Is anybody else /alonebychoice/ here?
Ask 30 women out, maybe 1 will agree
Out of 20 first dates, maybe 1 will lead to a second
Out of 10 second dates, maybe 1 will lead to a relationship
Out of 10 relationships, maybe 1 will lead to marriage
Out of 10 marriages, maybe one will actually be worth spending your life in.
Basically, you have a 1/600,000 chance of actually finding a worthwhile 3D waifu. That's worse odds than any casino.
Nobody's really sure who said it, but I think "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result." applies damn well here.
>>25241130
>Ask 30 women out, maybe 1 will agree
Who the fuck are you? Elephant man?
>>25241130
>you have a 1/600,000 chance
Maybe *you* do.
>>25241140
I've asked out more than 30 women and been rejected by every single one. I'm not OP but here's my pic. Pretty normal looking guy if you ask me.
Room mates are pigs
>>25241169
>inb4 someone says "smile"
>>25241169
It's your tummy. You don't have the squares or the line.
only gay guys are attracted to stomachs like that, had you the squares on your stomach you'd be drowning in vagnas.
>>25241140
No, I'm pretty decent looking, I just don't have the overflowing confidence necessary to successfully attract women.
Besides, even if you cut that number down to 10, which is a good ratio for even the Chaddiest of Chads, it's still a 1/200,000 chance.
>>25241130
I am alone by choice.
>only child
>parents now dead
>divorced but still on good terms
>no kids
>single
It's okay - I am comfortable with my own company, doesn't scare me like some.
>>25241190
Just my shirt I don't have a gut or the angle or whatever.
I'm skin and bones not going to post my skinnyfat body for others to make fun of though.
I lifted for 9 months or so I got big biceps then but no female attention still.
I got 4 tinder matches in two months and none responded.
I'm suicidal as a result of being alone all my life. And yes even Christmas I am alone.
I'm 6'3" 175 lbs and still got no luck.
Just work on yourself. Lift some weights, start eating healthier, do some push ups or sit ups, go running. Honoustly mate, just work on yourself and grills will like you more and say yes more easy.
>>25241169
this is what i mean by >>25241190 btw
>>25241169
You look completely average. You probably asked out the wrong women.
>>25241218
Yea because its so easy to get abs. I can do 35-40 leg raises in a row (like a man arms spread to the side) and it dont matter.
It's all bone structure and genetics and I lost the game.
>>25241211
>>25241169
You're not that bad looking. Lower your standards. There's plenty of sperg girls that feel as alone as you do.
>>25241223
Asked out girls who were hot, who were plain, who were fat and who were just plain disgusting to look at.
I've been rejected by 300 lbs girls and girls with cerebral palsy
>>25241169
Go away, you fifthly half elf.
>>25241232
See
>>25241241
Literally I ask out anything with a vagina. And I've used so many different kinds of approaches being myself, being a nice guy, being funny, being a jerk, being someone I'm not, etc.
Read hundreds of dating books.
Tried different hair styles and clothing.
Got a bit fit at the gym few years back
But none of it mattered
I'm nearing 25. I know I'm going to die alone.
>>25241231
>leg raises for abs
you need to know how to work out before you can see results.
>>25241211
You gotta lower your bf to the right amount (at least 18) and stand up straight. also girls don't date guys that don't dress in a way that will make other girls think she's cool for dating you (in her head because no one really cares about that shit except for shallow women)
>>25241241
Not what I meant.
If you ask out a girl, your success rate is highest if you already talked for a bit and laughed together.
If you ask someone out you've never really spoken to just because they sit in your class and look nice, rejection is extremely likely.
You need to build some sort of connection first. (Unless you're super handsome Chad or famous)
>>25241130
I'm so sick of this place
>robot
>interested in women
Pick one and ONLY one. If you pick the second, then leave this place
This board used to be good, and now half of the threads are women-related. Hell, even there is a "fembot" thread, and they all reach post limit by 10-30 minutes, while good GREENTEXTS get a reply with "faggot", "tldr", "nice blog"
Fuck you /b/. You turned this place into a more depressing version of yourself. I hope you all fagots die of cancer god FUCKING DAMNNIT
>>25241130
>justifying not trying and pretending he doesnt want sex
LOL
>>25241285
I've asked out girls I've known, girls at clubs and bars, girls on POF, girls on tinder. Girls from yikyak.
Literally everywhere there's women I've been. But I learned to keep my mouth shut unless spoken to because girls usually just ignore me or make fun.
If I was gay I'd be set like someone else said.
>>25241214
>just work on yourself
there's this age-old answer again
how many more times do we have to debunk it?
how many more times do we have to point out the just world fallacy, how many more times do we have to ask why do we as men have to be 10/10 but women can even be fat and it's fine
>>25241231
Abs will fix the problem, along with the way you dress. Your face is fine dude. don't listen to Cucky McCuckerson >>25241232 telling you to lower your standards you have chad potential.
>>25241130
>Ask 30 women out, maybe 1 will agree
>Out of 20 first dates, maybe 1 will lead to a second
you forgot
>out of 5 who agree, maybe 1 will actually show up or not bail
>>25241169
I can already tell by your posture that you have shit body language and people perceive you to be an autistic sperglord (which you probably are)
>>25241330
I don't always dress like a slob. I'm in the military so I have to stay healthy anyways.
And it throws out the option of a beard or different hair.
But what do you mean by getting abs? If its just low bodyfat I can see my ribs already so how much lower do I have to go.
I think it's how my bones are
I'm willing to try but I know I won't succeed.
>>25241269
>Literally I ask out anything with a vagina
There's your problem. Only ask girls that you know reasonably well. I'm fuck-ugly by any standard, but I still get relationships because I have at least some social skills.
Get a sense of fashion. Wear hats, and for the love of god throw that watch in the trash.
>>25241169
you look like an early human.
>>25241369
I was ducking down I'm too tall for my mirror. I got good posture as said I'm in the army. And I don't have any nervous habits or tics.
Everyone I work with thinks I'm a pretty funny hard working smart guy.
>>25241387
Can't really reform my skull if I could I would.
>>25241388
>In the Army
Fucking E4 faggotdoesn't know how to use women's love for servicemen to his advantage
Either hang out at some bars or start talking to some Armysluts. Army chicks are really, really easy and some of them don't look TOO bad
>>25241169
rejection isn't alone by choice, cry somewhere else for fuck sakes you know how to use the catalog? take a gander at it and see how many TFW threads about that shit already. fuck man
>>25241949
Also, I'm an E2. If you're at a base you're gonna have a harder time. More competition, lot of dependapotamus, and co workers is a bad idea.
I would look like 20 miles or more away from the base and take trips on the weekend if that's your thing. I like to spend my weekends in my bunk. I like sleep though, not many things can compare, haven't met a female I'd rather hang around with more than I'd want to sleep if I could.
>>25242002
I'm not American but I relate to what you're saying anyways its different here. People don't really care about the army much.
I'm hoping to get discharged soon and just travel the world on my own.
Harassment laws make it pretty shitty to talk to female coworkers so I don't.
>"alone by choice"
>OP has literally deluded himself into thinking its detached himself from others, not the other way round & that everyone else finds him repulsive
My sides can't control me
>>25241376
>and for the love of god throw that watch in the trash
I'm a huge watchfag, but I'll give him a pass because he's military. He needs something that's durable, reliable, cheap to replace if it gets fucked up, and keeps good time so he's not late for shit, not a cool fancy watch.
>>25241140
1/30 is pretty high. Of course if you ask out a smaller fraction of girls you meet it could be higher. Say, if you ask out 1/20 girls you meet in your age range, then 1/30 will say yes to a date. If you ask out 1/100, based on some selection process, the odds are now 1/6.
>>25241338
>1 in 5 will show up on 1st date
I think that's included in the 1/20 figure. If you actually have a date 1/4 being up for doesn't sound too high. Then again, I've never had a date so I have no idea.
>>25241290
Underrated post. Also if you're not a virgin leave as well. Only those on the path to wizardry should be allowed
>Ask 30 women out, maybe 1 will agree
Bullshit. Depends on how you ask them out and who you ask out, and what you are like. I've asked out seven women and had four agree.
>Out of 20 first dates, maybe 1 will lead to a second
Utter bullshit unless you are the most repulsive human being imaginable. All of my first dates have led to second dates.
>Out of 10 second dates, maybe 1 will lead to a relationship
More bullshit. This is more like 75%.
>Out of 10 relationships, maybe 1 will lead to marriage
This is actually somewhat accurate, but again, it depends entirely on what you are doing and is not a good blanket figure. If you are serious about who you date and how you date, the figure is more like 25%. I know people who are married, or might as well be married, to their first relationship partner.
>Out of 10 marriages, maybe one will actually be worth spending your life in.
Utter bullshit.
I'm too dumb to get a girl.
If I like a girl, it's likely she has a bf
if she doesn't, I wouldn't be sure if she likes me back
if she does, I'm too autistic to keep it that way, she'll get bored the first time we go out
if she doesn't, I'm still too much of a coward to get her to be my gf or whatever the fuck.
I always wait for the right moment, and when it comes, I pussy out
if I don't wait for the right time and try to take the chance at any point, I sperg out, everything is awkward
And whenever she keeps me waiting for 20 minutes, or doesn't respond a message, I sperg out, start thinking I'm making a fool of myself, that she isn't interested and that I'm making stupid drama....
So I just give up before trying and try to embrace loneliness
>>25241130
I'm alone because if I dated someone they'd realize how fucking crazy I am and then they'd hate me.though im really lonely and the girl that seems to like me i think im gonna just...let that one happen i hate myself pls kill me
You're right, OP. Concerning over women seems so trivial to me now, so unworth of my attention when there's so many things I could do like learning and appreciating art or working out to improve my body.
Honestly, most interaction with people repulses me now, it all seems so pointless.
>>25241232
>There's plenty of sperg girls that feel as alone as you do.
but can sperg girls be cute
>>25245659
Can you?
Don't expect more than you can give.
