I just wanted to tell you robots that despite your past and where you are now you can fit in and have a normalish social life.
when I was a kid I was a as super autismo kid with no friends that persisted until I was 13 so roughly half my life I didn't have any friends.
I began to hang out with some weird nerds and share in our mutual hobbies and start to learn how to act normal.
Flash to the modern day I am pretty social guy that bangs chicks off dating sites. If you told me that as a kid I would probably never believe you.
Anyways I know the path to somewhat normalcy and I want to help you lonely robots who have given up or just need help.
fuck off you shit
back to /adv/ or /soc/ fucking cunt
>>25172868
Robots are often the opposite. They have friends and a fun, carefree life until around 13 when looks determine most of your social status.
>>25172868
You went through a normal phase of early childhood autism, everyone went through that shit.
You alwaays been an alternative normie
>>25172936
I am not very attractive but that really hasn't me Abe Lincoln was uglier that sin bet he was the fucking president.
Also don't worry about looks too much and be willing to compromise, if you expect someone to fuck you and your not hot others will have that same expectation of you.
>>25172973
Abe Lincoln most likely had Marfan
>>25172868
I am not 13, people aren't forced to be in the same room with me for hours a day
people won't willingly socialize me because I have no social skills
I can't develop social skills because no one will socialize with me
most nerds I meet here just take the piss whenever I let slip and accidentally say something autistic, I can't even make friends on /r9k/, most people seem to be of the opinion that retards, aspies and autists deserve to die and would do this to me without hesitation if there were no consequences to their actions and believe it is completely justified because I am a little annoying, failing that they see it fit to completely socially ostracize me and discriminate against me when applying for jobs, trying to lead a normal life, my father barely tolerates me because he loved my late mother and this is the only reason I am not a homeless drug addict or in jail
what normy advice do you have for me now
I'm the opposite. I was friends with the eccentric nerdy kinds and shit a shitload of fun playing games like starcraft and age of empires back in the day, but since I turned 18 I have no friends.
>>25173057
shit anon why did you post that pic...
fuck there's so much suffering on earth
>>25173057
persue hobbies and hang out with people of mutual interests. Try reading some books about being a normie like how to win friends and influence people.
Watch people when you spend time with others really looks how people act around each other use this and the guide for your future interactions. Avoid basing your views on what is normal/acceptable behavior from media like ,tv, movies, anime, pornography, and especially 4chan.
You will most likely have a relationship with someone that is less than your current ideal you will need to be ok with that. It is unlikely you will find a virginal, attractive, young chick, that shares your interests and is attracted to you.
Lots of young dudes who our also autismo act like dicks to the more socially retarded/autistic peers they may have. It is important to hang out with people who are good role models for normal behavior.
Make sure you interact with women in real life, there are lots of attractive chicks our there and some may be your friends. But I warn you women are not machines where you can put in friendship and they dispense sex.
>>25172868
I think if you are still a teenager there's hope. But I'm not a teen anymore.
>>25173276
>Try reading some books about being a normie like how to win friends and influence people.
>give me money and i'll make you into a perfect doormat
You're so fucking useless is hilarious, you were born a normie you dipshit you went through a phase is that fucking simple, you didn't evolve or anything
>>25173057
>>25173143
> Its okay to boil lobsters but not dogs
>>25173338
the bigger the brain the greater the pain
>>25172973
Lincoln wasn't ugly though.
High cheekbones + he was pretty tall.
>>25173305
I'm 28 and I am still learning to be normal everyday pretty much.
>>25173335
you conflate the idea of not being a reactionary vitriolic person with some type of spineless passive sycophant. You can both be sociable and be assertive, to respect yourself and set boundaries while conforming social norms.
No need to pay money I am just saying there is info out there on how to be more sociable and successful in your personal life.
>>25172868
I was somewhat normal a couple of years ago, but currently I don't know how to escape from this situation.
I've always been a huge introvert, but despite that, I've always had lots of friends too. When I was 15-18 I used to hang out with friends, and even though I didn't hook up or something, at least I had social life.
When I was 18 (I'm 21 now) I moved to my current country, and I just can't find "my place" here. At college everyone hangs out with their school friends, so even though I've made friends there, I still feel quite alone. Not that I like parties, clubs or something, but whatever.
Probably what upsets me the most is that I don't know how I'll manage to lose my virginity.
>>25173338
see >>25173370
+ lobsters are not tortured like the pic with the dogs
>>25173535
>I've always been a huge introvert
> I've always had lots of friends too
how did you do this?
Shut em down as they sprout up, robots. They must be beaten back to tumblreddit
>>25173276
Ok, ill take the bite, you worthless piece of shit.
>Pursue hobbies and hang out with people of mutual interests
Normalfags dont share same hobbies, period.
If you consider yourself as a true robot/autist, you dont even want people around you which dont share your interests. You simply DONT. Get IT.
>Books about being a normie, how to win friends etc
I wont even comment on this one, you should seriously ask yourself, if you're not mentally challenged and retarded beyond salvation.
>Relationship less than ideal etc
This would probably stick to thirsty, braindead, bluepilled betas. If that was your goal, check out reddit. And post your uninteresting shit there, even though this board is currently going into a really shitty direction.
>Lots of young dudes who our also autismo act like dicks to the more socially retarded/autistic peers they may have
I dont think you understand what autism really is.
>It is important to hang out with people who are good role models for normal behavior.
Again, you dont understand what autism really is. Look, i'll get what youre doing here.
You think it is simple for an autist, to adopt the behaviours of a normalfag, but it really, really doesnt work this way, do your fucking research.
You are born with it. I wouldnt wonder if you would be religious too. (You might also ask yourself why i throw that one in)
>etc etc.. But I warn you women are not machines where you can put in friendship and they dispense sex.
And after these last two sentences youve made, i see where you are coming from.
I see what you are trying to do, you are some normalfag who got lost here, and now you want to play or act like white knight, and try to "help" people on which you have no clue about.
And, mind if i correct you, women are exactly that.
Please do yourself a favor, and leave this board for good.
You are literally a disease on this board
>>25173535
It is hard to move to a new place because we spent years cultivating relationships in the places we left and have to do the whole thing over again the awkwardness of trying to find people that can relate to you, the anxiety about being some type of friendless loser, the initial attempts and rejections.
I just recently moved to a new city and I was lucky to have a friend who lived here so I ended up moving in a crazy house with them and meeting other people.
I am no expert but I think the key to friendship is mutual interests and spending time with those people.
Take stock of the things you like to do. If you are like me they are pretty nerdy like magic the gathering, D&D, video games, etc. Then find groups of people who meet to engage in the mutual interest.
The college in my town has a magic the gathering club so I play with them at times.
I promise if you go out and spend time with people who like what you like you will get at least one friend.
Don't even worry about losing your v card it is not super important I would say do it and it really doesn't matter who with it is far from special, important, or magical. If you really want to lose it hang out with drunk chicks. If it is really something you want to get done get an escort.
I have aspergers and have a hard time talking to women. what now?
Anyone in NY wants to walk around the city and just randomly talk to people? (after new years tho)
>>25173442
>No need to pay money I am just saying there is info out there on how to be more sociable and successful in your personal life.
Normies don't know shit about being sociable is an inherited quality that they possess, they can't teach it
>>25173656
I don't really know, people always say that I'm quite charismatic. Also, during that time when I was between 15 and 18, I had childhood extroverted friends that helped me a lot to develop my social skills. Keep in mind that being an introvert isn't the same as being anti-social or something like that. I like being with people, but I like even more being by myself.
This may sound horrible, but you need to learn how to be manipulative. I don't know if "real" social skills are based on this too, but I've always known how to treat people in order to get them to like me. My friends used to say as a joke: "It's impossible to hate Anon!". Assertiveness is the key.
Anyway, I still feel alone.
>>25173696
>Normalfags dont share same hobbies, period.
If you consider yourself as a true robot/autist, you dont even want people around you which dont share your interests. You simply DONT. Get IT.
Normal people share hobbies and interests, people meet up and watch game of thrones or have a fantasy football league. I imagine some people find it intolerable to not be around people that share the exact same interests, but I would recommend trying to find common grounds with about anyone. Try to get to know people, people love talking about themselves, take an active interest.
>I wont even comment on this one, you should seriously ask yourself, if you're not mentally challenged and retarded beyond salvation.
That was less than friendly but I assume when someone is rude or aggro that they have shit going on in their lives that is stressing them out or causing them trouble.
>This would probably stick to thirsty, braindead, bluepilled betas. If that was your goal, check out reddit. And post your uninteresting shit there, even though this board is currently going into a really shitty direction
I generally feel people here who are redpilled are isolated angry young men that hold antiquated views that are reinforced by their peers.
>I dont think you understand what autism really is.
I would loosely define it as socially abnormal behavior that leads to poor relationships, isolation, and resentment.
>Again, you dont understand what autism really is. Look, i'll get what youre doing here.
You think it is simple for an autist, to adopt the behaviours of a normalfag, but it really, really doesnt work this way, do your fucking research.
You are born with it. I wouldnt wonder if you would be religious too. (You might also ask yourself why i throw that one in)
I don't mean the literally autistic but people who are largely poorly socialized nerds and for them they can learn how to act like others.
I am not religious personally but I am not opposed to it.
>>25173696
>And after these last two sentences youve made, i see where you are coming from.
>I see what you are trying to do, you are some normalfag who got lost here, and now you want to play or act like white knight, and try to "help" people on which you have no clue about.
>And, mind if i correct you, women are exactly that.
I was looking at people's posts here depressed, hopeless, angry, isolated because their social/love lives or the lack their of and simply wanted to help people if I can that is good if it without benefit at least I tried to help others.
I am no expert on women but you will friends with women and many of them will not want to have a sex with you or have a romantic relationship with you. Often no matter how good of a friend you are to her she is simply not interested in you erotically. If women were machines where you put in friendship and they dispensed sex there wouldn't be anyone complaining about the friend zone.
>Please do yourself a favor, and leave this board for good.
>You are literally a disease on this board
Well I am happy that I could help I hope you have a good day.
>>25173708
Thank you, anon. Note that I do have friends, but not the ones you would hang out with.
>I am no expert but I think the key to friendship is mutual interests and spending time with those people.
I think so, too. And that's the main problem: I have friends, but I don't share much common interests with them. I only have one friend with whom I really share interests, but most of his friends are normies, and he hangs out with them to do normie stuff I don't like.
There's an anime club at my university, and I hung out with them a couple of times. I felt that we really connected, and ironically they probably saw me as someone more extroverted tham them, but I don't get to see them much because we study different degrees.
Also, that's another problem for me. My degree. I'm studying International Business Administration, aaand your all know how most people who study those degrees are.
Anyway, you've helped me a bit to cheer up, anon. Thank you.
>>25174045
no problem dude just keep on getting out there and spending time with people that like the stuff you like. Also try new things there is a world of shit out there that you probably like but have yet to try.
>>25173878
so you had people helping you. that explains it I think.
why do you feel alone.
post pic, height, etc
the usual
>>25174038
Fuck off man, why do you need to come here to boost your ego? There's always some Chad wannabe that treats this board like /adv/, but worst of all are this kpind of faggots
>>25174045
Who clearly have no reason to waste their time in this cesspool of shit.
>>25173921
>Normal people share hobbies and interests, people meet up and watch game of thrones or have a fantasy football league. I imagine some people find it intolerable to not be around people that share the exact same interests, but I would recommend trying to find common grounds with about anyone. Try to get to know people, people love talking about themselves, take an active interest.
Look, we are going in circles again. You are speaking of normal people. And after that, you are speaking about "common grounds" which would be, well lets say Normie(x) likes one piece, the autist/robot(or call it however you want,y) likes all those other unknown animes, including "hardcore" hentai stuff. X have their morals and their common "behavior" patterns. It can depend, but however, autistic people tend to love to talk about their hobbies and interests, and in the long run, it simply wouldnt end up well.
> generally feel people here who are redpilled are isolated angry young men that hold antiquated views that are reinforced by their peers.
For a good reason. Its almost like a nihilistic worldview. IF you are a rational thinking being, you cannot avoid the fact, that everything is going apeshit right now. It is a rational reaction to society, which is from an objective point of view, an ever expanding pile of shit.
>I would loosely define it as socially abnormal behavior that leads to poor relationships, isolation, and resentment.
Correct, but there is much more into it, its pretty superficial. I recommend wiki. (inb4 muh wiki is not a legit source)
>I don't mean the literally autistic but people who are largely poorly socialized nerds and for them they can learn how to act like others.
I am not religious personally but I am not opposed to it.
So, you dont mean those who are "literally" autistic. That explains some things here.
>>25174225
I am just trying to help people be happier better versions of themselves if I can, I didn't know trying to help people was such a great offense.
>>25174225
>Who clearly have no reason to waste their time in this cesspool of shit.
Believe me, I do.
>>25174187
1. I don't share interests with nearly anyone I know here. Therefore, I don't have anyone to hang out with to do stuff I like.
2. Can't manage to get a gf, just as most people here. I can't even find a girl I like, most of them seem just plain boring to me.
3. My true friends are all in my other country (Spain). I'm still in touch with them, but it's not the same. It kills me to see on our social media how they still hang out together, how they get together for New Year, how they talk about someone I don't know because I'm not there with them anymore, etc. It kills me, because I'm not part of that anymore.
>>25172868
Where do I go to meet people who are willing to be my friend?
>>25174445
And more stuff I'm too lazy to list.
Anyway, probably lots of people here have it worse. Just wanted to get it off my chest a little bit.
>>25174315
Because you believe that you can simpathise with me, because you think that my life was like tje ones that suburban kids have, because you'll feed me an endless stream of "positive thinking" while telling me that everything that is wrong with me isn't as bad as i experienced it.
Because you are you and you fail to see what's beyond the screen
>>25174445
I sorta know that. I had a friend who I spent a lot of my childhood with. But he made other friends and doesn't ever talk to me. He'd tell me about the things he did with his other friends and it would infuriate me. Since I had no one else.
>>25174526
Hi there, anon. I'm >>25173535
>that everything that is wrong with me isn't as bad as i experienced it.
Everything you've experienced is as bad as you feel it is, and no one should say the opposite. Life is tough, and some have it worse than others. But you know, there's always time. There's always time to change, to improve, or to heal if you've been hurt. You may be thinking now "Not this bullshit again" or something like that, but I just wanted to tell you that. I know I'm not good cheering up people, but well.
>>25174835
Not the guy who you replied to, but this "there is always time to change or improve" is simply delusional.
It creates way more problems than it helps.
I may took offense towards you or insulted you in some posts above, (>>25173696)
but what i just want to say is, you are deeply misplaced here. Those advices you write here
dont help at all.
You should really lurk a bit more, and really observe the nature of this board before posting stuff like that.
No offense intended this time.
>>25174913
I'm not >>25173696 lol.
I respect your opinion, but I don't think it's delusional. And I don't think so because even though I'm not at my best currently, I've experienced it. You can fucking change. Hard as hell, and even harder for some depending on their circumstances, but most of us still have time to try.
I don't really want to go further in here precisely because of what >>25174526 said: we are all behind a screen, and we don't know each other's circumstances. I'm not and I don't want you to think that I'm one of those who say stuff like "Just man up" or "Get up and change your life" as if it were the easiest things ever. Even so, I still believe it's possible for most people.
>>25175241
>I'm not >>25173696 lol.
I mean, I'm not the guy you replied to.
There's no way to make friends if you're not in school anymore
>>25175496
fucking this
>3 girls at my work
>1 is taller and heavier than me and has a bf
>1 is beautiful but already has a child
>1 is decently cute but the boss has dibs on her
JUST
>>25173276
>hang out with people of mutual interests
as I said, every so often I say something stupid and people catch on that there is something wrong with me and my subhuman status in society, no one wants to be around me, not even other failures
>reading some books about being a normie like how to win friends and influence people
empty platitudes, they tell normies what they want to hear and make them feel good but don't have any practical advice for someone like me
>Watch people when you spend time with others really looks how people act around each other
I have and it is still a complete fucking mystery how chad manages to know exactly what to say and why when I try to say the same things people react negatively
>Avoid basing your views on what is normal/acceptable behavior
I'm way ahead of you on this
>women are not machines where you can put in friendship and they dispense sex
I have heard this meme several times before and the fact you have to tell me something so obvious implies you think I am some kind of rapist, it is the equivalent of me saying "jews are not machines who you can put in concentration camps and use for free labor, don't commit a holocaust"
you decided, without evidence, that I am some kind of creep and rapist, this is hate, you absolutely hate my guts
>>25173276
>persue hobbies and hang out with people of mutual interests
easier said than done desu
most people that just do drugs all day are shitty peoplei'm not aware of any hobbies that are interesting ;_;
>>25175496
>>25175517
>29yo neet
>no school friends
>no work friends
>rest of society thinks you're subhuman
>first question you get asked when you meet someone new is "Oh, so what do you do? where do you work?"
I said the hell with it and went back to playing WoW, but so far I don't have any friends there either
