So for two days I was at a house party and despite all the compounded years of autism, the rage, the social isolation, the malformed opinions embedded in me from imageboards, I managed to make some friends and fit in, and even got some girls interested in me. And I came here to tell you that there are few feelings better than belonging to a group or a tribe and being accepted. It's enjoyable and it leads to other opportunities, such as for entertainment and girls. If girls see that you're part of the group, at ease, have interesting things to say, don't look horrible (you don't have to be a 10/10) and don't sperg out, you will have a good chance but it's always a numbers game. So go out there and find a large group of friends to integrate with. Up until now I had been mostly focused on small groups of males, but it's much more fun if you can get into a group that has single females. The way I did this is by befriending a female, because it was actually her social circle that she assembled at her party. Being friendzoned might suck but befriending females might actually not be that bad if they can lead you to other females.
>>25425838
Another thing I've found is that social isolation sucks and leads to cripping depression, while socializing whether through talking, playing games (not video games) or dance is actually fun once you break the ice. Maybe it's just because I was wrapped up in the novelty of it all, but i guess the take home message is that acceptance feels good.
>>25425838
We know that already normalfag.
So how do I do that when Im closer to 30 than 25?
It's too late for me to go back and do young adult socializing.
Now all that is left is sluts and single moms looking for a meal ticket I dont even have.
>>25426013
Yea it's rough, 33 year old bro here, I just work on having money so I can at least lead the good foreveralone life and have some options
>>25426013
>>25426040
I'm 21 and two of my closest friends are 27 and 29.
>>25425838
>and even got some girls interested in me.
Stopped reading there. Go gloat, and such, on Reddit.
>>25426013
I don't know man, I'm not an expert and I don't have a solution for every situation or a generalized model. The way this happened to me was completely random, btw. I entered a communal kitchen to prepare breakfast and this girl was there, who I had never spoken to much. I don't generally speak to people either because they piss me off, but through whatever way we started a conversation, which ended with her out of the blue inviting me to her party. Completely random. You just have to look for the opportunities and take them.
I'm 28, btw. I think age is just a number, I could easily see a 35 year old with a 25 year old or even 20 year old. Literally someone I know is a 25 year old girl dating a 52 year old, and she's an economist in grad school. Another weird thing for me is that when I was younger I thought people 28 years old "looked old", as it were. But now that I'm getting older people my age look still "young" in some way. I have no idea why this process exist.
Also, typing shit, imageboards are a horrible form of communication compared to talking. They aren't nearly as efficient or as satisfying. They have their place but are no substitute for the kind of interaction I was talking about in the OP.
>>25426136
I'm sorry that relaying factual information makes you mad. I'm not gloating (well, maybe a bit) but I am happy about it.
>>25426090
Your friends must be of low social standing then. Hanging out with younger people is almost always an indicator of low social status.
>>25426192
I'd take access to younger pussy over this "social status" any day. Also, I think what you're saying is bullshit. Maybe it's true in high school or whatever but in the adult world no one cares what your age is.
Next step is to make this habitual, it was hard for me getting started especially since I was in a room of strangers who spoke a different language, but once I got the ball rolling I was in the zone. Now I can already feel my powerlevel fading.
>>25426175
>and she's an economist in grad school
Forgot to mention that she's good looking too
>>25426190
>I'm sorry that relaying factual information makes you mad.
The only thing that makes me mad is having people, who are able to get within even ten feet of a girl, let alone TALK to one, are on this board.
>I'm not gloating (well, maybe a bit) but I am happy about it.
Good for you. This may come as a shock to you, though, but most people here don't care.
>>25426231
>pedophile lecturing me on social status
wew
Well I'm here to tell you to fuck off
>>25426287
>I don't care
>it makes me mad
So which is it, faggot?
>waaaah any indication of not being a complete fuckup rustles my shorts
I don't care. Get triggered, faggot, and get out of here if you have nothing positive to contribute.
>>25425838
I was at a house party last night. There was this girl who looked like a Mexican Remy LaCroix who was kinda flirting with me. I got drunk as fuck, threw up about three times. But you know the best part about that night?
When a girl asked my friend "How is Anon getting home?" And he replied "He can stay here if he needs to, he's my boy since middle school"
>>25426287
This is how leftists think, at least the delusional types that also focus on identity politics, sport dreads and pink mohawks, etc. They can't stand seeing rich people around so instead of trying to figure out how to become rich themselves or make things better for everyone they get triggered and want to destroy rich people.
How about instead of approaching things like a fuckup little bitch leftist you take the Iron Pill and approach things the national socialist way.
>>25426378
Good job bro. I also stayed the night. I should have stayed another night as well though since I wanted to explore the area (it was a long trip to get there) but whatever, the girl told me earlier to leave on that day and at least I ended it on a high note.
>>25426040
Yeah, I'm mostly sick of having no money and no half decent job at this point in my life. It's even worse because I've been stuck working near minimum wage part time jobs ever since graduating (with honors). I got a worthless BA though, so I guess I had it coming.
I'm going back to community college though. Hopefully something will work out.
>>25426192
One of them is the drummer of a pretty big local band.
The other is my housemate who is fit, handsome and spends so much cash on lego its endearing to everyone instead of autistic
>>25426348
>>I don't care
>>it makes me mad
>
>So which is it, faggot?
Can't you read, Normalscum? I don't care about you being happy. I'm only mad that you think you belong here.
>>waaaah any indication of not being a complete fuckup rustles my shorts
>If you don't talk to girls your a complete fuckup!
Kek. Just go back to >>>/soc/ senpai.
>>25425838
Gee thanks, normalfag.
>If you don't talk to girls your a complete fuckup!
If you're unable to get within 3 metres of a female or communicating with half the population I'd say you are a pretty big fuckup bro. Sounds like you're the one with special snowflake syndrome. I try to at least become functional, you're just a poisonous asshole who wants to wallow in shit and make this his hugbox of commiseration. Posting stupid reaction images doesn't mask your high levels of butthurt.
>>25426586
>/soc/
>imageboards
>for socialization
kek
Why would camwhore central be the "normie" version of this place?
>>25426586
>you think you belong here
There's literally nothing wrong with normalfags posting here. If you hate it so bad go back to wizchan.
>>25426657
>If you're unable to get within 3 metres of a female or communicating with half the population I'd say you are a pretty big fuckup bro.
Those are some pretty hot opinions.
>Sounds like you're the one with special snowflake syndrome
Even if I had such an thing, it would be better then being a Normie.
>I try to at least become functional, you're just a poisonous asshole who wants to wallow in shit and make this his hugbox of commiseration.
I barely come here. When I do, however, it's get very annoying to see scum like you here.
All I'm saying is that if you want to talk about this sort of thing, there are THOUSANDS of websites to go to.
>>25426706
>There's literally nothing wrong with normalfags posting here.
MEIN SIDES!
time to bump this for the eurobots
>>25425838
Something else I noticed at this party: everyone's phone kept buzzing every now and then even the males'. I'm lucky if someone texts or calls me once a month, and it's usually for a reason. Fucking normies, how do they have such active social lives? Is mine so weak in comparison because of inactivity or rejection?
>>25427924
I've noticed the same thing.
I dont have a boomer boss at work, so not being addicted to my phone isnt going to help me.
>>25425838
unleashing a thunderous fart thats built up such that you can almost feel the gas as though it were a solid ball lodged firmly in your sphincter feels better and i can do that in the confines of my own home, if i had friends with me i would have to hold it in or release it silently which has none of the satisfaction of releasing a rippling roar which causes you to shudder with euphoria
farts >>>> friends
>>25428118
Or you could just go to the bathroom you sperg.
I assure you that things exiting your ass isn't as comforting or satisfying as having a cozy group of friends.
>>25428538
clearly you have never had a good fart and or shit, i have had friends and i prefer the farts
