Why do you guys care so much about sex?
It's not even life changing, it's just something nice to do with someone.
It's not even that hard to get someone to fuck you / allow you to fuck them.
A girl took my virginity just to see how it feels to fuck a virgin.
I didnt cum with a condom
You've got to understand that some people have such low self esteem and such shitty emotional issues they can't even imagine someone wanting to have sex with them, nor can they get their heads around the idea that its supposed to be normal or easy.
This could be due to a shitty upbringing, or being bullied at school, or actual autism.
If you're going to be a normie, then try to be an understanding and helpful normie.
>>25197517
Sex doesn't make a difference you say?
>>25197517
>le sex isn't a big deal meme
You're basically telling people that their biological imperative isn't imporant.
>>25197517
If you had never eaten a meal with someone else, but television and movies and music played it up as though it were the most important, amazing thing you would obsess about it all the time.
Even if someone wee to say "Eating with someone else is just okay. It's not really that amazing most of the time," you would still wonder why nobody in the entire world ever wanted to eat with you.
>>25197517
>not even that hard
here's your (you)
>>25197566
No one is normal, and most people here seem to be discontent and defeatist at the same time, it's weirding me out.
I am a normie, lost virginity at 16, sexually active, got good grades, in a good college, normal family etc.
>>25197610
Sex was not the cause of his issues, his obsession with it was a product.
>>25197645
The need for sex is psychological, otherwise you can't explain how environmental factors influence peoples sex drive.
>>25197697
Maybe because you don't socialize or aren't a likable person.
>>25197711
It really isn't. It's not going to just fall into your lap, but if you at the bare minimum do some socializing, you will run into someone at some point.
>>25197926
fuck off. literally nobody wants your advice. nobody here is interested in anything you have to say.
>>25197926
Are you trying to troll? Nobody gives a shit what you have to say, piss off.
>>25197517
this
literally the second i penetrated for the first time i thought "wait, this is what all the fuss is about?"
>>25197963
I was asking a question.
On any note, I've dated someone I met on /r9k/, It's not really weird he was a vigin, personality wise.I did fix it though, he had a big dick.
Why are you so hostile?
It's not sex I've ever wanted. As I am an isolated failure of a human being, I desire companionship and validation. Falling in love with a girl and benis-ing her psychologically suggests to me that I've a. gained a companion and b. succeeded at my biological imperative.
To me, and to some other robits, tinder and prostitutes don't count.
>>25198019
Damn you've got some solid potential as a troll there young man
Physical exercise, studying and psychedelics are superior alternatives if sex is out of reach.
>>25198019
FUCK OFF FFS LAD
you are a fucking normie you don't fucking understand what it's like not to have had sex when everyone around you has, I have a friend who is the most backwards guy I have ever seen and even he has kissed a girl at least
>>25197517
Because my family wants me to have a child and to come to my wedding
>>25198042
I can see the point of that, but wouldn't validation be easier to achieve by finding a community? It can even be online if anything.
It seems you have been bestowed a meaning of your life by someone else
>>25198053
Not even trying to be an edgelord
>>25198065
This inner anger you feel is being externalized onto a stranger on the internet.
Anger is a secondary emotion, what do you really feel?
Think about this for a second.
>>25197926
>I am a normie, lost virginity at 16, sexually active, got good grades, in a good college, normal family etc.
That's nice
I didn't kiss a girl until I was 25. got bullied in school, shit grades, didn't go to college, I was raised by my depressed single mother in squalor (she's a hoarder), living off of welfare.
I eventually did drag myself out of that shit, I had to teach myself social skills from books, and actively learn how to talk to girls, I am still emotionally fucked up and far from normal, but I'm working on it.
So when you come here and say "its easy brah" and talk about defeatism, you just look like a retard and completely out of touch with the people you're trying to talk to.
I actually don't give a fuck about sex. I could get it any time I want and back in college I used to do just that
Now I'm just happy I have enough weed to get me through the holidays
>>25198131
stop being a pseudo-psychologist, you aren't going to help anyone here because we've heard it all before and you really wont help anyone by talking down to us and trying to act like you are above us
>>25197963
I'm interested. At least I get to read something refreshing, and maybe help myself with my self-esteem issues
>>25198147
The only difference I've noticed between permavirgins with issues and 'normies' are not being a defeatist.
Someone I know had a good childhood and general life, but never tries, he's now a 22 permavirgin trying to woo a 15 year old.
>>25198178
I'm not saying I've above you, where are you getting this from?
>>25198225
it's the way you are conducting yourself and the way you type.
>>25198225
>The only difference I've noticed between permavirgins with issues and 'normies' are not being a defeatist.
The fact that you think that this is in any way insightful only demonstrates just how vastly out of touch you are.
It is pretty difficult, maybe even impossible if you are deformed like I am
So congrats on being born good looking I guess
>>25198225
>never tries
>trying to woo
C'mon mate
>>25198267
Eh, okay,
>>25198322
If you're ugly, go for other ugly people. Even then, attractive people also date ugly people at times.
>>25198298
I've had clinical depression and almost attempted suicide countless times.
It was honestly just trying literally anything, even if feeble and with seemingly guaranteed failure, that slowly helped me out.
>>25198366
The 15 year old thing is new though.
>>25198225
>I'm not saying I've above you, where are you getting this from?
You posted a thread with advice for people who never asked you any questions, that implies you're above them, you autist.
>>25197926
>>25198200
It is nice to see. I'm sick of people being shot down for sharing positive experiences and trying to encourage others. Maybe their advice doesn't apply to you, but they're just sharing their own experience and what worked for them. I can't think of a reason to shoot them down other than envy, which is a pretty terrible emotion to harbor.
If a lot of you sad bots respond to "normies" in real life the way you do here, even if you're not blatantly aggressive, but just cold and giving short responses so they leave ASAP, it should be no surprise that said people don't like you that much.
>>25198399
Ugly/Unnatractive girls don't go for ugly guys though
>>25198486
You seem riled up about this, it
>>25199061
>>25198200
I'm glad some are getting something out of this, yeah my advice is not even close to universal but I'm just giving my thoughts.
>>25199126
The good thing is that you can't generalize 50% of the worlds population.
Some girls are deluded, no doubt about that.
But, not all of them are. Some people don't mind other people who are also ugly.
If it's any help, if you have certain small parts of your face that reminds them of themselves or their parents, they will find you subjectively attractive. So hey, there is hope.
I'll tell you what it is, though. It's a great injustice. At least it gives me some solace to know that ultimately every wrong is righted one way or another. Nature finds a way, they say. And when retribution comes and the end is nigh, all are the same.
>>25197926
>nobody is normal
>goes on giving advice because his life's so good he has to waste time here
>LITERALLY insults an anon, saying he's not likable and has a shit personality
MORAL HIGHGROUND AND SUPER ADVICE!seriously though, burn in hell you stupid piece of fucking niggershit
remind me of that comics name.
also get out chad reeee
Anon I hope you know that most people who actively post here would rather stay depressed.
It is easier to blame misfortune on things outside of your control. When you do that you don't need to take responsibility.
Yes there are some things outside your direct control. But you do have control over more than you think.
Personally, I don't care that much about sex. If I really wanted it, I could have had it by now and I don't regret not going for it. I want an actual meaningful relationship so that I won't have to deal with crippling loneliness anymore. But it doesn't matter what anyone here says, you're a normie that has had everything handed to them in life, you can't perceive things from other peoples perspectives. You should just go.
>>25200240
It's Nedroid.
These people fucking love being victims, don't waste you're time.
>>25200517
thanks. I just looked at it and it rarely gets updated it seems.
>>25197517
>It's not even that hard to get someone to fuck you / allow you to fuck them.
Just leave.
>>25197517
Because the guys that care about sex are brainwashing themselves with pornography every day.
>>25197517
>It's not even that hard to get someone to fuck you / allow you to fuck them.
Not hard for most people. Most people have value and can pass the value judgements. I can't pass value judgements.
It's not about the sex, it's not about the pleasure, social standing, or physical contact. It's about value, it always is. If you have value you can get sex. If you can't get sex it means you have no value in the eyes of others.
>>25197517
It isn't even that, it just pisses me off that I'm so undesirable no one is willing to get with me. Do you know what it feels like being so unaccepted?
>>25199210
>You seem riled up about this, it
Well meme'd, friend!
>>25197517
It's not about the sex. It's about the love, and the relationship around it.
I just want to find someone nice to cuddle with and share my life, so I won't feel so alone and isolated anymore.
>>25198131
One day, you too will learn that people don't work the same.
>Just find a community
with your experiences and bioligy, this might seam like no biggy, but to others it would as hard as comiting suicide would to you
normies don't know how it feels to be hated and rejected by everyone.
![2013-10-22-beartato-tatolantern[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/vjMasDf.png "2013-10-22-beartato-tatolantern[1].png")
I don't have any friends but I really enjoy things about like this about good friends :3
>>25198131
I'm on your side here, but the way you're writing things -- it sounds rather patronising.
I would like to point out here that I think a lot of the robots on the board simply have different brain chemistry than normal people and that difference makes it harder to socialise or be normal. As for sex I would like it but due to porn I like a fetish instead :(
>>25202801
beartato is everyone's friend
>>25197566
or maybe im just ugly, you fucking retarded normie
![2009-06-29-beartato-lifesgoal[1].gif](https://i.imgur.com/RHwCZpE.gif "2009-06-29-beartato-lifesgoal[1].gif")
>>25204627
If only he was real.
![2009-07-04-beartato-fireworks[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/qOKETsg.jpg "2009-07-04-beartato-fireworks[1].jpg")
>>25204979
I found this one too, really cute.
