How to get over the fact that women have likely had sexual partners and sent naked photos of themselves to other men, and probably heads of men at that?
The thought of it makes me incredibly sad, to the point of an heroing. Will this go away when I'm no longer a kissless virgin? I don't think "age will fix it" as I am 27 and have felt this way since I was a teen.
Everywhere I go, and everything I do, triggers me. 4chan doesn't help. Everyday I see thread after thread of girls having their naked photos leaked. I see men gloating about their sexual conquests, and I can't help but imagine guys in the real world are much the same -- laughing to themselves. I can't see myself ever having a girlfriend for various reasons, but, the thought of a guy laughing to himself because he has seen my girlfriend naked, or done sexual things with her, destroys me.
It makes me sad, but at the same time it infuriates me, sending me to the point of an inner rage where all I think about is destruction, both of myself, and the world in general. That lasts for a few hours, and then I'll be blank, "okay" I guess, but not happy. Then a few hours later, it will happen again. It's cyclical. I go to bed fantasising about the end, both of my world, and the world in general, and then I wake up, still unhappy. Rinse and repeat, day after day.
It's hard to focus on anything, as these consume my every waking thought, so I am not productive by any means. Each day is wasted and the same. I have been thinking about attempting to avoid things that trigger me, like quitting 4chan among other sites, not watching tv shows/movies that feature sex/romance, not viewing pornography, etc... but, will that really solve anything? Isn't it just putting my head in the sand?
Your future gf will get over the fact that your mom is better at making waffles than she is. And so will you get over the fact that she was with more sexually capable men before. No biggy.
>>25438376
How can you be so sure there is a future girlfriend?
What woman would find a lossless virgin attractive at my age? There is a point in which it becomes a red flag and a serious turn off.
As you mentioned, the girl would have been with more capable men, so she would be regressing by being with me. Women talk about sex with their girlfriends, so she would tell them about my shortcomings. Humiliating.
>>25438509
I meant to say kissless. There is more that makes me undesirable. Ugly body in every sense - gross hunchback, acne scars on the face, my face has the autism look. I have no money, no social kills, the emotional problems, no social skills.
All contribute to making me undesirable.
>>25438089
Nigga its no different from sending dick pics and its none of your business if they have or haven't if you guys arnt shit to each other... People gonna do shit and its not a big deal shit if you end up with them you beat out Tyron and his big black dick so chill
Also either go to a bar and get buzzed and start talking to people and go out side and so something... Christ we don't need more r9k heros or shooters bro
>>25438610
>and its none of your business if they have or haven't if you guys arnt shit to each other
Nah, only weak pussy niggas give this shit advice.
You wouldn't associate with a nigga who had a history of snitching, would you?
Same principle applies here.
If I can't trust you, I don't want to be around you, and I can't trust some used-up whore.
It's as simple as that.
>>25438089
if anything it will make you feel worse because you started a relationship with one of those whores
that's what i felt
>>25438575
I was just playing with your fears, don't take it seriously.
Being upset that a girl sent some other pictures ... this is of no advantage to you and not even of value.
>>25438737
>this is of no advantage to you and not even of value
Again, horrible advice.
Any girl that has so little respect for her own being that she's willing to send pictures of herself naked to random guys isn't relationship material.
You don't get over it. I probably sounded like a loser because I vented to my mom about how I'm disillusioned about relationships and there's no magic to life anymore. It's all black and white; biology. Capitalism determines everything from your fun knickknacks to your sexual success.
Even worse than that, people say blatantly untrue stuff about liking "personality". I was always under the impression that personality referred to your thoughts and opinions, but apparently it has more to do with your social standing and income.
Anyway, this is all life is. Accept it or don't. You just find a girl you want to have sex with and you try to have sex with her. There's nothing more to it than that. There's no love and no magic. You want her pussy and she wants your money. That's life.
>>25438089
For the past 4 years I have been masturbating non stop and usually I'd feel 'good' after doing it because there was no sexual interest anymore but that's only temporary.
I go through the days as same as you do but idc about a girl being dicked already.
>>25438722
Ey senpai nice dubs.
I get my fair share of pussy and this is still great advice. One thing though, that anon did say "if you ain't shit to each other" and he's right. If you're just fucking who gives a shit about their past.
Now if you want a gf then ok. But too many anons here are obsesessed with a vision of love that their lonely mind has created. They've totally missed/skipped the entire learning phase where you date and get heartbroken, a one night stand, flings, long terms ect. Very few people end up with the first person they date. These niggas think once they do finally meet a girl it's like a Disney movie lmao
>>25438856
>These niggas think once they do finally meet a girl it's like a Disney movie lmao
Nah, these niggas realize that trusting any whore in any relationship is a recipe for disaster, all women are good for is keeping your dick warm.
You'd have to be one dumbass nigger to think "Man, I know that snitches are always punk bitches who'll fuck my life up, but hmm, maybe I need to hang out with as many as possible and risk getting my life fucked up so I can learn about them and maybe when that one worthwhile snitch finally comes along it'll all be worth it."
That's what dumbasses do.
>>25438757
The thing is, it isn't just random guys. Even if she ONLY sent them to boyfriends, the thought still makes me sad/angry.
Most people, especially young people have sent, or will send nudes. Its a fact of life, yet I can't get over it.
Do most guys share those photos and upload them to the net? Or is this place skewing my view of the world?
>>25438822
How old are you? Its good that you are comfortable talking to family.
>>25438856
You are right. I am obsessed with the love fantasy. I want it to be special. I want a girlfriend to take my innocence, not some random girl.
>>25438089
Post a pic of yourself, you need to face your fears.
>>25438953
>Even if she ONLY sent them to boyfriends, the thought still makes me sad/angry.
If she's sending nudes to her bf then she's also an empty-headed slut.
Prime pussy to fuck, not pussy to cater to though.
>Do most guys share those photos and upload them to the net? Or is this place skewing my view of the world?
No, most guys don't go around posting nudes, you've just been here among way too many dumbasses and faggots who sit around masturbating 24/7.
I've hung out with literally gangbangers, "thugs," and crazy fucks of all types and I've only ever heard of 2 guys sending out nudes.
Women however, do it all the time, because women ain't shit.
>>25438509
Nigga you put too much priority on dumb shit like that. What matters is who you are. If you're a decent guy with your own goals, likes, and so on no sane woman will give two shits about your kissless status.
I dont get how you robots always miss this critical point.
>>25439017
>If you're a decent guy with your own goals, likes, and so on no sane woman will give two shits about your kissless status.
You're obviously still in high school because you don't know shit about women.
You dont need a girlfriend to be happy
>>25439034
and you're obviously spending way too much time in this toxic hellhole.
>>25438953
>How old are you?
22 and burnt out
I don't have a huge amount of relationship experience but it has been 100% bad.
>>25438822
What did your mom say?
>>25439099
Nigger please, /r9k/ didn't change my views at all, I'm not some beta suburban white kid, so I've seen how shit women are first hand since I was in 4th grade.
It's all about knowing how to play the game.
Think of women as a magic eye puzzle.
Once you figure out the trick, every single one becomes easy as fuck to see through.
It's true that men will see you as a chump for taking someone's elses scraps, but most wouldn't admit it in person.
I'll admit that some of the things I did to my ex's, the facials, the face fucking, etc never leaves my mind, that I still sometimes fap over those memories, even have nudes of them and feel some sort of joy knowing I did such things to them before they went off to another man.
It's fucked up really and makes me feel disgusted knowing that in the future I could be that very guy who has taken the scaps of another.
>>25438964
No photos of me exist since I was 16. I have never, and will never post a photo of myself online. With the obsession with social media in today's world, that makes me an outcast.
>>25439017
I know I should focus on my life and improving it, but its hard. I should be studying, yet I haven't even opened a book, I just sit on the computer all day, wasting away.
>>25439066
I understand, but to never have experienced that love, intimacy, and connection leaves one feeling empty and longing.
>>25439146
The facials especially and blowjob photos are the worst for me to think about.
How old are you, anon? Is this something confined to the youth? Should I go for older women, or would it be much the same?
>>25439130
She said I shouldn't let my experiences with a few people ruin my opinion of all women. All in all though she kind of seemed to agree with me. I said that women have nothing to offer men in any relationship except for sex and she said she thinks that's true.
>>25439233
Is your father in the picture?
>>25438089
Step away from those things. When you begin to feel like that, go on a walk be in nature. You need time to re-adjust back to normal human mentality.
Understand: modern society is backwards. Nothing is as it should be. The institutions are rotten from the inside out, personal autonomy is substituted for impulse/urge, craving is facilitated in the individual on all levels to perpetuate the consumer-slave mentality. Food, sex, drugs, etc. It's the result of mindless decadence and disavowal; human beings giving into the darker animal side of their psyche. Your brain is constantly overloaded with information from electronics and chemically affected by most entertainment. Technology in this time period is largely malignant. You need to clear your mind.
2 weeks.
Limit 4chan
Limit porn consumption. You can masturbate, just do it without pornography. This is a must.
Sleep at regular times.
Eat regular food and drink water.
Do you read? Pick up a book you like and spend 5 minutes a day reading. Increasing this time by 1 minute a day for the 2 weeks.
If you don't want to do that, do something athletic.
When you walk, just walk around the block. Keep your posture erect but comfortable and don't rush. Somewhere beautiful. Feel gratitude for being able to walk. Learn to appreciate sunlight, clear air, the trees and grass. Really appreciate these things.
If you want, I can give you contact information and we can do this together. I know what it means to want to destroy. But this isn't your fault. If you want to kill yourself, I don't blame you; thousands decide they've had enough and do it. But if you want to survive and make it to the end somewhat sane, I urge you to consider what I'm saying.
>>25438089
My gf was a virgin before me.
I'm her first everything.
Also, I've fucked other girls, dated other girls and have gotten plenty of nudes
>inb4 ur gunna be cucked, she's lying about being a virgin yadda yadda yadda
Honestly I sometimes wonder why I even come here. You guys are so intensely negative and simultaneously cynical and clueless about human nature it's just depressing.
And the worst part is so many of you are convinced that you're 100% right.
Like the dailymail articles you've read and the reddit screenshots you've seen give you a some deep special insight into societal norms that us normies are missing.
Never mind that you're a NEET hikiki who hasn't left your mom's basement in three years, you've never held down a job or had a girlfriend and the closest thing you have to a friend is some anon you play games with on steam.
>>25439298
>Never mind that you're a NEET hikiki who hasn't left your mom's basement in three years
Stopped reading there.
You're retarded if you don't realize that the vast majority of guys here are college students.
>>25439259
No. I haven't really seen him since I was maybe 10. He told my brother that he thinks his relationship with me is irreparably damaged, and that's probably true.
My parents are odd compared to others though. They were each others' first serious relationship and got married that way. My mom never involved herself with men again after divorcing my dad at age 28.
I think she still wants me to date around, and I know that's the societal expectation but I just can't fight the cynicism and I hate the idea of meaningless casual relationships in which I'm using or being used.
>>25439298
>hi, I'm Chad, you guys suck lol
Thanks for the input fagtron
>>25439375
10/10
mia familia
>>25439226
I'm 27 Anon. Older women tend to have more mileage as a general rule of thumb, but there are girls out there who have been passed around like the town bicycle at the age of 14, so it really is a minefield out there.
There is literally no way of determining this stuff, as most women in the first place are not completely honest about these things. So even if you ask out right, has she sent nudes, has she ever had pictures taken of her while having sex, how many partners she's had, how many of them were one night stands, etc is most likely going to end up in lies as they know a lot of men will feel disgusted by certain actions.
Your best bet is to get buddy buddy with a girls circle of friends, and hope that they let certain things slip, or if you can muster it up make it out that you find the idea of her doing these things sexy and to tell you details but that is bordering cuck territory and she probably wouldn't view you the same.
It's hard man. Also I hope I didn't upset you with talking about my degenerate behaviour, I just wanted to be as honest with you as possible.
>>25438089
>kissless virgin
>intense worrying because girls he doesn't know and will never know have had sex
calm down Elliot 2.0.
You don't even have a gf- worry about the other men having sex with her stuff later. Just focus on actually, you know, meeting and dating someone right now.
You're putting the cart before the horse here in a pretty massive way.
>>25439327
I was talking more from general experience posting in threads where I've had self-proclaimed NEETs try to give me self-assured advice in the most dunning-kruegeresque way possible.
And t b h there isn't much difference between some of these "omfg I've never had a job and I'm about to drop out of college because I'm too depressed to go to any of my classes"
>>25439375
Like this.
Everything has to be about you and your insecurities.
Oh, hey, someone mentioned that they've had sex in a thread about sex. Better call them Chad and accuse them of bragging.
Because god forbid someone who doesn't their life should try to contribute.
>>25439281
>>25439281
Thank you for the kindness and thoughtful advice. I have saved what you wrote, and will try to follow it. I appreciate the offer of contact, but I am uncomfortable with that. Please dont take it personally, I am the same when it comes to online games (not adding people).
>>25439424
Its okay. Its not your fault. The problem is within me. I appreciate the honesty.
Thanks everyone for the advice and sharing your thoughts. The sadness and rage has subsided for now.
>>25438822
>I was always under the impression that personality referred to your thoughts and opinions
No. Its about charisma. It's about humour. It's about confidence, its about having a masculine energy that attracts the female energy. You need to learn how to behave like a man. Its about body language, about the way you talk and walk. Its how you make them feel, its the energy that you provide. Its about being dominant. Its about providing good emotions.
Basically its your vibe and energy that you give off. The actual content of your thoughts and opinions doesnt matter at all, its probably the least important thing.
>There's no love and no magic. You want her pussy and she wants your money. That's life.
This is completly wrong and based on wrong a false premise as explained above.
Social status is important, but if you manage to be just a normal human with a few friends and an interesting life, it will suffice. You don't need to be bill gates. And if you have what I mentioned above, you will obtain this naturally
>>25439436
>Just focus on actually, you know, meeting and dating someone right now.
lets say he does
how does a guy that cares about virginity
deal with the fact that the girl he is interested in isn't one?
don't give me the hurr well he shouldn't fucking care
obviously guys care, otherwise they wouldn't bring up the issue.
>>25439146
this is why i don't date sloppy seconds. you might as well share a flash light with each other.
>>25439767
>how does a guy that cares about virginity
>deal with the fact that the girl he is interested in isn't one?
Go for Church girls, conservative girls, genuinely nerdy (not le so nerdy social media whores but actually nerdy bookish) girls.
Bring up sex and sexual history early on.
Act disinterested, treat it just like another point of conversation. If you don't come in with a lot of baggage or very directly (hey, are you a virgin? is a no-no) and she likes/is comfortable with you then you'll probably get an honest answer.
I'm 21. I've known (and have dated) more than a few college aged girls who're still virgins.
A few are deeply religious/waiting for marriage types but a few just never got around to losing it. They were too busy doing other stuff/were late bloomers/whatever.
I will say your friend group/socio-economic/geographic situation will impact the types of girls you have available. Generally speaking the lower you go down the socio-economic totem pole the trashier chicks tend to be/the more likely they are to have had multiple past bfs/ons etc.
That's not to say that there aren't plenty of high class college girls who're fucking a new guy every night or that there aren't plenty of low class chicas waiting for marriage. I'm just talking statistically/ law of big numbers type deal.
>>25440096
good shit friend.
>>25440096
I was a virgin forever, I hooked up with a virgin girl and it was frustrating because she was afraid to have sex. She was totally fine with giving me awful blowjobs and letting me finger her clit.
Eventually I lost my virginity to a non-virgin and it was great. The girl I'm with now has probably laid 5 different guys since highschool and oh my god she can fuck my brains out, loves getting choked, roughed up, fucked in the ass, and gives the most amazing head I have every experienced. She's even tight with no curtains.
I have learned not to trust everything I read on 4chan.
Don't date sluts(or as some of you call them, women) then.
Remain alone like the rest of us. They are all whores. Don't give them any worth beyond that. You're letting them win.
>>25440744
>I have learned not to trust everything I read on 4chan.
Nigger, no one said that you should go for virgins if you just want some pussy.
I found out an ex of mine is preggers by her current man so I went and jerked off to a vid we made together of her sucking me off.
>>25440744
Eh, most guys who want virgin girls want them for psychological rather than sexual reasons.
I hooked up with a total whore over the summer (we only met up twice for sex- thank you tinder) and she was pretty damn good.
My current gf was a virgin before I got to her. I wasn't able to cum the first two times we fucked- I couldn't get much farther than the head without hurting her.
I didn't start dating her because she was a virgin. I started dating her because she was cute and sweet and as it turns out we have a lot in common. I call her my little doppleganger.
As for the sex its something we're working on. I've told her that she'll get better with practice and I am enjoying the whole "teaching her to respond to my body and tastes" deal.
But if I was looking purely for a sexually satisfying short-medium term relationship yeah I'd go for a girl with more experience in a heartbeat.
I wouldn't marry or have kids with a slut tho
Its a little like the alpha/beta dichotomy but with women.
Marry the virgin- fuck the slut.
>>25438089
You are putting pussy on a pedestal anon. Fucking and being naked isn't the big deal you make it out to be. We're all animals and die eventually- might as well live it the fuck up while we're here. I know my post isn't very robot like, but sometimes I just get frustrated by close minded/repressed views such as yours.
>>25441111
>but sometimes I just get frustrated by close minded/repressed views such as yours.
Horrible quads wasted on some roastie whore post.
Every post on this board is a horrible waste faggot. Delusions are accepted as the norm here. I've had enough of your shit for one night now- it's going to take at least an hour of /b/ to debrief me from you fucks.
>>25441194
>>25441352
(Feeding the robot)
>>25438089
I'm a similar boat. But it is somewhat different for me. Back when I was younger amd inexperienced I didn't use to care much about this. As I got older and I finally gained some experience, these kind of things started to stress me out. But only in some cases. With some I girls I didn't mind at all. With others, only their sual past fucked with my head. I don't care what happened in serious long-term relationships.
>>25441512
*Casual past
>>25438376
you're a man who deserves to be cucked, god bless
>>25438089
Why are you still a virgin at 27?
past the age of 21 it's really your own fault man, you can;t use the excuse of being a dorky teenager anymore, you've had years to work on your appearance, to join dating sites, to see a hooker, to travel to Thailand or someplace to get fucked. if you want sex you have to go find it, it won't come to you
>>25438089
I feel for you but I also have to wonder if you're completely serious. A lot of this seems exaggerated, hopefully you are just messing with everyone.
If this is really messing with you that much, just stay away from women. Nothing wrong with abstaining from the vaginal jew.
>>25438089
You are me anon, or you are what I was.
What helped me was going to the doctors and getting diagnosed for depression, got on some very light pills and its helped a ton. I used to be being against using medicine to fix my problems but after living miserably so damn long I said fuck it.
As for your women problem, I had to change my way of thinking about them. I used to be in constant search for "the one", and would be destroyed when any of the things they did conflicted my ideal woman. So instead, I would date any girl (made it much easier to talk to them with the meds) telling myself that I would never end up with them, basicly a long term one night stand. Would fuck them senselense and build experience, get in fights with some of them, be a great boyfriend for others. I expereinced so much that any time a girl would tell me about thier past experiences it wouldnt even phase me. Because I had done something similiar.
I hope you get better anon. I even struggled with what you said about watching porn and love scenes in movies and it makes me feel better that im not the only one would struggled with that.
It does get better robots. The 2016 meme is just farce, make this the year of the true beta uprising, not to destroy the normies, but to surpase them and achieve true happiness.
Good luck anons.
>>25441352
>it's going to take at least an hour of /b/ to debrief me from you fucks.
>Horrible poster is from /b/
Wow, who would've guessed it.
>>25441756
Not messing with you, and not exagerrated. Apparently I have BPD so it may play a part. Isolation doesn't help either. I think about those experiments done on monkeys who were isolated and ended up being disturbed and having social issues.
>>25442116
Thanks for sharing. I have been on antidepressants in the past. Maybe I'll start again. Its good to know that others have felt similarly and been able to move on. Hopefully I will too.
How old are you?
>>25442717
Well, I don't think you're wrong to hate the thought of being with a women who has slept with other men, but I don't know how to help you. Best you could do is just try and forget about women, I think.
Psychology is all bullshit, be careful, and good luck.
>>25438089
You don't get over it
Don't fall for the trap
>>25439281
Do you think love actually exist and is realistically obtainable?
Finding a decent girlfriend is already hard enough. I'm convinced that love is to rare to hope for. It seems like a fantasy.
>>25438610
>Christ we don't need more r9k heros or shooters bro
I think we do
As a 18 KV
Thats my opinion
>>25440924
underrated post
I was with a similar girl, and I have a friend tell me:
"Dont worry if she's tight now, you'll work magic one day".
And so I did, and so shall you
>>25442116
You are just another normie
Fuck you
>>25438089
Become one of those men. Take care of yourself. Then when you're in your late 20s, some spoiled younger girl that thinks she's too good for guys her own age will literally crawl to you.
Women are spoiled and want to date up in age. They basically want a boyfriend and legal guardian.
>>25444006
That is literally the worst thing ever
Getting settled for by a girl that got tired of Chad's cock?
kek good luck accepting that
>>25438089
>How to get over the fact that women have likely had sexual partners and sent naked photos of themselves to other men, and probably heads of men at that?
>probably heads of men at that?
>probably heads of men at that?
Like, heads of men in jars or ziplock bags or something?
>>25444006
>Become one of those men.
Literally impossible if you don't have the right genetic makeup.
>>25444075
No. I meant become one of those "chads". Inflate your value by dating someone that values you more.
21? Date an 18 year old because you can buy her booze?
23 and have your degree? Date a college girl because "your a big adult with a 'big boy' job (I fucking hate that term)"
>>25444147
Wrong. Date down. Take whatever you have to offer and offer it to someone that values that more.
Jackasses with entry level jobs look like hot shit to college women with useless degrees.
>>25444251
>Wrong. Date down.
If you need to settle for a lardlugging landplanet, then you didn't "become one of those guys". You're the same person; you just lowered your standards to the extent that you're not even attracted to the woman.
And even if you do, they still probably have had a few hookups with Chads or lesser/semi-Chads at some point in their lives, so they will feel like they're settling for worse than they deserve, and they'll resent you for it.
>>25442717
No problem man, im only 22, so a lot of people dont take me seriously but whatever. To each his own. Hope this thread helps you out.
>>25443865
Kill yourself you piece of shit. I used to be a fucking loser and figured out how to fix myself so I come here to offer advice because I know first hand how hellish it is. But trannies like you have to hate anyone who even remotley comes close to a "normie" because you cant see past that. Just like all those women that say "ewww" when they look at you!
>>25438089
>How to get over the fact that women have likely had sexual partners and sent naked photos of themselves to other men, and probably heads of men at that?
This is a low test concern.
/thread
>>25444428
>dating down only regarding beauty
Are you dumb? I meant date down in power/status/wealth. You can literally hit on
>they still probably have had a few hookups
finding a pure virgin waifu is a pretty tall order, anon, but I do know how you like to only consider extremes.
My strategy will help you get close to what you want. Find the least experienced girl you can and groom her into a wife.
The problem is you. Your /r9k/ world view and the fact that you have like 0% self esteem and are incredibly insecure. There are women who don't have a long list of chads. Believe it or not there are high teen, low 20s virgins. The internet just gives you the impression that everyone in the works is fucking everyone else because there's billions of people and you constantly expose yourself to those type of people. You need to stop coming here. Its destroying your mind.
>>25444744
...and above all, this.
>>25444744
Absolutely this. I couldn't have said it better myself.
>>25440924
This guy knows what's up.
Sluts are not now and will never be wife material. Fuck them and look for an inexperienced girl for marriage.
>>25438089
It's like women getting angry at men because they watch porn, doesn't make any sense
>realize i will never be happy with a real woman
>will always be insecure no matter what
>think about what it would be like to date a female version of myself, like my twin sister or something
>she would have the same personality as me, same attractiveness. etc. basically be me, but born female
>fall in love with the idea of my imaginary twin sister
>have a few dreams about "her"
>she becomes my waifu
>my fucking face when i have become my own waifu
feels good man
>>25438089
>How to get over the fact that women have likely had sexual partners and sent naked photos of themselves to other men, and probably heads of men at that?
First, start by getting over yourself. Just look at yourself. Read what you wrote aloud back to yourself. It's obvious that this line of thinking is toxic and has really did a number on you.
>Will this go away when I'm no longer a kissless virgin?
Of course it will. You're feeling left out and undesirable. This is only natural. I remember feeling this way when I was a teenager. After I got my first girlfriend, everything completely changed. I realized that everything I had been sweating was purely psychological.
I'm not going to say "Just work on yourself, bro. Just beee urself." Because all know that's bullshit. Tough love here: stop being a fucking faggot, step up, and try to acquire a girlfriend or at least attempt to fuck someone. Do this for you. Don't even worry about whether or not they are "pure" or whatever the fuck everyone rants and raves about here. Just do it for you so you can get yourself out of this mind fuckery and actually focus on things that do matter.
>>25445337
This guy fucking gets it. Lots of good advice in this thread. Someone should screencap it.
>>25438089
Op here,
Thanks everyone for the help and advice. I feel better now. I am from Zurich in Switzerland. People here aren't really warm to strangers.
I am going to take some time off here. When I think about it, most of the users on here are American, so most of the things that upset me stem from american culture. My thinking is more clear now because I am not in my hate everything and everyone mood.
Good night I am going to sleep. Its my 28th birthday in two days. Happy birthday me.
