What are they? Seriously, fucking tell me. I know some of you bang hotties left and right.
If you're attractive they are. If you're not they aren't.
>>25189975
Do they text you often, and start conversations? Do they share things they like with you easily? How touchy are they in person? These kinda things are things to look for
she makes your special place feel really good.
she'll offer to do stuff with you, little things.
>>25189975
She plays with her hair, bites her lip or shuffles with her clothes while talking to you.
Also her blushing while making eye contact with you is another pretty clear sign.
>>25189975
If she always starts the conversation then she's interested
>>25190010
Had a girl doing that for me. I got sick and had to stay one month at home without going out. I'm fine again and she doesn't do any of it anymore. Even my own health cockblocks me
Why do girls loose interest on a guy so fucking fast?
>>25190073
This is the main one.
Also, body language. If she's leaning into you, you're good. A lesser known uncontrollable sign is if her feet/legs are pointing directly at you.
>>25190163
I dunno man, they can go from one to the next so easy. I'd just forget about her if i were you if she's willing to do that to you. But are you ok? Health-wise i mean? If you are, i'd just go back out and talk to other girls, maybe you'll find yours out there
>>25189975
is that the same girl as the "cute blonde girl texting on the subway" picture?
She's hot as motherfucking shit
Alright guys, I'm a girl.
First of all, if you have even a doubt she's not interested, don't even fucking bother, not even once. NEVER approach a woman unless you're damn sure she's into you, because:
1. we have better things to do
2. you're just going to make us both look awkward
Second of all, if you're certain she's into you, do not wait until she makes the "first move", because she won't. She expects you to do that, and you damn well will, as long as you aren't a fucking child. Step up and be a man.
>>25190267
when do i "whip it out"?
>>25190287
You don't, you have it out as you approach. Just keep it out on display for every woman to peruse the goods. You'll get a girl that way. Or at least a homo to pleasure your ding dong
>>25190267
If you really are a girl you must be very lonely with that mindset
>>25190316
ok. be chill and let the ladies check out the goods. makes sense.
>>25189975
some of you guys are alright, here are some things I've picked up on (a lot of PUA shit says the same things, and I hate PUA shit but I've experienced these firsthand)
>body language, knees or feet pointing to you, shoulders squared towards you
>their eyes widen when you walk in the room
>they look at your lips when you talk
>they laugh at shit you say that isn't really funny
>they look at you when laughing
>invite you or tell you about stuff she knows you like that she's not really into
>starts taking interest in your interests
When girls really like you they might do some of the following:
>change their opinion to match yours
>outright challenge your opinion (like diametrically oppose and try to change your mind rather than acknowledge a difference in opinon)
Also noticed
>higher pitch when talking to you
If you have a mutual friend
>asks friend about you
>asks if you're also going to an event
If she does a handful of these just take the leap. They'll respect you more for it. Girls these days aren't used to actually being asked out up front and they'll say yes even if they barely like you or haven't even thought of you that way.
>>25190343
You know it man. Need any tips on anything else female related? As the proud new owner of a relationship, i now feel like quite the expert.
>>25190197
Thanks man. Yeah I'm slowly getting better health-wise. Still a little down feel-wise but guess I will get better with time too.
Will keep trying, maybe I have luck next time.
There is no 100% sure way to know if a girl is interested, the only way is to ask her.
I have been doing this for years. I straight ask a girl "do you like me? do you want to go out with me?" if the girl is interested she will say it, if she is not she will say she is not
its really fucking easy
>>25189975
I'll share some wisdom. Girls are probably interested..
If they touch you, like on the shoulders or legs for example, or if they play with your hair.
If they call you on the phone to hear your voice/see your face
If they use a lot of emojis when they text you
If they laugh a lot when they talk to you
If they dress nicely/put on makeup when they hang out with you
>>25189975
If you have money, she's interested in you.
>>25190369
Thanks, mang.
Now I knowno girl is or has ever been interested in me
You'll know when they give you "the look", just talk to enough girls at a bar or whatever and youll figure it out.
>>25190267
>Even if I like you I won't do shit anything about it.
And thats why a lot of relationship fails. Two people, only one doing all the hard work.
>you're just going to make us both look awkward
Loking awkward to others for rejecting someone should be the least of your concertns about it. The one being rejected is who is having the worst of it after all.
>>25190267
>don't ask us out unless we basically tell you to using our indecipherable signals
>don't make us have to make the first move
women are the worst meme around.
>>25190369
Oh forgot to mention my post was mostly about girls you kind of already know. I don't really hook up with randoms. But when I have, they've usually been comfortable enough to do the first half bunch of things.
>>25190369
>look at lips
This. Other stuff is kinda confusing or you may miss it, but you'll definitely see if you're talking to them and they move to your lips for a second, and it always means they're at least thinking about you sexually for that moment.
(unless you have some dumbass lips or swiggity swag 'stache)
>>25190175
I thought she was into you when her legs are akimbo
>>25190267
DOnt listen to her approach meeee pls reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>25190566
Hello there m'lady, i hear you were in need of attention! :^)
>>25190267
Thanks for the solid advice, Stacy
>>25190396
Just to also add one last thing to this anons post,
They'll also go out of their way to run into you, hang out near you, and if perchance you work up the balls to invite them to something and they can't meet or do something then, will make a counter offer at a later date.
>>25189983
How do you know if you're attractive?
>>25190595
If you don't know if you're attractive, then you are not attractive.
>>25190617
What if sometimes I think I'm attractive and people have told me I'm attractive before?
>>25190617
What if girls call me cute, and have asked for pics of me? Were they just laughing at me this whole time?
I have a co worker that I think wants me.
She touches me and made a joke a while back about leaving her husband for me. She always feeds me and tells me I'm cute. Has a nick name for me too and always smiles at me.
I'm really tempted. I'm 30 and a wizard. She's 28 and really cute. Also seems to have an odd taste in men. If she kissed me I don't think I'd pull away.
>>25190267
Why aren't IDs gender black listed and banned? Should be a thing. I guarantee you quality of this board will go up.
Post a picture so we can judge
>girl from high school that I was kinda friends with pokes me the other day
>i haven't talked to her/seen her since we graduated over 2 years ago
>she's a 6/10 max
>I decide to poke back cause why not
>she pokes again nearly a day later
I could just message her but I feel like poking her again first and really try to confirm this interest.
I'm not sure if I'm trying to hook up with her or not. On one hand, I'm coincidentally on a nofap so I'm pretty horny (aside from being inexperienced) but on the other hand, I feel weird hooking up with someone from high school.
What should I do, /r9k/?
Idk if she lurks r9k, but if you see thispoke me again tonight
>>25190584
EW i didnt mean you, gtfo creep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
>>25190648
Leaving her husband within that context is a huge af red flag. Unless he is abusive or already cheating on her.
>>25190679
O-oh. *grumbles about women all wanting chad as i roll away in my dope wheelie shoes*
>>25190672
Message her obviously
>>25190632
>>25190636
>sometimes I think I'm attractive
>people have told me I'm attractive
>I don't know if I'm attractive
If you have no self assurance in your looks when you can see the attraction (albeit occasionally) and people have told you you're attractive, then it points to low self-esteem, which is only attractive to predators.
>>25190681
I know. From what I know if him he sounds like a huge autist though. She likes me because I stand up to her and call her out on occasion. And that I make her laugh a lot.
>>25190761
Cuck her husband with that wizard dick, yo!
>>25190648
Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
That's all I'm saying.
>>25190748
I want her to beg though.
>Inb4 she stops poking me
Then nothing of value was lost.
But if she pokes me again, I don't even have to put in effort and just let her throw herself at me.
>>25190756
My family has told me I'm attractive, but I don't think that is very reliable as they are my family. I am very quiet in public and rarely catch girls looking at me. The only girls I talk to pretty much are fellow co-workers and most of them already have bf's.
And I guess I'll add a question of my own to OP's, is there a way to tell the difference between a girl being nice and actual attraction/interest?
>>25190073
>>25190369
>Eyes widen when you walk in the room
>Shuffles her clothes
>they look at you when laughing
>mfw my realization
I've been friend zoning this bitch for the longest time
I have her number now, what should I do/text her?I'll probably text her later cause its super late where I am right now
>>25190797
lol. I might be too tempted by her. If she kissed me I don't think I'd turn away. If she told me she wanted to fuck I don't know if I'd say no...
There's this girl I sit by in one of my classes and she is a at least a decent 6/10. We talk to each other in class and we have alot in common but she is bisexual and is seeing a dyke. During class, her breathing gets heavier, she bites her nails, crosses her legs, and looks at me more. Do I have a chance, robots?
>>25190842
>My family
You are correct, that is not a reliable source.
>is there a way to tell the difference between a girl being nice and actual attraction/interest?
Yeah, if she's just being nice, she will tell you you are handsome or cute, and never go into details. If she is actually attracted to you, she will talk about how nice your ass is, or your eyes are sooo pretty, or your smile is amazing, etc.
Also See >>25190369
What are the signs a shy guy is interested in you?
>>25190869
Thinking more about it
>everytime she's trying to explain something and I look in her eyes she looks away
>she gave me her number in the first place
Someone kill me. I think the only reason I don't advance is because the only time I see her is when we're with a group of friends
>>25190996
He masturbates furiously to your facebook photos every night.
>>25190869
>I'll probably text her later cause its super late where I am right now
good night
>>25190996
If hes the type of introvert that rarely smiles but when all of a sudden you come around he smiles more often
>>25190995
If she calls you handsome or cute, is she dtf?
I'm somewhat successful with girls and I'm maybe a 5 or 6 out of 10 if I'm being honest. I've found that asking them if they're interested in me works really well.
>>25191073
Probably not with you. Like I said, she will tell you specifics, not just "oh anon you're cute, you'll make a girl really happy one day!"
>>25191022
I have never masterbated to FB pic. Seems way too creepy.
>>25191056
Y-you too. Marry Christmas.
>>25190837 here
Am I just be a hesitant faggot that doesn't wanna score attainable pussy?
I fucking hate these threads because they always light up how even those girls back at school that I thought were sort of a little interested in me but I as too autistic to notice, but in fact they were not doing anything that would signal that they were interested in me and it was all in my head.
>>25190919
>If she kissed me
>If she told me she wanted to fuck
No wonder you're a wizard. Are you gonna let her peg you, too? Show some damn initiative and be a man for once in your life. Do it for your own sake, because if you wait for her to make the first move, she never will. She has too much to lose to throw away on some 30 year old coworker who may reject her. You need to make the first move.
why would i want to add drama to my comfy life?
3dpd
>>25190842
Fuck, attached a pic of myself. Any late now Anon's wanna r8 my face? Be honest. It's from back in May when I was trying to grow a beard. Now and usually I am clean shaven, but it's the best I got.
>>25191213
6/10
Would grab a beer with
i will never have to care about physical appearance in my life
For me I know a girl holds interest when you're talking to her. Say, you ask something about herself, which is what everyone says to do to get someone talking, if she blabs on about herself and that's it, she doesn't care about you and simply answered your question. Say she answers your question and asks you a similar question about yourself: Bam. That's the first sign that you're not doomed. At that point, the first date comes around. If there is little or no awkward silence, you're good. That's all that it takes to make a good first impression.
>>25191241
That's about what I thought. 5 or a 6.
>>25191213
Not gonna r8 but you look good dude. Look like a chad.
Normie if I've ever seen one though so shoo shoo
This is what girls tell me when they are interested
>>25191213
You're a solid 5, but it looks like if you lose some weight you you'd have a strong jawline, which would drive women crazy.
>>25190996
Often finds excuses to be around you, seems randomly irritated with other men you hang around with and seems prone to getting into arguments/chest puffing matches with them, if he's looking at you and you catch him he'll look away really quickly. General inability to maintain direct eye contact...
Using myself as an answer desu. I'm not sure if there's anything else I do.
>>25191296
Trust me I'm the farthest away. Didn't go to prom or any school dances, khv, no real world friends, just a bunch of acquaintances from work. As I said in post before, I never really catch girls looking at me or anything.
Thanks though.
>>25191307
Here's more of that chat. I have alot of girls I date and talk to.
>>25191170
I'm not really waiting for her. My whole perspective is that if I wanted, I could probably bang her. But I don't want to get caught up in a situation, so I don't do anything.
>>25191333
>i got vaseline too
tf senpai
>>25189975
>implying these guys know
What does it mean if a girl you don't know smiles whenever she sees you? Is she just being friendly or what?
get away from me stacy
it's all too much drama
i dont want drama
>>25191213
Yeah, clean shaven would be better, also loose a little weight and you could be at least 8/10
>>25191310
I already lost a good amount of weight during junior year. Went from 290 down to 210 in under a year. Probably too much in under a short time now that I look back on it as I'm sure I got some loose skin. Now at 250, but a lot of that weight is muscle as I lift.
I could try and lose weight, but I don't want to lose muscle as well so I guess I'm good with a 5.
>>25191370
She wants you to talk to her because she thinks you're kinda cute.
i dont want to rate people
i think you're kinda absolutely disgusting
>>25191395
How do you fight the impulse of crude escapism through relationships
>>25191410
>250 lbs
How tall are you, mang?
>>25191412
How can you be sure? I don't wanna look like an ass going up to her.
>>25190267
I really wanna fuckin cuntpunt you
>>25191439
Around 6'2
BMI is shit. I am over weight, but I am not obese. If I had to guess I would say I'm at 18-20% bodyfat.
>>25191463
You are going to look like an ass like 90% of the time you approach a woman, but that's no reason not to try when you think there's a chance.
>>25191439
>tfw 5'6 and 190 lbs
>>25190369
Further confirmation of invisibility to females hard at work.
The last thing I received that could even be somewhere close to feasible interest--but not really--was a friend talking to some people she knew behind me, then once finished, putting the hood of my jacket on my head (I was sitting). Afterwards tells me I have some blonde in my hair and asks "did you know that?" with a very minuscule but deliberate pause between each word.
>>25191434
I had a relationship with a perfect girl
and she tried her best to make it work
but she thought i didn't like her because i didn't talk enough
so i never bothered again
i cucked the biggest chad i knew
it doesnt get any bigger than that
so yeah i don't really even consider relationships anymore
i just kinda accept that i can't rely on anyone
not even friendships
also im barely even 6'0" if thats a dealbreaker
>>25191475
>BMI is shit
No, it isn't actually, you just don't like the label
>18-20% body fat
That's fifty pounds of fat.
>>25191528
DUDE NUMBERS LMAO
>>25191475
>I am over weight
>If I had to guess I would say I'm at 18-20% bodyfat
Those two statements aren't compatible. Post a picture of your torso, you're probably at 25%+.
>>25191528
Going by BMI, most athletes, definitely ones in football, are obese. It counts all weight the same when we know muscle and fat are very different. Trust me, if you saw a full body picture of me, I am overweight but not obese.
And I'm just guessing that total based on picture comparisons. There is fat there though and I'm not committed enough to do a cut. I understand it's unhealthy, but it is what it is. I don't blame genetics or anything, I know it's shit. I am not obese like BMI would say though.
>>25191575
I'm not taking a pic of my shirtless torso at 3:45 at night for a bunch of anons. It already took enough nerve to post a pic of my face, I ain't doing that.
>>25191605
Why the fuck would you be willing to post your face but not your torso?
People can identify you by your face, no one is going to be able to recognize you by your gut.
It sounds like you're just a fatfuck in denial.
>>25190073
I had this girl who was into me like that
But of course, my autistic ass thought she just wanted something from me, so I never pushed it.
Kill me please
>>25191576
You are, though, and the studies back it up, that it does not matter whether the weight is muscle or fat, being at a weight that high in a body your size puts undue strain on bones and organs.
I can understand not wanting to cut or not caring that you are obese because you have a high amount of muscle, but you are classified as obese and that is the end of it. Your weight puts you at a higher risk of cardiovascular disease and joint problems.
>>25190010
What if she ruffles my hair, whines like a dog when asking me to do things and tries to bite my finger
>>25190267
nice b8
9/10
>implying there are girls on /r9k/
>>25191649
Sounds like she's in heat, anon.
well if you werent hoping to get anything from me than you got your wish already
>>25191605
go to sleep roastie whore
>>25191633
I could see joint problems, but I don't buy cardio vascular. If anything I've read that more muscle can help the heart though could be wrong.
>>25191665
B-but I don't want to go for it cause she's technically my boss
>>25190672
>poke
does that still exist? have i gone back in time to 2009?
>>25191692
it's literally 2015
LITTLE
They hang around you. After class, some event, whatever, they will be there, waiting to talk.
They add you on normiebook.
They have long conversations with you without the small talk
They look you more in the eyes
They laugh at things you say more
They will create opportunities to be with you
She responds to your messages right away.
>>25191680
More mass means more strain on the heart to pump blood to every area of the body.
>Diabetes, hypertension, and ischemic heart disease are less frequent among physically active subjects. The aim of the present national population-based study was to compare the prevalence of these three diseases between former Finnish elite athletes
>Subjects with high BMI had an increased risk for all three diseases.
>>25191649
She also interrupted herself mid sentence to say my eyes had changed color to blue (she thought they were gray, they are not)
i dont care im a skeleton
>>25191733
dynamic eye color sounds trippy as fuk
>>25191605
they're probably in the archive already
>>25190369
fuck,i shouldve asked her.
too bad i'm too much of a fucking autist to try my luck
>>25191767
Would be, but they definitely don't change colors
>mfw a girl has literally displayed all the signs posted itt and i still dont know whether she likes me or not
>>25191844
ROASTIE GETTING TOASTY
>>25191864
FOR YOU
>>25190010
>>25190105
>>25190369
>>25190396
>>25190587
Had all these things happen not too long ago, friendzoned hard. At least that's what I think. One of her friends told me that, one of mine asked her while I was away if she's into me. Nope.
But still she can't stop texting me or chasing me when we're out friday night (not together, we're just regulars there).
Maybe I fucked up, maybe not.
Still cut contact with her until march. And I hope she will stop then. Otherwise I have to stop her.
>>25191732
I got my BP a week ago and while maybe a little high, it was pretty normal(130/80), I don't have diabetes and ischemic heart disease is based around fatty deposits and LDL cholesterol.
Though I guess I can't really say because I am still young.
>>25191884
friendzoned againthis is an original comment
>>25190369
this anon is right
>>25191888
I should add about the BP, I was at the doctors because I had been coughing for over a week, so a cold could have been affecting the BP.
idc are you going to die or something?
>>25191888
>I am still young
sounds like something a roastie who needs a beta provider would say
>>25191888
I'm not saying you need to change your weight now. If you are in a sport that makes the risk worth it, then it isn't a big deal. As you said, you are still young.
I just hate when people call the BMI bullshit because the don't like where they are on it. The health risks are still there, especially ACL and Ankle problems (the cardio problems wouldn't materialise until much later if you stay active). Take care of yourself, Anon, I'd hate to see your hopes and dreams crushed by an ACL tear like mine were.
My doctor has me take fish oil for my blood pressure it might help.
>>25191985
keep track idiot.>>25191213 is me. Somehow mentioning my weight got some anons wanting to discuss how fat I am.
>>25191916
What is pic related supposed to mean? I ain't even tipping my fedora.
>>25192013
>ACL tear
That is brutal and sorry to hear anon. I know the recovery from that is long. I've been lucky so far. I've only suffered minor lifting injuries. As I get older though, it could come back to bite me yes.
>>25191333
nice trips Jon
>>25190267
Enjoy your fifty cats roastie
>>25190369
>tfw you just realized a couple of girls are into you
>they're both 2/10 at best
>>25189975
Life is easy for us terrible unattractive people. There are never signs of any kind.
It's not ideal, but at least it's simple.
>>25190636
If a girl calls you "cute" it means you're ugly. Girls don't call guys they find attractive "cute". Lmfao.
>>25189975
If she is offering you money for companionship, that's a big sign
>>25193094
>If a girl calls you "cute" it means you're ugly
That's not true. If a girl calls you "cute," it means you're not terribly unattractive, but she's not into you at all.
If you're ugly, and I'm speaking from experience here, if you're ugly, women will simply not make any reference to your appearance at all. They will never point if you have a haircut, or buy new clothes, or look in any way different. They will simply say nothing. Or, at best, they'll mention it, but carefully sidestep the issue of needing to make a validating statement about your appearance.
>"Oh, anon, you cut your hair! I should really get my haircut too, etc."
>>25190949
Maybe, just do it. Worst case, you'll get cucked.
>>25191170
And what does does she have to lose? Her ego?
THIS THREAD
FUCK
Had an acquainted girl, 8.5/10, for me it was like h o l y s h i t, had a crush, she was playing with my hair and always touching me with whole body while we're in 1 meter from each other, occasionally told once "Oh, I fell in love with %anonname%", thought it was a joke or just being nice.
>>25191870
^ this
When I was in college, there was a girl in our mutual group of college friends that I immediately took a liking to. She was fun, and sweet, and very pleasant to be around. And from what I could tell, we got along great. We started talking and hanging out exclusively, and whenever we'd show up together, they'd ask if we were dating, and she'd kind of nervously laugh and say no, and they'd ask me and immediately follow it with "Why not? It's obvious you should be, you'd be great together."
So one day, completely uncharacteristically of me, I did ask her out, and she very politely shot me down. But after that, we stopped hanging out exclusively. She smiled a bit less if we ever showed up together, and shortly after that, she simply stopped hanging out or talking with anyone in our mutual group of friends. We never heard from her again.
I'm sure there's a lesson for some of you to be learned. I know for a fact I learned a lesson from that experience.
>>25190996
Depends on how shy. I'm a pretty fit/attractive male but an extremely introverted and hardly speak unless spoken to (except when working/business). If it's someone as shy/introverted as me, you're going to have to initiate contact/interest 100% of the time
>>25193077
Same goes for us average looking people who simply won't buy into all those vague and arbitrary "signs" to supposedly be indicators of romantic/physical interest.
Be it smiling, laughing at one's jokes, feet/knees pointing in your direction when talking, having an interest in one's interests, being asked to join to events, what have you. I do all that with friends and some with acquaintances, both male and female, and they do it back. Physical contact when people had some alcohol is not uncommon either.
I'm not going to make things awkward or lose friendships/acquaintances over me seeing any of that as a "sign", though.
It's much simpler that way, and allows one to spend all the time and energy on stuff that we can enjoy rather than worrying, overthinking, and whatnot.
She said I was hilarious and a genius but I'm still waiting for her to initiate a conversation with me
>>25189975
If they talk to you in a flirty way and you don't have to put all the effort in but trust me they probably don't like you
>>25190267
Gotta be
Bloxxxxxxxx
>>25190595
You just know mate lol
Learn comedy as an art, plenty of books on it. Some are more naturally talented than others but it is learnable.
I'm probably a 5/10 at best, but have always swam in pussy because "oh anon, you're so funny"
If you make people laugh, smile, have a good time they will crave to be around you.
Secondly, stop caring about what they think about you. If you're hard to get, they go crazy to get your attention.
Lastly, be playful. Don't be a doormat that lusts after them 24/7. Insult them a bit. Tease them about something. Its irresistible.
