Who here /friends are having New Years Eve parties but not inviting you/?
One of my friends even showed me pics of his booze for the party. I was still not invited. This is the worst I've felt all year. Hold me r9k
Same, except this was last year when I still had some acquaintances. This year I literally have no one or nothing to do.
I didn't realise it was newyears till I saw your post
>>25369090
just ask if u can come? say you had plans but they fell through and you would like to do something, fucking fag.
>he has friends who host parties
>>25369117
God I'm sorry. I just get to sit at home with my mommy and daddy. I probably will just go to bed early...
>>25369132
It's tomorrow, but I feel like this New Years is nothing special
Who /onlyfriendwhodrinks/ here?
I have friends, but I have nobody to get drunk with because my friends are fucking lame.
>>25369152
I can't do that. The reason they didn't invite me or so I suspect is because they're inviting other friends. I'm always the back up friend. Always.
>>25369153
It's not a big party it's probably 7 people at most.
Who /have that one friend who invites himself to things when he isn't wanted/ here?
>have this one friend who has no other friends other than steam friends to play vidya online with
>asks if I wanna hang out
>tell him I can't because I'm going to a movie with a different friend
>he texts back "sounds great, count me in! What time and where?"
>>25369349
dude just let op come to your party jesus it's fucking new years dude
>>25369349
That sucks. You shouldn't tell him you're going out with other friends and just say you're busy without descriptives, but I'd imagine you've tried that. I don't get what kind of a person has the gall to invite themselves along places
>>25369090
>>25369199
Don't sound like they're your friends at all, anon.
>>25369349
I almost wish i was that deluded/autistic so that i could just do that rather than thinking everything over a millions times then never asking if i can be involved in stuff
>tfw first time youve wished you were even more autistic than you already are
>>25369393
I want so much for him to be my friend. We've been friends since we were little kids and he acts like he loves me and that we're bros but then does shit like this. Then, when his Chad friends decide they don't want him along he crawls back to me.
>there's a pic of him on ig, all the other chads taking a selfie and he thinks he's in the picture in the background but he's covered up by other people and not tagged
I get an evil pleasure out of seeing it. I also kind of feel bad for him though
Oldfag, but I had friends I didn't invite to things.
I wouldn't invite chad friends over if I was lanning with my robot friends, it would be weird and they wouldn't fit in. Also, I'd have to spend time and effort baby sitting them.
Same thing for robot friends to chad things, like a NYE party. They'd be a burden and probably reflect negatively on me while trying to get a qt.
Sorry OP.
>>25369567
That makes me feel a bit better. I hope it's just a "you wouldn't get along with the chads" situation but I wish he would tell me that's why, and at least invite me but tell me I don't have to go. I don't know what I want, I just want to feel wanted
I'm pretty sure my friend gave me their phone number wrong deliberately so they didn't have to make plans with me
>'Hey, how are you? Haven't seen you in ages, it would be great to catch up! Hope you're well and hopefully see you soon'
>'Who is this? Who are you trying to contact?'
>'It's anon, I'm trying to get xnon'
>'Sorry this is ynon, where did you get this number from? I've had it for a year'
Just about the last person who i thought still like me
>>25369624
Are you sure it wasn't just an honest mistake? If not I feel for you anon.
>in middle school I had no friends
>I finally work up the courage to call a friend who gave me his number right before 6th grade started because we would be going to different schools
>put in number
>it's the wrong number, been disconnected
We robots are all the same.
>>25369090
My friends invited me to a party.
>feels good, I am ready to leave this robot life behind.
I got invited but declined because I'm not a normalfag.
>>25369817
Good luck anon. The beta uprising is not an uprising of arms, it is a revolution made of velvet. We will take what is ours not by force but by being better at what we are.
>>25369818
I just want the opportunity to decline, anon
>>25369788
I don't think so. This was over summer when we were both back in our home city, then last week i messaged them on facebook (which is what they had given me the number) asking if they want to catch up and I've had no response but the message has been seen.
Makes me feel like shit because theyre a really nice person so its like 'what did i do to make someone that nice and kind try to fade me out? must be my fault'
Kindred spirits, friend
>>25369090
Who here /no friends and are contemplating ending it/?
>>25369922
There's still hope anon. A friend messaged me like that but I'm too beta to respond because the reason we stopped hanging out was a mutual friend caused problems and I don't want to cause drama. I just don't log on to normiebook these days
>>25369950
Friends will come anon. There is always hope, this is the internet here. If information superhighways can bring massive loads of information to the tips of my fingers there are potential friends out there for you.
>>25369922
plz do not silence my feels robot overlord
> Have 1 'friend'
> Only get to see him once a month, don't interact with anyone else in between
> Haven't spoken to another human being properly for weeks
> He asks me to come to his for New Years
> Spend 2 weeks hyping myself up, trying to make myself look less suicidal
> So focused that I forget about Christmas
> Day before, I text him asking when I should arrive
> 'Don't bother'
This is what rock bottom is like, why do I have no friends
>>25369967
I'm desperately hoping that, but we don't (as far as im aware) have anything like that between us, and this friend is pretty outgoing and sociable so although i did consider that it could be something like that it seems unlikely.
Maybe you should try to reply to your friend. If it is like this situation they will be genuinely pleased to hear from you, despite your mutual friend. good luck pal, hope 2k16 goes well for you
>>25370043
I dunno man. I'm a pretty repulsive person, I know that. I'm awkward to strangers and too bitter/sarcastic when I get comfortable around people. This was fine when I was like 15, but my social maturity stopped developing far too early
Whilst everyone else was busy gaining inhibitions, I lost all my friends due to moving to a new country. I haven't had a 'friend' for about half a year now, I am in no position to make any either
>>25370132
How did that happen anon? Why was he mad you forgot Christmas, were you supposed to go there then too?
>>25370225
I was bullied a lot when I was younger, particularly in middle school. As a result I became very cynical and jaded. I thought every compliment I was offered was a masked insult and so pretty soon I became the George Bush of insults: I would preempt them with an insult before they could me. My friend that didn't invite me to this party changed all that when he rekindled our friendship, and I've made other friends. Work on it anon, you'll make it yet.
>>25370235
I meant that I forgot about Christmas happening because I was so focused on not fucking up New Years. He wasn't angry, he just said 'oh don't bother, I'm doing something else now. Sorry forgot to tell you'.
I'm probably going to get on a train an see where it takes me
>>25370307
Thanks. I might have to wait a year or two though, I'm in college and there's no way to make friends here unless you already have some
>be me at mcjob
>friendly, have a laugh and get on with everyone
>outside staffroom flattening empty boxes
>hear colleagues talking about new years eve night out
>told to go on break
>sat in staffroom
>everyone stops talking about night out
>i finish break
>resume box flattening
>"so is everyone coming?"
>"yeah, everyone, bar the few we haven't invited"
>small girl who never talks who started a week ago is invited
>manager who has had numerous complaints for shouting at people and groping the girls is invited
>tfw another lonely new year
>its just like my last birthday
>still an improvement on last year in which i got fired from my stem scholarship unjustly
> asked my brother if he wanted to go out for a drink on new years eve
>forgot he's a manchild
>he moaned about how he wanted to just sit and play games instead of coming out
>ended up me sat in a packed pub trying to avoid a nervous breakdown while my brother whinged about not being on wow even though he's 10 years older than me (30)
Tbqh my life is a downhill slurry waterslide
>>25370816
God anon I'm sorry to hear that. Honestly I speak from experience: I have had friends who went into fast food as productive members of society (one was a STEM major in fact) and they became friends with the scum of the earth that works there and pretty soon became scum. It's probably for the best. Remember: you're better than them.
Is tehre anything stopping you from just going there anyway? If you come a bit later everyone's too drunk to care especially.
>>25369090
Hourly reminder:
>is employed
>"""robot"""
>is in education
>"""robot"""
>has friends
>"""robot"""
>has/has had gf/bf
>"""robot"""
>isn't kissless/handholdless/handshakeless/conversationless/eyecontactless
>"""robot"""
>has healthy relationship with family
>"""robot"""
>got gifts for Christmas
>"""robot"""
>bought gifts for Christmas
>"""robot"""
>has plans for New Years
>"""robot"""
>has online friends
>"""robot"""
>participates in Omegle threads
>"""robot"""
>has a Facebook account
>"""robot"""
>posts his picture on 4chan
>"""robot"""
>faps to real/3D porn
>"""robot"""
>has """robot friends"""
>"""robot"""
>consider himself a """robot""" because he's "shy around women"
>"""robot"""
>loves anyone
>"""robot"""
>expresses human emotions
>"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""robot"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
>passes the captcha
>"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
>robot
>"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
>>>/r/eddit
>>>/facebook/
I think I might be the only person who has never had a group of friends. Even 'losers' and 'autists' have social circles. Jesus Christ.
>>25371044
I think the worst part for me is that theyre mostly lovely people and id like to spend more time with them
>>25369090
Nope.
Maybe this is an east coast or New York thing, or it's just the people I know, but it seems like house parties aren't even really a thing after you turn 23. Everyone I know just gets wasted at bars or clubs every weekend instead. Even for New Years and birthdays and shit, most people just go to bars.
>>25370816
ALEX YOU FUCKHEAD
WHY WONT YOU TALK TO ME
>>25371348
say why didnt you invite me
>autistic 16 year old self back in 2012
>somehow got in with a normie group of friends
>knew it wouldn't last, there was no way I could keep up that /sociallyadjusted/ act
>invite myself to fucking everything they do even if I clearly wasn't welcome
>got stupidly drunk/high every single time
>solely responsible for ruining countless nights
>suddenly they cut all contact with me
>I'd do it all again if I could
Don't fall for the normie's cruel, manipulative tricks. You are different from them and always will be. Just have the most fun with it while you can.
>>25371196
Holy fuck I thought I was at least somewhat normal but I tick off every single one of those. I am true robot incarnate.
I can almost remember what it used to be like to have friends.
>>25369090
>friends
Hahahahaha ahahahaha ha
Just buy a bottle and get drunk on her tomorrow night with your fellow robots
>friends rent hotel room in a nearby city
>they invite me
>say that it makes no sense to spend the money on a hotel and drive all the way there when all they'll do is drink and watch TV (exactly what they do at their house every weekend)
>say I'm gonna pass
>get passive aggressive replies like "well at least you could be with your friends on new years but whatever floats your boat..."
If they get butthurt over such petty shit then maybe I'd rather not hang out with them.
All my """"""friends"""""" are going to the same party tomorrow, didn't even tell me about it let alone invite me.
Oh well, at least my cheap whiskey is always there for me.
No party for me robots. I might get some Rum Chata and have a little party by myself. I never drink either. But, I just feel I should be drinking something,
>>25369188
Reportin in. All my friends are either stereotypical skeletons or neckbeards who hate booze.
>>25369567
I can see your point, it's like having a party and one half of the guests are economics students/majors and the other half are bohemian musicians and artsy people.
Catastrophy bound to happen the second anyone starts to discuss politics.
you friendless robots should have a google hangout or something.
>>25369090
Update from Me/Op:
He used a groupchat we're both in to tell someone else to text him. I know it's about the party. I feel so cucked
>>25374976
Delicious, delicious Rum Chata.
