Will getting a gf fix all our problems? is it that easy?
No it is not, and in most circumstances it might create even more problems. The goal is not in finding a gf, but in finding someone suitable which is-of course- like finding a needle in a haystack.
Why do you want gf?
Because you're unhappy and you think it'll make you happy.
But you'll never be happy.
Life isn't about being happy, and that's not actually a bad thing.
I don't think it will fix all your problems. But it would be good to have someone who loves you.
Wanting a gf to fix your problems is why you don't have a gf.
No, of course it won't. Getting a gf is neither a panacea nor a confirmation that your problems are fixed. Chances are you're going to have new problems come from it.
But it is progress. That maybe you're ready to take on not only the problems you already have, but problems you'll face later on. Maybe... Anything beyond that is fantasy.
