Thread for old (25+) kissless virgins.
Do you think you'll EVER lose it? Do you think anyone will ever even kiss you?
25, almost 26 here, and I've almost lost all hope.
>>25298433
48 here
it gets worse lads
>>25298433
25, almost 26 here as well.
I doubt it, but I don't think it's impossible. There's nothing particularly repulsive about me, I was just socially awkward throughout school and then became a NEET so I don't really have any way of meeting people, especially women.
I had a couple chances to turn things around by starting to make friends, but I blew it both times and now I've been NEET so long I don't know if I can ever get out of it.
26
Doesn't even bother me to be honest. I've never felt lonely though, I actually just wish everyone would leave me alone.
>>25298457
Yeah, this. If you're 25, you're still pretty young, and you can still make things work. I'm 35 and I actually have lost all hope. Basically, things like Tinder and OKCupid stop working when you hit your 30's, so there really aren't any opportunities to even meet women anymore.
at this point, I think losing it to the wrong person would be the most frustrating thing
imagine
>go somewhere
>girl walks up to you
>girl kisses you
>some random person has now stolen your first ever kiss and you will never ever get it back
same thing with sex, if I give it to some random woman, I'll never get it back, I've waited 25 years, it better be fucking amazing and the most life changing moment of my life for it to have taken this long
these are the things I worry about, like what if some girl rapes me while I'm sleeping or some gay guy walks up and steals my first kiss?
they would ruin everything and there's nothing I can do about it
>>25298457
>48
I don't believe it, nigga.
Tell me about your life.
>>25298433
>tfw 24 year old KHV
No. Things are only getting worse as time is going on. I have made 0 progress in my life in the past 2 years. I don't even entertain the possibility I'll ever have a relationship.
>>25298547
I'm way more worried about getting some STD than any of that.
The first time will be awkward and unsatisfying I'm sure, but at least I won't feel like a fucking preteen trapped in a man's body any longer. I just want to get rid of this so I can move on and stop feeling so inferior to everyone around me.
>>25298516
Same here dude. Other than playing video games or talking to my one friend about once every two weeks, I wish for the same.
I lost my virginity and got my first kiss at 28. If you are willing to try and won't just bottle up and lose hope then it can be done.
>>25298680
>If you are willing to try
By doing what?
What do I do? I assume my trying to get a decent job first is a pretty big step to sticking my penis in someone.
I'll be 25 next month. close enough.
>Do you think you'll EVER lose it?
I don't know, maybe. My vagina is pretty much ruined though. It wouldn't be normal sex at this point.
>I've been kissed before.
>>25298715
It depends on what your reason for being a virgin is in the first place.
>>25298433
There comes a point of no return.
Just like people who have dropped out of high school and have been NEET for a couple of years are objectively unemployable after a while, an old KV is objectively "unkissable" after a while.
And I guess this is somewhere around 28, 29.
>>25298763
>My vagina is pretty much ruined though.
How did you ruin your vagina? o.O
>>25298715
he means you're willing to take the leftovers
single mothers, cat ladies, divorced bitches
you aren't going to get your first choice at all if you're dating past the age of 25, just throw about half your expectations out the window
next, you get a job that nets you more than enough to support yourself, talking about close to if not over 6 figures, then you buy a house and you go out, dating sites, bars, churches, wherever
women who are single at that age will seek you out, and if not them, their friends/parents/coworkers will find you and try to play matchmaker
>>25298804
>cat ladies
>>25298804
Wow what a bright future, I'm sure it's worth all that effort.
>>25298556
This, I've given up all hope.
Even if by some odd chance I got a gf, I'd have no idea what to do with her. I'm 10 years behind the curb already.
Some people were just made to be alone.
>>25298804
>he means you're willing to take the leftovers
>single mothers, cat ladies, divorced bitches
>you aren't going to get your first choice at all if you're dating past the age of 25, just throw about half your expectations out the window
Get real man and stop being such a parroting idiot. Decent and semi-decent people end relationships every day. If anything, it means willing to take people who have prior experience.
>tfw 25 y/o KV
>tfw lost a lot of weight recently
>tfw girl flirted with me for the first time last month
>tfw I'm going to make it
2016 will be the year I finally get my dick wet
>>25298855
So...
>used up leftovers
>>25298770
I'm a virgin mostly because I've never pursued a woman or asked one out. I've been very socially reclusive most of my life. I'm average looking but not ugly; I'm of average weight and height; my dick is also average (a bit under 7 inches).
I think if I had a decent job, I'd be able to finally move out and at least patch some sort of social life together. People seem to like me, but I'm afraid to move any sort of relationship forward. Just talking to people outside of my family on the phone tends to make me nervous.
>>25298893
Believing this shit is the reason you are alone, not your high standards.
>>25298909
>my dick is also average (a bit under 7 inches).
Why do people say this, even though 7 inches is in the top 10 percentile
>>25298926
Wanting to be alone is why I'm alone senpai. Nice try though.
I like how normietrash always goes on the offensive when someone disagrees with them.
>>25298909
I'm >>25298680 and I was like you. I just forced myself to be more social cause I knew I would go over the edge soon it I stayed in my comfort zone. I know it's scary but you just have to take the plunge and worry about consequences later.
got my first girlfriend when i was 27, sex was so fucking good. licked her asshole out and everything lads
>>25298804
>Need at least 100,000 dollars to more than support yourself
Bruh, where the fuck do you live that the cost of living is that high? Not everyone lives in NYC or Cali.
As for the "leftovers"; well, no shit. I didn't expect otherwise. I don't think I could ever love a woman; become infatuated, yes, but I usually start to dislike them once I get to know them, as with a lot of people.
I just want someone to hump a bit, and if I can tolerate someone, form a longterm relationship so I can have someone to take me to doctor's appointments and shit when I'm old.
I have no absurd romantic notions at this point. I need a partner to help me out and let me relieve some sexual frustration.single mothers are unacceptable, though, unless their kids are fully grown and not living with them.
26 here. It's not impossible, just not very likely.
I'm not going to waste any more energy trying though. Forcing myself to be someone I'm not has been my biggest source of misery in the past few years.
>>25298926
why don't you just go fuck off then
you clearly have a disdain for the people who post here and fancy yourself our superior
so why not just get the fuck out and leave us then huh?
you think you're going to tell us something we've never heard before?
that "there's someone for everyone", "just keep looking", or other bullshit?
the reality is if you are a virgin past the age of 25, you are considered low, the lowest of the low of society
you are going to get the used up leftovers and scraps that no one else would ever want, and you're going to have to deal with it because no one else would want you besides these used up people
that's what I meant, so stop getting your panties in a bunch or leave
I'm 19, nearly 20, but I've already given up all hope. I simply do not mature anymore and I see no reason why things will change within the next five years.
>>25298944
That percentile is skewed thanks to all the asians in the world.
Whiteys tend to have slightly larger penises.
>>25299023
I said around 6 figures
which means you need to make at least around 70k-80k a year to support yourself, a wife, and her probably kids
this is taking into account that she will probably have no job, or a low paying one
I'm just too ugly and retarded, but I still have hope. I'm also deluded as well.
>>25298433
Will be 25 in two months and there's no chance I'll ever lose it, let alone get a kiss.
I'm too ugly to ever find desirable and that will only get worse as time goes on.
>>25299031
>if you are a virgin past the age of 25, you are considered low, the lowest of the low of society
What if I have a decent body/face, a good job, okay personality, etc?
Is being a virgin REALLY that much of a fucking stigma? I assumed at 25 the reason you'd have to contend with used-up women is because all women over 25 are basically used-up at that point, and you're not going to be able to go get younger girls or anything without a lot of charisma and/or money.
I suffer from severe bouts of depression
Been suicidal ever since i was 15 and came exceedingly close to offing myself at 17(24 now). It comes and goes but i feel that no matter what i do, i will never be able to find someone that can love me back and can connect to on an emotional level.
Despite thinking that i probably shouldn't, i hate absolutely everything about where i live and want to get enough money in the next 3 years to move away from the country. Maybe some place like Toronto.
Is there any hope for a socially awkward nerd like me? Or should i just fling myself off the rooftop like i almost did all those years ago?
>>25299105
virginity is really the largest stigma in society now besides criminal shit like pedophilia
it comes from the assumption that everyone must have had sex at some point
hell, college parties are like orgies, pump a girl full of alcohol and she'll put out for almost anyone
they think it's so absurd that the only way for it to happen is for you to be severely mentally or physically defective
there's no other way in their minds that someone over the age of whatever, usually 20-22, didn't have some woman ready to spread her legs for him at some point
>>25299123
Just to add to all this, never kissed a girl nor had a girlfriend and my only sexual encounters have been with prostitutes.
>>25299150
It's not virginity. If a person is relatively decent-looking and well-adjusted no one even suspects they're a virgin. Being a fat manchild with poor hygiene is what is stigmatized.
Anyone here just never really tried to get a gf? I can't be the only one.
>>25299123
Don't kill yourself man you seem like a nice person. Come on up to Canada.
>>25299008
Same here man. I'm 24 and met a girl that I'm pretty sure is head over heels for me. 21 too, so pretty much ideal situation. Having a car and job helps, but I mean she's richer than me so it's not about the money here.
>>25299150
What if they don't know? Most people assume I've had sex with people (aside from those that I've told that I'm a virgin).
I'm so sick of this shit. Why should I feel so bad just because I haven't stuffed a pussy full yet?
>>25299208
Thanks. Sometimes, it's hard to actually believe that.
>>25298457
I always thought suicide is always the wrong decision and it can always turn out Vetter but dann, kill yourself
>>25299195
I don't think so
I've talked to women on dating sites before, and the minute they bring up sex and ask about my past partners, I say I'm a virgin, and they drop the conversation and me so fast my head spins
the reason is because virgins are basically thought of as what you said, greasy unhygienic manchildren, so every virgin is going to face that stigma whether he is or not
It's fun to go over my nations image board subsection where all the losers go everyday to post their frustration.
You get banned by admins if you even give a hint of having social relations or a girlfriend. Shit must be hard.
>>25299258
>on dating sites
Here's your problem.
I'm fairly sociable and talk to strangers in person plenty, and when it comes up that I'm a virgin, most people find it cute because they've already been talking to me for a while and presumably like me.
It's just one of those things that goes the way everything else is already going -- if you're fat and ugly and an asshole, being a virgin is just proof that you're objectively terrible. If you're a cute lithe little fuccboy in a too-small wool coat whose panties stick up past his jeans, it's innocent and fun and just all the more reason to get at you.
>>25299258
But why would you tell them that?
>>25298433
29.
>do you think you'll ever lose it
No.
>do you think anyone will ever even kiss you
No.
This isn't a new thing. Never really had any hope.
>>25299123
Depressed men are fucked. Women are turned off by it which makes you more depressed which makes them more turned on. Depression in women is a turn on for men because it's "vulnerability" so they actually end up getting more sex when depressed. Moral of the story is being a man is hell.
>>25299227
>Why should I feel so bad just because I haven't stuffed a pussy full yet?
You feel bad because you want to fuck, not because people think you're a loser. I'm from southern Ontario and I've never heard anyone make fun of virgins. The only place I ever see people being made fun of for shit like that is online and in America tv shows. People IRL really could not care less whether you have sex or not.
>>25298433
I'm turning 28 next month.
I don't think I'll ever lose it. I don't even really want to have sex to be perfectly honest.
I fap, but sex just doesn't seem all that appealing to me. The idea of all that closeness makes me really uncomfortable and I'm not really sure why.
How are you supposed to lose your virginity if you have absolutely no friends whatsoever? Like my social contacts are nonexistent
>>25299375
I'd like to know this as well
>>25299325
Idk, because usually I've been talking to them for at least a couple days if not a week before the question comes up, and starting a relationship with a big lie like that seems pretty bad, especially when women can claim you raped them if you mislead them into giving you consent
I'd rather not have a woman say yes, find out I lied about being a virgin, and then press charges because I misled her into unsatisfying sex
>>25299375
>>25299395
Stop basing everything you do around getting laid and make actual friends based on actual interests.
>>25299123
Avoid Toronto. Thats my only advice. The women there are stuck up. If you're not going for the girls there's lots of opportunity though. I personally find the city depressing.
>>25298433
27 here, maybe this is a good place to ask about something a bit weird, given how often people in this thread must fap.
Basically, I don't know how to fap for pleasure.
Like, I can eat some chocolate and just accept it, or I can eat the chocolate for the purpose of enjoying it and focus on the flavour and shit like that, and it'll genuinely make me happy.
But I've got no idea how to do that for fapping, I just can't find pleasure in it or anything that I could focus on to make it more enjoyable, any tips?
>>25299375
You pay.
Only 20, but can't see anything happening in the next 5 years. Don't go to college, so no college girls to talk to/meet. No car so no girl would even give me a glance. Also still live with parents.
The only thing I have is a job.
So I'm probably going to have to deal with being KV for another 3-5 years. At least until I get a car and move out.
>>25299406
>"just stop caring xD"
>"just b urself xDDD"
Fuck off and die faggot
>tfw turned prison gay since women have ignored me my entire life
>>25299446
This is actually happening to me.
Help.
>>25299444
No, seriously. There's more to life than getting laid. Go join an anime club or something.
>>25299414
Do you look at porn you like, or anything like that? Do you just do it to get it over with?
Are you busy all the time or something? Because now that I have less free-time, I can't spend as much time enjoying a good fap, so I look forward to it less, and just see it as something to do to help myself sleep.
>>25299412
Not really going for the women. But where would you suggest i get an apartment in?
>>25299397
Is it because of your ideals or something? You won't find women who value virginity or waiting for someone special on dating sites. If anything, they are more judgmental than the average woman since they are probably mostly looking for sex.
Alternatively, if it's not about your beliefs, then just lie and fuck someone to get it over with.
>>25299406
I'm not really but what I want to know is how do you get a girlfriend or make any friends at all when you have nowhere to start off from and the confidence of a rock?
>>25299446
>prison gay
>not embracing cute 2D anime girls
you fucked up senpai
>>25299446
Same here, but it's not like boys want me either.
>>25299414
>But I've got no idea how to do that for fapping,
I find that when I get that sort of fap experience, it's because I got aroused "naturally" by other things and not just getting bored and fapping to fill the time.
Much like how to truly savor chocolate, you have to be in a 'chocolate mood'. To have a good time at the club or pub, you have to WANT to party. With fapping, you have to have someone else get you in the mood and then finish yourself off, pretty much.
>>25299446
>>25299470
Same here, I've actually completely lost interest in fucking women, I just want to be a girl and ride a dick now.
>>25299484
>Do you look at porn you like, or anything like that? Do you just do it to get it over with?
Weirdly, porn doesn't really entertain me. I've tried just about everything in that regard, I used to be on a bit of a quest to find a good fap, and I've still yet to succeed.
>Are you busy all the time or something?
Yes, I didn't leave education until I was 26 and job hunting has kept me busy for the rest of my time. I've not had much free time since like high school.
28. I live in a low income blue collar community so the smart girls go off to college and never move back. The ones that stay usually have their first kid around 19.
It's weird. Here I am a virgin and the girls around me already have kids in grade school. The last girl my family tried to match me with was 26 and had a 8 year old and a 3 year old. Both with different fathers. My friend tried to introduce me to a 25 year old with a 4 year old kid.
At my age and my location I know it's all I'm going to get but I'm not mature enough to be a parent. Especially to one who hates me and doesn't want me their.
>>25299446
>tfw the boypussy craze is being fueled by so many men being lonely and marginalized on the internet that they effectively are forced to modify their sexuality to get any attention whatsoever
>>25299567
>Much like how to truly savor chocolate, you have to be in a 'chocolate mood'. To have a good time at the club or pub, you have to WANT to party. With fapping, you have to have someone else get you in the mood and then finish yourself off, pretty much.
I disagree with the 'chocolate mood' idea, any time I want I can pick up some chocolate and enjoy it.
>>25299535
>Too fucking autistic to lose kiss virginity to either gender
Just fucking kill me already
>>25299492
the point is that they ask me something along these lines
>"how about your ex's anon? are you on good terms with them?"
and I say
>"oh, no, I've never had any ex's, I guess we're on really good terms lol"
she says
>"that's a little weird, did you not have sex either"
>"no, I'm a virgin actually"
and then she's gone into the wind
I guess I could just not answer or lie through my teeth, but she's going to be even more upset if she finds out I lied to her
the point is I'm not asking her about their sexual past, they bring it up, they ask me, and then I get dropped when I don't pass the test
really shitty way to end it, and I have no real control other than lying or not answering
>>25299446
It happens. My advice is not to worry about it too much.
>>25299583
Don't settle for raising someone else's child, you're better than that, you must be
>>25299446
>>25299571
Either of you want a boyfriend? I just want someone to love me.
31, virgin, kissed a couple girls in high school
No, I'll never lose it, gave up on women entirely a couple years ago.
I'm 26, almost 27, never even kissed a girl.
Haven't lost hope yet, not sure why, maybe delusional. Anyway I've got plans to be better than I am. Money is my biggest problem right now.
I think actually getting a girlfriend will be the biggest challenge. Acquiring one and getting comfortable with it. I've tried to hit up r9cuties but they're skittish as all hell. Which is fine. Gives me more time to get my shit together.
I think if I hit 30, that'll be the moment when it sinks in, but for now, I'm just young and beautiful and living life!
no especially not now since i'm on a wheelchair 28
>>25299645
Can I ask, how did you have the confidence to get girls to kiss in high school but you haven't had the confidence to go one step further since then?
>>25299692
I'd love you even if you were in a wheelchair but you probably wouldn't want a boyfriend.
Is 25 really the expiration date of youth? I haven't even lived yet. I haven't had a youth, not really.
>>25299606
I dunno, I find to really enjoy sweets I have to be in that kind of mood or I just wolf them down and feel as unsatisfied as I do after a boredom fap, but w/e
I'm sure you get what I mean, yeah?
>>25299586
I've actually noticed that lately, I'm hearing more guys profess that they Really Really Like 2d stuff like monster girls, and a lot more dudes coming after my own prime virgin (but e-z to penetrate because I toy a lot) boypucci
>>25299640
After hormones anon, I am fat neckbeard at the moment
>>25299692
Damn, that sucks m8.
>>25299729
>I'm sure you get what I mean, yeah?
Yeah, although I never really get into those moods.
>>25298433
I want to have a girlfriend
but I never want to go outside or otherwise communicate with other people
what do /r9k/
>inb4 kill yourself
>>25299729
>go there with Ditto stupid
Fucking roasted. I wasn't expecting burns that sick out of furry porn.
>On Omegle I ask if I should kill myself because I'm a 25-year-old unemployed virgin that lives with my parents
>all sorts of supportive answers
>add in that I'm a virgin male
>everyone is telling me to kill myself
So sick of this double-standard.
>>25299740
I dont care about looks.
>>25299692
How many times have you been called "hotwheels" in your life?
>>25299623
You have to admit that someone never having had a relationship is kind of weird. Kind of like you would make assumptions about single mothers. Things might not always be a horror story and there might be a reasonable explanation for it but you still kind of feel like backing away.
>>25299729
I love boypussy, and even fell in love with a boy once, but I hate that I'm not straight and it makes me wish I were dead sometimes.
>>25299782
Embrace the 2D life
I find single moms are accepting of virgins. All the okcupid girls I've talked to shit down when they find out. But the single moms all say it's cute and endearing. It helps that I'm average looking with a job though. I know that they really just want someone to help with the bills and kids and are lowering their standards but I can't afford to have any of my own either. We're both just two undesirable people settling for not being lonely over being in love.
>>25298547
Honestly you're putting way too much hype on it. It's fun and it feels great but that's all it is. You are still going to be the same nervous beta you were, you'll just find something else to agonize over instead of your virginity
>>25298583
> I just want to get rid of this so I can move on and stop feeling so inferior to everyone around me.
Will having sex just once do that? Will having sex with one woman, once, suddenly catapult you into the realms of normality? If not, then how many girls? How much sexual experience?
I'm just skeptical that just the act of losing your virginity will really fix your feelings of inadequacy.
>>25299817
There's way better things to hate about yourself than just liking guys. Not being able to do sick drifts, not being able to shoot a gun, not knowing how to fish or hunt, not being within a certain BMI range... But liking dicks? Pretty much all animals smarter than particularly small dogs go for some homolust once in a while.
>>25299816
Men aren't concerned with the single mother's story.
They're concerned that by becoming involved with her they will end up expending time and resources on another man's offspring.
Being strange or ackward doesn't count against women like it does against a man. Are you an obese amputee that just can't stop eating cakes? There's men out there for you.
>>25298433
29 with three months until wizardhood. I lost weight and got fit and I'm getting a lot of female attention, especially from stupid little giggling teenagers. Maybe I can do it. If I can put aside my general contempt for people for long enough and if I can ignore my own self disgust at stooping to fucking a dumb as shit teen girl.
Just turned 25 like two weeks ago.
Still KV.
If I had to bet, I don't think I'll ever lose it, but I'm not ready to completely write off the possibility.
>>25299916
The sort of people that fish and hunt or shoot guns would not take kindly to being around a queer, just so you know, anon-chan.
>>25299816
at a certain point it becomes a cycle
>no gf because no experience and awkward
>awkward because no relationship experience
>virgin because no gf
>no gf because virgin
it feeds into itself, even if they don't want anything to do with me, people like them not wanting to be with me are the reason I'm like this and this person doesn't want to be with me
it's fucking impossible to escape the cycle after about age 20 or so
after college and the supposed "easy sex" there, it's basically impossible
it's like entry level jobs asking for 5 years of experience, just fucking absurd and insane
>>25298457
backstory needed
>>25299939
At least wait until you ascend to wizardhood before selling your power for worthless pussy
>>25299970
If they've got a problem, then they don't have to hang out with me. And if they wanna start some shit, fuck it, I'm calling the cops. I've had enough of people starting shit they're not willing to end, they can end it in the back of a cruiser.
>>25300048
Fishing and hunting is also really, really fucking boring.
Being a furry of either sexual orientation is worse than being a regular homo, though.
>>25299446
I find men absolutely disgusting sexually since biologically I have to be heterosexual (I'd rather just be asexual and have no desire to be with anyone) but in terms of a person who I can relate to emotionally or politically or whatever, I think I can only feel close to a male even though I'd never really want to be with one in any physical sense.
The closest I can feel to maybe being with a woman I can love and respect would be a hypothetically super intelligent AI with a female personality or someone imaginary like Tomoko from Watamote.
Anyone else feel this way?
>>25299258
I never ask about a girls partners and if she asks about mine I just say I don't want to know your sexual past and you don't want to know mine. Which is technically true. They still leave though. But at least it's because I'm boring and uninteresting and not because of my virginity.
29 KHV, fattening manlet, below average looks, socially retarded, poor, nerd interests, boring do-nothing non-personality, unfunny, chronically exhausted.
I'm completely and absolutely fucked.
>>25300082
>Tomoko from Watamote.
HORRIBLE waifu. Terrible, disgusting character.
Also, there are men that look like girls; would you fuck them? I would.
>>25300072
>Fishing
I did it when I was a kid and it was nice. Granted, it was more about the family outing than sitting there untangling a hook from whatever pile of garbage in the water it got caught on.
>Hunting
Never did it and never particualrly want to just because I don't have much of a taste for red meat and anything I'd kill would be wasted, but I've shot guns before and am mad interested in target shooting. It's very relaxing and very zen, lots of self-awareness and trying to shut out distractions to do one very, very simple thing that works out to being pretty hard in practice.
>Being a furry of either sexual orientation is worse than being a regular homo, though.
What's it to you, homo? If you wanna start a fight about it, I'm not going to fight you, I'm gonna grab a witness and call the cops because I'm already sick of your shit and would rather not deal with it
>>25300143
Then why did you mention hunting at all?
Also, no one is going to do anything to you; just remember that furries are disgusting even to other serious freaks, and that the only people that will ever expect you are other creepy furries.
But, at least you're not into babyfur and diapers.....right?
>>25298772
>dropped out of high school and have been NEET for nearly a decade
>will also be a 26 year old KV when that decade of NEEThood rolls around
>>25300194
>Then why did you mention hunting at all?
Basic woodsmanship seems like something important to know for a Good Man. I'm a little ashamed I'm so shit with anything outside of city life, to be honest, family.
>Also, no one is going to do anything to you;
Well, I don't go around yelling from the rooftops what kinds of things I fap toor draw. But I'm generally tired enough of shit going bad that if someone overhears me talking about who or what I like and gets offended enough to start a fight, I'm not gonna bother putting up my fists, I'm just gonna call security. I don't have the time or energy for that shit anymore, and I'm surprised anyone ever did. Even in high school, getting into fights was tiresome before it began.
>But, at least you're not into babyfur and diapers.....right?shhh
Can anybody tell me KHV means? I get 'kissless virgin' but the H is lost on me
>>25300377
Hugless
>>25300264
You drew furshit in public?
You serious, familia?
>>25300377
Hugless
The most sublime of virgin.
29 here. As long as I don't think about it, I don't start crying anymore. I think that's a step in the right direction.
>>25300377
I think it means "Hugless" or "Handhold-less". During /r9k/'s revival post-deletion, there was a bit of an arms race for who had done the least with a girl ever, and those two seemed to be about as low as it gets before just not having any contact at all. It's also about when KHV became a popular phrase here.
I'm 23 and I moved to a new town that I don't know anyone in and haven't met anyone in the 7 months I have lived here.
I've already come to terms with dying along.
>>25300412
Are you ugly?
Fellow virgin robots, how many of you are unversed in sexual adulthood because of your facial problems?
I suspect most of us are just in weird, persistent situations that involve isolation and social anxiety. I myself am just average-looking.
>>25300472
I think I'm ugly. I'm also fat and I have a horrible personality.
I also have a self esteem issue.
>>25300472
Nah, I know it's because my face is vile
I've basically been told I'm too ugly to socialise
>>25300406
>You drew furshit in public?
The phrase was literally
>Well, I don't go around yelling from the rooftops what kinds of things I fap to or draw.
How stupid do you have to be to have taken that as
>I drew furshit in public
Nigga I don't even draw bar taps or trees I see in public because I'm so embarrassed of my line work, let alone going and drawing busty fox babes shitting in peoples mouths for five bucks apiece
>>25300472
I can't even tell if I'm ugly. No one has called me ugly, but only old women have called me attractive.
Isolation and anxiety are probably the causes for my current state, more than my looks.
>>25299711
I didn't have confidence in high school, it just kinda happened with two girls I talked to.
My family is poor, so I went to community college where you don't meet anyone. Ended up wageslaving, and here we are.
>>25300472
Not that guy, but don't think I'm ugly. Probably average, possibly with the potential to be slightly above average if I put some effort into my hair, clothing, and getting fit.
>I suspect most of us are just in weird, persistent situations that involve isolation and social anxiety.
This is basically it for me. Things just didn't work out very well and it's too late to start over now at almost 26 years old.
>>25300129
I will never understand why anyone is against someone so wonderful. She's so perfectly flawed she doesn't exist anywhere, which is why I'll never meet anyone like her.
Physically I have to like women and emotionally I think I have more potentially in common with men. Those men who look like girls want to look and act like women who I can't relate to in any way. Sex to me really isn't important anyway.
Ideally I'd like either an insecure woman or a woman who is smart enough to want to or be able to change things for the better. Women just don't seem like they will ever be able to change the world on a large scale or know what it's like to be lonely for their entire lives. Those are two things I can admire and love in a person.
And I know the "change the world for the better" requirement sounds strange, but I mean even from a historical or fantasy perspective women like that are unimaginable. They just follow along after men already did everything. I'm not trying to sound sexist but where are these women who change society for the better? I swear the feminist movement makes them look insanely selfish and horrible. It's ruining the female gender in my mind.
>>25300517
The fact that you talked about it and actually got into fights or beaten for it lead me to believe you actually did draw it in public, because I find it hard to believe someone overhearing that you like furshit is enough for them to go apeshit on you in class.
>busty fox babes shitting peoples mouths for five bucks apiece
What do you do when people ask what you do for a living? DO they even ask anymore?
>be a kissless, hugless virgin
>28 years old
>having constant suicidal thoughts
>decide I need a change
>join AF
>get through basic, do good at work
>still don't have friends
>still don't have gf
>slowly start to get back into my old rut
>thoughts come back
I never asked for this.
>26
>khv
I've accepted that I'll be alone until I die, and that will hopefully be soon.
>>25300633
>The fact that you talked about it and actually got into fights or beaten for it
you are legit illiterate, my man, where did I say those things happened
I got in fights in high school and people in bars have talked a ton of shit, but I never said it was about furfaggotry
>>25300663
Also, everyone in the military is a chad, even the ugly people. I'm surrounded by more successful members of humanity than I am.
>>25298926
Go lecture people on /adv/.
>>25300779
WRONG. I'm in the military and I'm not a chad. I'm not gonna sell myself short, but I'm a faggot nerd who spends his time mostly just playing XCOM and dicking around with modding tools. Never had a gfor bf, kisslessexcept for a time forced I didn't wantvirgin, all that.
>>25300925
W-will you be my friend?Are you stationed in Alaska?
>>25299894
So doing it with someone that actually means something to you and not some random slag is stupid? I really rather wait another 27 years than do that.
>>25300973
>W-will you be my friend?
Sure but don't expect a lot of effort, it's not like I have any games on steam because I'm a poverty stricken faggot who only owns a hard copy of The Orange Box and that's about it
>Are you stationed in Alaska?
No I'm Canadian
>>25301114
We have canadians at our base all the time for training. They mostly speak French and are very polite.
>>25299414
...Just edged for a while, didn't really find anything to focus on.
Any other ideas?
>>25301183
Well, I've never been there. I've only been to Victoria because I'm still an OS.
>>25301240
I find vehicle games are a good thing to do when I'm pent up. Forza, Ace Combat, that sort of thing. It's something about fast, high-execution movement, man. Even fighting games, if I'm playing rekka (or otherwise cancel-heavy) characters with forward-travelling moves.
>>25300712
What did you get into fights over, then? Being a queer?
>>25299008
>>25299217
Video related for you, insecure normie scum
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuONuafxwk
>>25301375
In high school, just typical high school squabbles getting out of hand. It happened maybe twice at most. Still felt more like "I don't really care this much about what's going on" than "Oh no I've made a mistake and am getting the shit beat out of me now" though.
Never got in a genuine fight at a bar. I don't let disagreements get that far. I do not have the time or energy for that shitand apparently have a disarming face or personality or something because the only time people follow me is to get at dat boypucci(at which point I still say "if you keep following me, I'm flagging down a squad car and if it doesn't stop I'm going to push you in front it it"
>>25301514
Is your boypussy really that good? If it's that good, why haven't you let anyone stab it yet?
>>25301577
>not remaining pure for the one you love
wow get out of /r9k/ roastie
but seriously, I haven't felt like it yet. I'm not a slut, you know.
>>25301682
But only sluts go to bars, 4real. You're also gay, and most gay people are legit sluts.
What you're doing is cockteasing poor nerds with your BP. That's not a very robotic thing to do, now is it?
>roastie
You can't be serious
>>25298433
No, I think I'm pretty much fucked. If I had a college degree or some money it would be different, but poor + limited prospects + socially incompetent + acne scarring is a pretty unattractive cocktail.
On the bright side, it hurts much less now than it did even 2-3 years ago
>>25298551
>>25300014
alright, I'm back. basically, I had (have) severe mental problems/schizophrenia/depression during all of high school onwards. this made me lack the social skills I needed to form relationships. I never had friends. he was a confusing and difficult time for me, and a lot of my problems stem from that time.
fast forward to start of college. I think, this is it, I can escape high school life. I ask a girl out. she tells me that she doesn't want to date me because I'm "creepy and serial killerish." she then tells her friends about me and laughs at me for the rest of college pretty much. I stop trying to get a gf around this point. jump into studies and don't look back.
fast forward to graduation. I get my degree (accounting) and become a wageslave. I try to talk with women at work. never get anywhere. guess I still exude too much serial killer vibe. I throw myself into my wageslavery to forget.
the next 20ish years are a blur. the same thing every day. I liked the internet when it first started. let you talk to people without being social. I eventually found 4chan around 2004 or so. thought it was pretty weird at first, but I got used to it. I used to think anime was for weird kids, but now I've watched it almost every week.
Now I'm here. 48 years old, turning 49 in August, living in a tiny flat, working a dead-end job. really the only thing I ever find pleasure in is hobbies. I bought myself a cheap electric guitar for Christmas and I've been trying to teach myself lately.
so that's it. try to avoid becoming me if you're younger than 30. there's still time.
>>25301734
those are some hot opinions my man let me file them away for later viewing
>What you're doing is cockteasing poor nerds with your BP.
maybe they should try not being terrible if they want my bp
there are nerd people I'd bend over for, not fake CK nerds but actual real /tg/ and /v/ types,they just tend to have girlfriends for some reason ( ; '^')
>tfw Ive had a gf for over a month (first one) and still haven't kissed her
>>25301803
OP here.
Shit brah, that's really rough. I'm sorry.
At least you found anime, though. It really is the ultimate escapism. Do you like watching cute girls doing cute things too?
At 48, do you still jerk off and stuff? Or is your sex drive pretty diminished?
My condolences, friend.
I'm 18 and I don't think I will ever kiss anyone.
No idea why some of you guys are sad, just accept it
>>25301803
What's your power level nigger?
>>25301803
This post made me so depressed. I'm a 25 kv who just finished college and I feel like I'm reading what my future life is going to be.
>>25301976
Because you're just 18.
I wish there was a girl who would give me a chance.
>>25301976
>18
Christ, you're just a fucking baby, anon. You know in your heart you'll kiss someone unlike any of us losers. You're just stealth-bragging.
>>25301976
>meet up with childhood friends and they're all in happy, long-term relationships
>see people only a few years older than you talking about their newborn kids
>every novel, movie, etc. where the emergence of a loving relationship is part of the story's resolution
>hear older people reminisce about how wonderful their youths were and how everyone that age should find someone to spend it with
>receive worried, sympathetic, patronizing looks from everyone in a conversation when the subject moves to dating or marriage
>holidays where people are encouraged to spend time with loved ones
and so on. it's not as bad when you can avoid interacting with people (which I try to do), but realistically you're going to be reminded all the time.
>>25302124
Nah man, my social skills are god awful.
It will never happen but at least we'll have VR waifus in the futures
>>25302167
I wish I believed you.
Turn 25 in 21 days and am traveling fit holidays. Will the course of my life be determined in these 1.5 fortnights?
27
No.
I refuse to settle for used goods so I'm pretty fucked.
>>25298433
25, I feel so superior just being a virgin, I've actually kissed a woman and unsuccessfully fingered one.
>>25302408
How does an unsuccessful fingering go? Wrong hole?
25, almost 26.
No. I'm 5'1'' and zero social skills. I really desire girls and sex but the only possibility would be hiring a whore.
>>25301803
Why not just buy it?
>>25302434
well it was my first and only time with a girl we made out I kissed who boobs neck and shit she took her pants off I slipped who panties off she just layed there I rubbed her vagina hole a bit and it just sort of ended I don't know it was two years ago. She was a thin tawainese girl, american of course born here, had that arty hipster look. Never made it to fuck still regret it.
29 here
I had a "girlfriend" and kissed her in Grade 1. Went downhill from there.
I don't think I'll ever lose it, but I also don't think losing it would be a nice thing either. Sex looks and sounds gross from everything I've seen, with a lot of squishy noises (I watched a solo masturbation scene with a woman with the sound on and nearly threw up) and smells and fluids and things that could go wrong.
>Out with friends
>Friend asks if I've ever had
>Other friend jumps in to defend me and says I have
>I'm 25
Friend who thought/knew I was a virgin also assumes I could hookup with 8/10's so I guess I really just need to work on my socializing
>>25302711
>Other friend jumps in to defend me and says I have
Mfw my shitty friends like to expose my virginity to everyone.
Anyway, I used to tell girls in college I was a virgin because I thought I could get pity sex.
I'm giving it one last ditch attempt in 2016.
Gonna fix my looks, work on my social skills, put myself on Tindr.
If things don't work out, I'll give up for life. At least I will know for sure I'm unlovable and maybe stop hating myself for it.
>>25298790
Big dildos
>>25302948
>Anyway, I used to tell girls in college I was a virgin because I thought I could get pity sex.
So I gather it didn't work?
Damn it, that was my fallback option.
Ill be 25 in a few days, does that count?
I think if I made the effort to go out and meet people I would lose it, but I'd rather be a lazy piece of shit and play video games and masturbate every day.
>>25303063
It didn't, but I'm ugly to be quite honest. I guess pity sex can work if you are more or less handsome.
25 KV here, turning 26 next month. I'm a KV because my game plan with women is usually as follows
>Hm, she looks cute
>Welp, I sure do hope she initiates literally everything because I'm far too passive and shy for that shit
Doesn't help I usually keep to myself and don't talk to anyone unless I have to
25 in a few days.
No. Nobody cares, at all. I'm fat and male, so I'm extremely disposable. I'm employed, educated, have hobbies and my own place. But clean skin, white teeth and all the independence in the world means nothing if you are overweight.
No woman has ever invited me out anywhere, I have never been flirted with. I have never been asked about my relationship situation. I'm utterly invisible to all things estrogen based.
Even fat girls believe they deserve a Chad.
Im 25 and i take it in the ass, enjoy life boys.
>>25302500
I don't really care about sex at this point. I just want somebody else in my life. sex would just be a bonus.
>>25302019
chin up lad, you're 25. you've got tons of time.
>>25301989
47
>>25301897
I tend to watch all sorts of stuff. I only like cute girls in small doses- any more and I start feeling weird.
don't have a sex drive anymore. no desire for it.
thanks for your condolences bratan.
27 year old kv here.
I'll never lose it.
Kissing seems gross to me.
I'm not interested in having actual sex.
I think vaginas are gross and the thought of having sex doesn't arouse me at all. I can't even fap to it.
I also lack the desire to be in a relationship.
I'm fairly confident that I could lose my virginity and have a relationship if I tried but I'm just not interested.
>>25298433
>almost all hope
what does exactly give you hope at this point? I'm honestly interested
Holy fuck this thread is depressing
>>25304777
check'd my wizard friend
>>25304822
>>25304811
>>25304777
>>25302711
>>25302500
>>25301755
>>25301577
>>25300633
>>25300511
>>25300500
>>25300399
>>25300377
>>25300044
>>25299911
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>>25299711
>>25299488
>>25299444
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>>25298855
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>>25298433
observing these repeating digits ATM
well done lads
>>25299356
Where in southern ontario, and are you a qt fembot?
>>25298433
I'll be able to join you lads in about four years. I look forward to being able to post with the best of the best.
>>25301803
This is why you should never resort to wageslaving
>>25305288
wasn't really the wagekekery that caused it 2bh. being a social sperglord/schizo will do it no matter if you're NEET or a ceo.
>>25304966
Magnifique
>>25300472
I am realistically a 5 or a 6. Biggest reason for being single is that I don't leave my house outside of work and refuse to bother with online dating.
I just don't care at this point. I missed out on teen love, and I deeplyand wronglybelieve that's the only kind of love worth experiencing.
>>25298986
People go on the offensive when you say stupid shit.
>>25300472
Girls have called me ugly. Also I'm short as fuck.
Socially, even though I have made the effort to socialize I always felt like a ghost: I can't form strong bonds and people inmediatly forget about me.
I have noticed that normies' conversations are based on sharing experience and I don't have any life experience. A few times I had interesting conversations with girls with similar tastes, but eventually there was nothing more to say about those topics and we would end up stuck in unconfortable silences because I didn't have personal experiences to share and keep the conversation alive.
26
white, 6', fit with an ok face
I had several chances in highschool and a few in adulthood. For some reason though I'm terrified of intimacy, I think the closeness of someone freaks me out because they have expectations and I don't know how to meet them. A girl stole a kiss when I was 18 and I pushed her away and pretty much ran. If girls approach or talk to me I act like an aloof idiot and try to get out of there as soon as I can before I say something stupid. I guess I'm also kind of afraid of girls in general, the closer to my age the more so.
I can't see myself ever losing it unless I get extremely drunk or something but I doubt that happening as I have never been to a social event. I'd actually rather have a good friend or two more than a gf but at my age even the fat autists have experienced a relationship or two and god forbid are even married/have kids. That means it would be virtually impossible to empathize with them. Being a virgin usually doesn't bother me as I'm kind of an unhappy person in general and I don't sense my answer being among women.
How many of you were raised by single mothers?
>>25304811
Sure is. What a sad world senpai
>>25299065
At least you're funny dude
25 nearing 26. I fucked up pretty bad. Had a handful of girls that were wife material that I brushed off when I was younger. Now I'll probably be alone forever as I'm balding pretty badly.
Live and learn.
>tfw got first kiss at 16
the relief was immense but tb.h its a curse in some ways, only 18 but once you've had your first kiss you want more of it way more than before
>>25301803
Is it really that bad though? I'd be pretty content with a studio apartment paid off while passing the days in a mediocre job. Come home with no obligations and just watch movies, sports and play video games and drink all night. Can't be all that bad.
>>25298433
>Do you think you'll EVER lose it?
No. Not without paying for it
>Do you think anyone will ever even kiss you?
No.
At this point, I'm so far along that I don't really even care about it much anymore.
>>25304966
nice
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>>25305852
Don't take my photos to memepost you flaming homosexual.
>>25306617
>my photos
I made that pic anon
Had to come in and ask, why don't you all just go to Vegas/Europe and get a hooker?
Just save up a few thousand for a trip. Fly over on Mexico airlines. Wham, bam, thank you mam. Wizardry averted.
Take it from a guy who's been in three relationships: women are cheaper by the hour. Just do it.
>>25298457
>>25298551
>>25300014
>>25301803
Is anyone else getting some strong dejavu from these posts? Is it pasta?
>>25306669
>implying I didn't have the idea first
I congratulate you on your good taste however.
26 kissless handholdless virgin.
I dont know if I will get kissed anytime soon maybe once I'm 30 and have a job.
I dont really sweat it though I just dont think about it and it makes me 10x happier then if I loathe about my pathetic existence. I need to keep my vital essence on the inside and focus on the one source-God of pure love and transcend this filthy physical plain of existence anyways.
>>25300261
Same, senpai. Suicide pact?
>>25302541
>I don't think I'll ever lose it, but I also don't think losing it would be a nice thing either. Sex looks and sounds gross
This is my opinion as well. I'm 26
>>25299711
Not that guy, but some girl invited me over to her house. I said why not because honestly I would either draw or play video games on my spare time, also that it was the first time any woman showed interest in me.
We were in her room and sitting on her bed with two of her friends on the other side of the room. They turned up the music and her friends began making out. She pushed me onto the bed and started making out.
I never had the initiative/balls to go into a kiss or sex. While I may not be a kissless virgin, I am still a 28 year old virgin and I don't really see it ever changing.
To say that I might still have an edge because a woman once thought of me as attractive enough to kiss wouldn't really apply now. Only reason why a girl would be interested in me back then was due to the fact I had long hair. Eventually my hair line began to recede and the top began to thin so I ended up shaving it to the skin so the long hair edge is no longer there as well.
>>25306711
Some people are too betas for hookers.
>>25306711
Because it means the only way a woman will ever spend time with you is if it is their job.
Sure with other ways they will still try or will leech money from you, but at least they voluntarily choose you that moment.
25 virgin here
Honestly I'm probably too autistic/socially unskilled to ever get that far with a girl. FFS I don't even know how to flirt unless I am fairly drunk and make a clumsy attempt.
>>25299640
I'll be your boyfriend, anon.
>>25298433
27 KHV
No.
If I ever meet any of the people I work with online, I might ask one of them to at least show me what it's like to kiss. I don't have a terribly ugly face, so I think they'd indulge me.
I decided to start becoming an ex-landwhale this year and my body is fucking wrecked. Some people compliment or say lewd things when I do happen to post a picture of progress, but they don't realize how ugly I really look under my clothes.
>be 27
>kissless
>lost virginity to a prostitute
>lost 90kg of fat and gained muscle
>lost hair
>not bald, but front of head is see through
>turned asexual last year
>given up
I'm 25 yo, 5'6", overweight, have immense amounts of body hair but my head is basically bald at this point. My personality is far too aggressive, I feel like I'm screaming half the time and the other half of the time I'm laughing at literally nothing. I'm a NEET and even worse, I'm a NEET with no hobbies who doesn't even watch anime. I waste all my fucking time on DC/Marvel capeshit and then lash out at normies who have coopted the only thing I have. I'm pathetic, even by this board's standards.
I'm going to be in catering all my life I can tell. 25 and its already over.
Fucking hell I would end it but I can't do that to my family. It is my fault, not theirs.
>>25298433
>>25298433
26 here.
>Do you think you'll EVER lose it?
I think I could reasonably lose it within the year if I drop some body fat (I lift, currently 235 lbs. and 20%. Not fat by any means but not good enough to get a younger girl) get a haircut and some skin treatment to clear up my face.
Also, I plan on making a cougarlife account. The only women I can seem to gain the intrigue or respect of is older women. It's been this way for all of my 20s. I just can't seem to connect with younger girls and it's all due to three factors:
>my looks
>their attitudes
>their their expectations
Since I'm not pretty by your average young girl's standards, they all treated me like shit. Not to mention their ridiculous standards and how much work they expect you to put in, only for it all to go by the wayside in a split second when a conventionally handsome Chad looks in their direction.
Just trying to have a conversation with a younger girl is like pulling teeth, not to mention just how much they insult your intelligence. They tell you things like "it's all about confidence", "be yourself" and "looks don't matter" while chasing Chad. It's all bullshit.
It made me so angry, that I basically swore off women (even the older ones that would show interest in me) since I turned 23. I've been out of the dating game since then. Let's just say that college was a sobering experience and I legit hated all women for a while.
But why fight it anymore? If I can only gain the interest of older women, so be it. Soon as I improve, I'm going full milf/cougar hunting. Might as well use it to my advantage.
Do you think anyone will ever even kiss you?
Yes. Gonna land me a hot milf at the gym.
>>25308210
can you tell me about tis picture?
>>25310876
Old guy dies in airport, nobody really notices, monk shows up and prays for him.
>decided to turn life around on 25th birthday
>lost virginity by the time I was 26
>am now 30 and have done pretty okay with girls
>still working on some stuff
>see this thread
>flooded with misery and defeatism
Learn social skills
Learn pua
>b-but I don't look like chad
Neither does the other 99% of the population that can have a normal sex life.
Fuck you for using this excuse.
>>25310971
Not all of us just want to get laid though. I have no interest in PUA. I'd rather be alone if I can't find a wonderful woman who would truly love me for who I am.
>>25298547
I'm kissless for the same reason, I'm super autistic about virginity shit.
>>25310971
>be failed-normie for 25 years
>come here to brag about it and give worthless advice
>I did it so you can too!
Fuck you for thinking you belong here.
>inb4 some sob story about how life was so hard for you
>>25310971
I want a partner not a living fleshlight
Finishing 25 this very day. I know I could lose it or even get a gf relatively easily but I no longer care.
>>25311043
PUA is a tool, you use that tool for whatever you see fit. If you want to bang clubsluts then do that, if you want to try to find a wife, then do that. I used it because I didn't have a dad to teach me any of this stuff and I had literally no idea what I was doing
Also these days it has a lot of overlap with general self-improvement, because a lot of guys get into it to get girls and end up improving their lives as a byproduct.
Try this: http://bookzz.org/s/?q=models+mark+manson
>>25311118
To me being susceptible to PUA would automatically make a woman not suitable to be my wife, therefore it's impossible to use it as a tool for finding a good wife.
>>25311298
>susceptible
I can see why you have reservations.
pua is about you, not the girl. Its about you overcoming the problems that make you so inept with women.
It's not about tricking shitty low-self-esteem sluts, who are "susceptible" to cheap tricks and psychological routines, into sleeping with you. That perception of pua is about 10 years out of date. Now its a broad field that encompasses many different philosophies, styles and goals.
You can find a flavour that you like and use it to improve your life. The book I linked is about attracting women through honesty and being happy, its pretty fucking wholesome desu.
But whatever, read it or don't. I can lead a horse to water but I can't make it drink. But you're a fool to dismiss something that could help you based on your preconceptions.
>>25298433
I had hopes and lived a normal life -decent looking, sociable but awkward in groups-, but when I started PhD, I lost all the interest. Most of the women around are pretty annoying, and if you don't participate in modern mating rituals you just don't have any chance.
I just lost hope, in 26 years I've never actually met someone I dearly liked, and I don't think it's going to happen either.
>>25311455
I admit I shouldn't have discounted the idea so quickly.
The "Attract Women Through Honesty" one seems to have been deleted, but I'm reading through the "Comprehensive Guide to Attracting Women" now.
So far, it doesn't seem very wholesome, but I'll continue anyway.
This is complicated stuff, and so many of you guys really make me feel. As a 22yo with my fair share of experience i want to reply to so many but it's not easy. But here he goes.
First and foremost spending all your free time in front of your computer instead of meeting with people will get you nowhere. If you have a small to none social life you should try to get away from whatever stinky place you are at, and link up with someone, anyone.
Real life friends is the essence to meeting new people right? Making 1 friend is enough company to go places, and see more people. If you think you lack social skills but you're not an autist, you didn't practice enough on real people. Some just have to take the long route and things can get awkward. WHATEVER! Things get awkward and we deal with it. People are usually nice, and if not they are washed-up inbreds not worthy of your time in the first place.
If you are into music there are probably events being hosted near you. The rave culture is really awesome and most of the bigger genres have their own type of scene. I'm really into psytrance so i keep on struggling with my life for those moments. My only plan in life right now is that I'm going to India whenever i can afford it, maybe with my brother or a friend but possibly alone.
Try something new! Find something you like or even something to love, and hold on to it. Not anime and shitposting. Don't take everything so seriously. Basic stuff, do the best out of your situation.
PLUR
>>25311902
>22 year old.
>posting in a thread for 25+
>feels as though they are in a position to give advice.
Basic reading comprehension failure. Embarrassing.
are there EVER any girls who are over 25 and virgins as well or am I delusional?
I feel like even the fattest ugliest women could still get banged by chads, meanwhile we all suffer.
>>25311902
wow look at this normie trash
>>25311932
People still need advice and questions have gone unanswered. Sorry you feel ashamed of me, you should've stopped reading when you saw that i'm 22yo.
>>25311902
It's just really, really difficult to make a friend when you have none. Meeting people can only be done in extremely awkward ways when you have no existing social contacts. This is what stops me.
>>25299894
this is 100 percent the truth
>>25312184
I hear how this is difficult. Meeting and making friends online is possible too, through games or whatever. Something that keeps you going in the direction you want to go. But yeah as i said this is complicated stuff, now when i think about it my post probably had the same effect on the other robots as it had on you. There is great chances of meeting someone.
If you think it's that extremely awkward, and you have thought so for a long time. Maybe it's time to seek professional help?
I had a similar struggle myself at age 16 after a drug-induced psychosis, but my problem was more in the way of not understanding other peoples behaviour and them(i thought and always assumed) not understanding me.
Are you really all alone in this world? You are on this board, probably lots of people on here that wants to meet with you. Just saying.
>>25301803
For a moment I honestly thought you were my dad, and then I remembered the whole point of the post is that you're a virgin.
>>25312050
Yeah, I'll be 28 a few months.
>>25312315
The chance of meeting someone online who happens to live near my small town within this gigantic world is basically zero.
I had many online friends back in my RuneScape days. I still have one who's stuck with me for a decade, and he means a lot to me, but he can't help me when it comes to doing things locally, meeting local people, and turning my life around.
As far as I can find, my area also has no hobby groups or anything else I could use for meeting people aside from church which doesn't help someone non-religious like myself.
>>25301071
How many robots honestly believe that all of their problems will vanish once they got laid? Many, that's the problem, because it doesn't change shit.
>>25312485
>The chance of meeting someone online who happens to live near my small town within this gigantic world is basically zero.
Learn some useful marketable non-wagecuck skill, get a job in a city, move there, have access to girls.
>>25303302
Want to work on that?
