>Be me, 26
>Get turned down by girls my whole life
>Single all through out high school, college, any job I've worked
>Asked girls out constantly no replies
>Lower standards to fat girls, ugly women, and single moms
>Try dating sites for 2 years
>Finally get a girl who actually doesn't get board immediately with me
>We talk for several months on this dating site
>We become facebook friends
>We agree to go on a little date in town this thursday because its the only day she's free
>She's 33, single mother with 2 kids and works a shit job.
TL;DR Is it worth dating a single mother with two kids? I hate children and would rather date a 2/10 but this woman looks like a hard 6 is it worth it?
>>25159891
She will destroy whatever happiness you have left in your life, don't do it
It's your decision mate, I could go on about how single mothers are the worst cause statistically... Yadayadayada
But in the end, if it makes you happy then go for it, don't overcomplicate with what if's
You could also just use the occasion to gather some experience
As long as it's bettering your life dude..
>>25160013
Exactly, I've been seeing all the r9k red flags
>two kids
>tattoos
>crazy sex life at young age
>no college degree
>Works as a waitress for a shitty restaurant that serves cheap beer and buffalo wings
She even ask about my income and work life, I almost freak when she talked about her promiscuous sex life and just wants to settle down away from all the sleazy guys. My biggest fear is falling in love with her.
>>25160051
This is what I'm hoping for, I've never been in a relationship but I've heard people talk about it a lot and just say that single moms tend to rush things. I just want to date her without ever meeting her kids.
>>25159891
>hit it and quit it
ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Empty your savings account and stash it in a little safe in your parent's attic. Mess around with her and even if you fall in love and are inevitably betrayed at least you won't be penniless.
>>25160238
She's trying to lock you down to take care of her and her kids
>>25160238
>>25160291
this
>>25160262
and this
>tattoos
>crazy sex life
>retard
>shit job
If you don't hit&quit, have fun supporting HER family. Fucking dumb nigger, how can you even consider this?
>>25159891
I mean, as long as she's nice to you, why not?
Don't be her beta provider, you're better than that OP. For fucks sake, have some self respect.
>>25159891
Run ASAP. Bitch have hit the wall and know she's running out of time. Fucking run.
Also, get redpilled.
>>25160262
She says shes been trying to take things slow as of now when it comes to relationships, but she has admitted shes been a whore in the past.
>>25160283
I don't think she can get access to my savings unless I marry her right?
>>25160291
>>25160376
This is what I fear most, I'm not gonna be locked down nor will I ever take care of another mans children. I just plan on dating her for a bit so I can at least ascend to cyborghood and hopefully get the hell out of here.
>>25160410
I've been redpilled, but even then the constant loneliness has gotten to me. But still, She's actually pretty attractive, I mean she's a little chunky and wears lots of make up but still I doubt any of you robots wouldn't turn her away.
>>25159891
remember all those times we say things like
>not even a beta would marry her
>to think some beta will marry her
and such?
no you don't cuz only a newfag would ask something that Op you fucking faggot
>>25159891
>we talk for several months on a dating site
> we talk FOR SEVERAL MONTHS
C U C K
U C K
C K
K
>>25159891
NEVER DATE SINGLE MOMS
>>25160730
If you live with her for a set amount of time or take a fatherly role for her kids she can get alimony and child support from you even if you're not married
>>25161027
I use to say the same thing when I was in my early 20's late teens, people's point of view tends to change. Especially if you get lonely...
>>25160931
I mean I skyped with her for a bit, but this thursday will actually be the first time I'm meeting her IRL.
>>25161084
Thats fucked up, does this apply to all states in the USA?
>>25159891
She is of little to no worth to you anon, no man has been good enough for her in her 33 years of life, not even the father(s) of her children, she clearly isn't after a man, just a paycheck. Don't limit yourself to bitches that have fucked up their lives, improve your own.
>>25161257
She said she dated a guy for 4 years and had two kids but walked out on her because he cheated it on with some other girl. I kind of believe her because her kids do look the same, at least they're white.
OP here, will keep in check with the thread because I gotta do something. Heres a pic of her, she's pretty attractive desu
>>25162575
Second bump, would you robots date a mother if she was faithful?
have lots of sex with her
gain confidence
never move in with her or give her money
read /r/theredpill everyday
you can fall in love, but be ready to end it at any moment
>>25162575
I'd definitely hit that.
>>25160238
>I just want to date her without ever meeting her kids.
then do it, only hang out with her when the kids are away
>>25163521
This.
I won't give her a ridiculous amount of money just pay for dinners and dates. And as always never put pussy on the pedestal
>>25163574
> just pay for dinners and dates
no. no dinners. just netflix and chill. maybe bars also, but you guys split the tab
>>25160238
>single moms tend to rush things.
Because she wants to snag a beta orbiter (you) BEFORE you wise up to her antics and decide to flee. If she puts a ring on your finger she has already won.
RUN BITCH RUN
>>25162632
>>25162575
Lmao if you're not some bored nigga telling lies on the internet then you're a dumbass. You're a dumbass either way tho
>>25159891
My brother dates a bitch with 2 kids. I'm pretty sure he's going to kill himself soon.
>>25163609
I do plan on dating her but if she plans on tying me down I'm splitting.
>>25163647
I've been redpilled, but I plan on "cheating" my way around it. Yes we all missed out on sex in our early life but why not just date a single mom? Sure her pussy may be stretch and she'll try to rope you but so as long as you stay redpilled you'll atleast get to feel another woman. As much as we hate to admit it, everyone here wants to have a taste of what normies get, no point in being bitter and alone forever.
Look man, i know you're desperate for a relationship but FUCK THAT
SHES ONLY USING YOU FOR YOU TO PROVIDE
She's basically a whore
plus her kids will drive you insane
ive seen buddies' lives RUINED
just go find yourself a cute out of high school girl
>>25165709
>bitter
better to be alone and bitter than provide for another mans spawn
Don't be daft lad.
Either you'll be a nice young trophy for her to parade around in front of her ex/baby daddy. She will tell him about you the first chance she gets, believe me. If he's not seething with jealousy, she'll dump your ass quick.
Or
She wants to lock you down to provide for her shitty little kid. Guys her own age probably already have a kid to worry about, but not you. You'll constantly have to take the fucking brat along with you everywhere, and it will cockblock you at every opportunity.
>>25166337
>>25166426
I really don't plan on staying with her for ever, I just want to have my turn for sex! Also she seems pretty chill plus we share similar interest. She told me she had two kids with her bf but her bf cheated on her and ran out. Not 100% believe in her but whatever
>>25160238
>>two kids
>>tattoos
>>crazy sex life at young age
>>no college degree
>>Works as a waitress for a shitty restaurant that serves cheap beer and buffalo wings
good lord man, how many red flags do you need
if you do anything, get yourself some experience
better to be single than wasting your life on that
she chose her life and ruined it, dont fix it for her
>>25162575
Literally a tranny
>>25159891
>single mother with 2 kids
I wouldn't touch it with a barge pole.
>>25162544
if a woman gives you two childs, why would you walk out on her?
unless she is a terrible human being and cant be lived with
>>25167245
I know I know, but she is the most attractive woman who's willing to speak and meet with me. My other options are heavily obese single moms
>>25160238
tell us about the crazy sex life
please dont ignore me
>>25160238
>I almost freak when she talked about her promiscuous sex life and just wants to settle down away from all the sleazy guys.
yep, that's what happens to stacy if she can't get chad to marry her.
Don't be a cuck, anon. Unless you're cold enough to pump and dump her like the fuckpig trash she is, stay the fuck away from that slut. You don't ever want to get attached to the role of chad's babysitter.
>i hate children
why do you hate yourself kiddo?
>>25167309
She never really gotten into detail about it, just said she went to parties in her younger years and had one night stands, plus seven boyfriends and four fuck buddies.
>>25159891
You're a fucking retard for even considering her. Give up and never look at women ever again.
>>25167303
listen man... im not saying this to be a dick but i have to tell you or i will feel bad for not warning you
if there are only ugly women interested in you, and this woman is the exception there is something behind it
you're in different league and she is not into you for your looks or social skills or other woman of equal attractiveness would be too
i'm sorry man... it's just... don't do it, if it looks too good to be true, it probably is
from the way you talk you already have your mind made up and you're just looking for approval here but i can't give you that
>>25167354
how big is ya dick?
serious
>>25162575
>>25162632
If you want to hit it and quit it, go ahead, but if if you can't get your dick in her within the next month, don't even try.
DO NOT persue any kind of relationship beyond fucking once - twice TOPS. And keep your eye on the condoms. You DON'T want that bitch pregnant. ESPECIALLY if those two brats have different fathers.
She's just a desperate cunt looking for a beta cuck to help pay for her kids. Don't let her pussy lure you into domestic slavery.
>>25167094
If sex is all you want, do yourself a favor and fuck a prostitute, it will save you a a lot of money in the long run. This chick isn't relationshit material anyway.
>>25167583
>>25167583
I've thought about prostitutes but I sort of worry about the law, I did a little math as well, knowing this woman I'm meeting this thursday, I will have to pay for at least three dates before she lets me fuck her, each date should cost about $30 each plus gas, and estamate of $100, anything more than I would leave her for wasting my time. A good escort would cost around $200/$300 for a full hour (according to back pages) so overall sleeping with this woman would be a bit cheaper and at least I know she doesn't take 100 dicks a day
>>25167752
>A good escort would cost around $200/$300
she doesn't match that quality so apples and pears buddy
>>25160376
This.
Single moms will only settle for you because of what you can provide for them.
However that does makes them less likely to cheat on you, since they have more to lose if they are somehow dependent on you.
But they will still dream of a life where Chad had stayed with them.
>>25160730
Here's what I'd do.
Date her, but never buy anything for her nor do any favors.
>>25159891
This wont end well for you.
>hit it
>quit it
>...
>profit
>>25162575
holy shit no
>>25162632
>marilyn monroe
>if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!~
RUN
>>25167752
yeah but she's not a 10/10 hooker that knows the way around a dick
Then you have to deal with "so what are we" talk after banging her
If you can get a few lays out of her before escaping then sure
You have to look at it this way OP, you're going to have a relationship with her, enjoy it somewhere from 2 months to 3 years tops, after that you're going to wish you never did it for the rest of your life.
It'll be too late at that point, because she'll have tricked you into having children with her. You can always leave her, but you'll have to pay that sweet alimony.
It can get worse than loneliness man.
been there, done that. only thing i can say hit'n run or just run.
>>25162632
He's gonna make you do the Time Warp.
From an ANON in Sweden
Yes Sweden Yes!!
1.
Does she know where you live
2.
If you want to test if she serious about this tell her about your sex history and make it disgusting as possible
if she leaves/ignores you then she a gold digger and if she stays then she still a gold digger.
3.
how tall are you?
>>25168535
>if she leaves/ignores you then she a gold digger
>if she stays then she still a gold digger.
Swedes know their single moms alright.
>>25160730
> I'm not gonna be locked down nor will I ever take care of another mans children
"Ooopss guess the condom didn't work this time anon, well they are only 99% effective, Anon Jr is our little 1% miracle! Guess you should move in"
>>25168535
She's about a 30 min drive from my place, I have zero sexual expience, but o have done a good job hiding my autism so far.
>how tall are you
6ft0 165lbs
>>25168862
Condoms are more durable than that anon.
>>25168917
I'm implying she'll sabotage them
would r9k give a young red flag girl a chance?
>>25168929
Just tell her you got aids so she won't poke a hole in them.
>>25160238
This is bait. I nearly fell for it.
>inb4 this is real
Nah, no one can be this fucking stupid
>>25168973
>Average body type
hahaha alright....
>Profession: Stay at home mum
literally not a profession
Shame she just fucked her shit up and had a kid, could have been an alright emo/goth slut
>>25169015
she also wont fuck you, what's the point in an orbiter if you can't ensnare him with a kid
>>25169015
she could be crazy and infect herself as one step to insure a long life with anon
>>25168973
>Average body type
>5'6
Womanlet in denial.
>>25159891
Met a single mum whose last name was Benis once.
Divorced and two kids, but still seems to be riding the cock carousel.
Waste of a meme name tbqhf
>>25168973
>ethnicity
>Caucasian, Pisces
>, Pisces
What?
>>25160238
Holy shit are you retarded
She's literally female evil incarnate
>>25162575
>>25162632
Jesus christ you idiot, bail now
>>25159891
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpopQLPLORE
Watch this.
>>25159891
>>We talk for several months on this dating site
>it worth it?
Tell you this since no one told me when I was 26 and had to learn the hard way.
If a female is interested it happens fast, not over months. If it isn't fast and easy she is seeing someone else and is just going to string you along and play you while she's hooking up with someone else. People like to try to confuse it to distract and justify what they do but it's too easy. I could see several dates if you don't know or don't care that you're getting cucked but several months? If you're desperate and ready to pull out anyway you might as well see if you can even finish what you started.
>>25159891
Just hire an escort you fucking cuck, guaranteed lay and it'll be cheaper in the long run.
As a guy who's fucked and chucked plenty single mums believe me it's not worth the hassle.
>>25169018
>Implying robots don't fall victim to the roasties lies all the time
Shame on you anon!
>>25169369
If that is true then I'm just gonna pump and dump. I know nothing about relationships, and I can tell she's lying to me ever since she added me on normiebook.
>>25169351
Gah! How many times do I have to tell you robots I am not and will not let her rope me down. I am not gonna be her kids stepdad, I am not gonna marry this cunt. I'm just gonna have a short relationship with her and as soon as she wants me to settle down or meet her kids I'll cut all ties. Its not like its illegal to break up with someone. I know the redpill theory is true, I know you robots are right and you should never settle for a roastie, but what harm can it do to just fuck one? I've lied to her so far to get her interested in me and I'll just lie to make her think I'm gonna be a good provider.
>>25167752
I love it when /r9k/ does maths
>>25162632
You've got to handle your business. Hit it and quit it. That bitch is still a hoe, so treat her like one(notice all the Marilyn Monroe shit). Gas her head up with hopes and dreams, fuck her once or twice, and leave her with regret and disappointment. Whatever you do avoid the kids. No dates with the kids tag along. No come over the kids are sleep shit.
>>25170268
>I won't let this woman rope me down
If I had a penny...
That's exactly what I, and most people I know, would say before ending up invested in a long-term relationship. For a while, you have everything under control. Then you start feeling connected to this woman. You're 26 and you're used to rejection. I doubt you'll be able to give up that sweet, poisonous affection when you have it?
If you want to fuck her, make sure you never define what you have as a relationship. Insist that you're only fuck buddies. If you don't, you'd better count on staying with her a while.
>>25168973
>17
>has a kid
>no father in sight
Coalburner detected
>>25160262
this OP
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBXU2t4hodo
>>25159891
Dont do it, OP. She just wants what little money you have.
What is there to lose?
Date her. If you can't handle the kids break up with her in a few months. Done.
This is why normies are normies. If they like someone they go for it and if things get too complicated they leave the situation.
Stop overthinking things so much.
>>25170498
>You're 26 and you're used to rejection. I doubt you'll be able to give up that sweet, poisonous affection when you have it?
Golden advice right here.
Pic kinda related.
>>25168929
Isn't that illegal? Also original comment please!
>>25168973
>17
>one child
>very opinionated
>studs
>heavy smoker
>free thinker
>stay at home mom
>fucking cairns shithole
haha
hahahahah
hhahahahahahah
no
>>25170268
You know how we always say never stick your dick in crazy
>>25170498
this nigga ain't wrong
