I told her how I felt /r9k/. Months of thinking about her, imagining if we were together, what she was doing etc, all led to me finally telling her.
She rejected me. She was really nice about it but "she see's me as a friend". I know it's code for "I don't want to fuck you" and you know what? It's okay. I know now and I can move on. I feel like I have control again and not have everything be about trying get her to want my dick.
It might be okay guys....
Cool, now never contact her again. Remember that women cannot be your friends.
i went through the same thing OP. here's a song i listened to relentlessly after she gave me that response
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBYvzDiKB3U
i don't know if it will help you but it helped me (listen to the lyrics)
>>25158879
Yeah I have like 4 other female friends that I met through her. Never felt anything for them so had a good relationship with them, but in hindsight I was probably only friends with them because it meant I would be around her more
I think I'm probably gonna cut most of them out desu.
>>25158916
Cheers for the kind words bro. I'll give it a listen now.
Thats the best mindset to have about it.
Better than the dopes on this fucking board who piss and whine about similar situations all the goddamn time.