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Get in here grandpas. How's everyone holding up?
>work shitty retail job because I've ruined my life
>co-worker asks when I graduated
>starts freaking the fuck out when they realize I'm over 25
I just want to die.
>tfw younger bro has better life than you and is better at things
>i turned out to be an airheaded casual with ADD and autism.
he is 23
i am 25
>>25444764
>Same situation but 28
>Still look young enough to get away with saying I'm 23
No one must ever know.
>>25445197
I was pretty seriously contemplating lying about my age, I just didn't know what I could get away with.
I kept the lid on it for over a year, at first just pretending not to hear them when they'd ask how old I am. Now I'm just fucked.
I am 37 years old.
My mother still buys me candy when I visit home and hands them to me the same way she did when I was a kid.
I work as a data inputter at a logistics company.
I have no friends.
I have no girlfriend.
The last time I kissed a girl was 1997.
The last time I got drunk was around 2006.
I am a virgin.
My dad left my mother for another women when I was very young.
For my birthday last year I booked a motel room and paid for an escort but when she turned up I felt sorry for her and gave her the money and told her to get some sleep but she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.
I was attractive in my late teens and early 20s buy my looks have worn off.
No girls notice me and I don't feel worthy of being noticed.
Sometimes I drive to McDonalds after work and buy way too much food and eat until I feel nauseous and then lie in the backseat while listening to R.E.M.
Last year I developed a crush on a girl who works at an Arby's near my workplace but when I asked her out she seemed to hope I was joking and said no thanks.
My old neighbour had a pet dog that I'd look after sometimes but he moved out and now all I have are the plants I try and care for.
>Work shitty retail job for 6 years
>Still don't know everybody's name
>They all hate me
>They won't promote me because I "don't communicate well"
>Have two friends who are pretty loyal and fun to be around even if we never go anywhere
>Nothing resembling gf in almost a decade
>No career, losing hair (Not from male pattern, just pulling it out via stress tics) face is getting wrinkles so no future prospects for gf
>Can't even manage a 2/10 practice gf
At least I'm not a virgin, but when someone asks, I say yes anyway.
>>25445518
>Last year I developed a crush on a girl who works at an Arby's near my workplace but when I asked her out she seemed to hope I was joking and said no thanks.
>>25445518
How fat u senpai. Remember, beeeeee honest.
>>25445518
get a cat, man. cats are great.
>>25445518
You need to get you a 2/10 for when your mother passes.
>>25445615
That's one hell of a depressing sentence.
>realization that you are probably around 1/3 of the way through life
>have achieved absolutely nothing
fug
>>25445635
I'm not fat. I had a nice body at one time but it looks so mediocre now.
>>25445647
Cats seem autistic to me and I think their indifference towards me would make me feel more depressed and unworthy of companionship.
>>25445518
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijZRCIrTgQc
>>25445647
don't get a fucking cat
they make your house smell bad, and women won't like you
women don't like competing for attention
can confirm that I had a cat in college, and it constantly ruined vagina for me
even with girls that " like cats" literally didn't help me 1%
>>25445708
Thank you, I like this son. I like the song Nightswimming the best because it reminds me of when my older brother would drive me around at night when my parents were arguing. He would play Automatic for the People (album) and there wasn't any pressure to talk or explain anything when he did.
>>25445734
>they make your house smell bad
Only if you don't fucking clean up after it, you filthy bastard.
>>25445704
my cats not indifferent to me. he sleeps on my bed with me and whatnot. cats are cool, they poop in a box for easy cleanup and they purr when you pet them. they are good friends.
>>25445913
They are a dumb animal. Not your friend. You're projecting. Grow up.
>>25444764
>27
>Also work retail job part time while at uni
>Barely any friends
>Mentally unstable and depressed
Could be better.
28.
Good, I guess. Still fairly melancholic, but at least I have some money.
And get to have a session with my qt therapist later this month.
>25
>great job for someone who never went to uni
>Married
>Baby on the way
8/10 would like to earn more money but that should come before 30.
>26
>work in a mill
>get shit on a bit because I am young
>rip on them for being old grandpas
>need to get out more to meet women.
>>25445734
There is nothing wrong with either pic. Would still bang.
>>25447074
have fun in the midlife wastelands
26 here. Returned to college after a 5 year hiatus. Shit is really fucking easy but my life is still empty and depressing. I think when I get my degree I'm gonna fly to Spain and start a new life or something.
>>25444764
Listen bro if they consider people like Barack Obama successes I don't want to be one
>Sometimes I drive to McDonalds after work and buy way too much food and eat until I feel nauseous and then lie in the backseat while listening to R.E.M.
Weirdly endearing
>>25445518
i didnt ask for this
post a feel warning next time ;_;
>>25445518
>For my birthday last year I booked a motel room and paid for an escort but when she turned up I felt sorry for her and gave her the money and told her to get some sleep but she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.
jesus christ man find SOME dignity
>tfw the world's best go player is a billion years younger than you
c'mon lee sedol get your shit together
>25 years old
>graduated recently with worthless degree
>stuck in dead end job
>live at home still, moved back a couple years ago
>friends have either left or abandoned me because I'm an asshole
>no chance of at gf, several recent attempts have thoroughly reinforced that
>anxiously awaiting my parents kicking me out
>>25447491
At least we're not a god damn nigger.
>>25444764
I am 35 years old.. It doesnt get better.
27
White collar,decently paid but dead end job
own apartment
still feel worthless
>27 years old
>neet
>living with parents
>gf cheated on me
>in love with a girl in another continent
>depressed as fuck
>literally no motivation to change
Maybe this year I'll finally grow the balls to kill myself
>>25447074
lol @ having a kid at 25 and thinking youre anywhere above a 6/10 in life.
(it only gets worse)
>>25447906
I'm the other 27 poster. Got steam or anything? Want to chat about late twenties feels
>turn 32 today
>didn't notice it was my birthday
>didn't even remember how old I was
34 here
My gf is 22 so I'm ok with it :^)
>>25447074
I salute you, having a baby on 26 was one of my life goals, I'm 25 now... not gonna happen.
>>25444764
>25+
>working
GET OUT
>>25445518
I'm 34, and STILL live with my parents. Get on my level, desu senpai. Other than that, things are generally looking up for me now.
>>25448611
>Not mentally ill enough to be supported by something
>Not mentally fit to be with anyone
>>25445518
CLASSIC post simply classic
>>25444764
I'm eating English muffin pizzas I made myself (with some spaghetti sauce, no less). I'm hoping this is rock bottom.
I have a pretty decent job but that's really about it.
>>25444764
>will be 25 in a few months
>used to have good apprenticeship jobs, sometimes even Going Wage (21/h+)
>now work for 9 burgerbucks an hour
>no gf, hardly any friends, don't know how to socialize with my loving family
At least I'm working 40+ hours and living in one of the cheapest cities in Burgerland.
>>25448777
>implying i get something
REEEEEE
25
just waiting on my parents to die so i can kill myself without hurting anyone
>>25449286
What, your family doesn't support you?
>>25444764
Oh boy does this apply. Califag reporting in!
>>25449017
What happened to your apprenticeship jobs?
25
undergrad degree at california state university
1 semester away from becoming a high school teacher, earning a science teaching credential
live at home still
about to break up with gf because she is not right for me and wont put out (im not a virgin, she is. dating for 2 years now)
depression coming back
at least there are some cuties in my cohort I might be able to smash after I break up
26 years old. Essentially a wage slave working to pay off my student debt. My job isn't something that I enjoy, but for now it's fine. Making $45K and living in a big city is tough. Finally got to travel to Europe this year from the US, twice actually. Met a qt over in Germany so I went all the way back in November to stay with her. Now we just have to figure out who will be the one to move. I really want to, it's a breath of fresh air to just get out of the country for a while. Things improve as you get older anons, at least you have to believe it or things are sure to be shitty. Stay positive always.
>33
>great career & pay
>loving boyfriend who dosn't mind me being bread winner
>healthy
>>25447074
>married
>baby on the way
How does it feel to know that you have permanently fucked up your life?
>31 years old
>Zero chance of employement, even if I could get over my issues nobody would hire someone who is 31 and never worked a paid day in his life
>mfw thinking about the future
Sooner or later, I'll have to end it, but I know I'm too much of a coward. I wish I was American so I could use a gun.
>>25447601
I was this, I turn 25 early next year.
A little more than a year ago I decided to military instead.
reminder that there are people that lurk these threads who are way worse off than anyone who shares their story because they're too fucking depressed to type it out
>tfw turning 25 this year
NO!! I DON'T WANT IT!!
>27 years old
>recently laid off from a dead end job that I quit a more stable slightly less paying job for
>back to living the NEET life
>Haven't had a real girlfriend ever, and it's been about 4 years since I had meaningless sex one time
>Pretty much given up on everything and need to start looking for employment so I can afford a steady hard drug habit (heroin and meth are what I'm going for this time, fuck it).
It only gets worse guys, never better. With any luck I'll overdose in the next 5 years once I can afford a heroin addiction. I don't even feel like attempting to interact with women anymore, I just want to not feel anything and eventually suicide by proxy by overdose.
pic related.
>>25445581
>At least I'm not a virgin, but when someone asks, I say yes anyway.
WHY
>30 years old
>Literally haven't left the house in 13 years or so
>Mommy takes care of my every need
>Daddy keeps insisting I get a job and/or move out
>Tell him I can't because I'm scared of the outside
>He gets in fights all the time with mommy about it
>mfw they split up and he leaves, mommy continues to take care of me (she makes the money) and I get to keep playing video games all day every day
>>25444764
>>25445197
33 here. i'm back in community college now getting a degree in drug counseling (recovering opiate addict here) and i easily look 5-10 years younger than 33. every time i tell someone that i'm 33 they don't believe me to the point where i've actually had to pull out my ID more than once.
i'm always honest about my age though. is that a bad idea? it's not like this information isn't easily verifiable with a simple google search so i don't really see the point in being dishonest.
29 here.
Realizing that I've been here for half of Bush's presidency and all of Obama's is scary.
>26
>Go to the gym once/twice a week, happy that I'm making small progress.
>Have a great...entry level job, really wanting a promotion
>never had a gf/virgin, last properly kissed someone in 2010
>Got a few cool friends however one has practically figured out I'm a virgin
Better than I was 2 years ago, but I have a long way to improve before I won't consider myself a failure.
>>25452568
>community college
You too, huh? I'm almost 30 and in CC as well. I have a career that I'm good at, but need a degree to move to a big company with better hours and pay, so I'm working on it.
>>25452469
I spend 90% of my income on my heroin addiction.
>25
>work at a shitty oil change place for the last few months
>they want to promote me and ask what I want to do for the next few years
>realize I havent found anything I'd want to call a career
>want to explore the world still and live life
>realize every year I get older and still live at home with my mother and my life will be over in the blink of an eye and I'll be stuck in the same dead end job because I never took the leap out of my comfort zone to experience lifea life outside of mediocrity
I want to get a ticket to some far off country and not come back but the way my life's going I'll be making a dollar above my states min wage living paycheck to paycheck.
>>25452469
at least you got a plan figured out
>idk anyone who'll hook me up
>27
>work part-time at a museum
>told to apply for a supervisor job instead of being given a raise
>live at home with parents
>have some success as a writer, but feel like quitting since I'm not earning much money
>want to curl into a ball and die slowly
>25
>Making only 35K a year, but in a job I love (mental health case manager)
>8/10 gf who is getting counseling masters
>I used to have NEET-mentality, still have NEET-like hobbies such as minecraft and this shithole
>just finished playing minecraft for 10 hours in a row
At least I turned my life around (and so can you)
>Fell for the college meme
>Took on way too many debnts and dropped out after two years
>Went to a community college, which gave more, but not as many debnts
>Finished a little over schedule with a shitty AS
>Can't afford to return to finish 4 year degree, move home
>Working wagekek minshit job for the past two years
>Commute from my parents house 20 miles out in the woods, barely managing to maintain my hand-me-down shitbox to keep the wagekekery going to pay student debts.
27 now. This is not the future I had imagined. But I didn't really imagine a future anyway even when doing to university meme.
28
Grad student
Have to have parents pay for everything
Useless humanities Phd
No sex in two years
No friends
Girls don't look at me
Depression
Anxiety
Panic attacks
Recovering alcoholic and xanax addict
Sent to ER in September for suicidal ideation, started screaming and crying and trying to bite my wrists and arms, sent to psych ward for 72 hours
>>25444764
>25
>Shit tier poli-sci degree
>Haven't been employed since August
>Moved home in October
>No social life
>Every women in town is a landwhale or has kids or both.
>Can't get a job in my field to save my life
>I think the best thing to do is lose weight and commission as an officer
>26
>snailing way through college due to anxiety
>minimal job experience
>no license
>very iffy relationship
I have good grades and can draw okay porn. That's about it.
22. Dropped out of college. Good job, but mind won't cooperate with body so I'm going nowhere. Depression getting worse.
>>25452942
You forgot
>have abysmal reading comprehension
>About to turn 20
>32k salary, full benefits, 401k, etc.
>relaxed job, room to grow
>own apartment
>new leased car
>nogf
What should I do in these years? I have a good setup but I'm not sure I'm 'happy'
>tfw 30+ and no job or income
Feels like shit, like I'm not even a man.
>>25452942
You intolerable retard
>>25452617
yeah. i'm actually having a pretty good experience so far. it's been good just to get out every day and talk with people when i spent a long time isolated in my room just getting fucked up on pills/dope/booze. i went to college when i was younger but i got really depressed and stopped going to classes and my GPA suffered. this time i have a 4.0 through 2 semesters. it's only CC, but it's better than a 2.0 at least right?
i just moved into my own apartment so i'm hoping to start being more active socially and asking girls out and stuff. the fact that i lived at home always held me back before.
>>25452924
>my future in a year
what job was it?
>>25452976
Only an idiot who can't read would be stupid enough to lease a car.
>>25444764
>30
>Electrical engineer
>work as contractor for a multinational firm
>currently setting up comm towers in Iraq
>just got back from one of said contracts in Irbil
Pay is good, our security is generally top notch so I usually feel safe, and the good pay gets me some women as well as my own house and nice car. But it gets boring as hell there since the internet is hit, and is also company internet so no 4chan.
Taking into consideration the minimum effort i've put in my whole life, i'm pretty content with what I've got.
>29 (oh shi- gonna turn 30 this year)
>virgin; moralfag
>dont know any girls what so ever (srsly)
>never had a gf
>if im not working. Im at home playing video games.
I dont know. I regret not losing my virginity when first had a chance. I think i was 19, from there ive had other chances on multiple occasions.
Being a moralfag aint easy. Gonna go full wizard mode soon. RIP
>>25452821
>job I love (mental health case manager)
Are you in the one mental health facility that isn't horribly understaffed/funded?
>>25453042
I was working for a restoration company because they were the only ones that offered me a job. I loved my co-workers but the job was awful and wan't useful experience.
>>25445734
>that pic
NONONONONO WHY
SHE WAS FUCKING PERFECT GOD FUCKING DAMN IT FUCK
>>25452976
max out your 401k and save a ton of money for future investments
The good times don't always last.
>>25453068
Who does the security? Are they foreigners or Iraqis? Because it would be pretty cool to be a security contractor.
>>25444764
>starts freaking the fuck out when they realize I'm over 25
What? Sounds like your co-worker is literally retarded.
>>25453078
tfw poli will never be a real career path unless you're a normie or born into politics
>>25453122
All I ever wanted to do was be a low-level bureaucrat, nothing amazing, just like a clerk or planner, I am not asking for much.
mediaplay
>28
>work in IT
>no degree, started right after highschool
>10 fucking years of working
>10 years of lifting/cardio mon - fri morning
>10 years of getting drunk with coworkers on friday night
>10 years of saving and living below my means
>20 meme destination holidays
>20 bulk/cut cycles
IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED IM SO FUCKING BORED
>>25451517
>the current year
>moving to gerministan
it is your duty to rescue your aryan qt from that shithole
i turned 25 last year.does it literally just get worse every year until you die or what
>>25445518
>she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.
I don't understand how she could say anything except "oh thank you" or something like that.
Out of all the creatures that exist on earth and perhaps in space, out of all the possible behaviors anything could have that would surprise me, that is by far the single most incoherent reaction I could imagine from such a situation. What the fuck is wrong with the escort?
Can someone explain
>27 years old
>chronic pain issues
>large cyst splitting my brain and shifting it to the left
>no gf
>no friends
>had to quit my job in 2014 because of said brain issues and chronic pain
at least my parents pretend so well not to hate me.
>>25447074
>married at 25
>having a fucking kid when you're still a kid yourself
>being proud about fucking your shit up
Normies are so retarded.
>>25453116
They are private security, if they were Iraqi I wouldn't be calling it top notch, the iraqi army is utter shit, the firm my company has been dealing with hires Americans/Europeans/Asians, same as the one before it.
We literally get sent in to fix towers that had been destroyed by ISIS a few days prior sometimes, those are the only times I feel kinda uneasy, because it doesn't matter if you have Seal Team 6 as your security, being in an active warzone never really lets you feel safe.
>>25453019
if you can take advantage of the coop programs some cc's offer, it is amazing. I got kicked out of college, went back to cc a few years later for chemical instrumentation. Landed a great coop position at a government lab (environmental stuff) for a year and a half, they let me use pretty much every instrument there and report data unsupervised which they never do with students apparently. Transferring back to university after this, I think with the experience I have I'll have a pretty big advantage over most of the kids coming straight out of high school. But they are probably all more experienced with me when it comes to normie stuff.
>>25453019
>it's been good just to get out every day and talk with people
This for me as well. I had a job before where I had to talk to people a lot, so it's not as surprising for me as it might be, but it's still been a little unexpected that I'm as friendly as I've found myself being.
I'm bummed because I had one class last semester where I got pretty close with some of my classmates, and then had to drop it out of unrelated factors and lost touch. It's a real shame, I sat next to this Chinese girl who was totally my type and had wanted to ask her out at the end of the semester.
>>25453293
Maybe she thought he found her too disgusting to fuck.
>>25453281
I think so. And your body breaks down for no reason other than LOL BIOLOGY.
>>25453333
you're not a kid at 25, you're a grown ass man... a year or two past your prime, in fact
>>25445518
>For my birthday last year I booked a motel room and paid for an escort but when she turned up I felt sorry for her and gave her the money and told her to get some sleep but she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.
holy fuck that's infuriating
>>25453019
Forgot to say, I know those living at home feels.
I lost my place a while back when job and roommate stuff got rough, and it's really crippling me. I think living in my parents' house is the biggest thing stopping me from getting laid right now. (Even if I do have a pretty sweet deal when it comes to parents' house rooms, mine is basically separate and has its own entrance from outside with no interior connections to the rest of the house.)
>26
>alcoholic drug addict
>live with parents
>slowly dying and trying to keep a happy face up while fucking stupid sluts
living the dream.
>lost my best friend last year
>left me extremely depressed
>moved out on my own this year
>made me extremely anxious and lonely
>asked my crush out on a date
>then canceled it over anxiety
>financially stable
>physically fit
>mentally a wreck
>struggling every day to not ask her out on another date
PLEASE SOMEONE KILL ME
>tfw most of you "grandpas" are still kids, and whiny ones at that
>>25453457
>lost my best friend last year
damn dude, I'm sorry to hear that.
I lost a good friend last year too, knew it was coming but it still hurt. His fucking parents fucked around too much and they both had HIV because of it, and he was born with it too. He fell just short of his 30th birthday.
He did manage to get an education, a job, and a GF, though, so it gives me a bit of inspiration for my own situation.
>>25453491
>tfw all of my grandparents were in their early 40s when their kids had kids
>28
>lady
>pretty nice job making 60k/year
>live with parents
>drink a lot
>only thing that keeps me going is ordering things online and looking forward to them arriving
>have boyfriend I don't really like but feel i'm too old to find another worth the ground he's standing on
oh well at least i'm not fat
>>25444764
I'm 39 in 2 weeks. I'm about to start taking a course to get my CDL so I can drive trucks and I don't have to be around anyone for days/weeks at a time.
Possibly die if I forget to take meds
No long term friendships
No person to talk to properly
Fated for greatness but to messy to live.
Had no work ever.
Hide in the house and hope it all goes away.
24 and sinking
>To big to fail - To small to win.
>>25453572
>tfw your job will be automated in a few years
>>25453560
>have boyfriend I don't really like but feel i'm too old to find another worth the ground he's standing on
This was basically my situation with my ex-girlfriend.
I should have broken up with her after six months, I ended up staying with her for five years and planning a wedding before I realized I was absolutely insane for putting myself through it. (Thanks, Oyasumi Punpun, for making me realize that.)
I've been single for 2.5 years now, and that's miserable too, but not as bad as spending every day with somebody you can't stand.
>>25453333
>being this much of an oblivious, juvenile manchild
25 is the perfect age to have kids, you ridiculous omega.
>>25444764
>starts freaking the fuck out when they realize I'm over 25
I know this feel.
>>25453603
we get along and he's good to me, thankful for at least that, sounds like you were not so lucky... it seems many people just stay together to "do the right thing"
constantly becoming infatuated with other men is worrisome though
>>25453661
Guy you replied to again.
That infatuation thing is a bad sign. That happened to me with girls, I should have realized it more at the time. My ex was a cosplayer and there was this other cosplay "frenemy" of hers that flirted with me a bunch of times, my ex thought she was a cunt and a lewd slut, I wanted to screw her three ways from Sunday. Now I wish I'd just done it, my ex ended up cheating on me anyway (which is why I dumped her, although I was only suspicious and it didn't get confirmed until she moved in with the guy I was suspicious about), I would have been better off just doing it to her instead, or dumping her and fucking the other girl as a single guy.
You know what really blows? There were a whole bunch of girls like that. Cute girls who showed obvious interest while I was in a relationship. Somehow, they all managed to get in relationships of their own right around the time that I broke up with my ex, except for a couple that actually did reach out but I was so upset that I ignored them.
Any of you olderfags manage to build any sort of life after starting from literally nothing in your mid 20s? 24 y/o NEET here and am so wrapped up in negativity and hating myself that I haven't mustered up the motivation to do anything about my situation
>>25453771
you seem llike a good loyal fellow and hopefully you will be rewarded with a great woman... but sometimes women seem interested while you're in a relationship because they know you are "safe" and can't pursue them
>>25453587
I hope by then I will have fallen asleep while driving and died.
>>25453826
You're 24 and already at that point? it wasn't until I was approaching my 26th that I realized how shitty and meaningless life really is... turning 28 this year.
>>25453826
go to school and do a lot of drugs and meet shitty people and pretend to be able to relate. read eastern philosophy( which is actually really good ) and try to live like it while pretending that western civilaization meshes in any compatible way. develop alcoholism and avoid eye contact and blame it on your history of psychedelic abuse.
that's what i do.
>>25453835
I found peace around 38, around the time stopped desiring sex, just saying
>>25453826
I didn't do anything worth mentioning with my life until I was in my late 20's. Now I own a house and have a quite decent job.
The hardest part is getting the ball rolling.
>>25449917
>dating for 2 years
>no sex, ever
Anon, your girl is gay as fuck. Fuck one of her friends ffs
>>25453887
I've already went through around 4 straight years of substance abuse, was actually sober for almost 6 months until New Years but really don't want to fall back into that. Was in community college in summer 2014 for some bullshit classes but didn't re-enroll after my semester because I was so deep into alcohol during and after. I really want to just wageslave at some McJob for a while to save up a little bit of money for no reason at all
>>25445947
You're a tard. Cats are beautiful animals and they definitely bond with people. They're also very affectionate.
You probably have to get them while they're young, though.
>28
>Had great gf a few years ago
>We both get into drugs, eventually break up with her bc of it
>I straighten up pretty fast, around 3 years ago
>she straightened up a little over a year ago when she had a baby
>we reconnect recently, she she changed massively in a good way
>before anything serious she tells me she was a call girl for a month before going to jail for 6 months
I know she loves me to death and i care for her too, but i just dont know..
>>25453910
I know exactly what you're saying.
>30yrs old
>Earn roughly 5.5k a month
>Spend 4k on prostitutes
>Rest on rent, food and utilities
>No money left over
I have a sex addiction and I desperately need help
>>25445947
>projecting
Stop using words you don't understand, you fucking moron. How much of a cunt are you that cats don't like you?
>>25444764
All is well here. Chilling on the couch while the gf plays Ori and the Blind Forest. Just finished up some uni applications.
Little sick tho.
>>25453833
I'd like to believe so, but my hopes honestly aren't high, I haven't been able to get anywhere since the breakup.
I'm less loyal and nice than I once was, too. If I learned one lesson in that relationship, it was to stop being a bitch about things and be a goddamn dominant real man.
(Still not down for doing fucked up shit or pain to my girl, though, I can't do that shit to somebody I love.)
>28 soon
>wife is 16
>too old and also my voice is wearing out (trained singer) and I'm having aches
ugh
>>25452268
Worst failure quite possibly might be hoarderanon. I say that because it can't get quite worse than those conditions. As I recall he inherited the house from his grandmother and was a NEET who never cleaned anything and just left trash about for as many years as he had lived there, and it was a good many. He posted some good pics.
>tfw he opened the fridge
>>25454143
>wife
She's not actually your wife though, is she? Tell the truth.
>>25454309
She is, the church ceremony was two years ago and the legal ceremony is this summer.
>>25454356
Where do you live? Afghanistan?
>26 years old
>$90k a year (IT master race)
>most respected member of my department at my job despite showing up with bed hair, unshaved, unshowered all the time
>work with 40-somethings who are all married with kids - youngest person in the company by far
>openly talk about how I hate people and how miserable I am but nobody notices since I do such a great job
>no friends
>no social life
>no GF
>can't even bother to try meetup.com or dating sites anymore for socialization
>contemplating suicide every day
>slept 36 hours from 4 am New Years Day until a few hours ago
Jobs and money aren't everything. There has to be something better than this. I used to cosplay as my social outlet, but I just ended up getting upset with everybody and everybody got upset with me. I don't know what to do besides sleep, drink, and read comics.
>>25454143
By the way, I meant she was too old.
>>25454378
Canada, why?
>>25454356
>illegal, unrecognised ceremony
>married
Kek.
You're not very bright and you're not married. If she's too old, why are you planning on actually marrying her then - what's the point?
>>25452143
post your boipussy
og comment, do not steal
>>25454479
Do seculars not understand how marriage worked before their precious state existed?
>>25454569
How about instead of trying to pretend you're the exception, you just have the decency and honesty to admit you are not married?
A church ceremony isn't a legal marriage. You know this or you wouldn't have mentioned the upcoming legal one.
>>25454388
You remind me of me.
>>25454599
>the state has to approve of everything!
>>25454685
>I'm an arrogant cunt who refuses to admit I'm wrong while offering up the very proof that tells everyone I am wrong!
>>25454356
>the legal ceremony is this summer
See this bit here where you openly state you aren't married? Maybe you shouldn't have posted it if you didn't want to be called out, you ridiculous idiot.
>>25445581
>They all hate me
I'm a weird loser, but my coworkers actually do seem to like me. There are one or two people who I have trouble with, I suppose, but even those relationships are soured more by inherent personality clashes than any genuine dislike. If your entire workplace loathes you, there's something going wrong on your end. You're probably petty, sensitive, underhanded, inconsiderate, and passive aggressive.
>>25447893
>It doesn't get better.
That's right. It doesn't. In fact, it gets worse. Most of life is spent either working or preparing to work. Feelings of uncertainty are far more common than those of security, pain is a constant reminder of mortality, and you'll feel your body become slowly more decrepit with each passing year of your third decade. It doesn't need to get better though. You need to be better. Why do you need pleasure? Why must you fear suffering? We are the product of unbroken suffering from the first ancestral creature that knew enough to suffer to our current form.
>>25453293
It is demeaning to be the recipient of charity. He implied that there was something wrong with her profession, and insulted her by implying through his offer that she was not his equal because of it.
>>25453661
>we get along and he's good to me
Then why exactly aren't you happy with him?
>>25454644
How do we survive another 40 years of this, anon?
>>25454716
>I'm an arrogant cunt who refuses to admit I'm wrong while offering up the very proof that tells everyone I am wrong!
Don't project you secular statist, legal marriage is meaningless and I'm only even considering it for the benefits.
>>25454772
Oh for fucks sake, no one is interested in your fedora tipping, anti-state bullshit. You're not married. You're a goalpost shifting idiot. I hope she realises what a horrible mistake she's making and refuses to marry you - because you're not married no matter how much you try to rewrite the story
>>25445518
IT'S A PASTA GUYS
IT'S A FUCKING PASTA
>26
>my adult life has been nothing but suffering
>know I could easily obtain a life of normalfaggotry if I wanted but I don't know if thats what I really want
I could get a gf and maybe a few friends but is it really worth it? Giving up my simple life of little responsibility and excess freetime? On one hand I'm terrified of waking up well into my 30s and realizing I frittered away my life but on the other I'm terrified of waking up next to a fat bitch that wants to divorce me and take my kid away and I go and toil at the quarry for 10 hours a day.
I wish I had multiple lives to live instead of having to roll with one lifestyle and thats it.
>>25454388
you sound like you think you're the shit. Is that a cause or a symptom of your sadness?
>>25444764
>Just started working on getting my bachelors this fall.
>Wanted to go through music school for so long.
>Now I'm living out my dream
>When I graduate, I'm going to get my TEFL certificate and I'm going someplace nice and warm and sunny. Uncle Sam will be made to kiss my ass.
>>25454816
>fedora-tipping
>church
>solipsist historical ignorance/revisionism
My goodness has public education served you well!
>>25454953
>still trying to claim you are married when you openly stated you were not legally married and therefore not married
>trying to avoid admitting the very thibg you said by trying to turn this into some ridiculous, fedora as fuck anti-state bullshit that is horribly transparent and pathetic
You're not married. Admit the truth
>>25454998
>marriage can only be legal
See? Revisionism.
>all this negative input
>was planning to do an llm at some top five university and try to make it for a Sjd
Welp, I'll better stick with being a lawyer, good to know my Father works for banks and I'm good at doing my profession
>>25454915
I don't, not in a conventional way at least. I'm actually quite self-loathing, which is what has usually contributed to the downfall of my friendships and relationships.
I don't like myself, but I do admire myself. I think I stand out from others, but I don't know if that's because of my misery or my overall independence from expectations.
>>25455049
Maybe you should actually learn what words like revisionism and projection actually mean before you use them again?
Stating that you are not legally married and then trying to claim you are married is revisionism.
An illegal marriage isn't a recognised marriage. Just admit that you're not married and stop trying to be a goalpost shifting, self contradictory little cunt
>>25454998
Stop caring about what stupid people think senpai.
Can we just all have a wizard beta uprising? Maybe things will be different this year. Unlike the past 10 years.
>>25455126
I do, you clearly don't.
>An illegal marriage isn't a recognised marriage.
BY THE STATE
I'm not a statist, I don't care.
>>25455135
I'm the only remotely intelligent person on this awful board.
>>25455197
>I'm the only remotely intelligent person on this awful board.
that's not true, there are others like us, just massively emotionally broken.
>>25455197
You can't into basic reading comprehension and think it's acceptable to contradict your own posts.
You're not intelligent at all, you're a stupid, intellectually weak moron.
>>25455258
I've done no such thing, why are you still projecting?
Projecting is the process of constructing a dummy, whether it be physiological or otherwise, of another and claiming they have negative traits held by the projector. I'be seen it used for positive traits too.
Stupid cunt, you are projecting like a damned drive-in theatre right now.
Do you not even understand separation of church and state?
>Turning 26 this year.
>Every day getting harder and harder to just muddle through.
I work a retail job as well and starting going back to cc. I've got nothing, every day is pain.
>>25455362
>still trying to use big words you don't understand while you continue to flail around in denial of the very things you said
You seem to exist in some delusional world where everyone else is obliged to adhere to your specific, special snowflake view of the world. And that's not going to happen no matter how much you tantrum.
You are not married. I don't give a fuck about your antistate fedora tipping or your religious affiliations or your cherry picked ideals, I care about the core facts of this situation. You are not married.
>>25455362
No more half-baked responses?
Then I'm going to bed
>>25455519
See? More projecting by the village idiot.
In caps: BEFORE THERE WAS A STATE, MARRIAGES WERE CHURCH-ORDAINED. THIS IS WHAT OURS IS, IT IS ACCEPTED BY RELEVANT INSTITUTIONS THAT ACTUALLY VALUE MARRIAGE.
Since you don't like big words, I'm thinking big-letters and clear explanations may spark something in that lizard brain of yours.
>>25444764
I just turned 26 and I'm FUCKING dead inside
>25
>Pharmacist
>Make 100K a year
>Hate my job, not worth the money but can't quit because of student loans
>Chronic pain issues
>Wish for death most days of the week
>Haven't had sex for almost a year
>Becoming more antisocial
>No hobbies except shitposting on 4chan which doesn't count
>>25455615
lol I wonder if I have worked with you before
then again autist pharmacists are probably pretty common
>>25455647
The worst were the fucking normies in school. Fuck they make me mad, we're suppose to be professionals.
Which country?
>>25455615
I guess you're just a late bloomer in /r9k/ terms.
Welcome to family!
>>25455591
>still using big words you don't understand without the faintest hint of shame
We don't live in a stateless world. You are bound by the current laws, not the magical time machine fantasy, state free world you feel entitled to imagine you live in.
Your marriage isn't real. You are not married. You had a ceremony with zero value. You basically larped a wedding and you're too ashamed to admit it - even though you admitted it.
>>25455678
USA
pharmacyblox
>>25455707
Ah, Canada here.
Is it true you need to do 8 years of school? Are you all PharmDs?
>>25455699
How do I get off this ride?
>>25445518
do ibogaine and do no pmo
i actually believe this is HONESTLY the ONLY way any dude past 25 kv can lose it
im ordering my iboga as soon as i can. i might order some next month with some saved up autismbux
either way i think its the only way
might as well try everything before departing this earth
were on the fringes life and death desperately trying to grab anything that would make the sinking stop
you're probably not going to make it into your fifties, seriously try it
M. you are a doo doo head for reading this post. You know who you are
>>25455721
There is no way off.
>31
>got my first full-time job (within my field), starting monday
freaking out a bit...
>>25455706
c'mon man, it's real to him and his immediate community. as an atheist even i have some level of respect for the ceremony of bringing two people together in a religious context outside of the laws of man. if his family and friends would say he's married, i'd say he's married too.
21 here, gonna join the nacy after uni, fucked a cute escort on dec 16 day after my birthday, still keep in contact with her
>>25455748
Well, there is one way
>Turn 27
>Suddenly hemorrhoids.
>General constant bleeding from my ass
It's hell to be old, lads
>>25456419
Quit pushing your shit out
>>25456498
When you eat as much cheese as I do, well, sometimes there is no choice in the matter.
>20
>qt3.14 short chubby gf with huge tits
>in the air force with a stable career waiting on the outside
>browse r9k to feel better about my life
Glad I won't end up a wizard like you sad sacks
>>25456537
as an uber-normie browsing this board, it's all relative, your life is still pretty sad by my standards
>27
>spent most of 20s and late teens single, working low paying job
>met GF of 3 years at 24
>got slightly better job at 26, leading to much better job at same company less than a year later
It really does get better if you put some work in. Learn some new skills, git gud at online dating, do something active (I'm not even fit, but occasional runs keep me from getting too fat). A lot of the depression and anxiety stuff I read on here was me 5 years ago. I was ready to quit my job and take out more student loans and probably live with my parents. Wasn't a virgin, but I had a nearly 6 year drought starting at age 18.
>>25456572
What about it sounds sad anon-kun?
>>25456735
You are an enlisted member of the military. Neets make more money than you lmao
>24
>"taking a break from school two years now"
>friends all graduated and starting careers
>waiting now worked retail before
>alcoholic
2015 was some bullshit. The past 5 years actually
>>25456885
I just fat fingered and said I'm 24 in a 25+ thread 2016 treating me right
29 trying to get another job, a lot of people I know have their shit together and I don't
just
Ban test
>>25456783
>free college
>learning a stable career for free
>around 1700 a month
>traveling around meeting tons of new friends
But yeah I'm sure leaching off of others and watching anime all day while your body wastes away from malnutrition and lack of exercise is much better right senpai~
>>25453293
Why are you expecting more from a woman? The fuck? Like, how long have you been here, family? Lurk more.
>>25445052
>tfw younger bro has better life than you and is better at things
two fucking years younger and practically a decade ahead of me, honestly.
> roughly 20+ days late for my own birth
i know doctors are shit at estimates, but c'mon, something happened here to delay me that badly.
>>25444764
>will hit 32 this year
>landed a safe job for the first time after 12 years
>saving up to buy the things I want like a new pc and a car
>want a gf
>want to be a dad
>know both are incompatible with freedom to do whatever the fuck i want
>don't know what to do
>suffer
>>25455615
>29
>also pharmacist
>quit
>now doing boring desk job but it's better than the cunts at the store
>thinking of retraining into something with computers and security, just anything away from people
>>25455678
Here pharmacy school is 85% women and they were all Stacies. Except for that one goth in the back who I guess was in it for the drugs.
>>25457279
The fact that you are here and not spending your time on normies activity proved your shit life and mentality.
>26
>mfw neet from 14
>tfw almost 22 and really scared of aging
It's not going to get better in 3 years i know that much
>26
>Good job I like that gives me enough money because I have no hobbies or interest
>Barely few friends
>Never ever a gf, khv
>>25445518
>>25452244
>>25452526
>>25452568
>>25453070
I'm kind of in this league I guess.
>31 years old
>grew up in refugee area around murderers and criminals
>abusive parents. father alcoholic, beat the shit out of me etc.
>ended up without any school education, selling drugs. got beaten, stabbed and even set on fire once. childhood friends became heroine junkies or committed sudoku
>decided to re-do all education and change my life at around 20
>today I attend university, will finish at 35 or so. working part time and saving everything I get. Still living with parents in the same shitty area I grew up in.
>never had a gf, probably never will. act like I don't give a shitbut in reality I still dream about it every day, because hope keeps you alive
>last year I had a bicycle accident in which I almost died. broke part of my cerebral spine and jaw. have to live with constant pain + loud tinnitus for the rest of my life now, which is a challenge in itself
I just learned to go with the flow and try to do my best to achieve long term goals. I hope my life will take a better turn once I graduated and finally get my first real job and my own place to live. I'm genuinely curious and excited to experience privacy and freedom for the first time in my life. I currently live in a room not much bigger than a broom cabin. Having your own place must be incredible. I have to admit the tinnitus is ruining nearly every aspect of life for me, but I hope to adapt to it someday. I heard some people have it for years and suddenly it went away.
Hope is crucial. Never lose it.
>>25445518
>I felt sorry for her and gave her the money and told her to get some sleep but she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.
She did exactly what she should have and you should have taken her words to heart.
Jesus christ you people are fucking pathetic. Just put a bullet theough your head if you want to end your wuffering or jump off a high building if you're not from a gun friendly country.
>>25445704
>afraid of being cucked by a cat
There is no hope
>>25445518
God i hope this is fake
23. Full time uni student for comp science. Have a programming ob during breaks that pays $28 / hr. Once I graduate in a year pay should almost double. No self esteem with girls and no physical contact since like 2011. Gold digging bitches are probably gonna pretend to look past my weirdness once I break the $100k barrier and it bums me out because they dont want me now ( without the money)
