Why are dominant or mutual women so rare?
Why do most of them want to be so submissive?
>tfw no dark, dominant, disillusioned and intelligent gf to have smart conversations with
>>25301413
Genetics and socialization mutually reinforcing eachother to promote docility and faux "kindness" by women towards everyone in order to maximize their access to reproductive and material resources.
>>25301413
met one in school, "one", never again.
>>25301413
Are you me
Submissive women are boring as fuck
But all the 'dominant' women I meet are tumblrinas who really hate white men.
I don't want to dominate or be dominated, it'd be cool to have an equal partner to challenge and banter.
We both know why, nigga.
Women are biologically precluded to find strong males attractive, along with what goes with that. They have also been raised to be pampered victims by pretty much every modern society that exists. They're also rarely raised to find much interest in anything outside of social interaction, which means they don't have any developed, special fields of interest to talk about, or genuine causes or concerns to be disillusioned about (unless it's about feminism, which allows them to play the victim better).
Now, I would love to have a women that was mentally and physically stronger than me and treated me as the submissive partner, while also having interesting conversations with me on a daily basis, but that's never going to happen. Women just aren't really all those qualities at once.
>>25301413
Wow. /r9k/ sure is knowledgeable about women despite not having much contact with them.
>>25301413
No matter how much I like the idea of being dominant (something that only occured once I got into doujins and fic, because mainstream sexuality doesn't promote the idea), I could never ever pull it off because I'm so thoroughly socialized to be nice and quiet around boys. It takes too much confidence.
>>25301540
Hahaha. True. Misogynists claim to know so much about ladies.
>>25301413
Because sperm is cheap while eggs are expensive. Therefore you find more variability amongst men than amongst women.
People with IQ above average are mostly male, people that are super stupid are mostly male, too.
Great artists are mostly male, stupid bros who are all like reading is for faggots are, well, also mostly male. Comedians are mostly male, people that are super serious like a preacher, a depressed poet are mostly male, either.
Same with sex. There are men into MILF, fat girls, jailbait, femdom, feet. But there are no women into short men.
For cruel "mother" nature it doesn't matter if some male mating strategies don't work out, because sperm is cheap anyway and one male could easily impregnate many women.
But women are shaped to be either moderate (nice way to see it) or medicore (not so nice way to see it)
>>25301457
>Genetics and socialization mutually reinforcing eachother to promote docility
If socialization would be so important, then submissive men would be rare as well. They should even be more rare, because they don't even have the "sexy dominatrix" meme for them.
But that's not the case. There are many submissive men while dominant women are either not women but transsexual males, or prostitutes.
yeah it sucks. even among women who dom, most of them are either doing it for money or to please their partners.
women who dom purely because they enjoy it and it turns them on are unbelievably rare, like one in a million.
>>25301631
Men have significantly more exposure to porn, they broaden their horizons and learn their tastes more easily. Girls have, what, 50 sog? Porn isn't aimed at them in general, chances are they'll never get the chance to find out what their kinks really are.
>>25301540
Muh-soggy-knees! Hurr durr durr
>>25301552
>because mainstream sexuality doesn't promote the idea
You're submitting to what society expects you to behave like. They want you to be exactly as you described - quiet and "nice" around BOYS, who are very likely the total opposite of that.
I was never a mainstreamer. Ever since I was fucking 16 I grew interests into history, politics and the like. It took me a while to stop being a submissive cuck in my teenage years, but after a long-ass period of thinking and improvement I changed my ways. You can do it to if you really put your mind to it - it's worth it.
>>25301598
>have peculiar tastes in the opposite sex
>"MUH MISOGYNY"
Does that mean the majority of women who mostly seek strong guys to fuck them in the ass and wanting it to hurt are misandrists because not all of them wish to do that?
>>25301483
Story?
>>25301749
>Men have significantly more exposure to porn
Women have just as much expose to porn, just that their porn is only partly videos and mostly erotic novels. 50 Shades is just the tip of the ice berg, there's a huge industry of porn novels for women.
>>25301881
Erotic fiction is huge, but it's still nowhere near as mainstream as regular porn for men. Your average basic normie chick won't read porn. Another issue is that women strongly gravitate towards gay porn, so they won't necessarily self insert in either role.
For me, reading so much homo smut has put me in the weird position of being attracted to both dominant and submissive men, but not wanting to be dominant or submissive myself, because I'm so used to disassociating myself from the sex.
>>25301413
BECAUSE YOU ARE SUPOSED TO BE A MAN YOU COCKSUCKER! WAKE UP WASH YOUR DICK AND SLAP A BITCH IN HER TITS YOU FUCKING MOMO! DO A POUND OF BLOW, STAB A FAG, TAKE A FUCKING CHANCE!
>>25301872
>It took me a while to stop being a submissive cuck in my teenage years, but after a long-ass period of thinking and improvement I changed my ways.
Yeah, but aren't you a guy?
>tfw when no ryouku girls exist either.
>>25302026
Yes I am, but what's it matter? To have at least some dignity never hurt anyone.
>>25301552
dont be quiet or nice
yell and squeez my balls
>>25301881
Men are huge cucks. I can't stand watching another woman get fucked. I'd rather read it because then I can self insert or insert my own characters otherwise its as the other guy said read/watch homo stuff. Then try to forget about it. Don't masturbate either, messy.
And considering how insignificant sex is to a female in general (nothing good comes from it really) it's best ignored.
Women aren't even encouraged to masturbate thanks to baby boomers and men still think all women have a sheet of tissue covering their vaginas lmao
>>25301552
Just because your nice and quiet doesn't mean you can't be dominant. One of the most dominant women I met was the nicest fucking lady you ever seen but the shit she could get people to do all the while being super sweet about it...I still can't quite figure out how she did that even with explanations.
>>25301413
Because evolution made them that way. Somehow though it fucked up with the ratio of male subs and switches despite that.
>>25301483
Iktf anon. I knew a few of em over the years and just...yeah. Most who appear to be that way arn't legit though. In the end the only way you can be certain is the bedroom test.
>>25301413
>Why are dominant or mutual women so rare?
>Why do most of them want to be so submissive?
Easy. Because it's masculine to be dominant or aggressive. Its feminine to be docile and submissive. A man is attracted to a feminine woman. Not a masculine one.
>>25303246
You're talking pure shit. Women love sex, but they require an emotional bond in order to love it- otherwise it feels as if something is missing. Most sluts who pursue constant sex never feel satisfied cause they lack that emotional connection.
>>25303311
>Women love sex
Keep dreaming kiddo
They love what sex brings them. Not sex.
