Alright, it's time for some real talk
Why are you still here?
Why do every year you make a new years resolution but never follow through to complete it?
Why do you keep saying "this year is the year i get my life toghether" but you don't do shit all year?
time is running out
you are getting older and closer to being homeless
>"i-it's that easy guys"
new year resolution
never come back to /r9k/
>I tried leaving for good but only to return a month later
>this time we get seriousi'm gonna spend every last second until the new year on here
If I wanted to get my shit mashed together I would have had a few drinks with your dad last night faggot.
>>25243486
i gave up on life a looong time ago m8
im just waiting until i naturally die because im too much of a pussy to an hero myself
>>25243486
I've been growing and changing a lot in the past few years because of college but I think I've finally figured out the paths to take and how I can achieve peace.
2015 is the year in which I was in my cocoon so to speak. In 2016 I emerge, a pissed off schizoid butterfly with laser guided focus.
Believe it or not, this place has actually helped me grow and almost undermines my philosophy. It makes me realize more than ever that companionship is a waste of time more often than not and in that time I don't spend worrying about relationships can be used to further myself. I'm honestly happy alone because it minimizes distractions.
>>25243486
I got my shit together a few months back and come here to remember what I used to be so that I never go back.
Cyborg master race reporting in. Self improvement is actually pretty easy.
>>25243486
>Why do you keep saying "this year is the year i get my life toghether" but you don't do shit all year?
I gave up on that years ago. I've accepted defeat.
>>25243805
Self improvement is a meme, you cuck.
My life's actually petty okay, I just come here to pretend like it's shit so I can feel better about myself irl
>>25243845
Holy shit dude you've been here too long
Real talk?
I can't fix my life. I got born inferior. Anything I try to do fails. My destiny is to accept humiliation and low position in society. I can't deal with that and I won't deal with that. I'd rather be nothing than be inferior. I have a plan, gonna get some money(I'm not a total NEET), then I'm gonna find some area secluded enough that people will be very unlikely to bug me there. Then I'm gonna leave and live there. Sure, I'll probably die soon since I'm not that /out/ experienced. But it's still better. Better than be society laughing stock, better than being the cuckold, the last choice women turn to when they turn 30 and don't have a kid, better than being the wageslave, better than being the man who tries very hard and gets nowhere. Being nothing is prefferable.
>>25243887
>I can't fix my life. I got born inferior.
No you just have a shit mindset
>>25244201
My mindset might be shitty. But it's based on the truth. By inferior I mean in things I can not change. I mean sure, I could work hard and try to be the best version of myself or whatever phrase normies use nowadays. But my inferiority will inevitably limit my results greatly. I see it on daily basis. If you are inferior then hard work, improvement, all this shit. It just doesn't pay off.
>>25244306
>If you are inferior then hard work, improvement, all this shit. It just doesn't pay off.
so giving up and getting the worst life throws at you is the best option? fuck, you're stupid.
my 2016 meme will be moving to new york city and slaying all the young vulnerable hipster pussy
just watch
>>25244364
Well I've never said it's the best option. It's just that the improvement for working hard is so little it's not worth it. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to become a homeless. I just don't aspire to be good at anything. I have no hobbies, I just want to survive. If I get lucky and have some extra money for booze, even better.
Working my ass off doesn't give me much more. Other than a wife(who will hate me for not being a Chad), a decent job(where I will be making money for Chad), social life(with people who would be happier if I was a Chad). There is nothing in it for me. If you are inferior, you lose even when you win.
>>25243486
>Here because i like the stories
>Never made meme-solutions
>"This is the year I end my life all together"
I'm waiting to finish last year of college then I'm off to my home town in Spain and swimming out into the sea.
>Why do every year you make a new years resolution but never follow through to complete it?
>Why do every year you make a new years resolution
I don't.
>trying to improve yourself
What kind of cuck shit is this? Uglies can only get better with surgery and confidence is a meme. You normies are hilarious
>>25244499
This is why I still come here on occasion. I may have been a fuck up in my past, but actually reflecting on how to change has helped me not be as pathetic as this and actually turn things around. Cheers bud.
>>25244766
>confidence is a meme
This meme is a bad meme.
>>25244982
Nice. You really must have turned around since you are talking like a normie. Calling me pathetic but not reacting to any of my points? Normie detected.
>>25245006
Oh please, elaborate on the work you put in that failed. Couldn't have been that much for failure to be unavoidable.
And if getting a job you enjoy where you can move out and support yourself so that you can deservedly avoid spending Christmas with your suffocating family is normie, then shit that's pretty cash.
All of the rationalizing going on makes me think the majority of robots are either women or act like women. Which would explain why nobody wants to be around them.
>>25245045
Well I'm not a Chad. So any work I put into anything has failed. Like actually trying to approach women(even if just to practice talking to strangers) and failing every time, while my more lucky friend got a girlfriend while playing counterstrike, then again he's tall.
I could go on. It's not worth it.
>>25245105
>Life isn't fair bawwwww
God you sound like an angsty teenager
>>25245105
Chads are a fucking meme. Once you move beyond high school the whole cool kids thing dies way down and the only people who stick to it stick to themselves and are ignored by everyone else. If you just develop basic conversation skills you can get by more than easily.
Just hang around normies in small does, bro. Long enough for them to acknowledge you, but not long enough to notice that you're just following a social script and that you're a bit off. You'll learn.
>>25245069
>Hey, why don't you try to see if there's a way to make things better for yourself.
>REEEEEE-ing intensifies
The biggest lie the internet has spread is that as long as you can find others as depraved as you then evolving as a person isn't necessary at all.
>>25245139
Any actual points besides peer pressure? I mean your insults are nice, but they aren't gonna change how I act.
>>25245168
Not trying to help you. If you're fine behaving like a spoilt teen then that's on you. But that's the exact reason you're in the situation you're in.
I've been coming here since 2009 for funny pictures and stories, /fit/and /r9k/ have always been my home boards. /k/ used to be my thing too but I sold my guns and was tired of the autism and nerd rage, /k/commandos are basically robots that jerk off over the fact they can easily murder/suicide.
I don't factor 4chan into my self improvement too much, if a board starts getting too stupid and negative I leave it for a while.
>>25245168
Describe your current life situation, pham.
>>25245202
Not saying you have to try to help me. But If you can't tell me why I'm wrong, then as far as I'm concerned I'm right. And if me behaving as "spoilt teen" is based on things that are true, then I don't see how it's wrong to act that way.
>>25245231
>If you can't tell me why I'm wrong, then as far as I'm concerned I'm right
Holy shit are you actually a teenager?
>>25245231
I just told you why you're wrong. Life isn't fair. Get over it. Attractive people will have it easier. Rich people have it easier. Everyone is going to have an easier life than someone else. Equality is a man made concept that nature doesn't give a shit about. You just want to whine and be a faggot because you have it harder than others and you don't even have it that hard.
>>25245290
More peer pressure? If you can't disprove my points and want to just throw insults around, that is okay! You're a normie afterwards, you don't know any better.
>>25245305
Fair enough. I'm not gonna accept that though. I'd rather be nothing than be inferior. I'd rather die in seclusion that work hard to compensate for things that are out of my control. To work hard for society that shits on me. I don't see how anything else is rational.
>>25243486
Only reason i camr back and keep coming back is because it brings me back down to reality and lets mr realize im not the only person with issues.
Im alot nicer to people now, alot more empathetic. I see myself in alot of the posts and do my best to correct myself.
It doesnt hurt to look into the mirror every once in awhile, this place is only toxic when you let it consume your everyday life.
>>25245322
The fact you use the word "normie" shows you've given into the cocoon mindset that people get here. People are pretty much the same whether they're here or not, only difference is that you let a couple of obstacles get you down whilst others didn't, and while they moved on to keep trying to improve, you found a bunch of other fuckwits who felt the same as you here.
Go into detail about how life has shat on you and we might be able to offer advice of worth. I've been where you are and got out. Anybody can. Shit isn't difficult.
>>25245343
Nigger nobody shits on you. Life is not Highschool. Nobody expects you to be some perfect God, they just want people that are fun to be around.
>>25245343
>I'd rather be nothing than be inferior.
>I don't see how anything else is rational.
Wouldn't noting be the most inferior level possible?
>>25245346
*tips fedora
*tips trilby
*tips porkpie hat
*tips and nods respectfully towards you
EUPHORIC IN THIS MOMENT
>>25245396
Trying to improve for what? For normie society? Passing obstacles for what? More humiliation? My life is irrelevant. This topic is only worth talking about if we're talking in general.
>>25245406
There are people who are inferior and people who are not. The people who aren't inferior are the ones others want to spend time with(google "Halo Effect" if you don't believe me).
>>25245417
Depends on how you mean it. At least if you are nothing. Not a part of society you aren't benefiting normies and letting yourself be humiliated.
>>25245420
Nice meme teenager. If feeling better about myself and getting more pussy makes me euphoric then slap a fedora on me and call me euphoric
>>25245462
>Trying to improve for what? For normie society?
No, for yourself. You are the only thing standing in your own way. Other obstacles are just that, obstacles. It is possible to get past them. You've let pathetic fucktards here drag you further down to their level of thought. Misery loves company after all.
>>25245462
This "little shit" attitude is the exact reason why nobody wants to interact with you. Look in the fucking mirror
>>25245524
For myself? By improving myself I am helping the normies. By getting a job, getting a family, god forbid having kids. All of this benefits the normies.
>>25245462
For clarity, how old are you?
>>25245544
Once again. Care to bring up any actual points? Insults and peer pressure do not work here.
>>25245557
So what benefits you? Sitting on 4chan and getting fat? You sound like a selfish brat
>>25245511
>dank memes are just for kids
Stupid faggot I'm 38, also bragging about sexual prowess makes you as low as the common nigger. I haven't had the desire or will to have sex in the past 17 years and I'd have to say I'm much more rounded because of it.
Enjoy have all your free time drained by some retarded whore while I have time to indulge in the arts and study the latest technological breakthroughs in crypto currency mining.
>>25245560
I'm 23.
>>25245596
Selfish? That's how people who don't want to accept humiliation usually get called? WHAT? You don't want to work hard and pay lots of taxes for staceys pack of niglets? WHAT? You don't want to spend loads of time and money on things that Chad gets just by breathing? You selfish cunt.
>>25245557
>By improving myself I am helping the normies. By getting a job, getting a family, god forbid having kids. All of this benefits the normies.
I see, I should have guessed that such levels of patheticness could only be achieved via ruse.
>>25245655
I'm not rusing though. I'm planning on moving in the woods to die in seclusion. So I don't benefit the normie society in any way. As I said before, I'd rather die and be nothing than accept being inferior.
>>25245635
>23
Holy shit dude just exercise and study/work then live will hand everything to you.
>>25245690
>I got lucky so others will also get lucky
That's not how it works.
>>25245723
No I worked and got to a point that people who work get to. You don't luck your way into a solid GPA and a good job with zero conections
>>25245677
Suicide would actually be helping society. Nobody wants to be around a whiny, socially undeveloped 23 year old.
>>25245619
>I'm much more rounded because of it.
Lmao yet you're 38 on r9k. Ok buddy
>Enjoy have all your free time drained by some retarded whore while I have time to indulge in the arts and study the latest technological breakthroughs in crypto currency mining.
Bahahaha gee buddy, seems like you need this fedora more than i EVER did
>>25245635
My point is, is that you're making this all about you, why do shit to make other people happy, live so YOU can live comfortable. We all give into social dynamics in some way whether you want to or not. If it doesn't male you happy ok fine, but if you avoid something that brings you joy just to spite " chad and stacie" then that's you giving a fuck and giving in to your own ego.
>>25245749
That's not really what I'm talking about. I'm doing pretty good in this area. I'm still in college(last year) and I have some job experience in my area. I actually have an interview on 5th of January.
Anyways, despite this I'm still inferior. Getting a job is easy, but I'm still not a Chad and I have to work hard just to get a fraction of what he gets.
>>25245346
Fuck you freeky you bitch ass gargamel nigga, go back to riding jim Jones dick
>>25245785
Well I'm not going an hero if that's what you're getting at.
>>25245789
Of course I give a fuck about spiting Chad and Stacy. That's the only thing I can do really. Only thing that doesn't include being their wagekuck slave.
>>25245843
Chads don't fucking exist beyond school and college, holy shit grow up.
You sound like you actually have your shit together but are too entitled to make the most of it.
>>25245880
Oh ok. Makes sense now, i see there's no talking to you, you're operating from your lower (petty) self
>>25245933
By Chad I mean someone who just got a lucky hand. Someone tall, good looking, possibly rich. Confident(which usually comes from being born with at least some of the previous three).
>>25245789
Get cucked you fucking queer, have fun with your AIDS herpes while I return to Sora No Woto to remember what true platonic love is and how tank crew of 14 yr old girls can sacrifice everything to defend their land.
You're just some vapid beta who thinks with his dick while I elavate the human drama to a celestial level, just fuck off kiddo.
>>25245972
Life isn't fair, but if you work you can surpass those vapid cunts.
>>25246024
Stfu you lobster head ass nigga I'll probably smack you and you not gon do shit
>>25246054
I know. And being real, I really have trouble honestly believing I'm gonna leave and go die in the woods somewhere. I just have trouble dealing with the humiliation. I know I shouldn't consider someone being better than me with less work to be humiliating, but I just do.
Every evening I spend socializing with various people among which are many better than me I feel like I'm lying to myself and everyone pretending I'm okay with being dealt a hand that's not great. It drains me. I've been able to pretend my way through life up until now with only few periods where I just stopped talking to people altogether for few months. Despite this I still have some kind of social life. I guess I'm just gonna have to deal with it, kill myself or don't deal with it and live a hateful shitty life. Being the retarded pussy I am, it's obvious it's gonna be the third option.
>>25246085
I'm hard as diamonds how bout you m8
Kik?
My life is already together. In fact, this year I did lose all the weight and finish with a perfect GPA. I'm not happy or content, but things are about as good as they'll get.
>>25246171
If all of that is true then we're more similar than you realise.
I've definitely felt like it was physically exhausting to socialise, but it gets easier once you find people you actually like/don't hate. Just keep moving forward, friend. Go with option 1, not 3. There's always a better way.
>>25245972
You're really giving yourself every excuse in the book as to why you can't be successful. It's all about having a strong mental game. Once you can control your emotions and objectively review your own thoughts and actions, you can start paving out a good life. Problem is, you haven't even started on working on the things you CAN control. You're too busy being focused on the things you can't control.
Work on your mental game, it's weak af tbqh pham. Confidence doesn't come out of nowhere, it comes from knowing you have control of a situation. Read books on understanding body language, small talk, and conversational hypnosis techniques.
I know some of you are far too hopeless to ever feel like you can make it, but some of you can. First step is to get the fuck off of this board, the rest is dependent on whether you can channel your self loathing into something positive or not.
Good luck bots. Merry Christmas.
Han Solo gets killed by his son for all of you who haven't seen it yet
>>25246451
Oh I didn't mean to reply to this
>>25245972
What in the fuck
>>25245596
>tripfag thinking his opinions matter
L O L
Nostalgia, ex robot who graduated to cyborg.
>>25246554
Spot on mane
>>25246451
This post is sticky-worthy
>>25243486
>Why do every year you make a new years resolution but never follow through to complete it?
I didn't even make a resolution for this past year. For 2014 it was get a job and I did that. For 2016 it will probably be lose weight, I'm getting kinda chunky.
>>25246024
>while I return to Sora No Woto to remember what true platonic love
Fake plastic love, anon.
>>25246357
Keep on trucking, brother
