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Where's the line between being nice and being too nice (weak,
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Where's the line between being nice and being too nice (weak, beta, passive, unassertive, walked on)?
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>>25435189
its situational
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Your personality doesn't matter

See this pic: >>25434155
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>>25435189

For the most part it's knowing when to tell people "no."

Don't do shit for people if you don't feel comfortable with what they're asking you to do.

Learn to realize when you're being taken advantage of and excuse yourself from the situation or stand up for yourself.

There are tons of situations that could happen, but you have to remember to put your needs ahead of everyone elses. There are exceptions to this, but for the most part, think about what YOU want before letting others dictate your behavior.
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Too nice: M'lady
Nice: bae
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A chad once told me: "be nice to everyone, but don't take shit from anyone." Seems on par with jusburself but it's not terrible in real life.
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>>25435209
This.

There's not a one size fits all answer to this.

Pretty much, if it seems reasonable, it may be "being nice," but if it seems unreasonable, it probably is "being too nice."
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