I have asked if my looks met guys' physical standards for dating, and every guy said no. Here are some of the answers I got, copied and pasted:
You could lose a little weight but you're a butter face at best.
Sorry my but no, I'm not a mean guy but I would like to see someone more nicer in my bed in the morning.
No, unfortunately even if you were the nicest person in the world, I would not be able to date you simply because I find you incredibly unattractive. It may seem shallow, but for any relationship to work, there has to be some attraction.
EWWWWW...There goes my dinner.
god no
K I'm sorry but your *** ugly an don't get mad because you asked what I think so yeah
2/10 Sorry, but I am just being honest. I don't find you attractive at all.
pretty ugly
you look like a tanker, aka a massive sh*t
And those were the NICE ones!
So I can't get a guy on looks because I'm too ugly, and even though I have a really nice personality they won't date me because I'm ugly. what is there for me to do?
>>25170586
Lose weight you dumb cunt.
>>25170586
Pray and chant
>Trapped inside a void of black
>No escape, no turning back
>Walking further unto the gates
>Falling faster, it's much too late
>Evacuate, the time is near
>All the people you knew are here
>They turn their backs on you again
>Leave you hopeless, leave you for dead
>Come now, Lucifer
>Now is the time
>Come now, Lucifer
>Destroy their minds
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CiLd6pxV15Q
>>25170586
>even though I have a really nice personality they won't date me
It's unfortunate but I assume any fat person is unintelligent and too much of a retard to be worth investing in.
If you can't even take care of your own body, how am I going to trust that you can be my partner and raise our kids, take care of finances, etc?
>>25170586
If you have a nice body I would bang and gf you pretty much regardless of your face 2bh
>>25170586
keep searching, even the most ugly and deformed of women can find someone eventually, good luck.don't pretend like you weren't asking 10/10 great personality Chads this question and not regular guys, maybe if you shot for your own league and didn't expect your personality to carry you to the moon you'd have better luck.
Girl to girl talk:
As a woman, you need to reach a certain standard in looks. That is the harsh reality. But the good thing is unless you have a facial tumour, you can.
I was a 4/10 in high school. I'm now a 7/10 through hard work and am dating an engineer nice guy.
1. Lose weight, work out
There is literally nothing that stops you from having an above average body but yourself
Small boobs aren't a problem if the rest of your body is fit.
Not being super skinny isn't a problem if you work out and have the boobs and butt to show for it.
2. Know how to flattering, natural make up
Men prefer natural make up overall, don't go crazy.
3. Skin care routine
Fucking easy, don't be lazy
4. Wear flattering nice clothes
There are nice clothes that aren't overly expensive. If you have bad taste, ask someone with good taste to help you out and take their advice.
5. Hair routine and hair care
Get nice hair. If you have shitty greyish hair, dye it a colour that suits you. Get a good hair cut. No excuses.
6. If you wear glasses get fashionable ones or wear contacts only
7. Do your fucking eyebrows but don't overdo it.
Non-deformed ugly women don't exist. Lazy women exist.
Even if your face is bad, you can go up to a 5/10 if you follow these steps.
5/10 women can get 5/10 men.
Literally no excuses.
>>25170860
5/10 women can get 7/10 men if they have personality.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/
Women are this delusional.
This is good advice desu, but you just know OP won't take it because muh no motivation to work out
>>25170914
I mean this >>25170860
Post your face op let's see what we're dealing with, I'll be gentle
I'll date you OP, average as fuck guy here living in Australia.
>>25170586
You don't have the right to complain about being ugly when you're fat.
Get to a normal BMI then you can complain nobody wants you
>all these people telling her to lose weight
guys, it's not that she's fat, it's that her face is hideous.
>>25170860
I'm a man and I prefer makeup
This must be the female equivalent of a PUA - a Jew selling lies to incels
>>25170860
>I was a 4/10 in high school. I'm now a 7/10 through hard work and am dating an engineer nice guy.
Yet look where you are you stupid whore, still on r9k after attention and validation.
>>25170860
Listen to this fembot. Shes got the right idea. We all have to do the dance. Guys and girls.
>>25170879
While this is true, the best way to go about dating is to assume you are looking for someone who is your equal in looks.
If you only accept 7/10 dates as a 5/10 and become bitter because of being shot down all the time, it is your own damn fault.
>>25171004
Her face is hideous because it is fat.
>>25171053
Baseless assumptions. I've seen lots of fat blobs with good faces. OP just has the face of a hemorrhoid.
>>25171031
I'm hardly here anymore. I used to browse /r9k/ before it got deleted. I'm an old bitch, so I can offer some advice.
When I was in my early 20s I was looking for attention and validation even though I had nothing on offer and then wondered why I graduated as a kissless virgin.
Don't make that mistake.
>>25171065
>I used to browse /r9k/ before it got deleted. I'm an old bitch, so I can offer some advice.
Like they all claim, don't let the door hit you on the way out. You old slag.
>>25170586
OP, I like ugly girls, can I date you?
>>25171065
you were once a kissless virgin but I take it you're a used up whore now?
you should leave again, for good.
>>25171044
Men fuck down but they don't date down. Women only date and fuck upward. So it's all trickery on the female end whenever they manage to date up.
Post some pics OP and let some ugly ass robots decide :3
Post pic OP
People claim to be non-hamplanet ugly Girls on r9k every day and now after seeing mystery.jpig, I'm really convinced it's just a meme
>>25171016
>prefer makeup
The only people who actually prefer airbrushed gossip mag faces are jews and women, anon.
>>25171180
I prefer makeup man 90% of girls look sickly without it
>>25171200
>not liking sickly looking girls
plebe
>>25171200
This, they look ugly af without it.
>>25171200
most guys prefer girls without makeup but what most guys don't realize is that a lot of women use basic makeup to make it seem like their normal skin isn't as disgusting as it really is, only women can tell when another woman is wearing makeup.
>>25171222
>most guys prefer girls without makeup
lol stop blowing wind out of your ass.
>>25170586
Stop watching porn and lower your standards to realistic proporitons
There. Done
>>25171200
There's a big difference between "no makeup" and "no makeup makeup"
I've seen your face before, OP. You're not ugly. You're drab.
>>25171222
That's bullshit. I can tellmoo more often than not and its because her dark circles show and her skin looks greasy.
Some girls look okay without makeup but those are the attractive ones who for some reason never decided wear any in the first place
>>25171200
>90% of girls look sickly without it
that's it lads
if it weren't for makeup the attractiveness scale would be evened out
OP let us see you
>tfw you Realize op the blob was chasing chads
>>25171248
Where have you seen her face?
So is OP going to post any pics or is this just another troll thread
>>25171291
It's b8 lad
>>25171222
this
saw a pic of some girls at the pool on /r9k/
I pointed out that this is what women look like without makeup, everyone going "no they're just ugly they all look sick this isn't what normal women look like"
oh the ironing
>>25171287
Not telling. You sperglords would rip her to shreds.
>>25171238
it's a common thing to say for a reason, because it's true.
>>25171265
wouldn't greasy skin let you know that she's not wearing makeup since it would absorbs the oils?you're full of shit.
Is there a website where you can ask random gay guys if they would date you? I'm not gay but I believe they would tell me the truth. I would post my pic here but hey, it's 4chan.
>>25171313
>, because it's true.
Gonna need citation on these claims.
>>25171087
>>25171116
Newbies mad af lmao
If you're still here, OP: It's mostly your prominent mandible. You also have poor posture and maybe a little puppy fat.
You look okay in the pic where you're dining al fresco.
>>25171323
Not really. That's like being a woman and looking for rates on /soc/ or /r9k/
Guys are horny as fuck and they'd probably rate you much higher than a woman would
Then again I'm kind of convinced women don't see looks and they just care about your popularity and importance.girls are unironically calling eggman attractive now.
But yeah, I honestly think that if you want a good idea of your attractiveness for whatever reason, you need to compare your face to the faces of attractive people like models
>>25171323
Do you have a beard?
If yes= Yes we would
If no= No we wouldn't
>>25171359
I have a shitty beard that I'm going to shave. I'm not meant to have beards.
>>25171354
You don't see model-tier people in the streets, anon.
>>25171060
>i've seen lots of fat blobs with good faces
If you're hanging around some fat fetishist that's into triple chins sure, otherwise, lose some fucking weight it will improve your face.
>>25170586
you could lose weight
How being thin increases your attractiveness from being fat? Honest question. I kinda like chubby girls so I don't really care about this from my pov
>>25171372
>dirty hipster beard
>not freddie mercury tier mustache
Do you even into gay?
>>25171372
That doesn't make them not attractive?
If you have good features like them but they don't come together as well, or you have imperfections like being pudgier, glasses, receding hairline, etc. you just ballpark how much that affects your score.
Like I think I was pretty lucky with my facial aesthetics but it probably puts me in the 6 range, as an average-ish looking person.
>>25171350
Post her picture!!
Original comment
>>25171410
When I posted my face on /soc/ I would usually get 5~6. Sometimes a 7 but I think they were from nice people. I have no idea how to rank myself.
>>25171425
You could post on reddit's amiugly page
I did it once, but they deleted my post like immediately so idk
or you could post it here where there's no pressure for you to rate anybody else and people don't get butthurt and base your rating on that (that's the entire problem with /soc/ and IDs)
>>25171422
I dunno, mang. She looks really innocent and vulnerable.
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OC COMMENT, COMMIES
>>25171452
I don't know. I'm very shy and I'm also black. Don't think this would go very well.
>>25171470
come on, anon, what's the worst that can happen?
hurry and post some random girl who isn't OP but just some girl you have a grudge against who no one will do anything against because 4chan is where government fearing children hang out who don't want to push the boundaries of the law.
>>25170879
THIS IS THE PERFECT RESPONSE TO THAT BULLSHIT IMAGE WHICH SHOWS MEN RANKING WOMEN ON A NORMAL CURVE AND WOMEN ON AN ABNORMAL CURVE
BECAUSE MEN ONLY MESSAGE THE MODELESQUE
MEN ONLY WANT MODELS
MEN HAVE RIDICULOUS STANDARDS
MEN HATS AVERAGE LOOKING WOMEN
PROOF IS RIGHT HERE
>>25170755
>don't pretend like you weren't asking 10/10 great personality Chads this question and not regular guys, maybe if you shot for your own league and didn't expect your personality to carry you to the moon you'd have better luck.
Qft.
Underrated post.
>>25171495
I have social anxiety and I get the same line from normies every single day.
"you have to push yourself and just do it if you ever want to get better"
It feels awful and whether or not it's true is debatable.
But it's the same situation I guess. If I want to function normally, I have to go out and deal with the harsh circumstances of life.
If you want an accurate idea of your current looks, you have to be willing to hear if you're ugly or average or gay-looking or anything. It's a leap and you take the good with the bad.
>>25170860
BICH shut up im supper skinny yet no man has asked me out, except some player and im pretty sure he was just doing it to exercise his power
im too shy to get a date. guys in my college know that.
>>25171505
>http://www.jeepshoe.net/09-09/would-you-talk-hang-out-with-a-very-ugly-person/
This is her post. Links to tinypic and postimg inside.
>>25171569
lol she looks so average
fuck this shitty Earth
all of this hullabaloo over absolutely nothing
>>25171016
I don't think it's so much that we prefer makeup as it is that we prefer not to see what they look like without makeup. The less makeup the better as long as they're still attractive.
My gf has perfect skin and looks great with no makeup. She usually only has to wear eyeliner when we're going out. Feels good to wake up next to the same face you see during the day.
>>25171569
she's not even that ugly, only reinforces my initial assumption that she was going after men far above her league and got shot down, probably has autism too but still believes her personality is great, she will forever struggle in the dating world because she lacks self-awareness.
okay OP
lose 5-10 lbs and wear contacts or get better glasses frames
>>25171569
She looks fine tbqh
Could get a better haircut+do eyebrows+lose a little weight and she'd be +7/10
>>25171569
By the looks of things, you're looking for pity. Like a lot of people here, you're bitter about being unable to score. If scoring mad sex is what's important to you, maybe try focusing on getting good at something.
People start to notice you when you get good at shit. And when people notice you more, maybe you'll notice them.
>>25171906
And btw, you look like the shy type I'd usually approach. Shy types are qt as fuck
>>25170755
>>25171619
spot on even if she claims the comments about her looks came from yahoo answers.
>>25170586
Post tits and pussy or fuck off.
>>25171327
That sign looks fake
>>25171569
not even ugly
>>25171569
Holy shit
She just needs to lose weight, do her eyebrows, learn how to do makeup and dress nicely and then just go out and get a bf
>>25170755
this t.b.h. bloxx
>>25170860
5/10 women can get 7/10 men easy, being woman means dating for you is ez mode, only fat-as-fuck landwhales have trouble getting a guy, and they could easily change that if they would just workout, but they are rather lazy af and complain that women have it just as hard as men. Fuck that shit
>>25170717
Oh this stupid argument again...
>>25171569
>linking to obvious clickbait spam site
No thanks
>>25172196
She honestly doesn't need to do any of that. I've seen much uglier with boyfriends (that's not to imply that she's ugly either).
>>25172615
Found the mad fatty fat-fat
fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck off fuckoff
fuck off fuck off fuck off
that's a 4/10 at best
>>25171569
She's just another plain Jane that probably has beta orbiters surrounding her, and would eek into Stacy range if she had any idea how to present herself. Yawn.
>>25170586
Lose weight and remember that beta orbiters will ALWAYS be out there and their standards require only a vagina.
>>25171200
I've always wondered if slathering makeup on your face daily can permanently affect your complexion.
Like, do most adult women just look naturally sickly without makeup? Or is all that shit being absorbed in their skin making them look sickly? It's strange to me because younger girls who don't wear makeup don't look like that at all.
It sucks, OP. Life's a bitch. Fuck robots who say ugly women can't be lonely, and this is coming from a guy. T Ugly people shouldn't have kids, they mostly come out ugly and thus miserable.
That's why I came out ugly, both my parents are. I'm not having kids, I don't want to pass this curse on.
>>25170860
>Non-deformed ugly women don't exist. Lazy women exist.
Hahahahahahaha, sure. Stop fucking bullshitting her.
>>25171118
Some men definitely date down but men with self-esteem certainly won't.
>>25170860
sure, keep telling yourself that.
>>25172615
Show me one super successful/intelligent person that's morbidly obese.
That's right, you can't.
>>25170586
I wish I were ugly, I'm good looking but a total sperg so when I do get hit on I just get stressed out and spill spaghetti every time. That and I get a lot of unwanted attention from landwhales and gays which used to be flattering but has just turned tiresome.
>>25170586
>what is there for me to do?
There are fetishists for this sort of thing.
