>When a girl sends you this.
Ouch
Anyone else got bad messages from girls, bad experiences with flirting (for those even capable of social interaction i mean)?
Not a women hate thread, not a bad stories copy pasta thread, just post things girls (or guys if you're female/gay) have said to you that hurt. (and backstory if you so choose.)
Real one
Robobloxxity
>>25433992
Every line of that made me cringe.
>>25433992
Backstory? Sounds like something my gf would send her beta orbiters.
>>25433992
I'm going to need a backstory.
>>25433992
lost my virginity to a virgin. later finds out she sucked cocks at age of 14
she was so bad in bed and at sucking my cock i almost believed she was pure.
she was fugly too, i cant believe this
>>25433992
You know you must never contact this woman again right? Tell me you deleted those digits.
>>25433992
You got off easy. She was honest and upfront and at least seems willing to have you as a friend.
Bit posting this for some time here on r9k and fuck if it doesn't still make me mad every time i think of it.
>Meet up with a girl i like
>We agree when she comes down for the holidays we can try and catch SW together
>Friend of mine asks me if i wanted to see it a bit earlier
>Ask the girl if she didn't mind taking him along when she comes down
>She says that she's going to see it with a friend
>I tell her that since she isn't going to be down here when she said she would, id just go with my buddy since he can see it
>No replies
>Couple of days later, we talk again and i mention how i was disappointed on how she wasn't down here so we could have seen it together and i was still willing to go with her
>She says that she meant that her friend was near my area and she was going to see it with her
>Two days after that, i ask her if she wanted to hang out since she should have been down here by now
>Tells me that i have the audacity and the nerve to accuse her of not showing up and that "we didn't sign a contract" to meet up
So despite the fact that her responses were outright stupid, i apologized to her if i made her feel that way and that i didn't mean to hurt her feelings.
She goes on to say that i didn't do any of the sort and i just pissed her off.
I told her that i was going out and if she still wanted to meet up, she could give me a message if she was interested.
That was on December 28. I have not received any messages of any sort since
I give absolutely zero fucks anymore about this girl. Nothing about the way she acted indicated to me she was even right in the head, let alone desirable for relationship status or even as a friend.
I am still hurt however by the fact that even after all this time, she didn't knew me at all.
Couple of weeks ago, I started seeing this girl I've known for a long time.
I've always been very sexually attracted to her, so I decided to see if I got along with her. We got along almost perfectly. Spent the most part of 2 weeks with her, going out, watching movies at my place, cuddling on the couch and shit. The whole time I made it obvious that I was into her.
Then she starts talking about some dude at her job she got in an argument with and they ended up making out or some shit, at this point I tell her "...you DO realize I've been going out with you for the past two weeks because I'm into you, right?" and she acted as if she was surprised by it. Still, the rest of the evening went out without any problems, she took it very well and without any kind of disgust or panic, but at the end of the night she still didn't make it clear whether she was into me or not, but I could perfectly notice that she wasn't. so, again, I fucking point it out and we leave on somewhat of an awkward note.
But I'm not an average desperate robot, I struggle immensely with dating which is why I come here once in a while, but I'm not an anti-social, I look pretty decent and I've had prior experience with dating. I just never had a meaningful relationship and I feel very lonely and with this girl, I thought we clicked, I thought we had something special. I think I was just very naive to think so. I guess I was even more naive to think we could still be as good friends as we were during those 2 weeks.
Since I have experience with rejection, I knew that it would hurt, that I would be pissed off, depressed, desperate, that I'd want to run back to her, so I took a few days off to clear my mind off of her and decided to call her back and she starts telling me she hasn't eaten in days, that she's devastated, hurt and that she prefer that we just forget it ever happened.
>>25433992
>I'd prefer to avoid that if you're going to struggle to make conversation again.
Haha, oh man. This post is basically all my fears manifest into paragraph. Shit like this is why I don't even try.
>>25435326
>she starts telling me she hasn't eaten in days, that she's devastated, hurt and that she prefer that we just forget it ever happened.
>Cuddling on the couch
What the fuck was she under the impression you two were doing?
>>25435326
At this point all the bullshit alarms are going off in my head. What the fuck is she hurt about? I mean I told her I was into her, she rejected me, it hurt me a bit and also hurt my pride, we go about our separate business for a bit and then we check if we're still okay to see each other, I mean the whole story is no fucking big deal! Every man has to face rejection eventually and everytime you try to date a girl, you MUST be ready for that occurence. And now she's acting as if we just broke up or that I'm the one who broke her heart or some shit. that is an attempt at emotional manipulation.
In the end, I still got hurt way more than I thought because I feel betrayed, she gave me the mpression that we were good friends and, as I've said, at this point in my life I'm looking for a genuine relationship. Making me believe that we go along so well that we might as well be soul mates and, then, play some kind of bullshit game of guilt with me feels to me like a fucking betrayal, I think it's because I thought she was more mature than she really was or I did see it from the beginning, I just closed my eyes.
I mean I have my part of guilt too, I was a naive fool to cry "TRUE LOVE" after two weeks, but I did know this girl for 6 years, the attraction was physical, but the lenght of time I knew this girl mixed with it and I started believing there was more. Anyways, it's life and with time, I stopped giving a fuck and we don't even talk anymore, good riddance I'd say.
>>25435375
Man I asked myself this question for days and there is no logical explanation. All of my friends are as confused as you and me. I mean "just friends" don't fucking cuddle on a couch while watching movies, alone at my fucking place.
>>25433992
Is this cringe general?
that bitch is basically just tryna get free drinks
s.m.h.
>>25435357
Me too senpai. That sentence got to me the worst, I'll just stay quiet and not bother with girls fuck em all ;_;
>>25435207
>it's good that she wants you as a friend
No, you dumb cuck. Women are not useful as friends. The only value women hold is sex.
>>25435326
It sounds like she's either completely oblivious or she's really good at manipulating you. I am kind of curious about what she thinks the relationship is going to be like from now on. When she says
>that she prefer that we just forget it ever happened.
does she think that everything is going to be the same? Like does she think you're going to keep faux dating her?
>>25433992
Women think the friendzone doesn't exist, but here is hard proof buddy
the bitch in the pic just wants free shit
>>25433992
She's trying to beta orbiter you. Run while you can.
>>25433992
That's fucking brutal. Cut all ties.
>>25435715
Well it's a complicated case in the sense that she might realy be completely fucking oblivious because in all honesty, she is really emotionally immature and, believe it or not, she is a genuine virgin. This is not a criteria that plays in the attraction, I don't care about that purity meme.
By the way, this is a warning for all robots. This girl is basically my IRL experience with a typical fembot. Insecure, never had a bf, virgin because she's emotionally scared of sex and mentally fucked up. She's probably really good at manipulation because despite all of that she genuinely made me feel like we were perfect for each other even though, in the end, she is leagues below me in maturity and experience. This whole experience has helped me look at her with a bit of distance and I noticed that in the 6 years I've known her she's been exactly the same, she never changed, never grew up, still the same awkward weirdo girl that has an abnormally strong sex appeal for a girl who's never seen a dick, turned down EVERY SINGLE man that's ben after her and is basically your typical nerdy awkward girl.
It's fucking weird and I'm better off not trying to understand what the fuck is going on in her head. I stopped giving a fuck and, as I said, even though I thought we were good friends, we stopped talking altogether and she's made no effort to try to set things straight. So fuck this shit, moving on to the next with some more experience under my belt.
And yes, she probably expected me to be a desperate beta-orbiter who would just be happy to be forgiven by her and that I would keep faux-dating her. She's probably in it for the attention and nothing else and right now she probably got herself a new orbiter.
>>25435876
My candid advice is to tell her to go fuck herself m8
you don't want these toxic whores in your life
>>25433992
It really boggles my mind how genuinely careless some men and women are with other people's feelings. That girl is a fucking bitch, and she apparently thinks she's a good person.
>>25435471
some girl told me something like that too once
years ago i met this girl at a concert i was at with my friends. i didn't care for the music, we were just there to support our friends. anyways i hit it off with this girl and over the course of a summer we kept bumping into each other. she asked for my number and we texted and eventually we went to a party together as friends but ended up leaving making out.
this continued for a while but we never made each other official and i guess in girl's eyes this thing matters. most of the time we hung out was usually around other people and idk wtf we were doing but it wasn't dating. anyway i get sick of it and tell her some shit about wtf were doing and i don't remember what she said but i ended ignoring her for a month then she texts me some shit about how she hadn't been able to sleep or eat and all that dumb shit.
i tried forming a relationship with her again but she just couldn't commit and in the end we kind of just drifted away slowly. of course it pissed me off and as i was watching us drift i just wanted to yell at her and be like wtf was all that shit you said about? idk i guess she just liked the attention.
last time i saw her was at a party and of course she threw herself all over me acting like i'm her bff when i hadn't seen or talked to her in months. i didn't give her much attention but she kept trying to interact with me. she even started texting me again after that night. i played it cool and again after a couple weeks we ceased communicating
sorry idk why i typed this all out. this was years ago and i haven't even thought about any of it since. makes me think maybe i should have just been more forceful about it idk.
here's a story about the only time a girl has ever liked me
>sophomore year of high school
>8/10 cutie is my neighbor
>she moved in about a year ago and we've been close friends since then
>hanging out, talking about secrets and hopes and dreams and shit, eat lunch and stuff together, seeing movies, we went on a summer vacation together (with some other friends)
>she's always spontaneously hugging me, playing footsies
>draws fucking hearts on my notebook
>I'm kind of a social retard but not retarded enough to not take the hints here
>man up
>"hey, i just wanted to say, we've been friends for a while, and uh.. i really like you, and... do you wanna, go on a date sometime?"
>"no, sorry"
>>25435950
Wut
Shit like this is why I don't fucking try. How in the fuck are you supposed to be certain of things with women when shit like this happens
>>25435939
No man, the girl you're talking to me about seems like the exact same type of girl that I tried to date a few weeks ago and now I know that no matter what the fuck happens, she'll just never fucking commit.
We already have a very well known term for these types of people, we call them attention whores. both are just mentally and emotionally confused fuck ups who have no idea what they actually want, but they sure love that fucking attention, so they'll hld you at the tip of their finger, playing that manipulation game to keep you giving them attention. drunkingly making out at a party, cuddling, playing around at random intimate occurences, maybe even give in and have sex with you if the moment is just right, but, in the end, they NEVER commit. they love the attention and nothing else and the deeper your attachment is, the stronger their hold over you is.
I feel you, my man, I, too, want something genuine and, in my desperation, I get attached way too quickly, but keep a clear mind, my friend, always, because it is of vital importance to know when's a good time to let go and stop giving a fuck.
My honest opinion: You're better off without her, regret nothing because this girl, like the one I tried to date, would bring nothing of significance in your life.
>>25436033
>high school
>high school
>high school
>high
>school
There's your answer, bro. 0.1% of relationships in highschool are legit and 00000000000.1% of girls in highschool are mature enough to know what the fuck's going on with themselves.
Nigga, if you TRULLY want something, you try, you try even if you fail all the time and your failures are supposed to help you fuck up less the next attempt and to learn what type of bitch's not right for you, so don'T go confirming your bias with stories about highschool romance not going right because highschool romance is not relevant.
Story of mine
>go out alone
>go to a hipster bar
>met an asian Girl 8/10
>She looks 16
>actually she was 28
>i was 17 at That time
>did say to her i was 23
>She believed me
>had a Nice talk with her
>somedays later she asked me to Come over to her place
>had sex with her
>After sex I said i dont feel right about this
>she says that i am a psycho
>mfw she never wants to see me again..
>>25435674
They're useful as friends if they're willing to set you up with their other friends. I've been set up with girls' roommates before etc. It's always good to have more connections; it makes you more powerful. As long as you understand that you can't be with her, what's the big deal? just control your emotions like a man.
>>25434996
>>25435092
Backstory, well met her one night when my elder cousin took me out to a club and gave me MDMA (He saw me as being lonely etc and wanted me to socialise a bit).
Of course on MDMA i'm completely different to who i am in real life and i end up making out with this girl and eventually going home with her and her lesbian friend. The night finished with me giving her oral in the back of a car then leaving very quickly because i was on the comedown.
Invited her to take MDMA with me another night and she accepts. We're both high as fuck at the same club and things are fucking amazing. So i fucked her that night.
I was thinking that this is great, i can just make sure that every time i see her i'm really high and just keep fucking. But being a bitch I invited her out to a meal at a restaurant.
This is where i fucked up, i was weird as fuck and started licking her neck and ear during the meal. (It was the sort of thing we'd do when high and she liked it then, so i sort of assumed it was fine all the time.). She told me to stop and i literally started crying at the restaurant.
Only briefly though then i said "sorry, i just got really emotional there'. which made her pussy drier than the deserts of tatoine.
So after that we didn't see each other again until i sent her some message, that pic was her response.
>>25435193
Still have her on Facebook, but i'd never message her. Also have 0 feeling for her now (this took place almost 2 years ago i think).
>>25435207
You God damn beta. You have every right to be pissed, even if you're in the wrong stay angry. Women can't deal with one of their orbiters growing a backbone. She will either stop talking to you(only liked you because she could use you), or will try to talk it out(she actually cares). Never say "I'm sorry" to a woman.
>>25436151
>fuck her senseless and go down on her
>but show even one instance of weakness and its back to the orbital
Are you fucking kidding me
She let you fuck her. Women are fucking insane
>>25436151
why the fuck did you start crying
>>25436196
uh, sounds reasonable to me. if a girl cried on our date in a restaurant i would dump her too.
>>25436185
>You God damn beta. You have every right to be pissed, even if you're in the wrong stay angry.
I know.
>Never say "I'm sorry" to a woman.
I agree. Fucked up big time by even implying it. But in the end, i saw her for what she truly was. An insecure, petty bitch.
Fuck her. And fuck me harder for putting up with this sort of bullshit from her.
>>25436256
>cried
Oh fuck, didn't see that part.
What the fuck, dude?
>>25436151
>This is where i fucked up, i was weird as fuck and started licking her neck and ear during the meal. (It was the sort of thing we'd do when high and she liked it then, so i sort of assumed it was fine all the time.). She told me to stop and i literally started crying at the restaurant.
>>25433992
translation incoming
>hey beta! i couldn't be arsed to get back to you but now i feel a little bad so yeah. First i'm going to belittle your performance last time and make it clear i expect you to dance better next time monkey! Second i'm going to make unavailable the only reason anyone would want to spend any time in my space or even want to interface with me in anyway! However i guess i could use an orbiter or two, sound good!? :)
>>25435950
WHAAAAAT THE FUUUUUCCCKK
>i dont get women
>>25436151
AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH
OP WAT YOU DOING
>>25435950
>>hanging out, talking about secrets and hopes and dreams and shit, eat lunch and stuff together, seeing movies, we went on a summer vacation together (with some other friends)
>>she's always spontaneously hugging me, playing footsies
>>draws fucking hearts on my notebook
Are women just completely fucking stupid? What kind of message do they think this even implies?
>>25436196
This is why you must learn to stop giving a fuck if you realy are looking for a genuine relationship.
There are women out there who are honest and will not fucking play around like idiots with your feelings, unfortunately, they are a rare as fuck breed, but you gotta keep playing the game if you want to find that shit.
In instances like this, when you fuck the girl, but she's still playing, just fucking leave and don't look back. At least you got laid, that's already something and it's far better than orbiting some bitch who plays with your emotions and you leave left with nothing at all but bitter memories.
It's crazy how these crazy insecure bitch act with you when you stop giving a damn. I got this friend who fucks around a lot and the only thing he always tell me is "Dude the secret is confidence and not giving a single fuck."
He starts showing me these messages of that one girl he fucked the prior night, she like "I think we should stop seeing each other blablablablabla It's not right blablablabla" and he just tell her something like "lol ok" and hours later she's back to him like "I'm sorry I fucked up don't leave I said things I didn't measn please don't leave me!" and he's like "lol I don't give a shit!"
Thing is, he tells me he is also looking for genuine love, he's a chad, but chads can be sensitive too, the difference is just that he can tell a serious girl from a fucking daddy issue bitch and he fucks them all anyways, he just won't commit with a girl playing that mind trick game and it's crazy how these bitches can't handle men not giving a fuck about them. IT's them fucking daddy issues I tell you.
>>25436334
You understand that if this was a room full of people you'd be yelling and it'd be nothing too important, right?
I like the girl in OP. She was honest with him so OP wouldn't waste his time or money as well as hers.
Wish more people could tell the truth this way
>>25433992
Well a bit of back story
>Meet girl in college
>She likes anime and computers like me
>We talk and eventually I get close enough to go over to her home, meet her family
>Says she really likes hanging out
>Ask her out on a date
>We go, have a blast.
>Then any time I ask her out she says yes but cancels on the last second
>Get messages like this
>"Hey Anon, sorry but im not gonna be able to go out today, Im going to a fish fry with my family."
Ok
>"Hey Anon, wont be able to see the movie today a friend came over that I havent seen in a long time and I wanna spend time with him. Sorry."
Yeah ok
>"Hey Anon, I know we havent hanged out in a long time but I need to reformat my hard drive today, sorry."
So it was around here that I fucking snap after getting blue balled for like 5 months and tell her straight up what the fucks her problem? She then sends me a mesage that goes something like
>"Im sorry, I have been ignoring you. Im just not the dating type. I realized the moment I said yes to your date that it was a mistake. You were not the person I thought you were, I wanted a bad boy, somebody who is angry and destructive, and you just are not that kind of person. I know that he's out there, waiting for me. He's probably dead but I still want to make sure Im not tied down if I ever do meet him. Im really sorry, we can still be friends if you want but thats it."
So, at this point I was beyond pissed, she said that she regretted saying yes to my date but rather than just telling me, she waited a whole week, went out with me, let me waste ALL my money on dinner, movie and a carnival and had fun the whole time, and THEN blew me off and gave me that whole stupid speach. Worst part was I actually said I didnt mind being friends cause I was that beta back then, but she still ignored me until I stopped trying to talk to her. women like to throw fake offers friendship in the hopes that you will be pissed and say no so they can throw up their hands "Well I tried."
>>25436370
but it isn't
>>25436475
>He's probably dead
What the fuck does this even mean?
>>25436524
>tfw she chose a dead man over you
>>25436475
>>"Im sorry, I have been ignoring you. Im just not the dating type. I realized the moment I said yes to your date that it was a mistake. You were not the person I thought you were, I wanted a bad boy, somebody who is angry and destructive, and you just are not that kind of person. I know that he's out there, waiting for me. He's probably dead but I still want to make sure Im not tied down if I ever do meet him. Im really sorry, we can still be friends if you want but thats it."
hahahahaha it's fucking incredible how these girls are naive!
> I know that he's out there, waiting for me.
Bitch there's not a single guy out there waiting for YOU. All the more funny that when she end up getting that bad boy dick, she'll be craving that good guy dick. Bitches like this just never know what the fuck they want.
>>25436475
>I wanted a bad boy, somebody who is angry and destructive
truly this is what all women want
that's just the way she goes
>>25436475
>wanting a bad boy
is she like 12 or something?
>yeah I don't know I'll let you knowshe didn't
>>25436568
Sounds like she wants a serial killer for a bf.
Translated:
>I'm found someone better but want to keep you as a backup option.
>mother is mentally ill (though not... destructive)
>throw out a cup of coffee she left out overnight
>next morning
>"WHAT THE FUCK"
>go see what she's on about
>"WHY CAN'T YOU JUST LEAVE ANYTHING ALONE?"
>hits especially hard because I've had a chronic obsession with the inside of things and I tend to break stuff
>messed me up for days
>meanwhile at CC, female friend and I are going through personal issues
>"why don't you just get a girlfriend? women like smart men"
>she married a gringo who made >$120k and had men trying to woo her her whole life, complains about her husband being an idiot
>all I can respond with is "why didn't you marry a smart one then?"
>"I-i thought I did"
>"I can't just find a woman who makes $100k either"
>doesn't talk to me for a year
>>25436475
>college
>i wanted a bad boy
Holy shit how long can people be fucking teenagers
>>25436524
Something I noticed is that a lot of women want to be deep but dont know how, so they say stupid shit like this in a vain attempt at being 2deepBaneU
>>25436566
>Bitches like this just never know what the fuck they want.
She actually did know what she wanted, she said she wanted a bad boy with a heart of gold, apparently she wanted a guy who was mysterious and dangerous but was nice only to her. Funny thing was I kind of met that description which was why I got so far with her, but rather than giving her that mental rollarcoaster I just opened up to her right away and she took that as me just being a nice guy and not dangerous or angry. Which I kind of was when we first met, I would stare down guys and intimidate them so they would leave and we could talk together. This was at a technology campus mind you so it was nothing but fat nerds so I could get away with this and not get my ass beat.
>>25436578
She was actually18at the time, so yeah, she kind of was.
>>25436682
Quite a while apparently, but she was very young. See my above replied comment.
The funny part is I THINK i found a picture of her and her best friend sucking some guys dick in her home. I had been in there long enough to know what her home had looked like and she and her friend werewhite as fuckso they were easily identifiable. I have that picture somewhere buried in all my porn still.
>>25435674
This is retarded. You should always have a few girls that you never fuck and are just friends with, they can set you up, wingman for you and you can bounce girl shit off them and get actual honest responses rather than the male responses that are usually way off. As long as you don't make moves on them or make it weird, they are super useful and can be pretty good friends, you just have to learn to not fall for every damn woman you meet.
>>25436657
>I've had a chronic obsession with the inside of things
i demand an explanation please
>>25435326
She just feels comfortable with you and probably just wants to be friends. If she gets rejected, you can probably fuck her on the rebound, but she won't date you or anything.
>>25436682
>know this 30-something at work
>she's cute but I like this other 30-something so I don't think I'd consider anything with her
>sitting at bar after work drinking shift drinks
>she's talking to another girl, says she only likes assholes
>i'm listening the whole time
>turns to me and tells me i can be an asshole and it's a compliment
>t-thanks
>>25436764
I wanted to know how things work, what makes things go. When I was young it was mostly destructive, but at some point someone taught me how to use tools, and it degenerated from there. I was always interested in science and maths. I'm in uni as an Electrical Engineer, I take medications and shit without shame (of course I know the mechanisms for all of em), and I do my damnedest to not become some idiot who's ok with not knowing anything about how the universe works. I got obsessiveness from my mother's side so sometimes I'd sit there for hours dissembling something or putting together something that is kinda dumb (my current thing is a LED lamp controller where I can set the brightness with a computer). It's getting to the point where I'm getting on the "eventually successful" side of the curve. PLAYING FOR THE ENDGAME BABY
>>25436151
Dude, she was a fuck buddy you met on drugs, not some chick you try to date. Next time you meet a chick in a situation like that and bang that quick, she doesn't want a relationship, don't go that direction.
So for reference, I have a lot of emotional issues because of my mother and my father and I was with this girl for a long time before I had this mental break-down where I just couldn't do anything and so I broke up with her. We spoke casually, but I tried my best to distance myself to lessen how much it hurt and then one day we're talking and she tells me about how she had some guy over and he tried to fuck her, she refused to report anything about it and I mentioned it to my mother in a phone call a few hours later, and she decides to take things into her own hands and report it. Then the girl tells me this, basically framing me as worse than her would be rapist.
>For future reference, don't try to force me to report my personal things. It is my situation, I was violated, and you don't need to make me feel guilty about the situation when I'm the victim, or try to take it in your own hands. Especially since he knows where I live, and I was frightened, and being able to control when I reported it was the only control I had in the situation. And you tried to take that away from me. But thanks for trying to care. Bye.
>>25435326
You sound like a real straightforward kind of guy. I know if I were in that situation I'd sperg out and pretend that nothing was wrong and tell her that it's okay she made out with another dude. Reading posts like this will help me socialize with people better in the future.
>>25436740
Post pic for immersion
>>25433992
I used to be a sperg too.
The only girls that messaged back were fat anime girls that wanted to use me as an emotional tampon.
I gave up on trying to get girls and just started seeing prostitues.
With high self esteem and while not giving a shit about girls you can catch girls easily.
Funny thing is I dont give a shit about girls and they flock me, but it's not worth the trouble.
I'm set, and got friends, I just see prostitues from time to time when I get the urge.
GF is not worth the trouble, just get friends.
>>25436917
>report for attempting to sleep with someone, not even raping
Yea, completely tarded.
>>25436740
>She actually did know what she wanted, she said she wanted a bad boy with a heart of gold
Yes, exactly, those are shallow, superficial criterias. People who have such a narrow selection don't actually know what the fuck they want. Someone who knows what he want will trust life to lead them to new experiences.
You can NEVER know what you want unless you try a lot and meet/date with many different types of people. Finding "the one" is not a narrow path like she expects it to be, it is a selective process of trial and error. You learn what you trully want by trying and failing and registering the experience of failures to better update your checklist of criterias.
This girl, however, she's obviously never dated much, because the type of guy she's into simply DOESN'T exist, so she'll be looking forever, turning down valid contenders she'd be happy with over stupid shit.
Nigga I have experience with girls like these and she's not worth your time, she'll either end up forever alone or she'll keep dating a bunch of fucking idiots who will hurt her and since she's so shallow she'll never understand that the problem is her not trusting herself to open up to opportunities.
I can guarantee you that everytime she'll settle for "that guy" she thinks she found, he will be every bit not what she expect and she'll always be dissapointed.
>>25436108
>00000000000.1%
wew lad, (first time I've been muted btw, I thought that was good enough but hey)
>>25436993
GF's are cool though. You can do stuff together, they give you presents and cook and the sex is way much better and emotional.
>>25437035
>the sex is way much better and emotional.
Sounds like you meant to type bf
>>25437009
I don't agree. I don't think you need to go jumping from woman to woman to understand what you want. You can learn about yourseld without using people both by introspection and learning from other people's experiences.
The sex part might be different but I feel like people nowadays obsess too much about specifics like whether or not your partnet shares your shitty feet fetish or that you like doggy but she likes missionary more. Idk sex can be great without your special snowflake particular interest
>>25436475
Thats fucking disgusting. Fucking whore.
>three girls stories in college
>meet qt girl through a friend's gf
>she's a huge koreaboo, biut whatever I can deal with a bit of crazy
>turns out she's pretty much my neighbor
>we start talking
>this goes for a few months
>even if I don't make an effort to keep a conversation going, she does
>she might be into me
>lmao, not, she blows off almost all my invitations to hang out
>eventually get enough of that shit, spill my heart to her, and tell her I'm cutting contact
>turns out she never though of me romantically, still clings to the idea that one day she will find a hot korean bf
>actually tried months later to talk to me again on her birthday
>"nah"
>never heard of her again, as far as I know, she's still a complete koreaboo
>talk to a girl on a night out
>she seems to be into me
>friends say the same, pushing me into it
>whatever
>go to the club and dance a little
>eventually her friend call her to go home
>get her number
>talk to her two days later
>interest gone, driest conversation ever
>never talk to her again
>meet a girl through friends
>she seems to be into a me in a very frontal way
>always touching me, kissing me in the forehead, and shit
>she has a bf
>eventually she realizes what she is doing and stops
I live in that twilight zone where I can interest girls for a little, but I'm unable to keep it going. I was probably so close to pussy it's not even funny. I'm a 21 KV btw
>>25435950
Something similar to this happened to me, but I am in college.
We spent a lot of time together. Admitted to each other we were friendless losers. I found comfort in her. We would meet up and walk around and talk. We texted a lot, and she would initiate texts too. It was bliss for me, every moment of it. I thought I had found her.
When I finally confessed to me, she rejected me. She said she didn't feel that way. It was a very gentle rejection, all things considered.
>>25437071
Oh shit, we found the edgelord.
>>25437009
This is very true, thanks Anon. Though I think the last time I saw her she was with some really tall goth guy, not sure if it was her brother or not.
>>25436952
I have like 4 TBs of shit, cant find it easily m8.
>>25437112
There was more but I posted the short version.She also believed she had a Japanese demon spirit possessing her home,Looking back on it, she may have just been straight up crazy.
>>25435876
Could you name her, or describe her a little? I might know who you're talking about.
>>25436751
>having girl friends
>having friends at all
you know what you must do
>>25436657
>"I can't just find a woman who makes $100k either"
literally blown the fuck out
ABSOLUTELY DESTROYED
>be sperg
>know i can't flirt
>start flirting ironically
>use deadpan, emotionless voice to flirt because i realize i'm a joke
>somehow cuck two different guys because their girls think im pretending to be retarded
>these two girls actually try to connect with me later to see if i would date them i think
>both realize im autistic and message me later saying that i used them for sex
c-c-chad as fuck am i right
>>25436475
I don't even know what's real anymore
>>25437297
lmfao you are me except i am sick at flirting. still do the same thing though
>>25436895
This sounds somewhat similar to how I did things. A couple psychological disorders, but I'm pretty good with both my hands and technical stuff, so I studied electrical engineering. Real life work relationships are tougher than school, most other EEs are just smart, slightly weird normal people.
>>25437207
Tell me where you're from first, I'm not American, I'm french Canadian.
So tell me who you think it is.
I've had two girls I had crushes on agree to go out with me in person only to tell me later that the weren't interested and only said yes at first because they didn't want to upset me. Well you know what's fucking more upsetting is getting my hopes completely up, me telling my friends that she said yes only to have to explain later that it's not gonna happen. I've given up, I'm just gonna save up for a nice escort every few weeks
>>25436365
No. Most men in this thread are retards. The things the guy you quoted did, women do it with other women. If a girl starts doing that shit with you, then it is apparent to everyone, except you apparently, that she sees you as her girlfriend. Something no red blooded man would accept.
But of course, blame women.
>>25437713
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> [Spoiler]Marie[/Marie]
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>Anonymous 01/02/16(Sat)20:23:50 No.25437746
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> [Spoiler]Marie-e[/Spoiler]
loll
ahahaha failll
>>25437713
AHAHA, leave the thread
>>25437746
Nope. Not even close.
wouldn't surprise me, though, girls like these are a dime a dozen.
>>25437818
hes so dumb lmao
>>25437818
>>25437796
>>25437746
>>25437713
psst next time hold control and press s when entering text, it will automatically insert correct spoiler tags for you.
>>25437713
>Anonymous 01/02/16(Sat)20:22:05 No.25437713 [This post has been deleted]
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> [Spoiler]Marie[/Marie]
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>Anonymous 01/02/16(Sat)20:23:50 No.25437746 [This post has been deleted]
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> [Spoiler]Marie-e[/Spoiler]
ahahaha trying to delete his fuckups lmaoo
>>25437591
call them out on that shit behavior. tell them it's WRONG to do that. if they do that to you, you're at a point where nothing else matters in regards of still wanting a build a relationship because they won't let you anyway so give those worthless harlots some bad memories on their way so the next guy that has to deal with them doesn't have to deal with this stupid deceitful faggot dogshit like that.
>>25437118
Nah man, most of the time it's always like this. Interesting girls is often a matter of "the moment". So you get with girls and they get interested for "a moment", but since you or she does nothing, it fleets and you're back to dry land.
But there is such a thing as creating that moment, though. If you have enough experience, you can set the pieces just right for her to be charmed and you can take advantage of that to get laid.
That or prey on drunk chicks. Alcohol makes women horny.
>>25437713
what a fucking dumb cunt. i hope this thread never dies so everyone can laugh at you anon's stupidity
>>25435471
Did you ever try to fuck her at any point? Did you try to kiss her, fondle her ass a bit. I'm a complete fuckup but I've learned that telling a girl doesn't mean shit.
>>25438104
lol its fucking hysterical
>>25438109
I tried to get closer, but this girl is cold as a fucking block of ice. Usually, when you try to get closer to a woman, you are attentive to feedback. If you move in and she reclines, she'S obviously not into it, if she moves closer or warm up to your advances, keep going.
This girl, I cuddle with her, she doesn't move closer, she doesn't recline, she's not against the idea, but she's not into it either. I start fondling, same result, She's just cold as fucking ice.
She doesn't react to this shit in any fucking way at all.
>>25438201
If she just sits there and lets you do it, she is probably just passive, do what you want, if she doesn't ever stop you, fuck her.
>>25436151
>fuck her a couple of times
>still become her beta orbiter
>mfw
OP, how does it feel to be one of the few guys that managed to have sex, but are still 100% autistic robots ?
>>25436368
Underrated post, to be perfectly honest family
>>25438025
>call them out on that shit behavior. tell them it's WRONG to do that
>women
>Every feeling any shame for bad behaviour
cluck my good cuck
>>25438025
This was awhile ago, but you're right I should've at the time. Unfortunately I'm a moron and thought if I kept things friendly I'd have another shot
>>25433992
>Hey man!
that physically hurt
>>25438260
I have trouble with this notion.
I get what you mean and I've seen it happen, but I'm not comfortable with the idea of just moving in to make out with her. I'm pretty sure it could work because this girl's messed up on an emotional level and just taking that ass would probably work, but I don't feel okay with doing things like this, not on a moral standpoint, but a personal one.
Maybe it's just lack of experience, but I'm always under the impression that the game must be played formally and to move in if the girl shows nterest, passive girls kind of scare me because you never actualy know what she's into in the moment.
Is she into me? Is she into my dick?
Would probably be easier if it's just some girl I met yesterday, when you have no emotional attachment, it's easy, but keep in mind I've become too attached to this girl to do this type of shit with her without feeling guilty of taking advantage.
This is one of the best threads on r9k for a while.
Nice to hear about cyborgs trying and failing with women instead of the constant "tfw no gf" posting from neets.
>>25438086
I don't like the hook-up culture. I actually don't go out to clubs much, and certainely not sober, because I'm never repeating the experience of entering a club sober.
I just want a qt gf to love me and shit
>>25438707
IT's surprising how positive the feedback is, usually threads like this devolve with people just crying over themselves and claiming everything to be worthless, but we have a lot of people sharing experiences and different backgrounds with a positive mindset that even if you fail, you gotta keep playing to git gud.
I, for one, really needed that, I'm the dude who tried to date a friend a few weeks back and even if I do have prior experience and a positive mindset, this kind of shit puts a solid dent in your self-esteem and I need to talk with people who had similar shit happen and to remind each other to keep it strong.
>>25438697
Stop being weak, you are a man, if you want something go fucking get it. That doesn't mean you fucking rape or assault people, but if you get that far and there are no stop signals, fucking do it. If she doesn't respond at all she may just be fucking weird, but christ, finger her or something, she if she responds. She will either stop you or start breathing heavy/get aroused, then you have a go signal. Some chicks just want you to push it.
>>25438707
>>25438755
>/r9k was like this in 2009-2010
Much better than the tfwnogf threads
>>25438728
It's the sad part of it, if you want a qt gf, you won't just get her from your first try. It's not necessarily about hooking up and going out to talk to chicks, if you're into relationships, never look for that in a club. people go out clubbing to get laid and nothing else.
But you gotta go and fail a few times until you finally meet some girl who will care enough about you to try to commit.
>>25438763
I know you're right, it's not that I can't conceive it, but I realy need to overcome my fear of just doing it. Sometimes I think too much and I have an hard time conceiving a reason to just do it, but from your perspective, you just mean to say that I must just do it without thinking it?
That makes a lot of sense actually, maybe, all along, that's just what she expected and I failed by puting my emotions over my physical desires.
Well, who knows, I'm done expecting shit out of this girl, but if we do end up hanging out just me and her, I'll be willing to try, but when it comes to that girl I'm talking about, I think I'm better off moving on altogether.
>>25438755
You're right anon, that's why i'm enjoying this thread so much.
I've only ever loved 3 women in my life, they all friendzoned me. I'm not bitter or angry, they are good people who were kind.
I've still managed to bang 7 women and i've had temporary FWB situations. Yet at the age of 29 I have never had a girlfriend....EVER.
So whilst I share the bleek outlook of most robots I do also know that there is hope, even if it's only a little bit.
That's why I call myself a cyborg.
>>25438876
Yea, just stop thinking so much about it. If you need to, have a few drinks before you hang out with her to loosen you up. Once you just get out of your head and just pursue what you want, it should go well. Very least you will know if she pushes you back and you can move on, right now you are just in that horrible limbo and that isn't good for you not even just cause you aren't getting any but fucks with your self esteem and shit.
>go out
>start to drink
>try to remain calm
>talk about boring shit i don't care about
>girl starts talking to me
>she's clearly kinda into me
>drink more to relax
>drink
>relax
>talk
>drink
>relax more
>talk more
>let my real personality slip out
>talk about shit i actually care about
>she's no longer attracted
>she's looking over at another table
>she excuses herself
>>25437669
>The things the guy you quoted did, women do it with other women. If a girl starts doing that shit with you, then it is apparent to everyone, except you apparently, that she sees you as her girlfriend.
And adults can see that playing footsie with a guy is not the same as doing it with another woman.
But of course. Blame the men for bitches being idiosyncratic.
>>25438983
You just need to find the point to stop drinking then
I know this probably isn't the thread for it, but it's comfy enough and I need some advice
>work at a restaurant/bar
>girl there works as a teacher, has a few serving shifts at the restaurant occasionally
>when we work together, we'll have a shift beer and watch shitty tv shows
>had a few drinks after work at other bars twice with her
>had pancakes at shitty diner right after both times
>last week she texted me randomly in the morning asking if i as up to go eat somewhere, so we went to a brewery and drank and ate and played shuffleboard and arcade games they had for a couple hours
Anyway, I'm falling for this girl hard, I just don't want to tell her how I feel about her because I feel like she's just a friendly person and I don't know how relationship stuff works and she's older than me by more than a couple years and that makes me feel even more inexperienced and I don't want to fuck up anything that we have by making the first move and it being a wrong one.
>>25439214
You gotta be honest with how you feel about her. it's sad, but if you're falling for her, you can't just keep what you have right now and expect to forget about your feels, it will drive you fucking insane.
so are you really into her or are you okay as friends? That's the question, but it's already pretty clear that you're into her.
As to how to make a move, just don't put your feelings in front of you, you will scare her away. try your luck and see how she reacts, try to physicaly progress with her a bit to see what happens.
Sad thing is that yeah, if it doesn't work out, you might lose what you have with her, but that's life, bro. You will move on if shit goes down.
>>25436124
>mfw
>doesn't post a face
>>25439330
mfw without posting a face means you are supposed to imagine the face and it should be easy to picture it from the context
newfag.
>>25435950
fucking what?
fuck originality
>>25439317
I really do want too be with her, but I feel like that's partly attributed to the fact that she's the only girl that's ever asked me to drink with her, or get pancakes with her, or ask if I want to go out and get food and tell me where to goo, and pay for it(I really wanted to pay for it but she was really fast with her card and I still don't handle these situations very well, I took care of the tip though).
I'm trying to try online dating because I feel like if I can find some other qt to go out with I can get rid of my feelings for this girl and treat her like friend without feeling like throwing up because I like her so much, but it's hard to motivate myself to message girls or keep a chat going because I still just think about her.
>>25439591
and tell me to choose where we should go*
>>25437297
>Sarcastic and ironic flirting
I can't believe this is a thing other people do, too. I feel so alienated from other people I actually didn't give a shit, but most girls seem to respond with at least friendliness, a smile, and eye contact. Maybe I should try actually asking them out, ironically, rather than just leaving after they share their life story.
>>25439591
I understand what you mean because I've been there too.
Come to peace with your feelings first, but if you have a thing for this girl, it won't easily go away, even by seeing other girls.
>oneitis from hs contacts me years later
>says she always regretted not giving me a chance
>we go on a date and she is 100% into me
>she asks if we can goto my place
>"dreams do come true!"
>get nervous and start talking about /pol tier conspiracies
>see her interest in me totally evaporate
>try to backpedal
>she goes to the bathroom and comes back saying she has a family emergency
>she awkwardly leaves
>later sends me an email saying she is back with her old bf and is moving in with him
I'm not joking. Why in hell did I have to tell her that jet fuel can't melt steel beams?
>>25440360
Pls....tell me you're joking.
>>25440360
>I'm not joking. Why in hell did I have to tell her that jet fuel can't melt steel beams?
But jet fuel CAN'T melt steam beams, anon.
>>25439098
>stop drinking then
Unacceptable.
>>25438983
I never get really fucked up unless I already really, really know the people around me, for exactly this reason. Unfortunately, I need a beer or two to actually relax enough to start a conversation anyway. It's really a narrow therapeutic window alcohol that has.
