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Nice Guy meme DISPROVEN


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The nice guy meme has been destroyed with scientific research and evidence

What have you got to say to this?
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>>25365622
Because human relationships are based on logic and equality between partners


Yeah right
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>>25365622
insecure guys with social anxiety finish last.
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The video might have had a point if we still all lived in tribes of 30 or 40 people and never mingled with outsiders, so everyone you ever met would have a decent knowledge of all your past behavior. In the modern world however, the "devious" players who he claims only benefit in the short term actually benefit forever because they can constantly meet new people who have no idea of their intentions or their past transgressions and reap the same rewards over and over again.
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Wow, great video. Except for the fact that failed normies who say "nice guys finish last" are usually the most bitter people inside.
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bad boys finish first

nice guys finish second

average guys finish afterwards

"nice" guys aka hoverhands aka beta orbiters finish last
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>>25365622

Hmm is it 2012
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Nice guys as in they look attractive?
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>>25365622
Its so funny that the game he uses "the Prisoner's Dilemma" and explains everything correct. Even the strategy "tit for tat" is correctly explained and that it creates the most revenue.
What he didnt tell you:
EVEN IN FUCKING THEORY this applies only if you dont know how many rounds of the prioner's dilemma you play.
When you know what the last round is, its always beneficial to betray on the last round because the other person can't react to it. By proving inductivly this applies to all rounds. (I even had this last year in theoretical computer science).

What that means is that this guy is not telling you the whole truth, probably on purpose for propaganda reasons.
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this would make some sense to me if cooperating equated to being "nice"

and it doesn't, they're telling you that social animals are the most successful which everybody already knew

besides, if nice guys actually finished first, Karl Marx wouldn't have died penniless with the entire modern world fiercely opposed to his humanist philosophies
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>>25365622
I think I don't want to give a view to the sort of person that makes this sort of video
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>>25365622

>popscience youtube shit
>evidence of anything

kek
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>>25365622
>using this popular science nonsense made for children who didn't pass highschool biology
>OMG ROBOTS BTFO
fuck off reddit
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Genghis Khan could be considered, in multiple senses, to be the most successful male.

I don't think anyone would describe him as nice.
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>>25366233
I don't get what you mean, you kinda contrdicted yourself. You say in the modern time people have access to your past but yet you can keep meeting people and getting the same benefits?
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>>25365622
This is literally the stupidest fucking argument. Human altruism evolved culturally not through genetics even fucking Darwin says this in the descent of man. Snakes eat each other this isn't nice and they still have more offspring and the species evolves
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In all of those examples the nice guys were acting in self interest that happened to be in the interest of the group. None of those examples demonstrated selflessness.
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I felt this comment to the core.

I don't understand how to fix my personality.
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>>25368505
By not getting into a relationship. I've given up for now, I have literally no reason to get into a relationship because I have nothing to offer. Maybe sex but I'm too insecure about that.
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>>25365622
>in the long run
yes after 30 years when sluts try to "settle"
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>>25366233
This. In the real world you aren't going to be playing for hundreds of games, because you aren't going to have hundreds of chances with outsiders. Once a person gets ahead, they're gonna leave on a high note.
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>>25368617
This.

This beta cuck nice guys making the video completely miss the fucking point.
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>>25368564
Don't give up, man. We can overcome this. There's got to be a way.
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He's implying the nice guy will expend the same amount of effort to pursue each and every girl he's interested instead of turning bitter and angry after constant rejections, while watching the more aggressive men getting girls on the first try.
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Alpha fux Beta bux

Never forget.
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>>25366233
>the "devious" players who he claims only benefit in the short term actually benefit forever because they can constantly meet new people

Yeah that about covers it.
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What's better: be a "mean" alpha till you're thirty and then turn "nice" and marry a 21 year old who will stay decent looking for 20 years when you divorce her and marry another 21 year old repeat till death

OR

Be a "nice" beta and get nothing till you're 35 at which point a washed up hold whore desperate for support MIGHT suddenly appreciate your "niceness", marry you, cheat on you in a few months when she gets bored with you and divorce you as soon as she gets a few kiddies out, taking your shekels for the rest of your life

I put "nice" and "mean" in quotes because it's a false dichotomy, the real pairing are "weak" and "strong" and "boring" and "interesting". An alpha can be nice when he wants to and has the option to settle as young as he wants, betas are at the mercy of women for their happiness.
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