feeling that given the opportunity you wouldn't pass up on sex with someone you aren't married to.
Sounds like you're imposing your personal morals onto other people :'-)
Nah nigga, I've been cheated on and that's probably the worst pain I've ever felt, I'd never put someone else through that. Speak for yourself you hedonistic little prick.
>>25463704
Let me clarify what that Anon means. You can argue all you want that we're all made from God and special little snowflakes unlike the rest of the animals on earth. But what I know is I we get erect when we're horny, we get pleasure from food and there is no proof of your bullshit religious ideological claims that change that. The only difference is as humans we are self aware. That does NOT take away the nature aspect of nature and nurture and certainly not the desire to behave like animals.
You dumb smelly piece of shit
>>25462966
>There's abstaining from things like alcohol
>And he took a cup of wine and gave thanks to God for it. He gave it to them and said, "Each of you drink from it.
>talking about late bloomers
>tfw mentally early bloomer
>always got along with older women
>only women to ever show interest (a few years older in HS, 2 decades older at CC/Uni)
>tfw I'll either be only attractive in my 40s or I'll be going after 90 y/os when I'm 40
I just want someone my age to like me; why are people so dumb and childish.
>>25463840
Okay man.
>>25462966
>tithing
That's only a thing if you're some retard who goes to one of those super-church scams.
Why do women get so upset if guys like virgins?
A relationship places a HUGE amount of trust in another person. Why would you trust someone who has shown they have no self control and hop from dick to dick?
And I'm sure there'll be some faggots who come in like
>BUT DUDE, VIRGINS ARE SHIT AT SEX
but frankly, I don't care, if I just wanted sex I'd go fuck some dorm whore or hire a hooker.
>>25464157
Cause women are whores are you just now getting this?
>>25464187
Doesn't explain the retards who think you should get into a relationship for the sex.
>>25464157
How does someone with such a puritanical world view find himself on 4chan, let alone /r9k/?
>>25464157
You fail to recognize that people live long lives.
Girls can start being sexually active since the age of 13, and they usually only aim up towards more mature guys.
Their "social" and "sexual" lives start about a decade earlier than ours.
Since then they've learned about deadbeats, pretentious assholes, people that use them, people that only give meaningless validation
When they get around to you, they think you're the real deal.
A virgin who has had no sexual/ intimate experience will get to you and be a complete fucking idiot. Think that they deserve more, or see some "flaw" in you that isn't actually a flaw, or something that tons of other men do but she won't realize that until after she had dumped you and moved up.
That's only accounting for regular girls. Whores who have sex with dozens of men a year are usually just mentally unstable.
Like with everything, there's a balance/ sweetspot for this as well.
>>25464249
>wah he doesn't want a relationship with me what a puritan
>>25464249
>Everyone on 4chan is as huge a degenerate in real life as they are online
Been coming here since 2007 m8.
Shit, I've been on 4chan since I was 11.
Difference is, unlike you, I'm not dumb enough to let 4chan corrupt my worldview.
>>25464283
>Think that they deserve more, or see some "flaw" in you that isn't actually a flaw, or something that tons of other men do but she won't realize that until after she had dumped you and moved up.
Nigger, most non-virgin women think exactly like this.
>>25464297
You are pretty dumb. There's plenty of places for born again christians to get together and talk. You choose to come to a board that literally has someone cumming balls deep in a bitch as we speak and talk in a condescending manner to people who don't have your ridiculous unrealistic standards.
>>25464366
>Don't be a whore
>unrealistic standards
Bad b8, try again.
>>25464324
If women have done this to you and moved onto "Chad", it's not because "they are chad" but they are you with less permanent problems.
I've seen young women dump chads and move down in terms of looks. (But up in personality)
It's usually the fratbro/ testosterone fueled retards who have done practically zero introspection in their lives that get dumped. And it's usually the more calm/ collected and sound of mind people they move to.
>>25464366
jesus, is this your first day here? robots are always talking about how they want virgin girls. you're acting like he said some insane thing when it's basically r9k culture now.
>>25464415
>It's usually the fratbro/ testosterone fueled retards who have done practically zero introspection in their lives that get dumped. And it's usually the more calm/ collected and sound of mind people they move to.
In other words, they fuck the frat boy to get the "bad boy" out of them, then they find a beta loser to give their used-up pussy to.
>>25464466
It's not a stream of events they plan out/ are conscious of. They don't say "alright I want some bad in my life before I settle down, this will be it."
No, all they think is "Wow, something about this guy makes me want them"
Then they realize that shit is stupid, and want to find someone who doesn't ONLY tickle their hardwiring but disgust them in person
The problem is, even "nice guys" are not that great of a deal. I can explain why having someone who is constantly supportive and caring for you and sharing their feelings is draining. Women want to be respected, and want to give respect.
Just like men here. They want women to view them for their good qualities, and for the woman to have dignity/ good qualities of their own.
Also I'm a guy.
>>25464559
>Also I'm a guy.
Yes, I know.
>There is no way women are like that, they're like this, trust me, I know these things!
>>25463885
I'm not talking about God or any sort of vaguely religious dogma. I'm talking about what it means to be human. You take the advantages of being an advanced species and pride yourself on being a human when it suites you.
Whenever it's convenient, you'll fall back on being the dominate species of this planet and say you're better than an animal. "I deserve better than some common animal!" Yet when it doesn't, you'll reject that notion and just assume the roll of an animal, absolving you of literally any responsibility you may have to be a better person. "We're just basically cavemen, brah, it doesn't matter!"
Yes we're animals, but as a species with a consciousness and a constant drive to evolve, we have to keep pushing towards a more enlightened state, not bogging ourselves down with primal urges. What, you think indulging in your base desires is a good thing? That's why they're called vices, you dumb shit. It's not a positive trait to have.
>>25464283
>she just needs to get the bad boy in her out to see that being with a nice guy like me is really the best choice!!
How much have you had to lie to yourself to actually be this delusional?
>>25464721
I'm not a nice guy, I'm a sound minded guy.
Girls don't want nice; they want attractive + reasonable.
Most "nice" guys aren't reasonable, and are usually a chore to keep around. Just like women who constantly need to be validated and sustain a barrier around their fragile ego that knows the deep truth that they are fake and devoid of worth/ meaning.
Sound minded people can get themselves out of a ditch. PEOPLE admire that, not girls, not boys, but PEOPLE.
>>25464803
>Girls don't want nice; they want attractive + reasonable.
Right, and reasonable would be not getting into a committed relationship with someone who is promiscuous.
>>25464899
Not all non-virgin girls are promiscuous.
>>25464958
Most are.
Because they have no reason not to be.
>>25462367
>>25462484
I had horrible acne that started in my teens and continued until I was about 20. I'm 24 now and I still have a prescription for it but it has calmed down a lot. I was also a chubby nerd and had a hard time making friends so I used to be horribly insecure and lonely. When I started college I did everything I could to change myself - started working out, forcing myself to be social, and finally started getting significant attention from the opposite sex. I know you're supposed to learn to love yourself on your own and blah blah blah, but getting into my first serious relationship when I was 18 helped my confidence tremendously. Acne or not, you just have to say fuck it and put yourself out there. It sucks at first but eventually you stop getting that "I'm being stared at" feeling.. or maybe you just get used to it. Don't let it hold you back.
>>25464983
Yeah they do. When they want a stable relationship.
A good chunk of girls get that mindset after the few shitty relationships they're in where they feel unfulfilled.
>>25465033
>When they want a stable relationship.
In other words when they're done riding the cock carousel and want to settle down.
Thing is, used-up pussy isn't very high value, and chances are, most of these women are nothing more than FWB as far as the guys they aim for are concerned, so they have to try and trick a loser beta into supporting them.
>>25465086
>Thing is, used-up pussy isn't very high value
You do realize that reasonable people are above this
Only self absorbed people who have problematic mental/ pride issues have this feeling of entitlement.
Reasonable people understand that in order for people to accept all of their own flaws/ imperfections/ past fuckups, they have to do the same with others.
They only want "getting over it" people. Capable minds. Ambition, potential. These things come from happiness, and happiness comes with vulnerability, which comes from letting go of pride.
Ex christcuck turned fedora atheist. Church girls can be worse than secular girls. Religion means shit.
>>25465242
>problematic
Stopped reading there.
>>>/reddit/
>>25465293
Problematic is a word
A problematic girl is one that constantly needs validation, and cheats on their partner. A problematic ego is one that feels they constantly deserve more and don't contribute to the relationship, letting it fail.
Are you one of those retards who would get offended if someone said the word "faggot" in a sentence? Because that's how much of a faggot you're being right now
>>25465446
Anyone that uses problematic unironically is either a woman or a cuck.
Since you're not a woman, guess what that makes you?
>>25465242
I'd say this is on par with that shitty "anger leads to hate" thing from the star wars prequels but this is even more retarded than that.
>>25462654
Cheetos aren't other dude's dicks, you pathetic fucking cuckold.
>be single mid 20's
>prime target for single moms
>>25465466
Keep using ad honimem anon
I'll just take my place as the winner in this argument
>>25465601
But anon, you're clearly just some beta cuck, so how could you win anything?
>>25464283
>virgins are the sluts that will cuck you so go for the cavernous roasties because they wont cuck you
what the fuck am i reading
this has got to be bait
Fucking tumblr.
>>25463169
>a genetically inferior male
The only "genetically inferior" people are those that will die childless.
And considering the cratering birth-rates in the West, and general aversion to child-bearing among Millenials, there's going to be far more genetic dead ends than /r9k/ could ever contain
>>25462328
Op just pump and dump all of these sluts(as long as you're not an autist it should be easy) if find a girl you like go out with her
>>25462328
Girls also like me, but I hate the facts that they been on Chad's carousel. I just want a purish gf to be my wife and travel with me. Anyway no girl with date me because I suffer from premature ejaculation.
>>25465658
There is no girl who sees her virginity as something they have to valuably keep for their true love.
And they're fucking retarded at a young age; they think the fucking edgy emo faggot who had cool bracelets was their true love, and immediately gave all they had to give in order to be validated.
>puberty to age 19
>perfectly clear skin
people like me
>age 20
>horrible acne out of nowhere
>people seem to avoid me and keep conversations as short as possible
>>25462528
How taller did you get after 18?
>>25465242
What a load of bullshit.
>>25464283
>Since then they've learned about deadbeats, pretentious assholes, people that use them, people that only give meaningless validation
No, that's just what they tell themselves when they're 27 and rapidly accumulating wrinkles
>>25462654
You know what's the worst thing about your bait? That it's really an unironic opinion among women. That having lot's of sex with lot's of men doesn't degrade or make woman impure...
I got banned recently on some clothing forum for women for arguing with polish roasties who basically advocated getting "test boyfriend" to some girl who never had one. Because apparently a girl needs to test sex and stuff with some guy early on, so she can enjoy a better serious relationships later on with other guys. That's the unironic consensus of 3DPD.
>>25465857
Good, we can counter that with practice gfs.
Fuck the slut to get a good idea of what a relationship is so you can be a better man for the pure, young virgin.
>>25463740
>a modern view on sex
DID YOU HEAR THAT????????
IT IS THE cUrReNt YeAR
>2015+1
>STILL BEING A BIGOT
ROFL IT"S AS IF THIS SHITLORD DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS CURRENT YEAR (2012+4)
ALL LOGICAL ARGUMENTS MAKE WAY FOR ME BECAUSE I KNOW THAT WE HAVE ROTATED THE SUN 2016 TIMES SINCE JESUS WAS SUPPOSEDLY BORN.
WHAT A FUCKING BIGOT LMFAO
2016
0
1
6
>>25465857
>Because apparently a girl needs to test sex and stuff with some guy early on, so she can enjoy a better serious relationships later on with other guys.
I love this meme.
>rising single motherhood rates
>rising divorce rates
>declining marital rates
>"Obviously the problem is still that people don't have enough sexual/relationship "practice" in their youth!"
>>25465926
But if you are not a pure virgin yourself, how can you expect a pure virgin gf? Answer: you can't.
A moot issue for you though since you will die without having ever kissed a girl.
This woman hate shit isn't even funny
It's just the laziest most entitled sort of degenerate. Can you dumb fucks get over it? Or are you still holding tightly to your egos, like most of your fellow facebook and reddit normie friends?
I wanna get back to the funny stuff, not this reskinned version of modern radical feminism.
If I wanted that I'd go on tumblr, or /r/mensrights
>>25466010
>Answer: you can't.
I can.
I've got the job/money to provide for a virgin girl and a family.
I just use sluts as practice pussy the same way they use bad boys for practice relationships.
It's a win-win really.
>>25466045
And a virgin girl would be attracted to you and give herself to you because...? She has a fetish for fat basement-dwelling autistic sperglords?
>>25466039
>woman hate is normie
is this what fembots trying to counter r9k memes looks like?
>>25465935
fuckin ace post
>>25466091
>And a virgin girl would be attracted to you and give herself to you because
I've got a good job, money, and prospects?
You seem to be confused here anon, I've already fucked plenty of high schools and even popped a few cherries.
Just because you're the female equivalent of a basement-dwelling loser doesn't mean everyone here is as big a turd as you are.
I look forward to my future virgin wife.
Hell, since I'm Muslim I can even marry a qt 14 year old.
>>25466119
>Muslim wife
Lol. She will have sucked hundreds of cocks and have had hundreds inside her ass to keep her a technical virgin.
>>25466105
Not him but I love posting "x=y" bait because it's extremely efficient.
>>25466197
>I can't read
m8, who said I'm going to marry an adult Muslim woman?
>>25463294
This resumes my life
Being spoiled my whole life made me fear the world
>>25462328
I had these feels, then I learned how awful and awkward inexperienced girls are in bed.
It's not even cute like you'd think, it's just annoying because you want to get off and they're either grinding their molars on your dick, crushing your dick with a death-grip, bending it painfully the way they try to thrust, hurt your balls they way they lay on top, or they just lay there like they're dead.
No thanks, I'll take the girl that's had a few dicks in her.
>>25465926
Contributing to degeneracy is not an option. Nowadays you won't even find a "pure, young virgin".
>>25466008
Since single mothers are basically raising single mothers... how many generations will it take to make them notice that maybe being "prude" is an reasonable option. How long will it take for women to respect their bodies and themselves? How hard it is for them to actually withstand with spreading their legs for few months, maybe even years? Every guy who would want to just use them as onaholes would look elsewhere. Those who would seek for a serious relationship would understand.
But they want to be used. They want to degrade themselves. And then blame it on men, for using them or judging them for their actions... Women are just so primitive and inefficient.
>>25466010
>But if you are not a pure virgin yourself, how can you expect a pure virgin gf? Answer: you can't.
This. But as a virgin male your market value is a lot lower than value of virgin woman. But yeah, I agree, only virgins should be able to have a say when it comes to a partners sexual past.
>>25466294
>Cannot tell the difference between sex and a relationship
Sounds about right.
>>25466332
It's the same. People explore themselves both through casual sex and long term relationships.
>>25466105
Not woman hate, but "I deserve better" is normie.
Robots KNOW they deserve nothing, even when they work to earn something fairly. It's not because of malice, but because of universal rules + chaos.
It leads down a road of shit, hence you get feminism, corrupt religious people, entitled pricks, assholes running companies, etc.
>>25466375
>It's the same
Yep, like I thought.
Whites are pretty fucked tbqh, I look forward to your demise though, maybe then we can get rid of all this upper class degeneracy.
>>25466401
>"I deserve better" is normie
>Robots KNOW they deserve nothing
Wut. All of /r9k/ is essentially a circlejerk of
>waaah I deserve to be given a gf
>no I won't do anything about it, I won't improve myself, I must be given one, society owes it to me
>>25462328
>Being bothered by non-virgin women
This meme needs to die.
>>25465857
you jest, surely. this cannot be my reality
>>25466294
all this can be avoided if you just fucked them, since they don't know what they're doing
How can you even love her when she can't even give you a child without the DNA of all the dudes she fucked?
>>25468234
kek holy shit like literally, how can anyone be just hunky dory knowing that another guy (or possibly multiple other men) have dumped their load into their girlfriend's mouth, face, or womb? Like seriously, that shit's just fucking nasty, when the hell did that just become acceptable?
>>25468965
>when the hell did that just become acceptable?
infiltration of consumed media, subversion in government institutions, war waged with language
