Why don't all the robot virgins here simply hire escorts? Save up a couple hundred bucks and get a high quality non drug addicted/clean escort? I seriously feel for you guys, I read how lonely and desperate some of you are and it hurts. I have a lot of empathy for people suffering like this.I want to help. Or at the very least understand your plight better. If I can make one persons Christmas just a little bit better, or take a little bit of your pain upon myself, or even share in that hurt with you. I'd like to do so
>>25253935
>If I can make one persons Christmas just a little bit better
Kinda late for that. All the good escorts are riding chad at a holiday discount.
>>25253935
But I don't want just sex. I want a gf who will understand, support and like me.
>>25253935
Empty sex with someone who sees me as pathetic would not end my lonliness, and I'm not willing to pay for sex anyway
I really appreciate your words, although I'm sure that within a month you'll have found someone new to "empathise" with
Don't worry anon, most of us aren't planning to shoot up your school
>>25254085
Have you tried online dating?
>>25254087
No, it wouldn't end your loneliness. Don't you think it would boost your confidence though? Perhaps motivate you to take more chances when it comes to the opposite sex? I really am sincere, I know 4chan isn't the best place to find that but this is a cause close to my heart and something I've witnessed for many years. My best friend/roomate is a 26 year old virgin but he refuses to talk to me about it. I know it causes him pain but he simply won't open up or accept advice or even just let me be there for him.
If you're just gonna pretend, may as well jack to VNs in the comfort of your cave
Hookers are too expensive for me right now. Maybe when I graduate college.
A GF will also score you sex multiple times a week. Compared to affording a hooker like once a month or less.
>>25254234
I disagree, and fuck-count wise i'm in my mid 40's. I pay for sex all the time, not in the sense of "Here's money, get on your knees". Every god damn dating period leading up to sex itself I'm shelling out mucho denero. This one chick I shit you not I spent about $1000 over the course of 2 months before we had sex. It's roundabout prostitution anyways, I don't think you guys should be ashamed to pay for it and I legitimately believe it would help your mental health and general self confidence. You sit around feeling worthless when,REAL TALK, a good percentage of you guys are great people. Granted, there are some total sick fucks that deserve to be alone on here but that's not the case for a lot of you.
>>25254210
I doubt it, I'd be so unconfident with the escort she'd probably refund me and leave before we even got started
I become much more confident with alcohol though, so one day if I'm really desperate I think I could manage a one night stand
I don't really want that though, maybe that's hard to believe but it's the truth
>>25254210
>Have you tried online dating?
HOLY SHIT SON! HOW DID YOU COME UP WITH THIS AMAZING IDEA ALL BY YOURSELF?!
>>25253935
"non drug addicted clean escort"
lel, good luck finding one of those. you realize hot girls don't have to fuck ugly strangers for money right? the only ones that sell their ass on the street or on backpage are girls that are getting pimped out and need money for dope and/or crack
>tfw you find a prostitute that's really nice and tells you not to be nervous
made me feel to be honest family
>>25254390
From what I've heard from friends that have actually tried it, they are actually pretty caring/attentive to your needs. They know what theyre getting themselves into.
>>25254397
I was just curious if youd given it a try. I know a lot of friends that had luck this way. I'm assuming it didn't go so well? Share your feels with us anon
>>25254468
Theyre probably lying. Only the rich old men helling out loads of money get that treatment.
>>25254426
This one chick I banged back in college had a best friend who was a stripper/escort. She did it because she genuinely was a total nympho, the money was just an added bonus and she said she actually LIKED banging dude that werent attractive. It's kind of like when youre going to have a good fap and think "Hmm maybe Ill watch some mature porn" but its not the hot milf mature porn? Instead you find some 80 year old frail grandma that looks like shes one dick thrust away from shattering her pelvis? A lot of them just like sex. Reverse the roles anon.
>>25254468
I don't know, if I had already lost it then I'd be content to either not have sex again or just do it with escorts, but the idea of losing my virginity to one is just so hard to deal with
I hate to sound like a whiny prick, but it's not fair
I'd rather stay a virgin than be forced to pay, my pride just won't allow me this
>>25254579
>"Hmm maybe Ill watch some mature porn" but its not the hot milf mature porn? Instead you find some 80 year old frail grandma that looks like shes one dick thrust away from shattering her pelvis?
>>25254533
I mean theyre bros i've had since elementary school, we dont really lie to impress each other or lie to each other in general. Women are way more emotional than us, and while they can be vile spiteful creatures they are a lot more in tune with emotions, and caring, than us. IMO
>>25254426
>tfw live in country with legal prostitution
>tfw can just go to brothels instead of trying sketchy backpage shit
>tfw fuck the shit out of a girl who works as a model but does sex work part-time because she enjoys sex that much
>tfw she was actually cool to talk to and wasn't bitchy at all
feels good man
>>25254654
I hate to sound so bitter, but they appear that way to you because you're chad
if you're unattractive or unconfident they literally couldn't give less of a shit about you
>>25254387
stop saying words that are true
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>25254681
So you've experienced this personally?! This is just the example this bread needed anon. Tell me, how did you feel when it was all said and done? Did you regret it or was it a worthwhile and overall enriching experience?
If you're going to use prostitutes, you may as well pay for a flight to Thailand or something and get value for money. You get a vacation and you can get 4 decent hookers for $100. And they don't even have to be ladyboysunless you're into that sort of thing
>>25254708
Its ok anon, I am bob, place your head between bob's breasts and let the feels flow.
I absolutely 110% get why you're bitter, and yes I am chad 110%. If I didn;t have my looks, or my money id have an abysmal time getting women because quite frankly my personality is total shit because I am chad. I fucking hate it, and I hate myself because I know i'm not a good person and I was basically handed a good life due to genetics and rich parents. We live in a very shallow society, I get it, but please don't lose hope anon. Someone will like you for you because I like you for you. And every single misfit fgt on this site likes each other no matter how much shit is spewed we all keep coming back. I just hate to see the hopelessness, and as stupid as it sounds THAT is why I want you to experience the joy that is the female form. Because that IS what you deserve, to be loved and understood, if even for a small amount of time. And my hope is that the small amount of time in a dimly lit alleyway, neigh, the back seat of your volvo, you find a little ray of hope in between that escorts legs. That you take that experience and motivate yourself once youve realized what youve been missing...
I'm planning on doing it eventually. Maybe I'll be That Guy and do a trip to Holland and swing by some red light districts while I'm there.
>>25254387
>In the course of 2 months I spent about $1000
This is why I didn't invest in BETAMAX
>>25254950
Not that guy but fuck society. People aren't aware of it because it brings them happiness but to me, who's unhappy, everything seems obvious. That human relationships are utterly meaningless, that nothing in the world deserves nothing but scorn.
The only way to live is in solitude, to train the soul to shed its social instincts, they work for the benefit of everyone but us so we should we tend to them? To hell with it, I life my life in hedonism and damn the others, why should I try to please those who shun me?
>>25254950
I have to say you make a compelling case, but I just can't lose my virginity to a prostitute
Even if dating is just glorified prostitution it still has the illusion of being something more real
I'm only 18, maybe in time I'll swallow my pride and do it, but right now I just can't
>>25254732
felt great desu senpai. Wasn't particularly expensive (95 euro for an hour) and the sex was great. I think it also helped with my confidence a bit because she was impressed by my stamina and told me that she enjoyed it too (I know she was probably just buttering me up but I can still imagine). The other cool thing is that when I was talking to her, the situation was already so inherently awkward (because we don't know each other and are having sex) that I could converse freely with her as if I had nothing to lose (because I didn't).
All in all I would recommend if you can find a girl with a good attitude who doesn't resent her clients
>>25254991
In my defense It was enjoyable for me too
Medieval times
Limo cruise through Chicago
Blue man group
Multiple dinners
Multiple movies
She had a kid and at the beginning I was like "You know what, this doesnt bother me, I can do this and I'm going to prove it to myself and to her and her son"
She wanted to be with me but in the end I made a hard/selfish choice that even though I really liked her I couldnt date a girl with a kid. I wasn't ready for that. I could have had sex with her much sooner, but I was trying to prove I was better than that (Keep in mind Im not, and like anon stated above I am chad)
>>25253935
I used my first prostitute at 18 in Amsterdam.
Good stuff but she charged me double so I used a cheap tranny after, I'm not even gay.
>>25255064
>Not that guy but fuck society. People aren't aware of it because it brings them happiness but to me, who's unhappy, everything seems obvious.
In other words:
>I may not participate in society, but as an outsider I feel qualified to expound on my reddit-tier whiny negative edgelord opinion.
If you actually took the time to learn social skills instead of complaining that nobody wants to talk to you because you're a whiny boring entitled autist, then your opinion might change.
>>25255064
Because anon, you can run from it all you want, but deep fucking down I know, you know, we all know, you want to be loved and cherished the same as everyone else. It's basic human instinct and as much as you try to train yourself you can't deny your very humanity. Your very DNA is screaming. This world is shit, life has made a lot of us cynics, fairy tales are bullshit. But my hope for you is that you can find even a slight modicum of happiness, someone to help you find purpose. An escort.
>>25254504
Online dating emphasises looks, its kind of a easy to use filter for girls to choose non robots
When has anyone here ever said they just wanted sex? I always see tfwnogf. We value virginity. You aren't a robot if you would throw away your virginity for anything but another virgin.
>>25255228
See, that's exactly my point. You're seeing this all from the lens of the person who fit in and expect me to want to fit in too. "Sour grapes" and everything, right, because who could not possibly want to be a chad? This fucking arrogance that's only validated because of how many people share it is one of the things I hate.
And by the way, my position is a privileged one to see this bullshit because I'm the one who had to wonder all the time why I didn't fit in, and how to fix it, I'm over that now, I don't whine about anything.
>>25255104
I feel you anon. But riddle me this. Knowing it is an illusion, knowing that if you pull back the veil and see sexual relationships for what they really are?
Instinct
Chemical reactions in your brain
DNA
Why is it wrong to pay a woman for sex? Youve been granted the short stick in life, maybe you have a micro-dick, maybe youre ugly, maybe youre broke. maybe youre personality isnt that of a fist pumping guido. Does that mean you dont deserve what they do? The loving caress of a woman? No, you deserve it more. I've NEVER met a "Loser" that I didnt see eye to eye with. Sure a relationship is more real but take it from a guy in a 3 year relationship, there is still an elephant in the room. People couple up for selfish reasons. I KNOW my girlfriend is with me because I have money, I KNOW my girlfriend is with me because I am what the media portrays as "Good lookinG". Without out that I'm nothing, less than any of you times infinity. No girl has EVER liked me for me. EVER. I use the same god damn lines, and try to convince myself this time ill "Actually care" and wont just be another girl. But it is. And the people who could "Actually care" and wouldnt treat them as "just another girl" are meanwhile browsing 4chan sad as fuck. It isnt ok anon. Get an escort.
>>25255278
And yet there are robot girls who are just as lonely on those sites. Robots can't shoot for 10/10 you guys have to be realistic. You have a commodity that attractive people don't.
>>25254504
online dating is a fucking joke
in 2 years of using it I have not been able to get a woman to respond more than once
and it's usually
>"hi"
>*checks my profile*
>never says anything to me ever again
or
>"ew"
or
>"lol"
dating sites flat out do not work unless you are already a functioning normie who has an active social and sex life
in which case, it's a booty call service
>>25255549
women cannot be robots
they just flat out can't in the same sense
they can feel like shit
they can be ugly
but they are never cast out of society and shut out of social situations like robots are
this is where the true loneliness of being a robot is and women just flat out cannot and do not experience it
as shown by every single "fembot" who has timestamped on here having a bf and being a massive normie whore
mystery.jpg
pinoy
all of them
>>25255272
I know. But why entertain those feelings when all they do is bring grief? Repression is the best choice.
And I am loved and cherished. By myself. That's all that matters.
>>25255460
OP chad here. I do not want you to fit in. Fuck that other guy anon. This is a feels thread and we don't need the typical chan hateshitspeech. Chads like myself are total fucking douchebags and you deserve what we have. I want you to be you, anon. Don't compromise yourself. There ARE femrobots out there that are good people just like you. That deserve to be loved. The problem I see with most robots is that you guys are so down in the dumps and so scared of being hurt you never take a chance, and i completely get the "why". Please anon, find your happiness. I don't want you to be alone, because somewhere out there there is a femanon who is just as lonely. Year by year you browse le chan and become more and more bitter. Seriously. Hire. An. Escort. Discover what youve been missing out on. Thats all Im saying here. Give the opposite sex a chance and in doing so, give yourself the same.
>>25255549
norrmiest post 2016NEW
only a true norman could write this post.
>>25255109
Thanks for sharing anon :) !
>>25255200
Did it help your confidence? Boost your ego to get out there and try to date?
>>25255715
>chad here
just get the fuck off our board already jesus christ
>>25255460
Fitting in with whom?
Your entire worldview seems to have been formed in highschool, where 'fitting in' meant a very specific thing.
The adult world isn't like that. You don't have to become a "chad" in order to "fit in", you don't have to walk around wearing a letterman jacket and pushing people into lockers, or going out and getting shitfaced. You find people that you like, who share your interests, and who like you, and you automatically fit in with them by... here's the thing... being yourself.
If you can't make any friends its because you don't have social skills and you have shitty self-esteem. You probably unknowingly engage in approval-seeking behaviours. When a beggar comes up to you and holds out a paper cup asking you to give him change, you are repulsed, because he is someone who is looking to take value from you. Whenever you go up to people desperately seeking their approval and acceptance, you are like that beggar. That's why you don't fit in, that's why people think you're a creep. If you learn social skills you might learn to recognize these approval-seeking behaviours.
You have to offer some form of value to others or be completely neutral in order for them to be receptive to you. And you can only accomplish that if you see that you yourself have value and you have some semblence of self-esteem.
>And by the way, my position is a privileged one to see this bullshit because I'm the one who had to wonder all the time why I didn't fit in, and how to fix it, I'm over that now, I don't whine about anything.
I don't think so. r9k is Plato's cave, you're stuck looking at the shadows on the wall, and yes you are whining about it.
>>25255357
Virginity is over-rated. Once your in your mid 20's the chances of you finding a female who hasnt lost their virginity is astronomical. That's why im saying "LEVEL THE PLAYING FIELD".
>>25255715
your perspective is that of somebody that's not suffered the same things we have. you do not understand.
>>25255710
The "Be your own best friend and youll never be lonely a day in your life" philosophy aye? I dig it anon. But the grief is still there. You take a massive shit in the middle of your living room and throw a tupperware lid over it and whats still underneath it? Shit. Shit in this sense = grief. Deep down thats what you want and its what you deserve, you turn that grief into anger and just like a god damn 4chan sith lord you break your chains and free your dick into the vagina of the nearest solid escort.
>>25255549
Are you new?
It works like this:
Girls - Boys
10 - 10
9 - 9/10
8 - 8/9/10
7 - 8/9/10
6 - 8/9/10
5 - 8/9
4 - 7/8/9
3 - 7/8/9
2 - 7/8
1 - 'Fembots' look like men, serious deformities physically impossible to fuck.
So of your under 7 as a male you sent worth shit to no one but 1s. In which case it'd be easier to fuck a man or a goat.
>>25254708
Bullshit. Whores can be nice to losers, because they pay. Not as in, "they love your money, not you", but they have an excuse to be nice to you "it's for work after all".
Seriously though, you guys are self-destructive tools. Don't shove aside something good.
>>25255728
Never claimed I wasnt. Call me what you will but my intentions are good and my heart hurts for you. Hate me, scream me off this board. But i am here for this moment in time because I don't think anyone should sit at home on Christmas and feel like shit. And my goal here is to 1. Attain enlightment to your plight 2. Help anyone feel even slightly less shitty about their life.
My dick went limp in the first time I tried to lose my virginity
>>25255876
as said by somebody of average looks who's not a loser
>>25255864
>believing this
You haven't been to walmart and seen all the average and ugly looking fucks who have gfs?
Personality covers for a lot, that's another reason why online dating is so shit for men.
>>25255715
I appreciate your concern, even if it's probably faked but you're knocking at the wrong door. My bitterness isn't focused on the opposite gender, I don't care about women much, after all, I barely interact with them anyway. My bitterness is directed to people in general.
>>25255760
Anyone. The point isn't that I see other people as three-headed ogres that speak in a language unknown to man, my point is that pursuing additional relationships is pointless when all the ones you had were meaningless.
And there you are, accusing me of bad social skill. Obviously that's true or I wouldn't be here, my point is why should I want good social skills. Why should I want others to like me? Why should I change the things I talk about and the way I think to please others when I already suffered so much because of it? Pride is the last thing a person should abandon because it's the only way you can find valor in your actions.
Regardless of all this I do have friends and I do have fun with them but I always adopt the policy that they're just there for the ride and if they have to leave, they will and I won't care.
Ever since I adopted that position, I've lived a much more relaxed and pleasant life.
>>25255970
Oh, and if I do seem like I'm whining, it's because I keep having to use words like "sadness and grief" which are pretty fucking central to the whole idea.
>>25255787
>implying you can't date 19 yo girls at 25
>>25255864
I have to disagree. My cousin (Just saw him today) is a 300lb giant of a man who im pretty close with. He met his WIFE on eharmony, he is a solid 2-3 and she is also a solid 2-3. I also work in sales and I see couples ALL the time that prove your scale incorrect. Guys that are 7-8's are NOT with girls that are 2/3/4's unless they are GOOD human beings and I can attest to the fact that we are not.
>>25254950
this goes to show that the real scum of the earth are women and not chads. feminist cunts come here and tell betas that they are not entitle to love why chad bros try helping out robots.
>>25255952
I actually read whoreforums you tool. They don't give a fuck sometimes. The song "Don't Talk To Strangers" by Dio was written for guys like you.
And I may be average looking, but I'm short and I might be considered a loser.
I spent 100 dollars on a prostitute two weekends ago to lose my virginity
I was drunk as shit and could barely stay hard. I was a nervous wreck and I didn't even cum.
I think it was worth it t b h. Thank fuck I got that out of the way. I probably would have killed myself or fled town if I had that kind of experience with a normal girl
It was embarrassing as hell but at least I stuck benis is vagina
as a robot who is somewhat okay looking, just do what I did and fuck a fatty for a bit then you'll get the confidence to move up
nowadays I don't know if I'd qualify as a chad, but I can get cute girls easily and they freely talk to me
hell, I just messaged some girl I went to high school with and made her my girlfriend instantly. got amazing head and fucked her in the backseat of my car on the 2nd date
you can do it robots, I believe in you
but if you're like hideously ugly maybe just hire an escort like op is saying. "the first time" is overrated, sex is awesome you should start having it
>>25255998
It isn't faked. The internet/4chan/my experience working with people 6 days a week 10 hours a day, has made me very cynical as well. I watch those commercials were african kids are starving and i feel nothing, then a SPCA commercial hits and i want to crawl in a hole and die. I value almost all life on this planet above humanity. Ironically enough the only human life I value is what society would deem misfits. I get your hate of the world. That is something I can actually understand whereas the female issues I can only empathize.
As far as why should you want others to like you? Because you do, trying to convince yourself otherwise is just lying to yourself. You can't just quit anon, when you were growing up did you ever think youd be sitting alone without someone to cuddle up to on Christmas night? No. You didn't. Don't abandon that dream. It's attainable.
>>25255970
Some of us had shitty upbringings, and were made to believe that we had to be perfect and flawless in order to be accepted by others. So we go through life trying to put on this facade, and to try to pretend to be something we're not, in order to "fit in". We never let our defenses down, and then we wonder why we can't make any meaningful connections with people.
When normies say "be yourself" they also mean that you have to accept and forgive yourself for your flaws and let people see them. Flaws and rough edges are the thing that bring people together and form the basis of meaningful relationships. Connections are formed through shared hardship.
So just because you can't form any meaningful relationships with anyone doesn't mean that meaningful relationships aren't possible.
Also pride is the worst thing you can have, especially if you're miserable. Humility is required for learning, pride makes you stay ignorant.
Sam Walton was one of the richest men in America, founded Walmart, he spent most of his time in his competitors stores. He got arrested in Brazil because he was scrabbling around on the floor of a supermarket measuring the width of the aisles, just in case they knew something that he didn't, and he was already a billionare at that point.
Pride is a sin, humility is a virtue.
>>25256138
Congrats Anon!! Im proud of you! Try it again sober, and then channel your penis rage at a non escort!
>>25256256
Of course I didn't, that's why I have to fight it. You know, the thing is my whole life I defender absolute selflessness (and I still do) to the point where i was made fun of and called the equivalent of a moralfag IRL.
>>25256266
I did try to reach people, I didn't find anything there. You talk as if people were wells of goodness, constantly trying to make friends and make everyone around themselves better, it isn't true. People are evil, everyone constantly seeks reasons to hate their neighbor and diminish others to increase their own rank, it's all so pointless.
That's why I say pride is the only thing you should never throw away, if every thing's pointless, there is no learning, no higher state to obtain that isn't contained within yourself.
>>25256504
>I did try to reach people, I didn't find anything there. You talk as if people were wells of goodness, constantly trying to make friends and make everyone around themselves better, it isn't true. People are evil, everyone constantly seeks reasons to hate their neighbor and diminish others to increase their own rank, it's all so pointless.
Like attracts like.
>>25254504
Been doing online dating.
>PoF: tons of "country" girls, fat chicks, and women with kids. The cute ones are all 75 miles away
>OKC: artsy girls who love to travel. Every single one of them.
Tinder: good cross section of women. Had some fun convos but they died once I asked for their number. Limited number of swipes per day
Bumble: nothing but decent looking girls. The whole "women message first or they lose you in 24 hours" is bullshit. Men can message first and you lose the girl in 24 hours if you don't. No limit on swipes per day though.
Trying to meet women IRL is a bust for me and bad for my liver. I had some luck in the past, but the past 2 years have been nothing buy crazy girls who have religious objections to sex.
Plan is to keep doing what I am doing while I work towards a down payment on a house. Once I have a house in about 2 years I plan on hiring a pro if I don't have anything serious. The real question is should I get a redhead or a brunette.
>>25256626
>Trying to meet women IRL is a bust for me and bad for my liver. I had some luck in the past, but the past 2 years have been nothing buy crazy girls who have religious objections to sex.
You go out drinking to meet girls... and you only find girls who are virgins for religious reasons.
Sounds legit.
Have you tried getting any actual social hobbies and shit? Meeting girls through hobbies and friends is the best way to get a gf.
>>25256609
Are you saying that because I'm bitter, I can only attract others who are just as bitter?
By this point I don't want to attract anyone at all.
Eh, all said, this whole elan may not have been as true as I led to believe. While I do think like this often, I (surprise surprise) don't discuss it with other people, so I might have unknowingly revved the edgy up a bit so I can take the idea to its logical conclusion with you guys' objections and replies.
Hell, in the end, what does it matter if I'm right or not either?
>>25256769
>Hell, in the end, what does it matter if I'm right or not either?
All that matters is that you're happy. You seem pretty miserable.
If you can form relationships and choose not to and find hapiness in that, then fair enough
But being unable to form relationships, being miserable, and then trying to rationalize it and refusing to change or seek to address any issues you may have while blaming everybody else... well you might as well start a blog on tumblr.
>>25256851
Does it really matter if I can form relationships but don't or if I can't and don't?
If I could have a perfectly safe life where I'm constantly with people that I enjoy talking to and I'm not constantly having to deal with drama and doing social maintenance, yeah, I'd probably take it. That shit doesn't exist. At least not for me, I'm sure normies do it, otherwise they wouldn't be normies.
Blaming other (or at least resenting them) comes from a simple reasoning. If you like yourself, but other don't, why should their standards of "good-personness" be better than yours?
>>25253935
I do not understand this shit. Like at all. I've had partners and long term relationships. But I cannot feel that love or closeness or happiness with other people and I don't understand. I have even slept with the same sex but there are no feelings just pleasure. Can you help me out maybe? What's wrong with me?
>>25256688
>You go out drinking to meet girls... and you only find girls who are virgins for religious reasons
Oddly enough my only 2 gfs I met not drinking. One was a girl I met on a camping trip. Went well for 4 months in the bedroom until she got sucked into a fundie church that told her nothing until marriage. The other was the girl who arranged the camping trip. Took me 2 months to realize she was a batshit insane catholic convert who gave up her slutty past and wanted to wait until marriage.
>Have you tried getting any actual social hobbies and shit?
I killed off my social life over the last few years focusing on working and paying down my debt. In the last month I hit some major milestones and now have a bit of money to go out and do things. I enjoy cycling but there are 0 women who are into that who want to meet a guy while riding. I have to see about doing non-drinking things with my friends from the bar.
I got a plan now, and a backup plan if that does not work out.
>>25257117
Honestly I don't know anon :/ Ive been skimming some articles and thought this was interesting.
"Parts of their personality want to emotionally attach to (care about) special people. From abandonment and abuse trauma, other parts develop a primal terror of attaching too much or at all. Depending on many variables, such wounded girls and boys grow into adults who are ambivalent about true bonding and commitment, or are too shamed, distrustful, and fearful to achieve real bonding with appropriate people. Such Grown Wounded Children (GWCs) are burdened with the indescribable anguish of wanting to exchange loving communion and attachment with special people, and being unable to do so - living in a society that relentlessly glorifies pleasure and love.: if a young child feels genuinely wanted, safe, noticed, appreciated, stimulated, comforted, and enjoyed enough during early years, s/he'll probably develop a healthy-enough ability to bond with others. If s/he's too deprived too often of genuinely loving attention, touching and holding, encouragement, affirmation, comforting, and protection, the child develops a protective group of Guardian subselves who provide comfort and distraction from current or expected pain."
Did you have a fucked up childhood? Therapy might be a viable option if thats the case. I see a therapist once a week ($25 my insurance covers the rest) and it helps me deal with a TON of shit. Otherwise I'd recommend you try taking an Asperger's quiz. Just google it and a ton pop up. I thought I had it after I broke up with a girlfriend a few years ago and just kept sleeping with women for years and couldnt feel a thing. Eventually I found someone that made me feel something again and I was so relieved. I hope this helps anon
I do enjoy reading about robot's encounters with escorts, glad that it makes some of you happy.
>>25253935
I've come close to doing so a few times now, currently 26 yr virgin. I keep getting so close to calling, but always remind my self it's not even what I want; I don't want random sex, I just want genuine companionship with a woman, I want to love and be loved. Knowing the experience will be all an act just kills the desire for it.
Also pretty expensive here in Australia, incalls are illegal in my state and I live with parents, so I'd have to pay for a hotel on top of the hooker's fee. Closest I ever got was emailing a really cute escort, she advertised country bookings but wouldn't do one when I asked. Would of cost $750 + what ever hotel would cost, glad I never seen her.
If I reach 30 without getting a gf, I'll proly do it, until then; I guess I'll keep looking for a cutie virgin GF.
>>25256626
My experience with dating sites has been;
>OKC: Tumblr tier dating, freaks everywhere, bisexual/pansexual/faggotsexual, just degeneracy everywhere. Seem to get a lot of Asians from Philippines and Indonesia viewing and msging me on this one, guessing just want easy ticket into my country.
>PoF: Mostly normie sluts, tattoos, piercings and single mums everywhere
>RSVP: Actually seems to have half decent members, just gotta pay to msg, got in contact with one girl, everything seemed cool until I found out she was just trying to scam me.
>eHarmoney: Trash tier everything, have to pay just to see photos, shitty layout, have to pay to msg as well
>Zoosk: Mix of everything above, pay to msg as well.
I've also tried a few international cupid sites, but all seem full of bots and scammers.
lads, how do i hire an escort? washington dc area if that helps
>>25255760
are you literally a RSD bootcamp instructor? owen, what are you doing here?
>>25253935
Oh but I did. Last September I turned 21. I spent 3 nights in a city and decided to get an escort. She never rocked up. I waited for her for 2 hours. When I called her to ask what's going on, she blocked my number.
